#beingreal

[aromeanti]

Realness Revealed

As a young, introverted homebody, I'm pretty active on social media, where I find comfort in all sorts of interesting content. I often watch like 3-5 vids of these super talented influencers, straight outta a fashion mag, which sometimes makes me feel like I'm living in a different universe from them. But then I stumble upon videos of regular folks, just like you and me, showing their unfiltered daily lives: a girl doing a makeup tutorial showing off her unshaved armpits, a dude living in a modest setup but still rocking his passion for styling with what he's got, or even a girl going solo for activities like picnics or camping. Those vids seem to be a subtle reminder of a reality we often dodge, hinting that real life, imperfect as it is, can still be beautiful.

In a way, those videos made me realize the beauty around us and encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone. I mean, I used to never dare to sit alone at a restaurant or café, always opting for takeout, but now I allow myself a good half hour or two at a café, just soaking in the vibe with my sketchbook by my side.

#SocialMediaComfort #InfluencerLife #RealVsOnline #SteppingOutOfComfortZone #SelfAcceptance #BeingReal

[quotelix]

Life is not about being rich, popular, highly educated, or even being perfect. It’s about being real, being humble, and being kind.

We might temporarily impress people by being fake, but we can permanently impact people by being real.

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#quotelix #beingreal #motivation #quotes #lifequotes #love #positivity #motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #quoteoftheday #positive #betherealyou #motivational #selfrespectquotes #mindthoughts #stayawayfromnegativity #inspriation #real #inspire #respectyourself #selfrespect #reallifequotes

[sayorei]

we are so hurt by people crossing the boundaries that we don’t make an effort to defend.

Boundaries are one of the most important things in a relationship- be it romantic, platonic, whatever. You need communication, and you need to make it clear where the line is drawn on certain things. There are many people who cross these lines, not caring that you’ve set them- but most of the time, they’re crossing them because you’ve let them.

I, personally, am very prone to self-pity. When something happens, my mindset is more like “why is this happening to me i hate this oh my goodness” rather than thinking it through fully. And sometimes, it’s okay to be overwhelmed by problems. But in specific scenarios, I feel bad for myself because people are crossing the lines that I haven’t set properly.

For example, my friends at one point used to make fun of my religion all the time, even seeing that it bothered me. I’m a very funny person, I’m not necessarily sure if they took it in a “oh she’s just jokinggg” manner or if they legitametly didn’t care what I felt- but regardless, I was FURIOUS. Why were they going out of their way to bother me just because of what I believe? It’s not like I’m forcing it on anyone, it’s not like I even TALK about it to them. And this is the mindset I lived in, why me, why me, why me. I am not special. I’m not the only one who has been made fun of. But I lived in this sorrow and pity and despair, without ever reinforcing my boundaries.

I had mentioned that it wasn’t funny at one point, but that wasn’t enough for them. I needed to be REAL with them: you will stop making fun of my religion, and if that’s too big of a challenge for you, I’m not interested in continuing the friendship. I never did. And even if I did, the girl I was at that time would never reestablish that. Even if they did it again, I would get angry and forgive it and forget it.

You see, if I actually made this clearer, I think they would’ve stopped. But that doesn’t matter- even if they didn’t, I could have rid myself of that pain and frustration and “what’s wrong with me? what’s wrong with my religion?” and dodged a lot of other issues. So this is what I ask you- do you take care of your boundaries? Do you treat them well?

#boundaries #philosophy #philo thoughts #self care #relationship #communication #beingreal

[somepinkflowers]

{{ 👉🏽You are trying the right amount.👈🏽 #secretmessage for some peeps I know. 👋🏽☺️🌸🌸🌸 #somepinkflowers 🌸 #spf2023artjournal 📖 #spfcreates2015 🌸 #journalpage 🌸 #slowliving 🌱🌱🌱 #lifelessons 🌸🐇 #beingme 🌱🌸 #beingreal 🌱 #beingpresent 🌸 🙏🏽 (at Saint Augustine, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpm_cnBOhRm/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#secretmessage #somepinkflowers #spf2023artjournal #spfcreates2015 #journalpage #slowliving #lifelessons #beingme #beingreal #beingpresent

[mermaidgirl1990]

💗💗💗 #facebookstatus #beingreal #honestyiskey https://www.instagram.com/p/CnqkTQQMfDEbxbwyV-K_x1wLKI4XMExqPRON8c0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#facebookstatus #beingreal #honestyiskey

[thetunesclub]

Get Indulged in The Song 'Being Real' by the Artist Carlito Panama   

#beingreal #carlitopanama #latesthiphoptrack #spotifymusic

[rudratattwam]

#thoughts #thoughtsinwords #thoughtful #beingstrong #beingme #beingreal https://www.instagram.com/p/CfvpszwLFzk/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#thoughts #thoughtsinwords #thoughtful #beingstrong #beingme #beingreal

[ushirominya]

did you know? in 2012 the world was supposed to end on December 21st which happens to be my birthday. so i was 12 and really paranoid all day and ready to die at any moment LOL

#vinyo.log #i remember it beingreally cloudy that day and i was like 'surely this must be it' #da 'pocalypse

[beetrootsoupdragon]

hmmm.

#vent in tags #turns out my only friend is actually really ableist and queerphobic #like i guess i should have realised that when she called me a slur #but i just excused it #like i excused her being really mean to me #like theres a line between playful joking and trying to insult the other person #and she made a joke abt me being autistic (bad joke to make) so i told her i actually was autistic and she was weird around me the rest of #the day but then near the end she started beingreally rude to me #including saying something like “i have too small of a mental capasity to be a good friend” or something #and like #shes never said anything like this until i told her i was autistic #plus she has always been weird abt me not using excact labels and just referring to my gender and sexuality in general terms #and she was really really weird abt me being trans #and she was so weird when she found out abt my sh #and i actually hate being around her #she makes me feel so bad abt myself wtff #i put up with it bcs i have no other friends #we're not a good friendship bcs she wants so much more from me than i can give and she refuses to give anything back #idk what to do abt it bcs there is. no way ill be able to just stop talking to her #shes really good at forcing me to spend time with her #idk shes actually really manipulative

[trendfag]

WHAT SHOULD I EAT YODAYYYYY

#i need to go home anyway so i should find something there probably…but that would be like a pbj LMAO i dont really want that if im beingreal #i have $7 cash and $9 in a bank account that rarely has money in it not my main one so…

[kafkaguy]

looking at rick danko: i wish I was a man

looking at joan baez: i wish I was a woman

there's no punchline to this these are just my thoughts #beingreal

[kkcard85]

" yas - this song as been stuck in my head for days now but be the vibes I've been feeling or just because it's a good song nothing but #beingreal "

𝘗.𝘚: 𝘔𝘺 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘫𝘢𝘮𝘮𝘺 𝘫𝘢𝘮𝘴 🥰

#positive vibes #feelings #music #lovecore #true words #Spotify

[shellxrls]

i’ll probably send the other two later (i’m out rn) but i’m so curious about this 🩰 xoxo

sorry for taking a while to get to this, i was reading john b smut 💀💀. #beingreal.

okay so for the first one, i’m not sure if this song necessarily resonates with you as a person, but for some reason i feel like you’d enjoy it solely based on your vibe (and also the men you thirst after if i’m being honest 😭) . it’s called devil on my back, and it’s by chrissy.

i’m gonna give you two more now cuz i feel like the first one was more a rec than your vibe.

1. goth by sidewalks and skeletons — very crystal castles esque, reminds me of your themes (both the last and current one), it’s just a cool song and i think you’re a cool person so it makes sense in my mind?

2. tastes like honey by swallow — i think this is a very unique song, the music itself is a bit grating and i would definitely say it might take a few listens to rlly understand it, but i personally find it very enjoyable and i think when all the elements of the song are put together (the lyrics, the vocals, etc alongside the more harsh sounds) it does end up sounding rlly nice ! reminds me a lot of how you have darker kinks and aren’t afraid to experiment and be really creative and unique with your ideas, something which i admire a lot and honestly rlly love reading !!

honourable mention to ethel cain, i rlly wanted to mention her somewhere but i knew if i kept adding songs i’d never stop, and i also wanted to provide less known options for you <3.

#asks.ᐟ ⋆｡˚𖦹 #;faetreides #;obx celebration #🩰

[lola-23s-blog]

It is better to have an enemy who honestly says they hate you than to have a friend who’s putting you down secretly.

#fakefriends #talkshit #beingreal

[horuizon]

#BeingReal i wish i had a mother or father figure more than anything i should not be melting every time an adult shows me kindness. being called sweetheart or baby by anyone older than 40 will always make me take physical damage HaHa