#endosafe

[countingsheepsys]

Being plural just feels like tomodachi life irl at times

#plurality #endo safe #plural community #plural system #actually plural #pluralgang #endosafe #pro endo #plural

[optimisticpython]

is "I love you guys" to plurals what "I love myself" is to singlets?

#plural #plural culture is #actually plural #plural system #plurality #pluralgang #system #system stuff #traumagenic system #anti endos dni #endosafe #endo safe #pro endo #endogenic #endo friendly #traumaendo #self love #healing

[countless-users]

I hate syscourse btw but like what is the problem with saying an alter is non-verbal?? some of our brainpals are nonverbal nd we think its a fine term? nonverbal quite literally means "not verbal / incapable of being verbal" so what's the issue with alters using it???

-- sonnet

#endogenic #endosafe #multiplicity #plural community #plural system #endo safe #sysblr #pro endo #healthy multiplicity #anti endo dni #plurality #syscourse #actually plural #plural

[guardianssystem]

Okay, hello! We have really never used Tumblr before, well, this week (for all you "you're from Tumblr" folk) but here we go!

We are a traumagenic DID system with severe CPTSD and PTSD. Our collective pronouns are phe/phex/phins, based off the word "phoenix", and yes you can use them, we have been posted on LibsOfTikTok and been harrassed for them. We have autism, ADHD, NPD, BPD, MADD, and a couple other things (a lot of it led to each other.) We're also legally blind and yes us needing glasses is a disability, we currently have undiagnosed breathing issues, and we have seizures, usually as a response to trauma. We're gay, an adult, Elfkin/Angelkin/Fallenkin/Deitykin/Alienkin, a femboy, transmasc, and some form of intersex :)

We currently live in New Zealand, and we're "NZ European," although we're not entirely sure where our family comes from. Some were Romani, a lot were Bulgarian, some were Celtic, apparently? We hope to look into it further at some some point.

We currently live with our abusers! We hope to move out by the end of 2023, when our mother's legal control over us ends (she has control because we're disabled, also yay.) Until then, we live at home in a single small room with our husband @theharbingerofxhaos . We can't get a job because we're considered a danger to the workplace, so we're relying on our wife's benefit to live until we're able to get on our own (love you Chaos xoxoxoxo)

We stream on Twitch sometimes! We hope to post art on BlueSky and used to post on DeviantArt! We post about plurality on Twitter, we post about Otherkinity on Reddit, we post about real life shit on Instagram, and we post what's supposed to be cosplay on TikTok! You can almost always find us under GuardiansSystem.

Uhh - we write stuff, we draw stuff, we cosplay sometimes, we walk around dressed as a goth, we own really dumb cats, we used to do.. a lot of dance, we sing, we guess? We might start SW stuff in the future, too. We hope to properly study psychology at some point, and we're doing some on-and-off psychology stuff right now, but money.

And we guess we should mention this, but we support, well, stuff that other folks might not support, we've never really specified exactly everything we support and what we're against. We don't have a DNI except for those really annoying kids who go "not reading all that" (mostly /s, but please don't waste our time :(

We will specify, however, that we do support mspec lesbians/gays and pronouns not equaling gender, because no, they aren't hurting anyone, and yes, they've been in history forever, and no, mspec does not mean male-spectrum, and yes, being against them is being against plurality as they're a part of nearly every system even of you don't realise it. And yes, we used "plurality" because being anti-endogenic systems and non-traumagenic plurality is racist and endorsing colonisation.

That's all we can think of, so a little intro for our alters at the time of writing this, since we've never done it before. Not complete list, we don't name some trauma holders and our littles :)

-alters-

Ash: they/them, 16, a cloud. They're a little strange and probably won't be around a lot.

Austin: he/him, 23, basically a Lizardfolk thing from a very specific D&D game, protector. He's a common fronter, overly serious, and also not serious.

Avira: dae/daem/thay/thayme, 14k, a ghost, protector. Incredibly ADHD, won't be online a lot.

Crimson: red/reds, 22, "Royal Dragon Celestial" (no, we don't know what it means either), persecutor. Bit of a dick, really, but can be pretty sweet, just please, don't annoy them. Also incredibly femboy gay.

Desmond: he/him, 27, a variation of Desmond from Assassin's Creed in that he describes himself as a "Templar God," protector/persecutor. A little bit stupid, has horrible dress sense, tells everyone he's straight when he really is not.

Elliot: he/him, 29, he's Elliot from Stardew Valley and looks identical, protector. Very serious, no fun, very autistic.

Katharos: xe/xyr/xyrself, 27, a Fallen Angel (profile picture), old host for a long time, persecutor. Doesn't come out a lot due to some undisclosed reasons, can be sweet or very rude.

Khaos: dre/dren, 16, Abyssal Dragon, protector. Very, very hyper, no filter at all.

Lotor: he/him/her (not she), 10k+/ageless, we had a horrifically intense hyperfixation on Voltron Legendary Defender for years and this is the result, caretaker. Overly serious but can be fun sometimes, not a fan of his source material.

Marcus: he/him, 38, Moon Knight, persecutor. Very stupid, blunt, rude, and an asshole (and the one writing this)

Nightsong: she/they, 48 or 4000, an altered demon-y factive from our past life, protector. Incredibly blunt and dresses in a very revealing fashion.

Rakan: he/him/nyc/nycto, 39, Hellhound, protector/persecutor. Tiny bit stupid, very sweet, very protective, and very gay.

Sombra: voi/void/voids, 32, floating piece of void that looks sort of like a biblically accurate angel, gatekeeper, and maybe current host. Original asshole, nicknamed asshole, very much assholy.

Tim(e): he/him, ageless, an altered angel-like factive from our past life, self-helper. Very autistic.

Tristan: it/its, 16, an ocean and also somehow Scandroid's cover of Thriller, gatekeeper of our non-traumagenic subsystem. Hyper, strange, doesn't front a lot.

Zalaph: lun/luna/lunself, ageless, a shadow, persecutor. Hasn't been out a lot but very lesbian.

Okay thanks, goodnight, going to bed o/

-Marcus

#otherkin #npd #bpd #angelkin #pluralgang #plurality #endogenic #elfkin #godkin #deitykin #traumagenic #did #osdd #osddid #endosafe #neopronouns #xenogender #system #introduction #therian #alterhuman #adhd #autism #autistic #plural

[the-menage-system]

In-sys relationships are the bomb. Literally the best.

- 💥 Kai (Ask pronouns)

#The Ménage System #endo safe #endo safe space #pro endo #endogenic safe #endogenic safe space #endogenic friendly #endosafe #in system relationship #insys relationship

[princess-of-novoselic-stims]

Bisexual Sonia Nevermind Icons!

Requested by?: Me!

Notes: These are my first icons for this blog, since I didn't have much ideas I just did some based off of me!

#danganronpa #sonia nevermind #danganronpa icons #icons #pride icons #bisexual icon #bisexual #pfp #fictive #fictive icons #danganronpa fictive #endo safe #endogenic friendly #endosafe #endogenic safe #pro endo #actually plural #plural community #plural system #pluralgang

[sysbullshit]

HELLO TUMBLR I HAVE A DISCOVERY

who was going to tell me people went to hooters to objectify women. i thought that's just how sport bars dressed people. on an unrelated noted i discovered i am in fact graysexual.

#graysexual #greya #grey ace #gray ace #graya #greysexual #asexual #acesexual #system #osdd #endosafe #osdd system

[hatchlingsnest]

Can yous help me find nice blogs for smalls?

helloes! I’m a little! I’m looking for other little or little postive spaces  but!

They have to follow these rules as my big says no.

-No syscourse

-No  Sysmedicalist, Transmedicalists

- no kink

Can you helps?  Also please don’t be means, I’m only five. :c

#little #syskid #anti endos dni #endosafe #we're not endogenic #but we're not meanies #so please don't be means. :c

[anti-endo-haven]

Not the same anon but we could use the endo terms list to block /nf

All the tags we have blocked, the tags that mention RAMCOA/OEA things are under a cut but also highly recommend blocking!

endo

endo safe

endosafe

endogenic

endogenic system

endos interact

pro endo

proendo

pro rq 🌈🍓

pro rq🌈🍓

prorq 🌈🍓

prorq🌈🍓

pro rq

prorq

proradqueer

radqueer

radqueer coining

rq

rq 🌈🍓

rq🌈🍓

tulpagenic

tulpasystem

nontraumagenicsystem

nontraumagenic system

transharmed

transHarmed

trans harmed

trans Harmed

transid

transID

transid coining

transOEA

transoea

transRAMCOA

transramcoa

transCSA

transcsa

transProgrammed

transProgrammer

transprogrammed

transprogrammer

#anti endo #did system #system #osddid #traumagenic system #endos dni #actually did #endos not for you #actually traumagenic #did plural #did plurality #osdd plural #osdd plurality #tag blocklist #ramcoa #tbmc did #ramcoa survivor #tbmc survivor #oea survivor #oea

[countingsheepsys]

I feel so bad for DSMP introjects. They had to deal with so much garbage from both the plural community and those outside it just for existing. If there are any that is reading this, I hope you are having a good day/night and that you are taking care of yourself. Hydrate. Love yourself. Because you deserve it. ^-^

- Luci

#plurality #endo safe #plural community #actually plural #plural system #endosafe #pluralgang #pro endo #plural #introject #fictive

[optimisticpython]

Sometimes I forget that if I need to talk to someone and no one that I want to talk to is around, I can talk to myself.

#plural #plural culture is #actually plural #plural system #plurality #pluralgang #system #dissociative system #system stuff #endo safe #pro endo #endo friendly #endogenic #anti endos fuck off #endosafe

[countless-users]

finding systems that aren't anti endo is kind of difficult. Just a reminder to everyone WE ARE ENDOGENIC!!! AND PROUD OF IT!!

~maxxie

#sysblr #multiplicity #plural system #plural community #endogenic #endosafe

[guardianssystem]

hey 0/

saw your response and so here's my attempt to describe what being a median system is/means (from our experience and knowledge, if anyone wants to correct things here or add on feel free :D)

median, when refering to plurality or systemhood, is a descriptor for how a system functions or presents generally. there are two main, often overlapping definitions. i'll be using the words system and parts respectively throughout this as thats how we talk about ourselves but they can be substituted with plural or any other similar terms (or none at all) and headmate/person/alter/facet.

the first 'definition' of median, is a system whose parts are all quite similar, generally like different versions of the same person but they can be quite similar in other ways. this is distinct from 'multiple systems/plurals' (systems and the like who aren't median) as generally those systems experience a reasonably high level of difference between parts. (like how you hear a lot of systems saying they are multiple people in one body, it implies that there's a decent amount of difference between them.)

the other 'definition' of the word, is a system who feel like they are not really independent from each other in the way multiple systems are. like they is more than one person/part in a body but not exactly 2, like 1.5. so singlets would have 1 person to a body, median systems might have 1.5, and multipe systems might have 2. its not exactly a headmate count even though it sounds like one, more like a separation level i guess.

tumblr wont let me attach an image properly but this is a little diagram i just made to try show some of the ways you might imagine a medain system compared to a singlet or multiple (feel free to copy and paste it into your post if you reply) https://media.discordapp.net/attachments/1166724958362275884/1169587061397917787/IMG_8414.jpg?ex=6555f1d5&is=65437cd5&hm=e518ae1c3f68c42ab9b5a20291744b823adb4b7f576e29c84c47fc2ca5252964&=&width=1422&height=1054

not all median systems experience themselves like one of those two things but they are generally how the term is defined. some medians experience one of those things but not the other, some experience both, its really a matter of how you define yourself. its all a spectrum as well and there are some terms in between and some more i could probably say but this is getting longer than i intended so ill finish up there.

if you want a little collection of stuff about the experience you could also take a scroll through @/median-culture-is here on tumblr. again, ask if any of this doesn't make sense. thanks for taking the time to read through this and understand us a little better :)

- 🌱☀️

Okay that is definitely something that should be in the document, but not something that should be where we put it 🤣

We have the feeling we might have mixed Median up with something else. Maybe Medium? We're not sure. We think we definitely should have known this already, though. Our partner thought they might be a median or similar when they first discovered their plurality and did a ton of research that we helped with. Amnesia, we guess 😅 so sorry

Thank you for explaining! We'd heard the phrase "more than one, less than two" quite a few times, we guess that's probably in relation to medians.

We'll edit it in the document sometime today (quite a few things on today unfortunately.) Thank you for bringing it up and explaining ❤️

-Ash

#did #endogenic #endosafe #plural #pluralgang #plurality #traumagenic

[the-menage-system]

I love my headmates, and I love the headmates from other systems.

Seriously, these people are so kind to me. I just want to pick them up gently and place them on a shelf to admire like an antique porcelain doll, while also squeezing them to death and shaking them affectionately like a squishy stuffed animal.

- Peko Pekoyama ⚔️

#The Ménage System #endo safe #endo safe space #pro endo #endogenic safe #endogenic safe space #endogenic friendly #endosafe

[sophieinwonderland]

Happened across a TikTok video on endogenic/non-disordered plurality in the ICD-11, and figured I'd give it some promotion here. Especially since there's just not a lot of discussion of the science of system on TikTok, and the site is overwhelmed with baseless and unsourced anti-endo nonsense.

#syscourse #pro endo #pro endogenic #plural #plurality

[relictalksic]

Genuine Question - Answered!

What is the big discourse about endogenous vs traumagenic systems? Aren't we all just systems? We're all plural, aren't we?

Almost every post I've seen today has had either "dni if endo" or "endo safe" tags, and I don't know the point.

Even big things like pluralkit and simply plural are endosafe too

but what is the discourse about?

even when I started to type in the tags, I type "endo" and both "pro endo" and "anti endo" pop up. I'm just confused

-kait and co

#simply plural #irrelevant collective #signed: relic #did osdd #did system #system #dissociative identity disorder #actually did #system stuff #osdd system #actually osdd #osdd 1b #osdd #osddid #did/osdd #did #other specified dissociative disorder #system things #plural system #endo safe #endo