#So many people who are advocating are sharing their stories - listen to us

[sastiel-is-my-serotonin]

There's a lot of stories I've been told by elders, teachers, cousins, all about what it was like to be taken away from their parents. Or at least attempted to be taken away.

Certain ones stand out the most in my mind. I used to be really involved with church, my entire family was. So we were close to our pastor.

Outside of church my mom was helping her with some things and I remember when she started to open up about her experience with boarding schools.

I sat there and listened as she talked about it. She was one of the ones who'd get in trouble for talking in her native tongue. She learned to stop because some punishments you simply didn't come back from.

She cried talking about when they cut her hair. She didn't understand why her parents were sending her away, she didn't know until she was older they had no choice.

She didn't get very far before she went inside, it all being too much and she didn't want us kids to hear the worst parts.

Even though she wasn't there anymore, she became a pastor who had incredibly short hair. She hardly spoke her language, and at that point she was one of the elders. It still affected her long after and it took me a really long time to see it. Because she was always wrapped up in native clothing, had beaded pieces. She clearly was still within her culture, there just were some parts she never returned back to.

Recently, although she talked about it when I was little too, my Mom talked to my little sister about the sweeps they'd do on reservations.

They all recognized the vans that meant every native child had to hide until nightfall, if you were caught, you weren't coming back.

You couldn't just run inside to your parents, they'd go from house to house, if you were there, they could take you and your parents couldn't do anything about it. It was legal.

All their parents could do was warn them about the vans and beg them to hide until it was safe.

Her and whoever she was with, friends, cousins, siblings, they'd stay out of sight until nightfall. The only thing protecting them was the fact that the vans couldn't be there at night.

It was a part of their normal, you see those vans, you hide and make sure they don't see you. It didn't matter if they showed up in the morning, you didn't exist until they were gone.

It's really no wonder why she still hates vans to this day, she won't buy one even though they're great to fit big families, like ours. And she's always aware of cars but vans especially.

I can't help but sit here and wonder if ICWA is overturned, are my sisters going to have their own stories to tell?

It's already bad how many Natives are taken away because of CPS, if it wasn't for my tribe helping us close the cases opened against us, I would've been. So many of my cousins were, it wasn't unusual for my Mom to open her home to them because they would run away. They knew she would help them. We all knew how bad they were treated, but we couldn't adopt them all. I think my Mom would have if she could've. But it was enough for a lot of them to just have a spot to stay, knowing someones looking out for them who won't judge them.

We need every little bit of protection even now to keep native families together. That fact that this is being attacked right now is so deliberate and Natives have been shouting for people to see that.

This is a pattern, not a coincidence. So many generations have their own stories about how native kids were taken away. Hell, my generation, we have ours! It's always a legal system that we have to fight that non natives ignore. It's a different font, but same story.

Boarding schools were legal, the reservation sweeps were legal, and CPS and foster care, again legal.

The genocide for natives never stopped, it just takes a new form. This is just the latest version. Don't stop talking about ICWA, be loud about it! Don't let them overturn it!

#Indigenous history month #ICWA #There are so many natives who have been on top of this since the beginning #Who've been trying to get people to care and be loud about why this shouldn't be happening #We need ICWA #So many people who are advocating are sharing their stories - listen to us #We know how bad it'll get - please listen before it's too late #We have the chance to stop it - please help us

[thv-jk97]

Sharing my thoughts about the negative take from that H*BE stylist about LWA because I need to put them somewhere, so forgive me for this post. For context, the stylist said that the MV is using disabilities and those who face discrimination as inspirational material and that they’re “romanticizing disabilities”, and while I can genuinely understand what they were trying to advocate for, their take also completely ignores massive elements of the MV as a whole, whilst also making grand assumptions about the artists (Tae and IU) that they cannot possibly know.

Listen, everyone has the right to interpret any piece of content how they see it and they’re also entitled to feel how they feel and share their opinions, but it becomes problematic when they start making baseless assumptions along with the point they’re trying to make. Claiming that IU and Tae are rich cishets with no disabilities(implying that they are privileged and not discriminated against) is such a WILD assumption to make (let’s not forget that IU does actually have a hearing impairment).

I do think that there should be conversations about who should be able to tell what stories or portray what character, especially in huge projects in mainstream media, but there has to be room for flexibility. Are we going to require people to reveal everything single thing about themselves in order to prove that they can represent a specific demographic fairly? That’s a completely unreasonable expectation, and in some circumstances, it could literally be unsafe. And their assumptions do not contribute to a constructive dialogue about this topic at all.

Not only that, but their critique sort of implies that the MV equates having disabilities to being a victim, but that isn’t what I personally got from the MV. Their characters literally fight until the very end, in their blind and deaf/mute states, and are never actually shown as weak. And it’s just another assumption that the “love filter” takes away their disabilities, when in reality, IU still uses sign language even when Tae is looking at her through the camcorder – what is shown is a world where they don’t have their injuries anymore (injuries that were sustained in this dystopian world) and their lives are more than just fear and running. The concept of “love wins all” is that they made it to the very end of the world together and are ultimately taken out by the shittiness of this world that they’re living in – not by their disabilities.

The stylist also goes on to imply that the ambiguity of the MV is an issue because they end up wearing traditional hetero outfits (since when is sexuality linked to pieces of clothing?), and if it were meant to mean something to the queer community, they wouldn’t have included that. Which makes no sense because that’s the beauty of art – it’s meant to be interpreted however the viewer sees it, and so many people in the queer community did actually take comfort in the symbolism they interpreted from the MV.

To be honest, I can’t help but question the motive of their rant, because from where I’m standing, this person works for a billion dollar company that literally capitalizes on using the queer community for good sales (fanservice, etc)(mind you, this is only one of H*BE’s many offenses) so their issues with this metaphorical MV seem to be a bit selective (aka taking issue with things that don’t affect their livelihood). Also gonna add that they literally have posts supporting Zionists (who raised money specifically for the IDF), so it really seems like selective activism atp.

Tae and IU have both consistently shown that they are massive advocates of inclusivity and equality, so to be accused of exploiting minorities and their struggles is actually so upsetting. People can label it whatever they want, but IU’s decision to change the title of the song was not about “saving face”, it was showing empathy for a minority when she learned that they were bothered by the original title. And for this person to insinuate that Tae and IU are tone deaf and clueless to the strife of those who have been discriminated against is just plain disrespectful and such a projection based on their own personal interpretation and assumptions.

Anyway, sorry for this long-winded post. There’s never a day of peace and I am siiiiick of it.

#rambling thoughts #love wins all #mv discourse

[class1akids]

I really would like to know if its just me or do you think Shouto had the same 'connecting' and 'hand-reaching' moment with Touya as Deku with Tenko and Ochaka with Toga? Especially when comparing the child images I personally feel a big difference. Within the one where Shouto and Touya are back to back he looks simply vicious (not that Touya looks any less angry) but also within the both boys crying panel Shouto is fighting and not reaching towards Touya in any way. This is also the case for Shoutos word towards Touya - he not once said, that he cares about him or wants to know him. You also point out, that Shouto saved Touya, but I actually feel more like he wanted to save everyone else. This is not meant as hate or anything, but for me it feels so devastating that between the villian-hero trios (even if Deku and Tenko are still to come) Shouto doesnt seems to reach out for Touya and I wanted to hear another perspective.

Despite the many common points, their situation is not at all the same. Toga was seeking acceptance pretty much from anyone, while Touya wanted validation ONLY from Endeavor. Toga wanted to live with the things and people she loved, Touya wanted to die with the object of his hatred taking others with him. Toga wanted Ochako or Deku to accept her since forever, but Touya had no personal interest in Shouto other than using him as a tool to hurt Endeavor or prove his superiority. Touya is clearly suicidal from the start - and Shouto's biggest challenge is to keep him alive despite his best efforts to burn himself to death.

Shouto never had the means to give Touya what he wanted - and let's not forget that he's been advocating since the PLF war for Endeavor and him go together to find Touya only to be let down by his father every single time. Plus Shouto believes his existence was the breaking point for the family (it's a belief nobody dispelled yet).

But still, Shouto showed up for Touya personally only to be told immediately that he's not what Touya wants:

And yet Shouto is saying that he can't be a hero if he just ignores Touya's pain (like Endeavor did). Shouto rather not be a hero, if he cannot help his brother. He's the ONLY person in the family who properly faces Touya (even if he's the one Touya doesn't want at all). He listens to Touya's story and he didn't attack him the whole time. It's Touya who escalates the fight deciding to kill Shouto and take him as a trophy to Endeavor.

Now, you also need to remember that the villains' love languages are different. Toga's emotions are expressed in blood. Touya's "love language" is his quirk. It's his bonding experience with Endeavor,

and he rejects any other quirk or move anyone else wants to teach him.

In the Todoroki family, quirk and who you are as a person and what is your worth is completely intertwined. Endeavor's flashfire connects Touya and Shouto even more profoundly than blood does, as out of the four siblings only the two of them share this.

so Shouto reaching out comes also essentially in a language unique to them - he makes an ultimate move just for Touya.

It's a move specifically made to stop him without hurting him. It's coming from Shouto's literal heart, from his healing, from him asserting who he wants to be as a brother and as a hero. It's also proof that there is a different way than the path that Endeavor has set them on. Instead of raising the fire and destruction with it, Shouto's quirk can be used to nope out from the toxic competition and save the family.

Touya's reply is rejecting Shouto - saying that they are not at all similar and that they cannot "mingle" - which Shouto counters with mingling with Touya anyways, refusing to accept their "separateness" - that leads to his power-up and copying of that very same move - the first proof that despite what Touya says, they are not completely different.

Shouto also tries to call Touya back when he tries to leave - this is a parallel moment when Ochako shouts at Toga how they haven't talked about love yet.

But Touya leaves, because Shouto despite pouring his heart out in his phosphor move, calling him Touya-nii, facing him properly - he cannot give to Touya what he ultimately wants: Endeavor's attention, approval and love (along with the attention of the other members of the family that Touya felt rejected by) and proof that his existence matters.

And it comes together in this brief delusional happy moment for Touya - getting the attention and validation he craves from his family.

And it's incredibly heartbreaking because it also makes it clear that Shouto could never give this to him, because it's not something Touya ever wanted from him. Because Shouto never denied him the way he perceived it from the others.

But also, this "perfect" moment falls apart almost immediately with Touya's realization that all he needed was just this small thing, something he could have gotten so easily, and he's unable to stop the explosion accumulating inside himself.

It's the symbol of all the rage he's been holding inside and it just seeks an outlet. And despite coming all together, Endeavor, Rei, Fuyumi and Natsuo are not enough to do anything about it.

And that's where Shouto comes in a second time - hits Touya again with Phosphor - just absorbing / neutralizing all that accumulated heat.

We don't get much of what Touya thinks of Shouto at this stage, but we his approach from Touya's POV in the moments when Touya is thinking about how it was all too late.

First he sees Shouto as this pupil-less monster, but then all the confrontation with Shouto and with the rest of the family makes Touya realize that he doesn't want to die anymore. He wants more time, he wants to say more things and at the same moment he sees Shouto finally as a crying child - as someone who is desperate to help his family, to fight for them and finally can give something to Touya that he wants - more time, a chance to say those unsaid things.

And sure, Shouto wants to save everyone - his friends, the pro heroes, the civilians in the blast radius. But also remember, Shouto doesn't know Rei, Natsuo and Fuyumi are there. Only Touya and Endeavor. And knowing his father, probably both All Might and Shouto knew that even if Endeavor had no ice to stop the explosion, he would take Touya up into the sky like he did with the nomu. I'm sure they both knew Endeavor's only option and the route he'd take.

So what All Might is truly asking Shouto is if he can live with himself if he doesn't try to save Endeavor and Touya - the two people who hurt him personally in very deep ways.

And while it's true that Shouto saves everyone (because Rei's intervention stops Endeavor's murder suicide), it's with Phosphor - the move he made specifically for Touya. And if that's not clear enough, then Shouto goes on to praise Touya in front to Endeavor - for his quirk, for how he was the one who finally did what Endeavor wanted and kept surpassing the heat limits going as far as saying that he can't do that, putting an end to the competition. He gives Touya the win he wants. He also rejects the "masterpiece" label and with the same move, freeing Touya from the "failure" label.

So maybe the ways Shouto is reaching out is not as straightforward and cutesy like Ochako or Deku in the spirit world vision - but Shouto keeps fighting despite Touya's rejection for his family, including Touya and when there is finally something he can give Touya (like a chance to live or ridding him of the "failure" label), he gives it to him.

He's been clearly paying attention and thinking what to do since he woke up in the hospital. Preparing for a chance to save his brother with training a move that serves no other purpose than to keep Touya alive. He's choosing the confrontation that's clearly emotionally very hard for him because he knows that Touya needs the family. He is the first one to ask him why he didn't come home, the first one to acknowledge his quirk and skill, the first one to tell him he's not a failure, but a masterpiece. And I think given what Touya's character is about and how his wants and needs differ from Toga's - it's really Shouto's best effort to save to him (being painfully aware that he's the last person Touya wants).

It all comes back to Shouto's arc - actions, not words.

It reminds me a bit of Midoriya vs Todoroki - where Shouto didn't want Izuku for more than to prove a point to Endeavor, and Izuku had to keep fighting and breaking himself just to get his attention. Or how Izuku was aware that after beating Shinsou, there are no words he can give him - it has to come from someone else. Or the time Deku let Kirishima take the lead to reach out for Bakugou, because he knew (thought) it wasn't his hand Kacchan wanted.

Like, sure, there are situations like Toga vs Uraraka, where Uraraka had the key all along to Toga because Toga wanted her. But there are also plenty of times in the story that are like Shouto's situation, where he knows that his hand is unwanted, but he still has to give it his best shot.

At the end of the day, it always takes a village to save someone. That was the point of the Eri arc. Uraraka is not doing it alone either - maybe the endpoint yes, but she couldn't have gotten here alone.

And I believe that Shouto's actions also matter for Touya eventually, we just haven't really seen it yet so expressly (but I hope we will), because the Todoroki plot is the darker, more nuanced plot and that comes with more complexity and less fairy tale-like turns.

TL;DR: Each villain's situation is different. Shouto is reaching out the ways he can, the ways that make sense for his and Touya's relationship. He is rejected, because Touya and Toga are different people with different wants, but Shouto despite that rejection keeps reaching for his brother to save him, to give him and their entire family another chance. And maybe, one day, all his actions will pay off with Touya also opening his heart to him. Sometimes, these things take time. But that doesn't make Shouto lesser, because connection is a two-way thing and Touya was clearly not ready to connect with anyone until he found some closure with Endeavor.

#bnha meta #c1a asks #bnha manga spoilers #bnha manga leaks #bnha 393 #todoroki shouto #todoroki touya

[reimeichan]

Advocating for your care in Therapy

Something I've noticed in a lot of mental health spaces are people who are afraid of speaking up against their therapists. They believe that since their therapist is a trained professional or a specialist, that they would know what's best for their care. Or, they're afraid of speaking up if something feels "off", and afraid of confrontation. Or something else.

I'm here to say that it's okay to question your therapist or to try to correct your therapist.

Therapists are still people, after all. They're bound to make mistakes, or overlook something, or think they know best and not question themselves. You, as the client/patient, are paying for their care, so if something feels off... it's okay to ask about it and question it. And if you still have misgivings, don't just sweep it under the rug.

Therapy is something that you, the customer, are paying for. And your therapist is both your support and also a professional that you are paying a service to. It's good to question a therapist, and a good therapist would take the time to work through your feelings and your misgivings with you. Sometimes, you may even help the therapist learn something new.

We've had to stand up for ourselves with each of our therapists at some point, and I can tell you that each time, it's made our therapy sessions better, not worse. We had a therapist, a very good therapist, who asked us to write a trauma timeline for her early on so that she could better understand us. Our main gatekeeper told her that he was unwilling to write out a trauma timeline because it would cause too much destabilization for our system; instead, they worked together to slowly piece together the trauma timeline over the course of several sessions, while also knowing that some key pieces would not be shared, not because he didn't trust her, but because he couldn't risk the rest of the system finding out at the time. We had another therapist suggest starting EMDR work on our system. From what we learned about EMDR from online resources, our partner's own experiences, and our previous therapist's expertise, we knew that unmodified EMDR was unsafe for people with a complex dissociative disorder like DID, and told her that we were unwilling to go into EMDR with her until she got specific training for utilizing it on DID patients. And she listened to us, and she's taking the time to learn how to do just that.

And we're lucky that our therapists were willing to listen to us each time and meet us at a point that we were comfortable with. It helped us build trust with them, and allowed us to open up more to them so that they could help us more.

Some therapists are not as willing to work together with their patient. I've heard of so many horror stories of people who tried to work with a therapist but ended up worse for it afterwards, trusting that the therapist "knew best" even when they didn't feel safe moving forward. Or when they brought up their misgivings, their therapist was dismissive and went forward without their patient's trust, hurting the patient in the process. If you find yourself with such a therapist, it's okay to find a new professional who would be more willing to work with you. You don't have to stick with someone simply because they are "nice" or a "specialist" in their field. Again, you are paying for a service. It can take time and effort to establish a new therapist-client relationship, and I know how scary that can be, but it's worth it in the long run to have a therapist who will actually work together with you to get you the help you need.

#therapy #mental health #psychology #dissociative identity disorder #did #actually did #actuallydid #did osdd #osddid #by pink

[trans-axolotl]

I'm facing 6 months of compulsory treatment right now. How did you survive?

💜anon, I so deeply wish that this was not something that either of us have been forced to survive. I'll share what kept me going and I hope that some of it can resonate with you.

First: Always remember that no matter what they try to tell you, what ways they try to dehumanize you, what ways they try to convince you that you are inherently wrong, or broken, or need to be saved from yourself--you are always the expert on what it is like to live in your body and brain, and you always have the right to define your own narrative and truth and experience. there were many times while forcibly hospitalized where there was nothing I could do to actually change the things that were happening to me because I had no power. all I could do in those moments was hold onto the truth that I knew I didn't deserve this and that even if no one was listening, I believed myself and I was bearing witness to the fucked up things that were happening and that someday, i wouldn't be so incredibly trapped.

secondly: do whatever the hell you need to survive without judging yourself for whatever you need to do to get through it. you do not have to be a "good patient"--you can be a "terrible patient" and that doesn't mean you're a bad person. during these last 4 months I was instituionalized, there was times that it was too hard to process the fucked up power structures and everyday violations because I couldn't process it while it was still actively happening to me. some days i needed to shut down and pretend that I was fine with everything happening and follow the rules and not let myself feel any rage or dream of what it was going to be like when i got out. other times, especially when i was younger, the only way i survived was by breaking rules, being a terrible patient, and demanding my autonomy in whatever way was accessible to me. sometimes that looked like destroying my room, swearing at staff, self harming because that was the only thing i had any fucking control over at all. and letting go of judgment for what I had to do to survive helped me get through it. knowing that I had so very few options and was doing the best I could to feel like a person and that as much as they wanted to make me feel like shit for it, I was not a bad person for needing to feel human.

thirdly: know your rights and if possible, have a person on the outside who knows your rights and can advocate for you on the phone. knowing your rights doesn't always mean much because hospitals and psychs still sort of break the law anyway, but knowing what your rights are about how many times you see your treatment team a week, how long they can commit you, what the rules are about forced medication and forced antipsychotics, what the rules are about restraints, visiting--all of that can help you advocate for yourself and recognize when the people in power are lying to you.

fourthly: there still will be moments of joy, even while instituionalized, and holding onto those and keeping them close helped me more than any of the treatment I received ever did. for me, becoming close to the other patients was incredibly healing. not always easy when we're all in crisis and don't have tons of emotional regulation, but listening to others stories, goofing around and rolling down the hallway together, making fun of nurses--the bonds I have with the people i was instituionalized with were truly lifesaving and taught me so much about what it means to love and take care of people. if you can, reach out to the other patients and get to know each other and how to share space with each other. it helps more than i can say. other moments of joy to hold onto--art, whether a million coloring sheets or graffiting onto the hospital walls, the moments you look out the window and see the weather changing, sneaking in vapes, little things like getting new bedsheets or if there's chocolate ice cream or learning how to do a handstand. even amongst everything, there will still be joy + love, and letting myself have that saved me.

fifth: depends on the rules of the place you can go to what is considered contraband or not, but bring comfort items, lists of phone numbers of people you want to stay in contact with, a journal, fluffy blanket, stuffed animals, art supplies, candy, comfy clothes, anything that brings you some peace. it really helped me to do a journal entry every day so that I could have some record of what was actually happening so that I wouldn't forget when I looked back later. that made me feel more grounded and secure.

sixth: Embrace whatever healing you can find in there. this doesn't have to be the bullshit you hear in group therapy or ridiculous worksheets, but if the shit you hear in group therapy works, then by all means embrace it. if embracing your rage helps, hold onto it. if other patients coping skills resonate with you, use them. it is incredibly fucking hard to heal while being instituionalized and there is absolutely no shame if you don't feel like you're getting better, but it's okay to find those moments of healing despite it all and fight for yourself and fight for building a better life in whatever way that means for you.

overall just know that whatever you are feeling--rage, sadness, pain, relief, fear, panic, grief--you are allowed to feel all of it and feel it as deeply as you need. you are not alone in this. I am so sorry that you are facing the threat of compulsory treatment right now, and know that I believe that you will survive this. depends on the rules so I don't know if you'll have your phone while you're in treatment or not, but feel free to come back, ask for advice, complain as much as you want because it can really fucking suck. know that you are allowed to take up space, you are allowed to exist as a full person with wants, opinions, and desires, and that you are allowed to be struggling, wanting support, and that you never deserve to be locked up and be treated as anything less than the beautifully complex and worthy person that you are.

followers who have faced forced psych treatment before, if you have any words of encouragment or suggestions for anon, please add on <3

#asks #mad pride #psych wards tw #forced treatment tw #anon i don't know how much of this will be relevant to you because i don't know what the specifics of what you're going through #but i hope it helps #antipsych #sending so so so much love

[starlight-tav]

List of Non-fiction Books on Autism

[Please note: I am only listing the books I have read on this list. This is not meant to be a comprehensive or complete list at all. I want to share the books that have been helpful to me so far. *Updated 09/17/23]

Approaching Autistic Adulthood: The Road Less Travelled by Grace Liu

| This book has a lot of advice about navigating adulthood as an autistic person. I found the advice on dealing with burnout especially helpful!

The Autism Friendly Cook Book by Lydia Wilkins

| This is one of my favorite books! If you're like me, and you really struggle with all things kitchen and cooking, this is a really helpful resource. Not only does it have a useful section that details techniques and supplies that you may need, but the recipes have an estimated energy and skill level! This book has helped me approach cooking more prepared, which helps me with coping with anxiety and preventing meltdowns.

Connecting with the Autism Spectrum: How to Talk, how to Listen, and Why you Shouldn't Call it High-Functioning by Casey "Remrov" Vormer

| This book is one of the most accessible books I've read so far. The language is both concise and easier to follow than most. It is less general than some other books on this list, so if you don't relate to it immediately or at all, that doesn't make you more or less autistic. Your experience (including location, assigned gender, gender identity, sexuality, co-occuring conditions, etc.) influence the way you exist as an autistic person.

Living with PTSD on the Autism Spectrum: Insightful Analysis with Practical Applications by Lisa Morgan, M.ED. and Mary P. Donahue, PH.D.

| If you're struggling with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and are on the Autism spectrum, this book could be really helpful! It provides research in plain language and offers helpful examples of how PTSD and ASD can interact. It also shares insight on how to recognize abuse and trauma, as well as how to advocate/seek advocacy for yourself or loved ones with ASD. I think the personal examples are really helpful, but I do want to caution that these also make it another very specific reading experience. If you read it, and do not see your experience represented, that is not your fault!

Neurotribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity by Steve Silberman

| Written by a journalist, this book packs a lot of information! It focuses on the history of Autism as a diagnoses, and for that reasons can be overwhelming and heartbreaking at times. The author is (I think) overly sympathetic to H*ns Asp*rger's contribution to Autism research; but from what I understand, the book was written at a time before the extent of his involvement with the N*zi party was understood, so maybe a future addition will reflect what we know now much better. I'm grateful that I read it, because it put my own late diagnosis into a perspective that gives me a little bit more peace.

The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism by Naoki Higashida

| This book is excellent to read for both autistic people and people who have an autistic loved one since it is focused on answering questions about how some autistic people think and behave (like stimming.) The author is an autistic boy who uses communication aids to express himself, and he has many insights into what it's like to have specific support needs and how it can be challenging to get those needs met.

Sensory: Life on the Spectrum organized and edited by Schnumm

| This is an anthology of comics by autistic creators who use visual story-telling to talk about their experiences. It was so nice to see my experiences in their stories, and to see other's experiences that I can't relate to as well!

Sincerely, Your Autistic Child: What People on the Autism Spectrum Wish Their Parents Knew About Growing Up, Acceptance, and Identity edited by Emily Page Ballou, Sharon daVanport, and Morénike Giwa Onaiwu

| This collection of essays/letters is wonderful, especially if you wish to learn more about the experiences of a diverse group of autistic people. It highlights that there are as many ways to be autistic as there are autistic people in the world (something that many of the books on this list say.)

Spectrums: Autistic Trans People in Their Own Words edited by Maxfield Sparrow

| "friend of mine, i am here, too. i am flapping and humming and feeling and being. i am learning who i am, i am being who i am, i am being loud and bright and joyful and true! and they are afraid, and they do not understand, but i am not for them, and friend of mine, neither are you" (from "a letter to a friend" by ren koloni).

This collection is so, so important to me as a genderqueer autist. The above quote is from my favorite contribution in the book, and I'm so grateful to the author for their words.

Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity by Dr. Devon Price

| This was the first book I read when I learned that I'm autistic. It is informative and compassionate. I think it is on the lower end of accessibility on the list so far, but it still does a wonderful job of explaining some of the difficult concepts. I think Dr. Price's explanation of the difference between bottom-up and top-down thinking is the best I've read so far, which was especially difficult for me to wrap my head around as a literal thinker. Just remember that if you pick up a book and it's difficult to understand, you're allowed to ask for help, take time to away from it, or put it down for good.

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That's the list so far! I'm constantly searching for more books to read, so if you have recommendations, please let me know!

#books #autism #autism books #autism resources #books by autistic people #books by autists #actually autistic #resources for autistic people #book lists #special interest #special interest: books

[peridot-tears]

Vagueblogging again!

I think a lot about the argument fandom racists make. It's always "fandom isn't activism," "go do some real activism," etc. etc.

Like, one -- I think quite a few of us have done "real" activism. Organizing, protesting, fundraising, information-sharing, all that good stuff. Especially in these past few years. You can't be Asian American without having at least brushed with activism lately.

Two -- telling someone that what they said hurts or disrespects your culture is not activism. That's literally just an everyday interaction. You could have learned something and accepted it, but the moment you dismissed it and dug your heels in, then yeah, you're making it a way bigger deal than it has to be.

Three -- Asian Americans have always organized, protested, and advocated for better rights on all fronts. The bill in Florida recently passed is part of a years-long effort to make Asian American history part of school curricula (its effects are for another post entirely), Asian Americans in various organizations have been tirelessly doing research, petitioning and lobbying for better healthcare and economic aid access. The burst of Asian American shows like "Beef" and "Everything Everywhere All At Once" are part of a DECADES-long push to have our stories told in ways that aren't stereotypical and degrading. Not to mention to make sure we get equal pay in the workplace.

People have always committed hate crimes against us, but because of COVID, it jumped to a point where there was actual media coverage outside of the community. It got so big, no one could ignore us anymore. It was good to get aid from outside the community, but even now, the people organizing self-defense classes, patrolling Asian dominant neighborhoods and walking with elders so they can go places without being attacked, the people organizing food drives for those of us who are lower-income, raising money for the victims of hate crimes, fighting for us in our court cases against attackers, pushing for our voices to be heard, are us Asian Americans.

It's a lot of work. It's also a lot of work to rally people to our cause, because so many people outside the community, especially white people, will not listen, let alone help in any meaningful way, unless you convince them why they personally should care. To be BIPOC at all in North America is to do the emotional labor that white people think you owe them.

So tell me. If true activism is so important to you, why aren't you doing it?

And you know how I know you aren't doing it? Because if you can't be bothered to listen to an Asian person in small, casual, everyday interactions, what makes you think you're equipped to help us advocate for large social change?

#again #people can slide into my dms if they wanna talk about certain things in detail issokay #i always have a million resources and orgs if you guys need pointers on activism and getting involved #but i generally keep this account for funsies and shitposting #and like this is asian america specific because i'm not gonna speak for other places #i can always point you towards asian diaspora elsewhere who ARE speaking out though #microaggressions #fandom racism #asian american #hate crime mention #asian america #asian diaspora #anti asian racism #anti asian hate #racism in fandom #tears falling like peridots #like if these last three years aren't gonna teach you that we're humans who need a listening ear #nothing will

[tenneseepsyche]

Welcome to my blog everyone!

🦁 ♾️ 🐺

Tennesee’s Psyche

DaddyDomAlpha

This is primarily a bd/sm style of blog. Here is a classic Novel 📕 & general Q&A for everyone. However, I would like to start out by saying I appreciate everyone who chooses to follow my life. I understand the value of time and who you are, so you’ll always have my utmost gratitude for everything you do. Asks, comments, messages, follows, and even something as simple as a like.

What?

There are many forms of bd/sm themes post or shared on here so it’s not for anyone under 18 🔞. Some range from sfw/cute & others nsfw/might disrupt some. I like what I like, scroll at your own risk.

What you may find:

General BD/SM, Dom/Sub, Slave, DD/LG(Not Age/Baby Play, Pastel Aesthetics, Humiliations, Adoration, Worship/godplay, Mind Control/Dumbification, Degrading, CNC, 24/7 TPE, Waifu, Hentai, Anal, Body Modification, Pet Play, Breeding, Ethical Poly, Hucow, Free Use, etc.

There are actually so many to name and they can be found here where I took the time to pick them all. My Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/5596928

Hard limits: Scat, Actual Abuse, Needles, Baby Play(To me dd/lg is not the same, think acting like a brat), etc.

What is the 🦁 ♾️ 🐺 ?

Lion 🦁 is named Aurelion. The Wolf 🐺 is Alpha (It’s his name idk why people think I go around calling myself an alpha like I’m hot shit…🙄). They are both cosmic creatures I cultivate into my psyche  as a representation on how my mind works. Think; same side of a coin 🪙, ying yang ☯️ or even (yes I know it’s fitting) my Gemini ♊️ sign. I choose to operate at a 80/20 I have always been an advocate for the belief: “From light comes darkness, and darkness light.”

…

My Why?

This blog is a “darker side” 🐺 version of myself that I just am and do not choose to hide it. People can think what they want about it, however that doesn’t have any effect on me.

I want to be the best version of myself; mind, body and spirit. To let my light and dark side be seen by all. To help everyone I can, to be the difference I wish to see in this world. I believe that which is in my favorite quote: “…as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

So I want to use this blog and my skills in my life to help grow the community of people who wish for help or want to grow. If I can, I must, so I will! (Yes that’s an original Tennesee quote 😅)

Asks?

Regarding asks I will answer all the ones I can. If you wish to remind anonymous please do so, if not that is your choice. If you respectfully wish to just send a comment I will answer it with my utmost gratitude. You and your time is important to me and so are all the people who follow me.

#ask alpha #alpha asks #ask Tenn

Podcast

I do wish to start a bd/sm version of my podcast so I’m open to future collaboration’s and guests. My vision for it is to maybe even have guest on that I help in real time or special invited guests to just talk about educational things for people to listen, learn and grow from. So look for that in the near future and please tell me if you want this quicker (comment, ask, or PM)

General Content

Stuffieland Adventures: a short story series that is did/lg themed in a sense of getting people into their little space. I have many written, never posted and I wanted to also read them aloud. So look for that in the near future and please tell me if you want this quicker (comment, ask, or PM)

Ask Hour: For one of the hours of the day I answer as many asks as I can in rapid succession.

Live Q&A’s or Ask Video Responses: Exactly like what is said I go live and answer anyone’s questions live and in real time. And start doing video response for who maybe put the request for that type of response in the ask. I enjoy problem solving and helping others.

Pictures/w 🥵 Captions: Posting photos with spicy captions, one liners or even play style dialogue. Most of them won’t be my own images unless I specify they are. #not mine #my own work.

Helpful Questionnaires/Surveys/Books: I enjoy reading and writing. So creating helpful things for not just myself but for others. Example; My ideal partner (what to ask and answer for yourself to manifest and find your ideal partner)

Tags

#AurelionAlpha #TenneseeFafard #Tenn #AskAlpha #ClassicNovel #Definitions #Me #Past #DiscountLeo

Disclaimer!

This is my blog, it’s for me first and foremost. All I am actually doing is posting my life and what I like for everyone to see. If you enjoy this good you can follow me, if you don’t good follow or don’t follow me. That’s who are and in choosing to follow me you’ll get the Ra version of myself. This blog isn’t for people under 18. However I can’t control them viewing it so regardless I’ll still do my best to be a good example to everyone. I may make mistakes, I might say things I would like to have changed based on who I grow into, however I will always be unapologetically myself and I command that level of understanding and respect from everyone who is involved in my life at any capacity. I hold no responsibility for how this blog makes you feel, you are choosing to be here. If you were indirectly hurt by my me or blog you have my apologies. Those are not my intentions and I will always continue to do my best. I hope you’ll all be able to see that in what I do.

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Full disclaimer:

* This blog isn’t for people under 18. However I can’t control them viewing it and take no responsibility for them viewing it. Regardless I’ll still do my best to be a good example to everyone.

*I may edit this post at will.

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[moonjxsung]

ugh your response just ugggghhhhhh speaks to my soul. giggling and kicking my feet at how much u fit the minho agenda

i haven’t really been in too many relationships, but the ones that I have been in have been so terrible for my sexual identity. let’s get into it.

I’m extremely introverted, (but very open and bubbly around my friends/fam/inner circle ykwim?), but most of the time super shy and anxious ESP in public places that involve advocating for myself with ordering food or asking someone else for anything etc. I HATE IT I JUST WANT TO RUN AND HIDE AND RAHHHHHH

haven’t always been like this, i was a super extroverted kid, but i think as I’ve grown up and gone through a number of experiences in which I’ve lost that confidence and ignorant bliss that i used to have, my personality evolved as a result.

anywaysssss, my most recent ex was very extroverted but also very controlling, (which i ignored for way too long to not be affected by) however he lacked the ability to give me that safe feeling that i need in a relationship—i need a dom partner who uses that power dynamic in a loving and affirming way towards me, if that makes sense? like i get a lot of comfort from affirming words from the person im with in that dom position.

( the ex was a fucking waste of human . When i tried testing the waters to come out to him, he told me that if i was “gay”(meaning anything but straight) he would immediately break up with me and would have never dated me, he never made me cum even one time, and cheated on me :D )

anyways.

I’m such a sub but tbh would maybe be open to versing IF my partner was into that? yeah i feel like that was an even more submissive thing to say than saying I’m a sub goodbye🧍🏽‍♀️

had to add the babygirl princess himself

Thank u for adding babygirl hanji he cleansed the palate after listening to your shitty ex story good LORDDDDD….. the part about you trying to come out to him????? Sheesh what a fucking loser

I totally get what you mean about someone needing to establish a safe environment for you to be in that sort of dynamic. I definitely feel the same way in that I need to feel safety and security before literally anything else in a relationship and because I’m usually the one who prefers to be in control, I try my best to keep things as safe as possible, like opening the door for clear communication, making sure we’re both on the same page about what we want, establishing clear boundaries, etc. It sounds like your ex never valued any of that and that’s why it wasn’t the fit for you. I think it’s very easy to get caught up in that mindset of feeling like you have more control over someone outside of a romantic or sexual sense when you’re the one wearing the pants in a relationship, so I definitely just advocate for very clear communication and being able to express what we both want out of something. And I usually expect it back (though I always somehow get stuck talking to women who like to reap the benefits of a woman w inherently masculine traits without wanting to date an actual woman and it sucks lmao) but yeah, in short I just like to sort of be the person initiating everything and taking care of another person and establishing a safe space for both of us to just be comfortable and safe with each other. That’s another reason I’m really attracted to introverts and shy people because I can sorta facilitate those conversations and check in w them to make sure they’re comfortable and the dynamic is just…. something I’m very attracted to lmao

You’ll definitely have your share of SHITTY fucking people and you’ll have to sort of learn what you want out of a relationship but I have no doubt you’re going to find someone who treats you like the absolute angel you are 🫶 don’t ever settle for less than you deserve and know that your scummy ex doesn’t determine what’s still out there for you. You deserve to be safe and loved and taken care of and your ex deserves to rot in hell

Sending u all my love little angel xoxoxoxo 💞💞💖💗💝💞💕💓👼🫶

#ask

[harmonyhealinghub]

Taylor Swift: A Musical Phenomenon that Captivates Millions

Shaina Tranquilino

November 15, 2023

In the world of music, certain artists possess the rare ability to capture the hearts and minds of millions. One such artist is Taylor Swift, a pop-country singer-songwriter who has managed to build an incredible fan base throughout her career. From her relatable lyrics to her genuine persona, there are several reasons why so many people love Taylor Swift.

1. Relatability through Lyrics: One of the key aspects that draws fans to Taylor Swift is her exceptional songwriting skills. She has an extraordinary talent for transforming personal experiences into relatable stories that resonate deeply with listeners. Whether it's heartbreak, friendship, or even societal issues, she consistently connects with her audience through emotionally charged lyrics. This ability allows fans to find solace in her songs during both their best and worst moments.

2. Evolution as an Artist: Taylor Swift's evolution from being a country sweetheart to a global pop sensation has been nothing short of remarkable. With each album release, she reinvents herself musically while staying true to her core values and beliefs. This growth showcases her versatility as an artist and keeps fans eagerly anticipating what she will do next. By constantly pushing boundaries and experimenting with different genres, Taylor Swift remains fresh and exciting for all generations.

3. Genuine Connection with Fans: Unlike some celebrities who keep their audiences at arm's length, Taylor Swift actively engages with her fans on various platforms. Through social media interactions, surprise appearances at fan events, or even inviting them into her personal life, she cultivates a sense of community that makes fans feel valued and appreciated. Her authenticity shines through these interactions, creating a loyal fan base that feels like they know the real Taylor beyond just being a superstar.

4. Philanthropy & Empowerment: Beyond her musical accomplishments, Taylor Swift is also known for using her platform for philanthropic endeavours and empowering others. From her generous donations to causes such as disaster relief and education, to advocating for artists' rights, she consistently uses her influence to make a positive impact. Swift's dedication to using her success for the greater good resonates with fans who appreciate her commitment to social issues.

5. Fearless Vulnerability: Taylor Swift has never shied away from expressing vulnerability in both her music and public life. She embraces her flaws, acknowledges her mistakes, and shares personal struggles openly, making her more relatable than ever. By allowing herself to be vulnerable in the spotlight, she encourages others to do the same and fosters an environment where authenticity is celebrated.

Taylor Swift's ability to connect with people on a deep emotional level through music, coupled with her genuine personality and philanthropic efforts, has made her an icon cherished by millions worldwide. Her songs serve as anthems for many individuals going through various phases of life, while her consistent growth as an artist keeps fans continuously engaged. Taylor Swift is undoubtedly a force that will continue captivating audiences for years to come.

#taylor swift #swifties #tswift #taylornation #musical phenomenon #captivating millions #taylor swift fans #pop princess #love story #shake it off #red album #blank space #fearless #1989 album #reputation #speak now #taylors version #1989 taylor's version #the eras tour #era tour #midnights

[whatisbraincells]

Deancas au where Dean and Sam were still raised bouncing around motels and dealing with John’s bullshit but there’s no monsters and Dean grows up to be a rock star. He’s a big sensation but none of his songs have that much real raw emotion in them. He feels like he’s got his fame through the voice he got from his dad and he doesn’t like it. He feels a disconnect from his songs even though they are his. It isn’t until he meets Castiel, an up and coming actor, at a premiere of a movie Dean made a song for that Castiel is in. Cas gets asked about how he got to where he is but some reporter(I think her name is Jo something). Cas goes on this long tangent about how he grew up in an unloving household and how he strives to succeed in what his parents didn’t want him to do and how he wants to be better than his parents and be an example for his younger siblings. And Dean’s standing off to the side and just bursts into tears. He runs off and hides in a bathroom. And then someone knocks on the door and it’s Cas who noticed that he ran away and asked if he said something wrong. Dean, despite himself, opens the door and ends up telling Cas everything about his childhood. How his dad would beat him and how he raised his brother and how his mom died and everything. Cas just sits next to him on the cold dirty bathroom floor and listens. They hang out a lot after that. Cas is the first person since Sam that Dean has said anything like this too. He ends up writing and album about Cas. A real album with emotion and feelings. Before he shows it to his producers he freaks out about the pronouns and then decides. Fuck it. This is his album. He’s using the voice his dad gave him for what he wants. He wants to be someone like Cas who advocates for people like himself and is open about his struggles. His PR team is worried about how the world will react and Dean puts his foot down that this is something he’s proud of and he wants it recorded how it is. He sends a early recording to Cas, who responds by saying that he’s quote “so goddamn fucking proud of you damnit.” Sam sends his a text that says “dude is this about the actor” after it comes out and Cas reads it over his shoulder. “What actor?” He asks. Dean shoves his phone back in his pocket. “You.” “Me?” “Yeah that’s what I said.” “Oh. Cool.” And then suddenly they’re together and it feels so right. And then. And then Dean writes an album about his childhood with real emotion. He cries many times during recording but Cas is there to comfort him and support him and he gets the album out and shares his story. And then he’s more than just a star. He’s a person with stardom.

Um so anyway-

#deancas #can you tell i wanna go into media and music #destiel #destiel au #dean winchester #castiel #spn #supernatural #vyas stupid hyper specific rants #abuse tw

[qnewslgbtiqa]

The scholarship helping trans student Jay through university

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The scholarship helping trans student Jay through university

The Pinnacle Foundation provides educational scholarships to young LGBTQIA+ people to reach their full potential. One of their scholars, Jay Bowman, shares how the support has helped them. 

I remember getting the call to say I’d been chosen as a recipient of a Pinnacle Foundation scholarship and being so knocked back I could only say ‘okay’.

Having come out mid-way through high school, I saw uni as a fresh start, a place I could be ‘trans from the beginning’, and it was incredibly important to me that I’d be able to transition during my degree. 

To do that I had to move out of home, and I wasn’t sure I’d get there without help.

I’d looked through scholarship and bursary options at my uni, but many had highly specific criteria it was hard to meet.

It was mostly by accident I found The Pinnacle Foundation just days before applications closed, crossed my fingers and submitted. 

I was successful and I’m now studying for a Bachelor of Journalism and Film and TV studies in Brisbane. I’ve always been interested in how trans stories – fiction and nonfiction – are told and I want to advocate for our voices to be heard. 

How a mentor helped

As part of the program, recipients are partnered with a mentor who works in the same or a similar field and has the same or similar identity. 

I won’t lie, the mentorship aspect was an afterthought for me. I knew I’d appreciate speaking to another trans person in media,  a field we have a famously complicated relationship with, but I was mostly seeking financial support.

My mentor was a trans man who works in media studies. He emphasised that even though we had a lot in common, it was paying attention to each other’s differences that could help us learn from each other.

I found we thought quite differently about things. That meant sometimes I had to sit with his words for 12 to 24 hours before they sunk in. But our conversations taught me a lot about my approach to study and, on a deeper level, my approach to my own goal-setting and priority-arranging. 

I’ve always wanted to juggle six hats and never have to choose one – he taught me to figure out what I actually want and focus on being good at that.

I decided I wanted to be a good student. Not in terms of grades, which I could always achieve reasonably easily, but in terms of effort and time put into learning.

He taught me specifically that those two things – getting the grades and doing the work – are separate skills, and just because I was good at one didn’t mean I wasn’t abysmal at the other. 

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Juggling family commitments

My mentor also listened while I talked about my complicated sense of responsibility to my parents who denied me support to transition but still relied on me emotionally and financially.

Sometimes advice from queer people regarding family can fall into two camps: ‘it gets better,’ and ‘you don’t owe them anything’.

I find both unhelpful. He didn’t tell me either.

He helped me figure out ways I could help my family while also prioritising my safety and freed me from some of the burden of taking on their struggles as well as my own. 

The support I got from my mentor wasn’t always active in that way.

Coming from a place where I had been told that transitioning would mean I would be unemployable, be unaccepted, and struggle my whole life, spending time with a trans man who was by all accounts thriving in all those areas helped me start to untangle some of those internalised knots.

I hadn’t realised how hard it would be for me emotionally to leave home, even when I knew it was what I needed to do.

Over time, it was the confidence in myself and my abilities that my mentor stoked that helped me finally make the move.

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Financial reality

Of course, the financial aspect did come in handy too. As well as helping me buy essentials for my new place, the scholarship has been covering my groceries.

It also helped me finally buy gender-affirming gear I couldn’t have kept at home. After I placed the online order, I burst into tears. 

All trans people, all queer people at large, deserve to feel safe in their homes and their places of learning. Financial security is only part of that picture.

What I’ve learnt over my time with TPF sounds cliche, but it’s true: never underestimate the power of community and the impact we can have on each other as queer and trans folks.

For more information on the Pinnacle Foundation visit thepinnaclefoundation.org

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#education

[tallmantall]

James Donaldson on Mental Health - Monday Morning Blues

Monday mornings can be tough. The alarm blares, jolting you out of peaceful slumber. Reluctantly, you drag yourself out of bed, feeling the weight of the weekend's activities still lingering in your bones. It's as if the world is conspiring against you with its bright, sunny rays and the sound of birds chirping outside. You trudge through the mundane routine of getting dressed, grabbing a quick breakfast, and heading out the door, all while nursing what can only be described as the Monday morning blues. For many, Monday mornings symbolize the end of a carefree weekend and the start of another grueling workweek. The anticipation of the week ahead, the deadlines, the meetings, and the demands can easily dampen anyone's spirits. It's like staring at a mountain of tasks that need to be conquered, and it can be overwhelming. As you step outside, you notice the Monday morning rush hour traffic has already begun. The streets are filled with cars, buses, and people all on their way to face the same challenges of the day. The hustle and bustle only serve to reinforce the heaviness in your heart. Arriving at the office, you're greeted by coworkers who also seem to be under the same spell of the Monday morning blues. The small talk is minimal, everyone still caught up in the weekend or already dreading the busy week ahead. The atmosphere is nothing short of gloomy. The day drags on as your energy levels dip, and your motivation wanes. Concentration becomes a struggle, and even the simplest tasks seem to take twice as long. Monday morning blues can be a powerful force, sapping your enthusiasm and leaving you feeling sluggish, unmotivated, and unproductive. However, it's essential to remember that Monday is just another day of the week. It's a fresh start, an opportunity to set new goals, and make progress towards them. Instead of succumbing to the Monday morning blues, try shifting your perspective. Think of Mondays as a chance to make a positive impact, to shine in your work, and to tackle obstacles head-on. To combat the Monday morning blues, it helps to establish a routine that eases you into the week. Start your day with activities that bring you joy and set a positive tone for the day ahead. Whether it's enjoying a cup of your favorite coffee, listening to uplifting music, or practicing mindfulness, find things that uplift your spirits and help you start the day on the right foot. Another strategy is to break down your tasks into manageable chunks. Overwhelm can contribute to the Monday blues, so take a few moments to prioritize and plan your day. Focus on completing smaller tasks first, then gradually tackle the more significant ones. By doing so, you'll build momentum and feel a sense of accomplishment as the day progresses. #James Donaldson notes:Welcome to the “next chapter” of my life… being a voice and an advocate for #mentalhealthawarenessandsuicideprevention, especially pertaining to our younger generation of students and student-athletes.Getting men to speak up and reach out for help and assistance is one of my passions. Us men need to not suffer in silence or drown our sorrows in alcohol, hang out at bars and strip joints, or get involved with drug use.Having gone through a recent bout of #depression and #suicidalthoughts myself, I realize now, that I can make a huge difference in the lives of so many by sharing my story, and by sharing various resources I come across as I work in this space.  #http://bit.ly/JamesMentalHealthArticleFind out more about the work I do on my 501c3 non-profit foundationwebsite www.yourgiftoflife.org Order your copy of James Donaldson's latest book,#CelebratingYourGiftofLife: From The Verge of Suicide to a Life of Purpose and Joy   Link for 40 Habits Signupbit.ly/40HabitsofMentalHealth If you'd like to follow and receive my daily blog in to your inbox, just click on it with Follow It. Here's the link https://follow.it/james-donaldson-s-standing-above-the-crowd-s-blog-a-view-from-above-on-things-that-make-the-world-go-round?action=followPub Remember, you're not alone in experiencing the Monday morning blues. It's a common phenomenon shared by many. Reach out to your coworkers, friends, or family for support and motivation. Share your struggles, but also find time to laugh and enjoy moments together. Having a network of support can lighten the burden and make Mondays more bearable. Ultimately, the Monday morning blues are temporary. They pass as the day unfolds, and you settle into the rhythm of the week. Embrace the challenges, find meaning in your work, and focus on the positive aspects of your day. With a positive mindset and proactive approach, you'll soon find that Mondays can be the start of something great. www.celebratingyourgiftoflife.com Read the full article

[mapecl-stories]

A Vision of Unity: Together for a Peaceful World"

Amidst the journey on the German autobahn, as Marcus gazed out of the bus window, his eyes fell upon a small calf being transported in a livestock truck headed for the slaughterhouse. The scene touched him deep within, and he felt a painful pang in his heart. As he continued to look out at the road, the sounds of John Lennon's famous song "Imagine" suddenly emanated from the bus speakers.

The words and melody penetrated deep into Marcus's soul. They reminded him of how the world could be - a world without heaven or hell, without borders, hatred, or religions dividing people. It was a vision of peace and love that moved Marcus to tears amidst the bleak reality he was witnessing.

The sounds of "Imagine" accompanied Marcus on his journey to Amsterdam, but his mind was elsewhere. He couldn't forget the image of the frightened calf, traveling amidst the urban hustle towards its sorrowful fate. However, the song also gave him hope - hope for change and the possibility of creating a better world.

Upon arriving in Amsterdam, Marcus sought distraction from the heavy thoughts. He wandered through the picturesque streets and canals of the city, encountering people from different countries and cultures. He noticed how each individual walked their own path, yet remained interconnected. The words of "Imagine" came to his mind again, and he pondered on how this vision seemed alive in the diversity and unity of the city.

In the evening, Marcus visited a small bar with live music. There, he met a young woman named Lea, who was a talented musician. She, too, had been inspired by the song "Imagine" and shared her own version of it with Marcus, reflecting her deep desire for a harmonious world.

As Marcus and Lea spoke about their dreams and visions, they felt a strong connection to one another. Together, they sensed the power of music and art, capable of uniting people across boundaries. Marcus decided to take action to change the fate of the little calf and inspire others to contemplate.

Marcus and Lea jointly organized an animal rights demonstration in Amsterdam. People from different parts of the world gathered to express their support for a better future. The sounds of "Imagine" filled the air as Marcus and Lea performed together, sharing their message of hope and unity.

The event touched the hearts of many, and the message spread through social media and news platforms. Awareness of animal rights and the pursuit of a peaceful world expanded.

In the following weeks, Marcus and Lea collaborated to protect animals and the environment. They joined the Animal Rights Party, an organization advocating for ethical agriculture and respect for all living beings. Their dedication led to positive changes by reinforcing the awareness of the connection between peace, justice, and the environment.

The story of Marcus and Lea became a shining example of how a simple moment and a song can ignite a spark and become a movement that changes the world. Inspired by the vision described in John Lennon's "Imagine," they crafted a touching tale of compassion, interconnectedness, and the belief in a world where animals and humans can coexist in harmony.

And so, they continued to live, always aware that each individual possesses the power to bring about change if they have the courage to fight for what they believe in - a world where people and animals live side by side in peace, collectively savoring the precious gift of life.

You can listen to the song again at the following link: https://youtu.be/VOgFZfRVaww

PS we fight for animals, please fight for us - Tierschutzpartie.de

#Vision #Unity #Peace #Harmony #Music #Animals #Hope #Change #Animal Rights #Environmental Protection #Awareness #Compassion #Future #Peaceful Demonstration #Amsterdam #Animal Rights Party #Tierschutzpartei.de

[healendometriosisnaturallyuk]

#146 - Meet Hana B - ANOTHER EndoBoss® Success Story - Heal Endometriosis Naturally with Wendy K Laidlaw

Welcome to an inspiring episode of our podcast, where we have the pleasure of hearing Hana's incredible EndoBoss® success story with Heal Endometriosis Naturally and Wendy K Laidlaw. 

Hana is a remarkably strong and lovely woman, who comes all the way from Slovakia in Europe and has recently completed the transformative and life-giving 12-month EndoBoss® Client Academy Program.

Her journey has led her to achieve remission from endometriosis, experiencing zero pain each month. We are absolutely thrilled that Hana agreed to join us today and share her remarkable journey.

Hana started her path by joining our 21-Day Unstoppable EndoBoss® Challenge, and then she participated in the Embracing Emotions program. If you haven't taken part in these programs yet, we highly encourage you to do so.

Healing from endometriosis is an emotional journey, and it requires conscious effort and specialist support. 

Wendy K Laidlaw, the creator of these transformative online programs, discusses the five essential poisons that need to be addressed: produce, products, property, people, and past. 

While the practical aspects of the programs are relatively straightforward and explained thoroughly in her book, the emotional component presents a greater challenge.

Many women are raised to be seen rather than heard, conditioned to be "good girls" who suppress their emotions and always prioritize others. This emotional aspect forms a significant part of the journey and is a core focus of the program Wendy has developed.

Starting with the 21-Day Challenge allows women to reconnect with themselves gradually over three weeks. During this time, women can observe how their body responds to this newfound self-listening.

Hana's dedication and commitment led us to offer her a place in the prestigious EndoBoss® Client Academy. Please note that the Academy has limited enrollment and not everyone who applies is accepted due to the specific criteria we look for in applicants. We seek women, like Hana, who recognize the importance of hard work, commitment, and necessary changes to achieve results.

Hana's progress has been truly amazing, and we couldn't be more proud and delighted to share some of her specific progress with you.

When she first joined the program, she experienced daily pain ranging from one to four on the pain scale, along with three to five days of bleeding, chronic fatigue, bloating, candida, and various infections. She also carried the burden of childhood trauma, which she astutely identified as a factor affecting her nervous and immune systems.

Unfortunately, some of the medical professionals she sought help from had created additional trauma for her. If you've ever encountered rude or dismissive medical professionals, you understand how such experiences can compound trauma within your nervous system. However, throughout her journey in the EndoBoss® Client Academy, Hana experienced a complete transformation.

Under Wendy's, Maxine and EndoBoss® Team guidance, Hana witnessed significant improvements. She now has pain-FREE periods, her fibroid reduced from 2 cm to 1.4 cm, and she lost 13 kg in weight. 

The most notable transformation occurred on an emotional level, as Hana developed a deeper connection with herself. Her energy levels improved, and she gained confidence in communicating her needs, setting boundaries, and advocating for herself. These changes allowed her to rediscover lost 'Parts' of herself, including her playful, professional and protective aspects.

Throughout her journey, Hana received unwavering support from our exceptional EndoBoss® team, including our dedicated endometriosis coaches like Head Coach, Maxine.

Wendy herself was involved, closely monitoring Hana's progress and providing guidance whenever needed. Hana specifically mentioned the tremendous impact of her Head Coach, Maxine, who supported, cheered, and guided her through challenging times. Their relationship initially faced hurdles due to Hana's childhood trauma, making it challenging for her to receive the compassion and kindness we knew she deserved. 

However, with Maxine's expert coaching approach and a growing sense of confidence, Hana was able to trust, relax and understand the profound value of their safe connection and the expert support offered. And then the healing began!

To download your Top 5 Quick Start Tips, learn more and start your EndoBoss® Journey go to https://HealEndometriosisNaturally.com

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Mariam Avakova becomes WtGA award finalist!

Many congratulations to Mariam Avakova who was a finalist in the Welcome to Georgia Awards for the best event organizer category. The Awards generally recognise those who work in tourism, but Mariam has been very proactive in the last 2 years and has made a huge contribution particularly in engaging the young people of Georgia in climate issues.

During the pandemic, her story began online, and for Mariam it soon became a narrative on how virtual events can play a significant part in ones’ personal growth. She became an ambassador for the Young Black Sea Community, and was also accepted to a Malta University Ocean Governance programme. She became a Youth4Ocean advocate and was able to work with other young professionals, helping to organise and moderate a youth panel networking event: ‘Let's Listen to the Arctic Oceans’.

Image: Mariam wore a traditional Georgian dress of her Mother to the Awards. © Mariam Avakova

“I've always been the first to take action rather than waiting for it to find me. My creativity and optimism encouraged me to keep learning, and to uncover new chances for myself and my country. I am fueled by self-inspiration and a global imagination - Think globally, act locally”

Mariam Avakova, Georgia

Image: Georgian young people are very enthusiastic about climate issues. © Mariam Avakova

Mariam was also selected to represent Georgia at #EMDinMyCountry, which was the first time Georgia had been depicted on the EMD map and where an individual has been given the responsibility of organising an event. Supported by DOORS, Black Sea Connect and Bridge-BS, the #EMDinGeorgia event featured artwork activities and an awareness-raising quiz competition for young people about the Black Sea environment. Mariam was also able to promote the ‘New Plastic Economy’ through the Eco-friendly TENE USB cable, produced from melted plastic bottle caps.

"The event astonished me by being really entertaining and energetic and allowing me to meet a lot of young people who are enthusiastic about what they do. Being the first person to put Georgia on the map as part of #EMDInMyCountry is an honour and a historical milestone. Huge gratitude goes to my My former director Kakhaber Bilashvili, DOORS and all my EU4Ocean forum team. My country is my soul, I am proud to be Georgian and to think globally. I feel I'll be a positive challenger to start a new chapter among all award categories next year.”

Mariam Avakova, Georgia

We are keen to hear from all Black Sea young people looking to get involved in climate issues (email: social[at]doorsblacksea.eu). Tell us what you're doing and tag us @doorsblacksea so we can share your stories wider in the network. It really makes a difference.

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