#anonhat

[apple-salad]

Well, it's not holiday time anymore, but here's a holiday themed outfit I wore earlier this month for afternoon tea at the Ritz. (It’s also red and Lunar New Year, so...) I had been looking for this dress for a few years and obtained it a few months ago, so I'm both happy to have it and wear it! The red velveteen material lends a lovely richness to the relatively simple cut, which I also coorded rather simply. However...this dress is quite notorious for color transfer in this colorway. I was aware of it, so I chose a pink-toned blouse so any possible transfer wouldn't be too distressing😫 I've also tried 3 soaks in dye fixative type solutions, which has helped a little, but I think there's just something about the material JetJ chose to use that makes it want to transfer on rubbing.

JSK (Fille Aristocrate): Juliette et Justine Blouse, Jacket: Mary Magdalene Hat: Anonhat (Japanese indie brand) Shoes: Fluevog Socks: offbrand

#lolita fashion #classic lolita #juliette et justine #mary magdalene jp #daily coordinate #fille aristocrate #fluevog #john fluevog #baroque rubens #anonhat #velveteen lolita

[endonp-no-d]

the demedicalization of disorders is going to kill people.

Anon, tell me, what made you jump to such an extreme conclusion and feel the need to drop the unlikely into the inbox of a person just trying to exist peacefully in their own space?

What is making you act out in these ways, to someone who has explained their points and beliefs already?

The de-medicalization of things such as personality based and system based disorders won't kill people. Same with autism or adhd.

Yes, there are limits to what can and cannot be de-medicalized, that might have severe problems if it was tried. Yeah, duh. But how about you go back and re-read our posts about us and how we live life.

Also, it's clear you ran out of argument points because you resorted to a very extreme situation to try and win the battle you're losing.

#anonhaters #anons #ask #endo npd #actually endo #endogenic #narc #np no d #endo system #plural system #plurality #endo safe #npd #narcissist #narcissistic #narcmeds #sysmeds #narcissistic personality #endo narc #demedicalized disorders #demedicalization #demedicalized npd #demedicalized system #demedicalized autism

[fannyrosie]

Last weekend, @apple-salad invited me to her amazing Rococo Bouquet afternoon tea. Victorian Maiden released many versions and cuts of their Rococo Bouquet series over the years, and I own the Bustle Long Skirt (2011 edition) and the Mermaid skirt (2007 edition), both in blue flowers.

Pictures of the afternoon tea and Rococo Bouquet group HERE

Outfit rundown Skirt: second-hand Victorian Maiden Bolero: second-hand Mary Magdalene Blouse: The Floral Notebook Shoes: second-hand Innocent World (they died completely after those pictures) Bag: second-hand Mary Magdalene Hat: Anonhat Cameo: vintage Wedgwood Brooch: Axes Femme Earrings: vintage Gloves: vintage

#fashion #egl #ega #classiclolita #lolitafashion #vintage #vintage style #vintage fashion #victorian maiden #rococo bouquet #mary magdalene #historybounding #second-hand fashion #slow fashion #long hairstyles #historical hairstyles #classic makeup #fanny rosie #fannyrosie #florals #bustle

[he1chouarts]

You are amazing and so is your art. Long live Commander Handsome and his twunk boyfriend. Yup, I called Levi a twunk.

Ps.: I hope the anonhater get railed by a fucking train.

Oh my goodness, you are very sweet, thank you!! Mostly in cases like this I just hope whatever horrible aspect of anon’s life that compels them to be so awful and miserable toward others is changed for the better. For everyone’s sake.

It’s regrettable that this is happening to anyone, but I’m at least lucky that it’s predominately hate in my Google form, which has remained mostly dormant for the past couple months anyway. Thankfully, it seems tumblr peeps are a lot gentler and more subdued, in that they don’t feel the need to…stalk people and anonymously call them horrific slurs? Crazy, I know!

Actually, I have a few eruri friends who are getting it a lot worse than I am, or have ever, really. Authors posting new fics to the ao3 tag are being barraged with ugly ranting comments often laced with misogynistic slurs, ageism, and more. These comments are typically quietly deleted as authors try desperately to moderate their own spaces and experiences, so you won’t necessarily see them, but it’s definitely been going around. I would maybe gently encourage anyone reading this to drop an ask of support into the inbox of your favorite fic authors or fan artists. Perhaps revisit an old favorite fic and leave a kind comment, just something to let them know they’re appreciated. It’s not like we’re out here changing the world with our silly flights of fancy, but a constant wave of hate, however misplaced and bizarre, can still chip away at even tough exteriors.

Sorry to make this lengthy, anon. I’m super grateful for your kindness and will do what I can to pass it along today! (*^ω^*)

#stanswers #anon #anonymous #answered #eruri

[hypertextdog]

hows the anonhater going any luck on finding it

not a word since i blocked em all those weeks ago... :( and my blocklist and follower/following lists didnt update either. SAD

[gloom-and-doom-in-my-room]

Trolls and Anonhaters need to get lives.

[32ki]

Antique jacket coord

OP, Petticoat: Victorian Maiden

Jacket: antique

Hat: anonhat

#classic lolita #lolita fashion #fashion #lolitafashion #victorian #classiclolita #antique #dress #jacket #hat #victorian maiden #victorianmaiden #anonhat #outfit #wardrobe

[mademoiselle-iona]

Long time no post! Here’s a recent coord I put together to have afternoon tea with friends last weekend.

OP: Innocent World Hat: Anonhat Necklace: Alice and the Pirates Everything else offbrand

#lolita fashion #classic lolita #mademoiselle iona #innocent world #anonhat #alice and the pirates #aatp #lolita

[spookenings]

yeah.

(from top, left to right):

Fallon Starhorn, Christopher Dragonblood,

Heather Frost, Scarlet Ghostmask, Christopher Dragonmask,

AnonHat, Christopher Dragonfriend, Brand Brand.

#wizard101 #wizard101 oc #wizard101 meme

[apple-salad]

Another photo of @thecherryline and I from the Halloween meet! Pink circus stripes energy 💕

All items Angelic Pretty except for hat (anonhat [Japanese indie brand], ribbon was modified) and tights (offbrand). Peplum is handmade.

Cherry is wearing a main piece from Pinkly Ever After❤

#lolita fashion #angelic pretty #magic girl star #sweet lolita #daily coordinate #pinkly ever after #magician #magical girl #anonhat

[endonp-no-d]

Npd is also caused by how the brain is wired and genetics

Schizophrenia and other disorders like psychosis often are genetic as well!

What i am saying is, you having narcissism not stemming from trauma is a lot more common than you may realize. It doesn't make it special, you can look it up.

Not trying to be mean, but you're kind of invalidating people with npd who got it via genetics by making it sound like a choice (not saying your faking! I do believe you)

However it still is a disorder

Nowhere did I say it was a choice or that it was special, and I'm identifying in a way that makes me comfortable in myself and how I feel better describes my experiences and my own life.

Don't try and dictate my own choices and how I define myself. You do not have that kind of authority, no one does. So fuck off 🤎

Again, my life my terms. And I'm trying to create a safe space for others who might want to identify the same as me, which..... Having community and some to relate to is a good thing.

It's not offensive or invalidating to others, and if Narcmeds would stop harassing me and sending me death threats for giving myself a term that feels good and choosing to identify as de-medicalized that would be great.

People can exist and identity however they want to, if they don't want to be seen as disordered or medical, then thats their own choice. It hurts fuckin nobody, unless you're a petty bitch online who thinks you can control other people............

#anonhaters #anons #ask #npd #endo npd #actually npd #npd research #npd stigma #np no d #endo narc #actually endo #endogenic #narc #endo safe #narcissist #narcissistic #narcmeds

[fannyrosie]

Brume et pierres anciennes

That August day, I discovered the Montreal melon during my visit of the Lachine museum, and it became an obsession for the few following days. I'll make a separate post HERE for those who don't care about my historical nerding.

Outfit rundown Linen dress: second-hand Seraphim Knit cape: second-hand Fint Hat: Anonhat Shoes: old Clarks Bag: second-hand Axes Femme Wedgwood brooch: thrifted Globe and shiitake brooches: Design Festa Flower comb: won at a raffle (no brand?) Ring: vintage

#fashion #vintage #vintage style #vintage fashion #jfashion #cottagecore #historybounding #historical fashion #seraphim #fint #long hairstyles #makeup look #historical architecture #nouvelle-france #second-hand fashion #alternative fashion #sustainable fashion #fanny rosie #fannyrosie

[wildwomanradfem]

When you are 29 years old, it is your sixth blog in tumblr after years of experience and you receive an anonhater

#me #im old for this shit

[k-renne]

@anonhater no, no by all means speak your mind YOU GOT A PROBLEM W MY GIRL?? piece of shit

me and my almost 3k followers are gonna hunt this bitch down and KNOCK THEIR ASS OUT!!! Also ily alexia ♥️♥️💗

#reply

[bububun]

I’m sorry this outfit doesn’t totally fit my feed but I really liked it! I haven’t worn this dress in forever. I got so many compliments on it at Design Festa (thank you @mulberry_chronicles for making such a cute design!!) I also wore one of my hats from @anonhat_asakokiyosawa and I think it brought me luck in being able to buy another. Can’t wait to wear the new one I got soon. Should I post a haul of what I bought at Design Festa? I went for quality over quantity this year for sure 👌🏻 #mushroomdress #anonhat #starblinc #tokyofashion #ootdsocialclub #fancyhat #retrofashion #retroinspired #vintagestyle #vintageinspired #60sfashion #50sfashion #iwasborninthewrongera #quirkyfashion #indiefashion #luxyhairextensions https://ift.tt/37pNeCQ

#IFTTT #Instagram

[sohotthateveryonedied]

SEXISM IS BAD. No matter whether it's directed at men or women, you're a decent sensible well balanced person and that's why you realise that! Ignore the anonhaters, they're clearly not capable of being on your level. Also I love all your posts and I will fite them for your honour!

Thanks 🙂