Cringe culture is unfortunately not dead but we can kill it in major spaces if we all keep being ourselves authentically and unapologetically. What they call "cringe" is actually pretty punk. It's defiance. Keep being yourselves, you're ALLOWED to exist as you are.
a reminder that the host isn’t the only person in the system who should be respected and made to feel comfortable.
the host is not ‘the important part’, we are all completely conscious and capable of our own thoughts, feelings and our own boundaries. our brain created us because it decided that we are all important and needed.
the host is not the only member of a system you should care about.
have you ever felt so blurry and dissociative you ignore all system shit simply to exist but Simply Existing hurts because ears ringing head hurts everything is tingly nothing is real and everyone i interact with feels like a stranger and a friend at the same time to the point where people interacting with me and talking to me like they know and are close with me is weird but i also dont feel like someone else and people who dont know youre a system arent even aware you Dont Feel Real so you feel gross whenever they look at you and i feel like nothing and everything andOh hey is that the solar eclipse
to those who may think so: having DID is not fun. its not quirky or cute, IT IS A DISORDER CAUSED BY CHILDHOOD TRAUMA. im sick of people treating us like a joke
plurality is like werewolfism. youre standing in walgreens and you look out the window and catch sight of the moon at the wrong angle and the back of your head starts tingling and you're like aw fuck ive gotta get out of here before the Transformation hits
i think our funniest fakeclaiming experience is when someone said we’re not a system because we’re not transmasc 💀 the did leaving our body when we use she/it
I would never usually talk about this but i feel like traumatized people deserve to be seen.
If you have osdd/did and don't see doctors out of fear, you're valid.
If you have osdd/did and you HAVE to see doctors because your medical problems from trauma caused you to be disabled, you're valid.
If your disability and how it affected your life is what may have lead to the diagnoses and trauma, especially medical wise, you're valid.
Basically.. anything medical positive or negative that involves you're trauma and diagnoses, you're valid. I only say this because I've learned that our years of stress has caused numerous medical problems (non threatening!) and we feel a lot of our medical issues and how it traumatizes, stresses us out makes us invalid.
Just a reminder that alters that genuinely just want to hurt everyone are real and valid.
Not every persecutor/aggressive alter are “misguided”, some genuinely know what they are doing and want whats worst for the system, and while its not okay, its valid. Its okay to have alters like that, it does not make you any less of a valid system.