themaybewoman

[themaybewoman]

William B. “Bill” Watterson II.

#calvin & hobbes #bill watterson #art #comics #lollll perfect

[themaybewoman]

Also called automatic appraisals and reappraisals!

The way you change your immediate reactions to things is that you catch yourself having an uncharitable/bigoted/overly judgmental thought and you catch it and replace it and then you do that a hundred times a day for your whole life and eventually one day like five years later you realize that you think differently now and you’ll always be working on something but that’s how life goes and that’s fine.

#mental health #mindfulness #recovery #positivity #support

[themaybewoman]

#yes always #and you don't even have to ask #fanart #fanfiction #tumblr polls

[themaybewoman]

say sike right now

#psych #fanart #shawn spencer #burton guster #brotps #my characters #love it #quote: this is a company car!

[themaybewoman]

Shawn's lips are completely unreadable because he'll just say things that don't make any sense out of no where and anyone reading his lips will be like, "Well, I definitely got THAT wrong" but no, he really did say bingle bangle dingle dangle out of nowhere for no perceivable reason

#shawn spencer #psych #my characters #headcanons

[themaybewoman]

#twitter #hedy lamarr #actors and acting #yeah science! #female awesome

[themaybewoman]

adult hood is just

*buys a half gallon of milk* *uses it all within a few days* *decided to buy a gallon of milk to not run out before next shopping trip* *uses a teaspoon of milk that week and it goes bad somehow* *buys a quart of milk instead so it won’t go bad* *uses it in one day* *buys a quart and a half gallon of milk because the gallon was too much but the half gallon was not enough* *only uses the half gallon* *gives up on milk for a few days in general* *buys a gallon of milk again just to tempt fate* *somehow uses all of it without realizing and then has to eat sad cereal with like the 5 drops of remaining milk*

#lollll #adulthood

[themaybewoman]

“How stable am I today” *checks ring* “Oh good, I’m not.” XD

#jewellery #jokes #I swear I’m fine #I’m just having fun with this

[themaybewoman]

Fanfic writers are like crows. If you give them treats (comments) they will bring you shiny things (fanfic)

#fanfiction #writing #about me #writer things

[themaybewoman]

Something that helps me fight back the feelings of "it could've been worse" is to tell myself "it could've been better" instead.

If you're a trauma survivor, remember that you deserved better, no matter what.

#mental health #anxiety #recovery #positivity

[themaybewoman]

“Your fantasies equal your real life desires”

I’m fucking asexual? I have no desire to do anything I fantasize about irl. Same with a shit ton of other people who are aspec?

Tbh, I think it’s just queerphobic, specifically aphobic but other shit too, to say “your fantasies are what you want irl.

It’s not just aspecs either. I know a fuck ton of lesbians who fantasize about fictional men. They are not any less lesbians because of their fantasies though.

I could go on with more about how it’s a stupid argument, and even how it’s ableist in certain contexts, but I’ll save that for other posts lmao

#ace #aro #lgbt queue #the only fantasy of mine that I want to manifest is becoming a demigod from pjo

[themaybewoman]

u ever have on mutuals whos so deep in another fandom that u know absolutely zero about and they make posts that look like they speaking another language or some shit

#tumblr stuff #memes

[themaybewoman]

people can be aromantic and not asexual. People can be asexual and not aromatic. Holy shit I wish people didn’t use those terms interchangeably.

this applies to real life, of course, but I see people in fandom do this all the time. A character can be aromantic coded and not asexual coded and vis versa. not every aspec coded character is aroace and I wish more people recognized that some characters are better read as aroallo

#lgbt queue #aro #ace #asexual #aromantic

[themaybewoman]

He’s helping

(via)

#seals #adorable critters #sunshine on a rainy day #video

[themaybewoman]

#birds #love birds #aesthetic #love #valentines day #adorable critters

[themaybewoman]

"why doesn't this thing in a movie/book/tv show happen exactly like it would in real life" is the most brain dead criticism the internet has to offer, and yet I see it EVERYWHERE.

#cinematography #filmmaking #writing #plot #that’s exactly what I thiiiiiinkkkkkk #bc it makes the show more interesting lmao

[themaybewoman]

You live in a house decorated according to your url. What does it look like

#maybe it is maybe it isn’t decorated #who can tell #tag games