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itstheghostofmypast · 8 months

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Someone please explain why ENTJs of MBTI are always talked about as power hungry ,psychotic, emotionless warlords? 🤨

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pandagobrr · 6 months

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No! Not the whistling! I mean I understand, but still!

#funny #memes #mbti #mbti memes #entj #entj memes #entj personality #entj problems #enfp #infp #isfp #esfp #estj #entj mbti

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antheiantics · 1 year

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Things I would do as an ENTJ parent

Educate them on "The Art Of War" from an early age. If it's hard for them to get it, I would go as far as publishing a children's version of it.

Teach them proper manners and etiquette.

Gift each of them a plant, they must keep alive to develop a caring mechanism.

As soon as they prove to me they can take care of it, I'll get them a pet of their own choosing. Preferably a dog, if our household doesn't have one already. An animal of whatever kind, teaches responsibility

Read them fairy tales and mimic the voice of the characters for a full-blown experience.

Drink tea/fresh juice with them every morning and ask how they plan to spend their day. Later when they grow up, we'll have coffee.

Family dinners. That's a must.

Always urge them to communicate with me and their father about their feelings. It's important to me that they realize that we're not exactly mind readers and neither are other people.

Make sure they know what sarcasm is from an early age. That ages well, I promise you. And besides with me being their mother, they can't escape it either. Better get used to it.

Teach them to always fight for what they want and achieve it through any means necessary. Killing is off the table (we're not in The Purge, darlings, it's still illegal) Unfair play is off limits too - we honour truth and justice in this house. Otherwise, there are no limits whatsoever.

Talk with them like they are adults. The dog doesn't say "woof woof", it barks.

No matter what anyone says, they'll get their first phones when they turn 6 or 7 (meaning when they enter school). Before that, screen time will be minimized to certain movies and tv shows that I may make a separate list for (comment down below what movies and tv shows you would play for your kids so I can include them; would be nice if you write your MBTI and enneagram as well)

On the subject of phones: if they don't pick up the first time, I can take it. But if they don't pick up after 30 minutes when I call them again, I will come to the school or wherever they are and they will be grounded for life ( That's extreme, I know, maybe not grounded but definitely scolded)

I will make sure they know how to observe their surroundings.

Teach them to take charge when they believe is necessary. They don't have to be leaders but they must know how to be ones in case of need. This ages well, I promise, pt.2.

Make sure that they know that for school projects everyone must do their portion of the work unless their teammates are incompetent and lazy. Then, they would have to push themselves more to make the project succeed. Doesn't have to be perfect or the best one but if my kids are doing it, it probably will be *hair flip*

Teach them to handle money wisely. I didn't develop that habit even though my parents advised me a lot and at 20 I still find it difficult.

Introduce them to basic medicines they sell at pharmacies as soon as they can understand me. I grew up in a family where at 6, I knew what homeopathic medicine to take, depending on my symptoms. My mother and grandmother have medical backgrounds so I always knew what to do and therefore was calm. My children will definitely know that too.

If I have more than one kid as I wish, I will teach them to look after one another and protect each other. They must understand that a brother or a sister is the mightiest weapon anyone could have.

Get their aunt aka my best friend to teach them martial arts or at least basic self-defence.

Make sure they read a lot. Any kind of book, whatever book they are interested in. I'm all up for it. Not liking books isn't an option because in my opinion there is a book for any taste.

Make sure they forge their own style but still dress with taste and elegance.

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freakyrocket · 2 months

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dinosaurchurch · 2 months

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There's times where I'm my own worst enemy. I'd like to say that other people are the problem but my high standards for myself are a never ending uphill battle that I put myself through although people have told me that I don't have to. It's not as simple as just throwing in the towel on myself and quitting, I very much have a hard ingrained perfectionism streak. Myself is the only person that I have zero chill with and I'd absolutely love to let down the reigns but I find I just can't. I don't think I know how.

I've always been an 'all or nothing' kind of person. I can't half ass something or slack off, I'm either pouring my heart and soul into whatever I do or I'm not participating. This causes me to burnout on occasion, and I'd say now is one of those times. I'm mentally fatigued and I can't keep denying that.

If there's anything I could tell people about myself it's the very fact that I don't like chaos in my environments and I don't like things slipping out of my control. I also very much like to go at my own pace and do things when I'm ready to do them, not before then. I think one of the biggest things that have contributed to my current burnout is just the amount of time wasted having to commute back and forth to my job. I cannot express how happy I am to be able to walk to work again. I could go on a rant about how terrible public transport is in the city I live in but I think I'll save it for another time.

When it comes to dealing with burnout sometimes I find you can kind of trudge through to the other side and then there's times where you just can't. Having to accept that maybe you've got to ease off of the gas pedal is one of the hardest things to do. I tell myself that maybe I can balance it all until I literally can't and everything spills over, all of the emotions I had bottled up come oozing out over the top and I can no longer contain them.

I'm not a person that likes reaching out for help nor do I like to admit defeat especially when I'm the cause of it but there are times where I have to accept that. A lot of people feel shame when it comes to stepping back for your mental health like you should be able to handle everything but it's okay if you can't. Being kind to yourself in the sense of retreating when needed is also a form of self care. It's typically the start of getting back on track when you do come clean and say that yeah, you're having a hard time - the first part to solving a problem is addressing the problem.

It's okay to fail, and it's definitely okay to admit you're only human and there's only so much you can do. I know I can definitely be over ambitious on occasion, I'm not always good at listening to others who might see my burnout coming before I do either. Thinking about all of this really showcases that I'm far from perfect and even I have things I still need to work on.

I'm just glad that at least now I have some time to breathe during this turbulence...

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the-real-wholesome-bitch · 7 months

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Making eye bags aesthetic since 2017

#study girl #raysrecollections #school #tired as fuck #tired is aesthetic #i'm just so tired #im tired #entj aesthetic #entj things #entj mbti #entj problems #entj female #entj thoughts #entj personality #entj #aaaaaaaaaa #no matter how much I sleep they are still there #student

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personalitytypesconvs · 5 days

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entj: I'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend.

isfp: finally.

entj: I'm going to tell him everything I think about him. he should be grateful, actually, 'cause I think he'll never meet a person as honest as me. I'm obviously too much for him. my personality's too strong for his. and I have different priorities now. he's a fly to me, nothing more.

isfp: I want to see his reply. man, I feel so involved in this relationship, I can't wait to see how it ends.

entj: I think you're more involved than me.

isfp: and more involved than him.

entj: you're the only one in this relationship.

isfp: lol. anyway, my boyfriend just sent me a picture of himself and he's so cute!

entj: there are two types of relationship.

#mbti #mbti personality types #entj mbti #entj things #entj personality #entj problems #mbti isfp #isfp personality #isfp

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welivetodream · 7 months

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INTP: Where did you put my headphones?

ENTJ: On the third drawer of the dresser.

INTP: I had a system! And you ruined it!

ENTJ: That was not a system, you just randomly throw stuff on the floor

INTP: yes, that makes them easier to find

ENTJ: It's messy, so I cleaned it up for you.

INTP: NOW I AM SUPPOSED TO OPEN DRAWERS TO FIND MY STUFF?

ENTJ: touché

INTP: You can't change my life like this, first you made me have three meals a day, and see a doctor when I am sick and do my work before the last minute and now you are making me organised, this is too much.

ENTJ: honey, I am putting up with you. I think you can at least do the bare minimum for me.

INTP: FINE. But don't you dare book me an appointment with the psychologist again, she can't help me, I am more qualified than her.

ENTJ *sips coffee*: too late.

(intp x entj won so here's a little snippet into their domestic life)

(ps: more ship dynamics with other types coming soon)

#intp #entj #ship dynamics #intp x entj #intp female #intp stuff #intp problems #intp mbti #entj mbti #mbti #mbti stuff #mbti personality types

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lilmeawmeawblog · 9 months

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What I wish NT types would understand:

''Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later in uglier ways''- Sigmund Freud.

you may think the best way to deal with your feelings is suppressing them. Emotions are irrational so they should be denied. Or, there is no point in developing EQ. But the truth is your repressed emotions will never go away. Just because you repressed them for now doesn't mean they have disappeared. In a few years they will reappear in your life. Their intensity will be amplified to a great amount & when they start to surface they will create larger, more complicated problems. One of the worst part is you may be completely unaware of how your repressed emotions are affecting you, manifesting itself as emptiness, a certain illness, relationship issues, self sabotaging, low self worth etc. It's almost impossible to build & continue secure healthy relationships without EQ. Not knowing what you are feeling can be source of extreme frustration eventually. Most other types are quite emotional compared to us, you would need better social competence to communicate with them.

Just some food for thought !

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notanotherinfjblog · 1 year

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Productivity

ENTJ: Do you know those moments when you’ve got so much to do that you have no idea where to even start and so you start making a list of things that are too unimportant to waste your time on right now? But at the same time you’re wasting time by not working on the things that actually are important. You’re just making lists of all the tiny aspects of your work that you can throw out just to make yourself feel like you’re doing something.

INFJ: No, I don’t know those moments. I’m less productive, you see. When I’m overwhelmed by all the stuff I have to do, I panic and stare at the wall for three hours.

ENTJ: You’ve been doing that a lot lately, haven’t you?

INFJ: ... yes.

#i feel like it has to be said that we only had this conversation because entj didn't have the motivation to work anymore today #so he came to my office to make me procrastinate with him together for an hour and then he left to do the same to our estj co-worker #he's such an idiot i love talking to him #every time i meet another NJ (which happens like once every 100 years) i slightly lose it a little #because talking to someone else with Ni is like suddenly being allowed to breathe #suddenly there's someone who actually speaks your language and there's never just one second of silence because there's so much to say!!#(is that how people with more common functions get to feel frequently? like SPs meeting other SPs? SJs meeting SJs?)#also it's very funny to be on the receiving end of the Ni stare because all of us NJs do that #so whenever you see two (not romantically involved) people just staring at each other's eyes for two hours you've found two NJs #my intj brother has a problem with eye contact actually but he STILL DOES THIS just not when you're looking too #this has nothing to do with the post but you know me #maybe i'll do a more elaborate post about the ni stare at some point #also i'm gonna post the list with the writer interviews very soon took a bit longer than i had anticipated and i still only have one isfp #but oh well what can you do #mbti #mbti conversations #entj #infj

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celexia · 2 years

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INTP x ENTJ 💗✨☁️

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captainiwasntreadyforconcrete · 2 years

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Sometimes I find myself listening to classical music driving 70 down the highway screeching the high notes while holding an open mug of black coffee

And this would normal if I were a 40 year old music teacher

But I am a 20-odd biologist

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pandagobrr · 2 months

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Me in a nutshell

Credit: "incorrect MBTI quotes" on Wattpad

#funny #memes #mbti #mbti memes #its me hi im the problem its me #look at me #i am the problem now #entp #entj

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antheiantics · 1 year

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Things I would do as an ENTJ parent pt.2(middle school - high school edition)

Encourage them to think outside the box - if it can be done differently and still work the same, do it.

With that in mind: "Always work hard, but when you can work smart, work smart."

Be honest - always. I won't be stopping them from doing what they want, especially if they have set their mind on it, but I will step in and say "This may get ugly."

Not necessarily a permanent curfew, but I would be adamant about them coming home before 11 PM (high school) and 9 PM (middle school).

Late night talks on the balcony.

Pick them up from school whenever I can. If I can't, I'm sending their father.

Smoking is allowed after 16, just not over 5 cigarettes a day. I would encourage them to tell me if they start earlier. Excluding drugs, they can do whatever they want after a certain age.

Kissing a smoker is not exactly the most pleasant feeling and they should know it before making the decision to be consistent about it (cigs, I mean).

Always be polite and civil, first. Bite their heads off if that is rejected three times.

If I have a son I will tell him not to expect girls to make the first move. He should be able to tell if she's being assertive or not, anyway, we're not exactly thinking about hiding that.

If I have a daughter I will tell her not to expect boys to always make the first move. She should be prepared for both scenarios.

"Date for experience and fun, not for marriage."

Teach them to be confident in their abilities - a little arrogance with a base is not bad. Baseless confidence is another matter.

Pride is a genetic trait in this family, so I should probably teach them to accept help and admit mistakes. I'm not going to lie, this will be the hardest pill to swallow for both me and them.

Teach them when they can swear and when they cannot - there is an appropriate moment for everything, including unleashing hell out of your mouth.

"Don't completely obey the rules, but don't break them either. Bend. Loopholes exist for a reason."

Teach them to respect people.

We may be people-friendly in this household, but if a person is shitty, gender, sexuality, race, religion, or status doesn't matter.

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freakyrocket · 5 months

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So much left to conquer , right ;)

#quotes #entj problems #entj aesthetic #morning #feelgood

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dinosaurchurch · 2 years

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Anger is a funny thing that’s sometimes hard to swallow. It makes people unreasonable and creates more barriers than what it dispels but thankfully it’s only there for an instant. Just like golden hour the feeling of unease pass.

It’s taken me a long while for me to curb some of my anger but at the same time to accept that there’ll be moments where I’m allowed to feel the way I do. Not everything has to have the perfect rational reason for why, but the biggest thing is to not let it get out of hand. My anger doesn’t crop up often - it takes a lot to get me there but I think the worst of it is that it takes a lot for me to leave that place.

Getting better at calming myself and talk it over instead of using it to say or do something I know I’ll regret is probably one of the biggest things I’ve learned over the past several years. Letting go and saying nothing is one of the hardest things anyone can do, that I won’t deny. Sometimes you have to walk away, give someone their space and let things simmer for a bit before coming back. I know I need the time to really sit and cool before I’m able to collect myself.

I think the worst thing about those who want to push the line before it snaps back is when it’s someone you deeply care for. I’ve never been someone who’s had a lot of tact even if these days I’ve managed to have some I still don’t like to lash out but there’s times where the elephant in the room has to be addressed. It’s hard talking to someone about a problem they cannot see or are in denial of.

Not everyone sees that you mean well sometimes but nothing gets fixed if you don’t say something. There’s times where you will be painted as the bad guy spite what the end goal might be. Life wouldn’t be life without a struggle right?

You won’t see eye to eye with everyone, it’s why being honest and transparent are so important. You want to keep everyone on same page if you can or your words will be wasted…

#personal #inner thoughts #dealing with anger #introspection #self reflection #ENTJ #ENTJ personality #ENTJ problems #summer 2022 #golden hour #sunset #sunset chasing #dusk #twilight #journal #journey

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