#unfortunately nobody cares about

[tardigradebutt]

i think that everyone needs to study anthropology like just a little bit. it should be a requirement. having a base level knowledge of The Human Condition and how to think about other people would be. very beneficial

#unfortunately nobody cares about #anthropology #it’s just the easy 101 elective class u can take to get ur humanities credit ig #viviposting #to my college buddies hiiiiiiii i’m being pretentious about my major online :3

[knifearo]

ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story

#you know. the one with the pendulum #'hey. why are you as an allo person shipping this aspec character like this' #'oh aspec people can still date/have sex!' #'yeah. now can you answer the question that i actually asked you' #like goddamn just say you don't care they're aspec and you want to fulfill a sexual/romantic fantasy with them. that's Fine #it like. sucks. for sure. lotta aspec people will be unhappy with you. but everyone is entitled to their own wants and experiences. #but i'd prefer you just be honest with it rather than using our community's conversation points as retroactive justification #and ONCE AGAIN. you guys are real fucking cavalier with this shit and it shows a real fundamental lack of respect for aspecs #when most of you would NEVER ship a canonically gay character with the 'other' gender. cause again. it would suck. #you can do it. nobody's Stopping you. but it would suck. #and we understand that putting a queer character in situations that erase that queerness is shitty! until it comes to aspec characters! #and whoa... there it is again... people don't consider aspec identities to be queer... crazy how it always comes back to that #anyway. you all know what i'm talking about. have seen many posts about this lately #it is [ long sigh ] unfortunately a very hot button issue with the advent lately of alastor hazbinhotel #which. again. god i wish there were other canon aspec characters to be having this conversation about. #but we'll have to do our best with what we have #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #aroace #talking #aspec #asexual #asexuality

[deadletterpoets]

Batgirls trade solicit saying Steph spoke for Cass's mind towards Shiva about her being a terrible mother really speaks to how badly DC needs to bring David Cain back cause these antagonistic parental relationships for Cass aren't landing as well when the parent the characters are screaming at isn't the reason for all of the trauma.

Shiva continually getting blamed for all the shit David Cain did is getting ridiculous

#cassandra cain #batgirl #dc #dc comics #stephanie brown #lady shiva #unfortunately nobody cares about David Cain #but then they need to do something original with Shiva and Cass #instead of acting like they have some deep complex mother daughter bond that's been built from birth #there's more to say here which if certain ppl see this im sure they will say to make me look foolish #cause i yeah Shiva isnt winning any mother of the year awards #and i dont think Cass needs Steph to speak for her #but if you wanna yell at a parent for being actively bad towards Cass #its David

[staygoldralph]

my teacher is gonna make us do a presentation on the books we chose as groups

so naturally i made some very detailed slides literally before it got assigned and while having several other projects to do

i kinda like didnt finish the book so uh just take this with a grain of salt

art is by @fourfunnyz and @simorys but i will take them off if they ask

help would be appreciated 🙏

#lord of the flies #lotf #books #literally nobody else in my group cares but i feel very strongly about this #the symbolism is supposed to just be a tiny part of the presentation and we each only do one part unfortunately

[finalhaunts]

Since I have some (very reasonable) concerns about ace discourse possibly making a return thanks to recent events, I'd like to remind everyone (and myself) that majority of the time the pointless infighting and drama you see among queers really only happens online. If you go to a pride parade as an ace and/or aro nobody is gonna give two shits besides like, terfs and high schoolers who very clearly grew up online. And if one of those two parties DO approach you and give you shit for it i guarantee all the other queers there will defend you. Nobody normal actually cares this much about shit in real life and most of the community understands that; the vocal portion that do care that much don't have much power over the community outside of their echo chambers online, because they know if they just go out in the middle of a queer event and start attacking people they're gonna be the ones getting their teeth knocked out. So like. Don't let anything you read on this website make you think otherwise.

Anyways, aros and aces are queer (yes even the cishet ones), people with confusing/contradictory identities come over here and kiss me on my mouth, etc.

#.txt #speaking as someone who used to be an exclusionist #and is now an aroace dykefag 7 years later #nobody fucking cares and its stupid as hell to. uou're not the true enlightened one you're just some weirdo who doesnt talk to queers irl #'you used to be an exclusionist?' yes unfortunately. i was an 11 year old who had just been introduced to online social justice circles #so i really had no clue what the hell i was talking about and was just regurgitating other ppls talking points #but still #i'm 18 now #so #i am kind of ashamed of that though

[jessaerys]

don't question my methodology i'm still high but -- did a quick search for smut writing advice (you know, in a keep the textbook open during an exam kind of way) expecting a handy vocabulary list and like structural tips regarding flow and how to avoid falling into mechanical cliches

and what i got instead was people explaining how lube and hygiene and other 101s work with the rock solid confidence of someone who has learned everything they know about anal sex from fanfiction and how-to guides online. i don't know what i expected honestly this one is on me

#'nobody is ever excited for a handjob' YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE NOT UNIVERSAL #one of them went on and on about characters being careful not to touch their eyes or they would get an infection #girl they're lines. #honestly i just wanted to see if anyone has found a sexier word for hole but unfortunately the decades-long search continues

[angeltannis]

in an alternate universe Forspoken is a critically successful game and Cuff is a Tumblr Sexyman. and posts go around saying things like “Can’t believe tumblr is thirsting over a fucking bracelet”

#he had all the makings of being a tumblr darling lbr #he has a built-into-canon skinny white guy with glasses human au #and everything #unfortunately also in that universe I have to constantly be subjected to takes about how Frey is an abusive bitch for being Mean to him #so maybe it’s a fair trade off to have nobody care about the game lmao

[glitter-alienz]

Im having a fuckass time thanks for asking besties <- (telepathically sending this to my 2 irl friends who never say "hi how are you?" )

#they only text me when they need help with something lol #when i dont ask them how they're doing they get upset and say i hate them but they dont talk to me #i alsways have to initiate convos #and im having a shit time because if health issues and family drama and wouldve loved a little “how are you?” from them #theyre making me think im asking for too much but im not #also i cant stop being friends with them i care about them unfortunately #and nobody else would be my friend so #the dib speakz!! #agony #vent

[echo-s-land]

It's insane how most of the time I don't get how ppl interact and I also Don't Fucking Care

#vent ig #i wish i could #but unfortunately i havent had the occasion of sharing one of my interest with you in the past three months and when i did it didnt go as i #wanted and now we're supposed to talk through smalltalks except i dont know how to do those so im awkward as hell and unconsciously cut the #short and now im being hated (?) even tho that wasnt my intent #but i guess no matter how trustful i am i just look like a liar #and i cant even bring myself to care bc how am i supposed to explain myself when youre convinced what i say is a lie #we werent even supposed to be this close so sorry if im stiff. i tried to get along but i just cant #the never ending circle between 'i want to have ppl to interact with being alone to experience this world is exhausting and dreadful' and #'im not even remotely interested by any of you' #its different on tumblr bc i can curate my own experience & nobody comes @ me when i dont interact with them for days or weeks (BC IVE GOT #NOTHING TO SAY) and its okay and its normal and we dont have to do the 'hi how are you wyd' script every single time (sure we can check up #on each other once in a while but it doesnt become a script. it feels genuine.) #anyway. im so normal. i can def care about ppl that have never been as insane as me about something we both love(d at some point) #am pretty sure i developed 'i perceived you saying/thinking One(1) bad thing about me and now i dont care at all about your existence' as #a child as a coping mechanism but goddammit i feel like an asshole everytime it happened #i hate feeling apathetic #and i hate lying too so i cant just say shit to reassure them when i dont mean them #cant tell them im sorry about how my behavior is perceived when im so damn tired and would rather they disappear of my life

[rawliverandgoronspice]

Honestly for all the "am I pushing this too far? should I pull back?" moments I have working on Thralls' outline, I am often reminded that this is actually a pretty charitable interpretation of what may have happened between OoT and TP....

#thoughts #oot #tp #thralls of power #animated project #there's a version that is 100% arguable where ganondorf got arrested immediately and the gerudos revolted guided by twinrova #and were crushed or pushed away #and that was that #and link leaving for termina only where this “issue” was “solved” #and then he died in the lost woods with zelda ruling hyrule as she grew #it doesn't feel implausible at all #of course there's the opposite take of #oh yeah the gerudos were immediately cool with the murder of their king they apparently partially worshiped and twinrova?? who cares #and they co-built a weird monument/gifted their monument to the hylians to build a prison in which to imprison and execute their own king?? #and to do a weird coliseum thing about it too??? where soldiers and prisoners were apparently sent to die?? #and then they just left. for no reason. #and nobody remembers them and calls them “a pack of thieves” including people who were there at the time of the execution #and the last person with seemingly traces of gerudo heritage 100% identify as hylian #anyway #it's hard to give a “nice” explanation to what happened that doesn't feel incredibly contrived unfortunately

[caffeiiine]

it’s 2:30 am and i’m working on a fucking cosplay and it’s the most productive i’ve been tbh

#unfortunately can’t do this on schooldays so hopefully winter break will be kinder to me #tommorow sunday and i can fall asleep midday in the car or some shit nobody cares #but i’ll get yelled at if i sleep during school so weekend work it is #sodaramblestoomuch #oh and it’s fyodors dead apple cosplay i’m making for a con im helping out at and [hopefully] hosting a panel at in may #i’ll be the first submitter i’ve been thinking about what type of panel i wanna do for a month now im so prepared #even if my panel isn’t selected i’ll still have a bomb ass cosplay i handmade

[sleep-nurse]

I hope you're able to get out of your situation soon and find a community of people who will care about you and take your pain seriously/gen

thank you 😭😭 literally the only people who care about my wellbeing is legit just you guys it's insane

#asks #kinda insane how friends on the internet care about me way more than my entire family #who knows me for the entire time i was born #and my entire family i do mean it literally nobody gives a shit #maybe my dad sometimes but rarely #it's just that unfortunately there's also sibling preference and my brother is the golden child of the family #and i always get stepped down and every single pain i feel is ''nothing'' #until we actually need to go to the clinic or hospital

[heartbeetz]

I NEED to get back into oc f/os. I just remembered my old casino themed anthro shark guy. He never got a solid enough ref sheet (or lore, really) for me to feel comfortable making him one of my f/os but maybe I should remedy that at some point. Big Jack.........

#his name is Jasper Roulette but everyone calls him Big Jack #he's a ''professional'' underground gambler and great white 'card shark' #insists he's an ex crime boss but won't tell anyone what that entailed #well... he WILL. but it's a different story every time. always a lie and often over the top #nobody knows for sure if any of it's true or not. but pretty much everyone either 100% believes it or is too scared to contest it #bc his persona around other casino goers is this rough and tough type guy and he has the looks and talk to back it up #really though even IF it's true he's pretty harmless now. his whole thing is ''yeah I used to do that but I'm turning my life around'' #which others are skeptical about but is mostly true. he's kinda just chilling #he's a cheat and a showoff and an asshole but he's more intimidating than he is dangerous #and he has way more money than he cares to do anything with (where he got it who's to say) so he doesn't mind just handing it out #he was the first character I made for a little game / visual novel I wanted to make at one point but ended up giving up on #it was just about sharks in an underground casino #the idea was you could play little mini games and have conversations with them #and if you made the conversation go in the ''right'' direction there'd be little collectibles that opened new paths #but it never went anywhere other than some ideas and a very rough drawing of Big Jack (which actually came first lol) #unfortunately I designed him IMMEDIATELY before I got super into Sparker as one of my f/os so he got swept under the rug real bad #sorry sharky 😔 #roz posts

[maurypovichofficial2]

i just feel like if Lea Michele can get a redemption arc so can Lizzo but we ALL know that won't happen and why.

#what she did was disturbing and unfortunate #not even saying she deserves a redemption arc #what i AM saying is the possibility will never be granted to her #because the chance to be racist and fatphobic is just too strong #people dont even care about those girls #they dont give a fuck #all anyone cares about is their hall pass #to make fun of and be nasty to a fat black woman because 'shes mean' so its ok #UNDER THE DIGUISE of standing up for other black women #Nobody is being treated well in this situation not one person

[pilotduty]

does anyone ever listen to kiss goodnight idkhow and think wow this song swings both ways or am i reaching

like this lyric specifically is the only one thats gendered. but it also isnt gendered at all.

because "i know that girls like you" can either refer to someone who is often sought after by girls, or it can refer to someone who is a girl. i know that girls who are like you do not come with guarantees vs i know that girls are into you but those other girls don't come with guarantees. does this make any sense or should i deactivate my account

#i dunno if this was an intentional part of the song or if im just a fag #or maybe everyone already knows about this and i sound like an idiot #ive literally pointed this out to everyone who has ever been an unfortunate victim of sitting in my car while i blast razzmatazz #but nobody ever cares that much. i just think its a neat part of the song #idkhow #barking

[forgotten-daydreamer]

one day people will stop saying they have bpd just because they get "irrationally angry sometimes", but that day is not today, unfortunately for us all.

#bpd #i don't mean to dictate your experience. you can (but shouldn't - it's not safe nor easy) self-diagnose but do it properly at least #and like. all of this “i have anger issues so it has to be bpd” doesn't help with the stigma that we face every single day #we as in people who actually (unfortunately) have it #it's not fun. it's not quirky. it's not “i'm such a psycho you can't take me anywhere”. it's not. #also reducing bpd to “irrational anger and mood swings”... that just feels like you're demonising us #like. people with bpd don't wander in the streets ready to punch an old lady just 'cause. #and since we are aware of the stigma and of how we're perceived by media and such we're even more careful #personally i try to keep my emotions under control at all times to the point where i come off as “cold” to others (their words) #but you know. bpd can't really be kept under control. there's stuff you can try but personally i struggle a lot #but i still try and i don't use it as an excuse to be a dick. that's now how it works. especially if you're an adult woth responsibilities #with* #but even if you're a teen - do better #okay nobody cares about any of this but it's my mental illness on my blog so i get to talk about it all i want. xoxo