#and I wanted y’all to be informed

[camifornilla]

Regular reminder that if you’re sexually active, on birth control, and fucking someone who can get (you) pregnant in a way where pregnancy can occur,,,, take a pregnancy test. I don’t want to be an unplanned auntie so plz take preganté tests regularly

#had a thought #thought I’d share #hopefully the wording is inclusive cuz this goes for you fellow gays too #use protection #take regular pregnancy tests #saw a TikTok of a new parent holding a baby holding the iud they outmaneuvered #and I wanted y’all to be informed #planned parenthood #safe sex #pregnancy #parenting #relatable #TikTok #twitter

[sweetpapercroissant]

“dean winchester is a misogynist because he lies to women to get them to sleep with him and therefore clearly doesn’t respect them”

then you actually watch the show and every time dean sleeps with a woman he’s soft and there’s a gentleness even in his passion and he always makes sure his partner’s satisfied/comfortable and he does form genuine connections with the women he sleeps with even if he lies about his name and job (which is completely understandable and actually the sane thing to do considering most of america knows him as a serial killer and there’s not a lot of people around who’d bother talking to a guy who claims he hunts monsters for a living) (or for fun ig since there’s not a lot of ‘living’ in this profession) and he spends time getting to know them and offers the little bits of himself that he can and most of the time that dean has sex with a woman he sleeps over and they see him off in the morning with a goodbye kiss and genuine affection for him and if they ever run into him again they’re clearly fond and look back on their shared memories with satisfaction if nothing else and. this is the guy who doesn’t respect women? how? by believing they are adults who can want and enjoy a night of sex with no strings attached (something he’s always straightforward about btw)?? and more importantly it’s always consensual and they like him as a person and they’re clearly both enthusiastic about it (in fact there’s actually instances where dean isn’t completely enthusiastic but never the other way around).

also any time he’s been in a serious relationship where he was going to be a part of the other person’s life he tells them the whole truth, about hunting and monsters and his role in it and what being with him would entail. so i’d say he respects women just fine but maybe you need to seriously evaluate why you feel having casual sex with women is inherently disrespectful of them.

not to mention that the sex does mean something to him. even if he didn’t it wouldn’t be “wrong” or “misogynistic” to want to have sex with a woman without a relationship BUT. the sex does mean something to him. because he craves intimacy and human contact and affection and being liked and wanted and so often when he’s going through something he’ll open up to these women (jaime, anna) and they’re willing to listen to him without judgment and they’re gentle with him, with his grief, his trauma and the sex is a way for him to connect on a deeper level with them and it helps him and he’s spent almost his entire life isolated from society and can’t form long lasting relationships for much of his childhood and youth but he actually cares about them as human beings and he feels affection for them and it fulfills his desire for tenderness that he can’t expect from anyone else. and there’s nothing wrong with any of that.

#this has to be one of the dumbest things i’ve seen people say about it #i mean sure it raises some questions about consent #but even when he lies about his job he never pretends to be a different person than who he is #what you see is what you get with him #and even when he lies about his job with #motive (???) beyond that. information or just flirting (although let’s be honest it’s the former WAY more often than the latter) he never #actually has sex with someone who he thinks might want to sleep with him just because of his job. #that has never happened #sometimes he just likes playing different parts because it’s fun #and there’s nothing wrong with that either #and he isn’t the only character on spn who’s done this so why is this question only raised when it comes to dean? #and #some of y’all straight up have a weird relationship with sex #supernatural #dean winchester #dean and sex #dean meta #.txt

[avintagekiss24]

I’m still really struggling to understand why in 2023 people want to keep their fanfic preferences “private” and use that as an excuse to serial like and not reblog. The entire reason I’m on tumblr.com is to sexualize old men and fantasize out loud about getting butt fucked by a werewolf. That’s what the internet is for, kids.

#no one knows you here… that’s… that’s the whole point #it amazes me how much personal information that y’all are comfortable with sharing but draw the line at fanfic lmfaooo like? #here’s my name and birthday and the current city I live in but I don’t want anyone knowing I read about getting plowed by an anime character #and then wanna turn around and get mad when people block you or tell you that you don’t understand how tumblr works

[sweaters-and-vertigo]

i have a teeny, tiny superiority complex because i didn’t watch the atla live action.

#but i appreciate the ones who sacrificed their mind to watch the show and report back #y’all are so brave. thank you for examining the danger and relying the information back to me so i wouldn’t have to. #i have read so much about this show and i will literally never watch it #i actually intended to but got locked out of netflix when it premiered #then i heard all the shitty things about it and said “fuck that noise” #they took everything from me #they took away zuko’s character development for the sake of “time” not even gonna touch that it makes me so angry #they took away sokka’s character development for the sake of being “woke” #which was actually very very un-woke of them #they took away katara’s passion & anger and made her a flat boring person #i loved her anger so much???? #they took away our shock at the OG southern air temple ep #seeing monk gyatso in a room full of firebenders he had been forced to kill >>> seeing the actual genocide as if we didn’t already know #they took away aang’s sweet childishness and made him way too mature #it sounds like the only people who enjoyed it were zutara fans because of the scarf scene #y’all can keep it. it’s yours. i don’t want it. #atla original #avatar the last airbender #atla aang #atla zuko #atla katara #atla sokka #avatar the last airbender aang #avatar the last airbender katara #avatar the last airbender zuko #avatar the last airbender sokka #aang #katara #sokka #zuko

[thotsfortherapy]

having mommy issues be like I hate that you know me I hate that we’re related I hate that you birthed me I hate that you don’t know how to love me properly I hate that you can’t see how much you hurt me I hate that I’m expected to love you

#cy says stuff #I moved out when I was 17 for a reason #but I do still go back to visit when schools out sometimes and I regret it every single time #every time we talk I’m like damn is it time to call it quits because this is not it #I literally feel like I’m constantly on the brink of being disowned or kicked out of the house when I’m there #but it’s also for things like. bringing a single bottle of wine to a Christmas party that I did not even drink #or like. moving in with my partner of 4 years. because we are going to the 2nd most expensive city in Canada and girl I cannot pay the rent #or being upset when she reads my diary ?? or reads my credit card statements without permission and also just like behind my back?? #like do you think I’m not going to find out when you bring up information you only would’ve known if you had read those things #I can put two and two together… #also I’m literally almost done my university degree. i am fully an adult. these should not be issues ! #ahhhhh!!! #anyways I will speak to my therapist about this lol #also y’all my friends are always like oh I love my mom and it just seems to be a socially accepted thing that you should love your mom #but what if your mom sucks what then #I genuinely cannot relate to them I’m like literally what does that feel like #the first time I felt loved was when I was 15 lol there is 0 love in my family #anyways ! #it’s okay I am out of it and I have been out of it #just #always on the brink of cutting her off forever lol #some ppl just never change as much as you want them to and that is tough to accept. #it is also harder because society is telling my that I need to stay loyal to my family cause they’re blood #but if this were anyone else I would’ve blocked them so long ago 😭

[sweetest-honeybee]

Making a masterpost for the greyscale Wally au in my drafts. I won’t post it yet but once there’s a bit more content I will

#I mean unless y’all want it now but the tag is a pretty short scroll #the masterpost is just a summary- a couple FAQs- the links to the doodles- and whatever asks I deemed important I for #deemed important information* #cut off at the end there my bad lol

[beetlevsboy]

I want to preface this post by saying that I love the cat king as a character, especially one that has such a major impact on Edwin and his relationship with his queerness and learning to be okay with it; HOWEVER, I also believe that everyone that genuinely believes he should be a love interest for Edwin should read this. (Also if you just like the cat king as a character and want to understand his character better and why his and Edwin’s relationship is not something that would be healthy or “real” for either)

#dead boy detectives #edwin payne #the cat king #i do not ship them but I don’t want to hate on those who do (mostly) I just want to kind of inform people of the creators meaning for their #Relationship because I keep seeing people saying they hope they get together in s2 and it’s really confusing to me #Their relationship stems from the cat kings own narcissism and predatory behavior and Edwin’s need for someone to push him into under #Standing that his queerness doesn’t have to be torture and can be something giddy #even if he doesn’t return those feelings #The cat king does like Edwin but he doesn’t know anything about him. He likes the game and then he likes the kindness he’s shown despite #Knowing the cruelty he’s presented to Edwin #Queerness and preformance always go hand in hand #He’s a older secretly insecure character #Edwin is the younger #genuinely kind character that shows him that projecting his hurt will never get him what he wants #It’s about the isolation of queerness and the walls put up and the coping mechanism used to protect yourself even at the risk of hurting #Those just like you. That kiss from edwin was to say “I’m sorry your loneliness had caused you to be cruel. It’s the easiest way to feel. #And while I cannot and will not give you what you want or need #you deserve to feel happy and not like you have to gain the attention of uninterested people #I can’t even explain all my thoughts about their dynamic it’s just so much it’s just about the predadation from older queers because of #The trauma they’ve endured and the cycle of hurt and the way we can break the cycle with kindness while also protecting our youths by #Healing those traumas #Something the cat king learns and accepts #Off topic but I don’t like people defending their age gap because #Yes; Edwin is 86 #but he died with a teenage boy brain and then spent 70 of those years in hell where he certainly was not getting his brain developed while #The cat king has possibly hundreds of years of sentience and experience. The power imbalance is not if y’all. And that part of their dynami #Is actually very clear I think but some people didn’t catch it?? Or didn’t care??? Idk man

[leefl00f]

(⭐️updating this cuz I got more to say) Yeah… so I have some things to say abt the psa post…please read/srs

I know many won’t bother to read it but for those who do, thank you ❤️

First of all, I would like to apologize to those I made uncomfortable w/ my content in the main murder drones tag

But I would like to emphasize that I am NOT associated with ANY tk feti$h and never will be as you can see from the picture below (this is from my pinned post btw, you can check it out if you don't believe me https://www.tumblr.com/leefl00f/719158053998673920/hello-as-you-all-seen-my-blog-name-im?source=share):

There is a reason why I put that on my pinned. Tickling is not a k!nk or a feti$h to me I hate this stuff as much as you guys, but it’s still no excuse for me or anybody to make a people uncomfortable. I like tickling bc it’s a comfort for me, not bc of that :(

Just like the PSA, a friendly reminder to also check the blog’s description or pinned post if that is the case

Like many other things that bring joy to us, tickling is also a comfort for some people here (me included).

Some of us think of it as fun and light hearted. It can also be a copping mechanism as well.

I just like to write abt and share it to you guys, never for $exual desires (it’s disgusting)

I might have more to say but I just want to emphasize abt this part as well, I might update later.

But from now on, I will not use the main MD tag for my content. (This will possibly be my last post on the tag)

Again I’m so sorry that I made you guys uncomfortable and I will do better, but just know, I am NOT a fet!sh blog and NEVER will be

if it makes you all feel better, just block me

⭐️(updated the tags btw there’s more please read/srs)

#floof speaks #important #murder drones tickles #i’m so sorry :( #sfw tickles #sfw tickling community #sfw tk community #sfw tk blog #the moment they said “sfw” I knew they were possibly talking abt me #Bc I’m one of the only blogs that puts the sfw tickles tag on my posts #I just wanted to show some fluff to y’all :( #Just know that we do not do those disgusting things that the person claimed I or anybody related to the MD tks tag was doing #most of us are minors anyway and all of us have the same common rule on our blogs: DNI N$FW and fet!sh blogs and this is NOT a fet*sh #or we give them the block glock 🚫 🔫>:( #we never wanted to see that anyway #It’s all just light hearted fun #i’m sick and tired of people claiming that it’s a fet!sh were in actuality it’s not #‘I don’t care if it’s “sfw”’ #then what’s the point of us tagging it? It literally informs you that ‘hey! This is non $exual!’ It’s like you’re trying to make us look b #and in my fics before it gets started I always say DNI N$FW/Fet!sh blogs In red! #i don’t want those creeps to int w/ my blog and if they try to #I always block and report them #believe me or not #I try my best to be a good person here #and it hurts me to see people basically say that my content is $exual material where it’s actually not #i’m a literal kid #why would I even look at that anyway?? I’m not even interested in it in that way! #it’s disgusting to me #Again #before you guys claim or say that it’s a fet!sh please read the blog’s pinned post

[gayvampyr]

no one likes “proof or it didn’t happen” people but some of y’all will act like someone asking for literally any shred of evidence to support a claim means they’re evil and taking the other side or some shit and it’s stupid

#sorry if this is incoherent #but y’all are annoying #like yeah if you call someone lesbophobic i want proof #if you call someone racist i want proof #if you call someone anything that isn’t just your personal opinion i want some fuckin evidence #because people on the internet have a bad habit of trying to get others to take their side so they make up all sorts of shit to settle some #personal vendetta #even if it means raking some random persons name through the mud #over some unfounded allegation #and this idea that you’re either with someone or against them and questioning allegations means taking the other side has led to a culture #where no one speaks up or questions why we’re gathering pitchforks out of fear of being the next pariah #like i want more information not because i want to defend the person in question and not because i don’t think bigotry isn’t a big deal #it’s because if these accusations came from baseless mudslinging i want to know because i don’t want to be the kind of person who attacks or #commits libel with the masses without an ounce of thought for myself #and i also want to distance myself from people who ruin peoples lives as pastime or as a way to justify their own personal feelings toward #a person #it is far too easy to turn ‘i don’t like this person’ into ‘this person is a pedophile’ or something on the internet #so sorry for not just taking your word for it #‘just trust me bro’ is not a good defense

[lestatslestits]

Legitimately stunned by how fucking bad the takes from the OP of that one IWTV post that’s floating around right now are.

#i’m not trying to vagueblog i just don’t want op’s words on my blog #at least until i’ve calmed down enough to actually highlight the very informative responses by people who reblogged it #instead of just being incoherently pissed #obviously the worst part is the blatant racism #but the lack of media literacy is just stunning to me #also it does not escape me that op said he had never read iwtv or even seen the movie prior to this #and then just proceeded to criticize literally anything that makes the og story (and this version) compelling #sorry y’all i try to keep things positive on this blog but i’m just #reeling

[j-esbian]

i am once again begging people to learn how to recommend things. i’ve been seeing a couple posts lately about a league of their own that have honestly done a really poor job of selling it, not least because none of them actually say what it’s about

one essentially said “you guys need to watch it because it’s got queer woc, and if you don’t watch it, we’ll never get a season 2” which is coming at it backwards. why do i care about getting another season of a show i haven’t watched yet?

another said “if you liked our flag means death you should watch this, because they’re both gay and about real-life historical figures” which, while technically true, is missing the point of both shows. ofmd is a comedy about pirates in the early 16th century. a league of our own, from what i can tell (i had to google it, because none of those posts mention any of this) seems to be a drama about baseball in the early 20th century. what about those is similar

do we really need to keep having this discussion about not tokenizing stories?? because it does it a disservice to boil it down to “it’s good and you should watch it because it’s Diverse”

it’s like if i said, “hmm, i want to go clothes shopping, my closet feels stale,” and you told me, “i have just the thing,” and tried to give me a blank cardboard box with something inside. “what is it?” i ask, and you tell me, “it’s purple.”

but is it a top? pants? i don’t really wear skirts so i wouldn’t be interested. is it a turtleneck? i like those sometimes, but it’s really hard to pull them off. what material is it? i have sensory issues and i don’t like polyester. what if we’re not the same size and it doesn’t fit?

“it’s purple” you tell me. “you like purple. you’ll like it, trust me.”

#also the fact that everyone says to watch it but no one has said where #which i realize is probably because they have 🏴‍☠️ and expect other people will also #but it’s a bad habit to get into. if you’re recommending something you need to let people know how to get it #spoiler culture definitely contributes to this too. people don’t want to tell you anything that happens in case it Ruins the Surprise #i’m going to be generous and say that maybe these posts were written for a small circle of people and i am not in that conversation #but it’s something i see all the fucking time from like. everyone i know #i don’t taken reccs from my sibling or their gf anymore lol #like. boiling something down to ‘it’s gay so it’s your duty to watch it’ makes it feel like a chore #the last time i listened to that argument was years ago bc everyone was talking about steven universe #which like. was mediocre imo. i don’t think i’d ever have watched it otherwise but i didn’t hate it #i never really felt a spark of ‘oh i like this’ but i kept making myself keep up with it because I Had To #like don’t get me wrong. i will probably watch this show bc i love the 40s aesthetic #but y’all are doing it and yourselves no favors by talking about things in this way #i very much DO like purple but i’m gonna need a little more information first #mine

[lovefromkelly]

ok the past few years I’ve spent enough time around protestants (marrying pastors son) to confirm what I always knew: catholics are so much more chill than y’all fr

#catholic priests wanted to commit all those crimes but in return they made it so ‘ehhh nothings really that bad u can get forgiven easily’ #but protestants are like oh no demons are fr and witches were out of control in the 90s #I grew up only knowing Jewish people and catholic people so as a result I am BAFFLED by people #being like oh Catholics are so intense like mass is more formulaic yeah but you believe in the rapture happening rn! #and weed puts demons in u!! #literally have been doing an informal poll w Catholics in my life bc my husband didn’t believe me and they’ve all been like #yeah demons were not mentioned once wtf y’all think that was LITERAL??? #crazy shit!!!!!!!!!!! #anyway #I have GOT to talk to more Catholics again I miss us #thinking about this cause I read Marrying the Ketchups and realized how much I loved reading it written by a Catholic! #the narrative of Catholics being intense and protestants being chill is just bc they have acoustic guitar but guess what! #they have their songs memorized and we don’t!

[void-tiger]

There is just this rage that comes with realizing your body is just completely fucked while still outwardly looking Fine.

And then garnering the judgement of family who have convinced themselves you’re not trying hard enough.

And still waiting for a finished diagnosis to try petitioning for life-long physical therapy, pain management (that are NOT opioids when you can’t take nsaids, and you’re deemed too young for steroid injections especially as it is never brought up as an option), and ssi disability. Because what else are you gonna do. Especially when you’ll always be a burden. Capitalistic life isn’t designed to allow you to rest so you can still do Something within your limitations and not get injured, anyway. Or have energy left for yourself.

(No one is really clever enough to help, either. Is it even worth the risk to try contacting rehabilitation services when you need to stay on medicaid for a eventually-debilitating auto immune disease that has to have very expensive injections twice a month, all the while it’s the hypermobility that makes even being a student or hobbies or chores so iffy?)

And then trying to befriend some people. But there’s this wall there. They radiate concern. Sometimes affection. But I don’t want pity. (I don’t know how to accept actual sympathy to my face by their vibes and tone and body language, anyway.) I just want secure friendships. I just want—for once in my adult life, or my life period if including neurodivergence’s and the resulting cptsd from not even remotely accepting environments—to not be my Problems. Someone else’s Problem.

I just want to be human. I want to have fun and feel capable and not blunderingly or intentionally reminded that I’m not.

(Am I even worth being someone not pitied? Not judged? Will I ever be fun?)

#tiger’s roar #mental health bullshit #chronically ill #my wellness class is. such bullshit. #BUT. there is SOME new information that’s not this Yuppy Preachy Judgemental Fuckery #like how weight bearing is how you build up bone density to fight boneloss later in life #and…I CAN’T. my tendons will literally slide on and off my joints or grind in my joints #even something as simple as bending and looking up ‘too much’ #risks throwing my neck out and triggering migraines #and making my cartilage lower ribs pop and float around #(like. I can literally feel it. just sitting or walking. I always have. I assumed it was Just A Runner���s Cramp Or Something. it’s not) #if I breathe too deeply for a doctor’s office my guts squelch. and make my ribs ‘fold’ around #…I just. I just feel like the glass doll my parents always insisted I was by not letting me do anything #(while also ignoring the first signs of hypermobility. like my tendons sliding off my knuckes. my feet clicking. hips & shoulders grinding) #and i hate this #and if this family who I desperately want to connect with. who’s son I’m pretty sure I’m infatuated with #ACTUALLY care about me. don’t see me as a Concern Project #…just be my friend. don’t demand I open up. please just. get to know me. #because right now all y’all know is that I sing and write and paint + clearly mentally and chronically ill. #and probably try far too hard to be helpful and encouraging #but what I really want is for people to be playful with me. co conspirators with projects #(spend time with me Away from a church building. talk to me more than a minute once a week.)

[seventh-district]

vent post pt. 2, the dreaded sequel

#Seven’s Public Diary #vent #vent post #cw vent #cw vent post #okay the ‘never ever wanted to die’ part isn’t exactly true. i just don’t count how i felt from the ages of 12-15 or so #because that was a very strange time where i’m honestly not sure how much of what i felt was even real or honest #and how much of it was really just a kid needing help and expressing it very poorly #but from 15/16 onward or whatever exact age i was when i had my whole ‘oh holy fuck i really really don’t want to die’ crisis/awakening #from then i’ve always been vehemently on the side of life and wanting to live as long as i possibly can #which is interesting because things have done nothing but get exponentially worse and more difficult for me ever since #but smthn shifted in me when i realized Oh Fuck I Actually Want To Live and that desire has yet to be defeated #but anyways enough bragging about how much i don’t want to die lmao #it really does feel like bragging since it’s obvious to me that so many other people don’t feel that way #and i hate that. i wish no one ever had to deal with feeling that bad and death being the only thing their mind jumps to as a solution #sigh. anyways #i regret to inform y’all so i’m making this little announcement in these tags where hopefully no one will even see it lmao #but uh. unfortunately i’ll probably be delaying all of my creative endeavors for the next little bit #until i take care of the pressing real life issues that are weighing me down and until i am in a better environment #that will actually be conducive to my creativity instead of me struggling to make things while also struggling to just. like… live. y’know #and i know it’s not like there’s really anyone out there on the edge of their seat to consume anything i make #but this little announcement is more for myself than anyone else i guess. i have to almost force myself/give myself permission #to stop working on my various projects. and instead work on getting all of my irl ducks in a row. and get to a place where i feel safe(er) #because i’m really working against myself right now. cart before the horse almost. #so caught up in personal projects and future dreams that i’m ignoring the current growing issues in my day to day life #and i’ve done good in the later half of this year at beginning to tackle them one by one #but driving and potentially moving out of things don’t change here are the two biggest ones that i’ve yet to face #so i really have to accept that i need to change those and as a byproduct of that- stop dividing my attention onto so many other things #so my usual snail-pace of writing and video making (even tho the video making has mostly been behind the scenes work thus far) #is going to screech to an almost-halt while i focus on personal stuff. and next year should be much better as a result

[pyjamacryptid]

my mother is a well of abrupt information triggered like a motion sensor (affectionate).

I have to walk past the lounge room to get to the kitchen and each time, I expect the unexpected. she senses movement and suddenly you hear from the couch, “they’re finally doing a study on that immune-suppressant medication!” (you’re not told what the medication is called) or “this was cary grant’s last film” (you are not told what film it is). sometimes it’s nice fun facts! other times, I’m scarred by knowledge I am now burdened with. she’s like a pop-up window or an unskippable youtube ad. a cutscene you can’t pause.

let’s just say today was a Burdened By Unbearable Knowedge Day.

#i cannot stress how much this is said with affection #exasperation too. but affection #I’m not complaining. I’m just idk journaling?? blogging??? on the Blogging Website #I love my mum y’all don’t get me wrong pls #anyway I was minding my business just now #needed some water #I’m doing my assignment and needed to be hyped #instead I got blindsided by awful information I want to bleach from my brain #because now I’m just bummed out and heartbroken #on behalf of the victims #(it was a true crime case) #i won’t get into it but yeah #ANYWAY BACK TO MY ASSIGNMENT #pyjama fam #ren rambles #ren.txt #text post

[c-nan]

#my vote 10000% goes to all i ever wanted 🥰 #but they’re all straight bangers #pls vote <3 #most of her most famous songs are on breakaway (like since you’ve been gone. because of you. walk away. breakaway (obv). etc) #miss independent is on thankful #underneath the tree is on wrapped in red #my life would suck without you + already gone is on all i ever wanted #stronger (what doesn’t kill you) is on stronger #<- so is mr. know it all #<- and also dark side #piece by piece + heartbeat song is on piece by piece #not sure what’s popular on meaning of life but love so soft is on that one (<3) #christmas isn’t cancelled is on when christmas comes around #never again is on my december (haven’t listened to a lot of that album i do love haunted tho) #ANYWAY #y’all not have enough information to vote so VOTE PLEASE!! :D #kelly clarkson #polls