3 Beliefs that Make it Hard for You to Say, “No.”
Hey Erica, thanks for your question. Saying no is part of setting boundaries and assertive communication skills. And I want you to know – you are not alone in wanting to learn more about it. Most of us struggle, at some point in our lives, in this area. I find it is a skill that is continually evolving as I go through situations with various relationships. First things first – there are some common beliefs about saying no that are unhelpful and you will want to explore those beliefs, so you can shift your thinking about it. This is a good first step!
https://www.mindwisecounsellor.com/post/3-beliefs-that-make-it-hard-for-you-to-say-no
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Emily and the extra realization that an angel had her wings torn off and eye gouged out and halo repossessed and was left for dead in hell- why exactly??
Emily: "A child."
Lute: "A filthy little sinner."
Emily: "You did all that to her, because she showed a moment of mercy to, a C H I L D?"
Lute: "Yes."
Emily: "And then you tried blackmailing her with this??"
Lute: "Yes."
Emily: "That's terrible."
Lute: "I'll admit it didn't work how we wanted it to, but the broken look on her disgusting little demon fling's face was still worth it."
Emily: "I meant that it was a wrong and terrible thing to do TO her. And to Charlie!"
Lute: "They've probably already broken up by now. That traitor will spend her final hours alone and wretched with nothing but her own failings to keep her company."
Emily: "How you can SMILE while saying that!?"
Lute: "Oh don't worry, she'll be out of her misery soon enough."
Emily: "..... respectfully Lute, I hope she fucks you up a little."
Lute: There's no chance in hell.
Lute: (comes back sans arm after getting a little fucked up by vaggie in hell)
Emily: "HA!"
Emily: "Anyway have you met our newest angel Sir Pentious? Sir Pentious is an angel now. He arrived here fresh from hell. Did you know sinners can be redeemed and Charlie was right and you were wrong and Vaggie did the right thing and Sir Pentious was just telling me allllll about how they made up and it was very cute and they're probably going to be in love forever? Meanwhile, YOU on the other hand- oh I'm so sorry, Lute. Too soon?" :)
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2012 and Rise TMNT Crossover Masterpost
The 2018 Gang, upon seeing 2012! Mikey and his childish antics and alter egos:…oh thank God a normal brother! HERE LET’S TRADE! *grabs 2012! Mikey and leaves Rise! Mikey with the 2012 Turtles*
The 2012 Turtles: What’s with them?
Meanwhile, Rise! Mikey, who had been psychoanalyzing the 2012 Turtles since they met: So how do you all feel about group therapy?
The 2012 Turtles: What
Rise! Mikey, who somehow already has a turtleneck and slideshow (Why You Shouldn’t Repress Your Emotions and Ignore Your Brothers) ready: I think it’s time you all met Dr. Feelings.
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im out of well drawn stuff to post so heres a messy sketch. what do you guys think descole and randall were talking about in their hotel room between dark miracles
[captioned version of the text below the cut]
Descole: And THAT is how I became Jean Descole!
Randall: …No offense, but have you considered therapy?
Descole: …
Descole: Have YOU?
Randall: …that’s not fair.
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Will: You're doing it.
Nico: No no no no no you can't make me!
Will: You're acting like a child.
Nico: I'll act like a child if I want to! You can't make me go!
Percy and Thalia: *Walking in*
Percy: What is going on?
Nico: He wants me to go but I don't want to!
Thalia: Calm down. No one can make you go anywhere.
Percy: Where is he making you go?
Will: Therapy.
Thalia: oh you're going!
Nico: But you just said-!
Thalia: Don't care! You're going!
Nico: Why don't you go to therapy?!?
Thalia: I do! Artemis does group sessions for all the hunters.
Nico: Well uhhh...
Will: See!
Nico: No! You can't make me cause I'm not the only one who needs it!
Will: So you admit you need it.
Nico: No! Shut up, what about Percy?
Thalia: You have a good point there.
Nico: Thank you-
Thalia: Percy you're going to therapy too!
Percy: What? No!
Thalia: Uh yes!
Percy: You don't have a say in that!
Thalia: I'll talk to your mom about it!
Percy: you can't just talk to my mom about that!
Thalia: Yes I can! She loves me.
Nico: Thalia you don't get to make this decision!
Thalia: Yes I can!
Nico: You're not our mother!
Thalia: I could be!
Nico: What does that even mean?!?!
Thalia: I don't know but we're going with it! And you are going to therapy!
Nico: *angrily huffs* Fine!
Will: Thank you!
Thalia: Percy?
Percy: No.
Thalia: *sternly* Percy.
Percy: No.
Thalia: Percy!
Percy: *stubborn* No!
Nico: If I have to do it so do you!
Percy: That's not how this works!
Nico: If you don't go I won't!
Will: No! You're going!
Nico: Nope! Only if he goes!
Thalia: *sternly* Percy.
Percy: *sighs* Fine. I will try one session!
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