#i know this is a negative but please

[barbiiecams]

i linked with my ex the other night (pls don’t start 😪) but i just need some confirmation

i’m not trippin right? 😭😭

#i know this is a negative but please #cus i feel like i see sumn 😭 #but that just might be me acting crazy #barbiiecams

[drorey]

It took me a while to come around but genuinely I love the amount of roleplay blogs thats been popping up in the jrwi tag, very funny.

Like. Fucking. The gay bitches from the suckening are playing 5d chess when it comes to pinning. Edyn tidestrider is venting on the main tag. Deacon got kidnapped like a week ago. I think timothy rand is having an existental crisis.

Someone made a horny post and the character it was about responded saying dont drag my name into this. I once uploaded art of old man earl and drey ferin just rebloged it saying smash.

#jrwi #just roll with it #edyn tidestrider please know this is not /neg if someone here deserves to vent in the main tag its you I promise #jrwi rp

[legendoftherisingtide]

i am so sorry for the trans folk living in the uk. no matter if you’re fully transitioned, an adult, a minor, this has affected you and i am so so sorry. i know how scary it is right now and this shit has not made it any better.

trans people all around the world see you and hear you. in fact, even non-trans people, allies, professionals, people out of the community, all see you and know how wrong this is.

The world is not all against you. Please believe that there is hope. Because there is. Please keep yourself safe and please take care of yourself to the best of your abilities. You breathing is proof that you deserve to be here. You deserve to be here. You truly do.

Please. Be as okay as you can be right now.

#this post is meant to be a reminder to stay as safe as people can #I don’t know who this will reach. or if it will do anything at all #but i hope it reaches someone:) #I also tried to use the least triggering language possible but if it comes off as anything please tell me /srs #transphobia #tw transphobia #cass review #cass report #trans #trans rights #<- I don’t want to flood with negativity. but I’ve seen stuff being tagged like this so I will

[foolsocracy]

Peter B, trying to explain gay people: it’s—you know, like when two men or two women like each other—-

Noir, who grew up living above and working in a Bowery welfare center: Peter do you think I don’t know what a fairy is

#FAIRY ISNT AN EXCLUSIVELY BAD TERM IN THE 20s AND 30s OKAY #but I’ll tag it #// slur #??? #// homophobia #idk #ask to tag #I thought this was silly #for ppl who don’t know the Bowery in noirs time was a hot spot for gay/lesbian clubs and stuff like tgat #night life if u will #Peter b and noir talks part 2 #I THINK TGEYRE FUNNY #non gays please reblog 🙏 #spider noir #peter benjamin parker #Peter b parker #spiderverse #i looked it up but all the positive gay terms were also neg gay terms if in the wrong hands ya feel #such is the times #thanks dykeraph I’ll tag it right this time #homophobic slur #boom 💥 #edit 2: #everyone saying I don’t need to tag it #feeling like a square 😔

[asafeplaceforus112]

I currently just feel so overwhelmed by cleaning

Does anyone have any ADHD cleaning tips?

Rant below

I have no clue on how to fix this but I'm sick of having no space and being treated by my parents like I'm a slob

You know even though they never bothered to teach me how to clean, how they clean is based on their dopamine "time to do this task now" and how I've never lived in a clean house my whole

I just feel so frustrated

Currently my brain thinks that if I get storage (because I do not, and it resulted in me just having shit everywhere)

I just feel so frustrated and it's keeping me awake and I just want to sleep and not think about this

#adhd #adhd cleaning #neurodivergent #neurodivergent cleaning #cleaning #frustrated #room cleaning #adhd room #adhd room cleaning #cleaning tips #tips #please god #rant #vent #negative rant #negative vent #im just so fucking frustrated #why is cleaning so hard #why do others know how to clean right #like i just other people have rooms that their parents arent so ashamed of that they wont let you bring your friends intl your room #UUUUUUUUGGHHHHHH #I feel like screaming #i thlught this would help me go to sleep but it just made this deeling worse ):< #so annoyed #so frustrated #someone please give me a good tip

[ssaalexblake]

Why is 13's regen abt a white dude and why is 15's regen abt a white dude when do we get rid of that white man that just Cannot let other people have their own moments I swear this is so old, like really, it's a tale as old as time where white dudes are the center of the narrative and universe and everyone caters to them, and I'm so bored of it being celebrated. It's not innovative, it's not new, it's not brave.

#dw shit #dw negativity #im literally actually bored #We've been Knowing the same shit was done to whittaker and gatwa outside the show #and got treated like we're just bitter bc of very real criticism about the optics and treatment of them botj #*both #and worried that the same thing would happen in the show #and uh... #like really? idc abt wacky plot points but I've just spent Years dealing with ppl #digging under the sea to think of reasons to be pissed at anything that happened in or bts in 13's era #and this foul treatment is front and center and it's not an issue? #gatwa deserves the spotlight in the most important moments #he has been denied them both in and out of the show and i have yet to be given a good reason #as to why that's acceptable. #can somebody Please let dt know this shit bc he's a clueless as fuck privileged white dude but by all accounts seems nice enough #and i think he'd Probably care if he had a clue

[pastryjay]

Hey! If you're an OFMD fan who loved S2, including the finale and posts/ reblogs mostly OFMD stuff, can you give this a like this please? I'm looking for more blogs to follow and want to avoid all negativity about the show. Especially hello if you love Ed/ Stede, they are everything to me <3.

#i'm not making this post looking for likes for likes btw I couldn't even guess my follower count. I just know likes is an effective way of #locating new people to follow in this case yk #ofmd #our flag means death #ofmd spoilers #ofmd s2 spoilers #edward teach #stede bonnet #gentlebeard #please don't like this if you don't mostly post/ rb OFMD stuff or are excessively negative about S2 fjfjgjjgkdje #also i'm not going to follow you if I check your blog and scroll for a bit and see no OFMD posts <3

[dazaijustscrollsfic]

guys I promise you if a 20 year old streamer doesn't want to do gay RP with a npc he wouldn't. he's an adult mate he can make his own decisions

he wouldn't throw his characterization away, he can still be suffering and do gay RP at the same time

#qsmp #on the topic of thid #tag your neg????? #please???? #i wouldnt know this shit was happening if you tagged your neg. #fred neg? ok. just tag neg please. #hes not a kid #he can say no #and he can say yes #its his decision what he does not yours #apologies if this sounds weird English is not my first language

[bamsara]

Please stop

#please im already dealing with my partner attempting this week and the 3rd being the anniversary of my dad's death #and ive been answering people privatly and i responded but my reblogs were hidden? #im very close just please stop #i dont know what i did exactly outside of what ive already explained but im sorry #why was i told it was all okay and then its not #why was i chosen #tw negative #tw suicide attempt mention #i thought the discussion was good and constructive i thought it was over what is going on

[iguessitsjustme]

This is off the top of my head of shows that should have had some sort of poly but instead were cowards. (im kidding i love these shows pls don’t shoot me)

#light on me #my mate match #laws of attraction #choco milk shake #not me the series #only friends the series #y destiny #putting these in the tags buuuuut as this was a problem in the past i need to say it here #do not put any type of negativity on my polls please #you don’t have to agree with what’s winning but please don’t tell people its wrong #there are no wrong answers #also i love all of these shows if you havent seen one of them please go watch and come talk to me about it #alsooooo i dont want to hear rae you forgot this one! i know i didnt include all #this is just what my brain supplied so its all we get

[aro-culture-is]

Alloaro culture is wanting a similar word to qpr for a committed partner you have sex with sometimes that is not romantic: qpr isn’t right because it has the word platonic in it.

hi! in a very gentle way, i am vibrating to let you know this is incorrect :)

from the POV of someone who's been around the aro community since ~2013-2014 on tumblr, the only time i've seen folks start to say that qprs couldn't include sexual components has been when

they've learned an incorrect definition of QPRs, or

in one particularly notable case, the individual proposing it turned out to be quite sex negative and upset at the mere thought that people could think that qprs could include sexual activity. this individual suggested an alternative term for individuals desiring sex in QPRs in a rather explicitly alloarophobic measure. when gently called out from what had seemed to be a genuine attempt at coining a new term, the above came to light. smaller cases of this pop up every once in a while, but this one got some notoriety.

queerplatonic was always meant to mean "queering the idea of a platonic relationship", "queering the idea of what a relationship means", and by explicit definition, has always been broadly and radically inclusive. any relationship, so long as the partners involved agree it is a queerplatonic one, is queerplatonic. no exceptions. this can mean it involves romance, sex, traditionally platonic elements, and anything and everything those involved desire out of it.

tldr; the word platonic is in queerplatonic to say it is counter to the idea of a restricted "platonic" relationship.

#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #pls don't ask me what the term had been or who the blogger was. i forgor #idk when it was anymore either cause it was uuuuhhhhh really distressing #i do think this blog existed tho so probs 2019 ish #sex negativity cw #alloarophobia cw #queerplatonic #i know it can be easy to get an incorrect or like. sanitized take online of what things mean #but generally speaking if the word is queer + [something] that [something] is being modified to be counter-cultural intuition #not just queer people *doing* the culturally intuitive version of that word #like... our system is genderqueer broadly speaking [i ID as agender or genderfuck primarily but most of the system also IDs as genderqueer] #and trust me this is not queer person doing Cis Binary Gender this is queer person says 'fuck that gender shit imma do what i want :)' #also pretty please know this is all being said in like. a smiling happy-to-share way! #this is not being said as like. 'uhhhhm aktually' mansplaining

[animangalover-writes]

You bitch and moan all the time about being pro ship but you literally don’t even fucking commit to it in your writing, I was surprised how milquetoast all your shit is lol, you’re a fucking pussy who’s ‘scawed of mean antis 🥺’ get real

This is such a funny ask for so many reasons.

First of all, being proship doesn't mean you read or write dark media? Clearly you don't understand that. It's literally being anti harassment. That being said I enjoy consuming dark media rather then writing it, hence the saw post I made. And lastly uhhhh idk, ahhh! Scary anti! Insulting me!! What will I do!!!

Anyway good job being anon, you're very brave.

#i will now be turning of anon for the time being so i can block people like this lmao #also might delete thos post later cause i dont like negative shit on this blog lol #also when i say antis scare me its cause of the anxiety i get with responses liek this or the one in my saw post lol #anyway glad to know there are a few proshippers in the saw fandom lmao #proship #anti anti #proshippers please interact #anti harrassment

[i-hate-mcqueen]

i cant believe i have to clarify this but the whole "i hate mcqueen" thing is a JOKE. i find him mildly annoying at most. after rewatching the movies on new year i still dont like him but i can also see why people do like him. this isnt an actual hate blog and i actively encourage people to draw fanart of mcqueen and send me cursed mcqueen images because the whole van hates mcqueen thing is amusing to me. every time someone posts a cool fanart and i get @'ed it in like 5 times i get really happy bc i get to see this fandoms skill and its genuinely wonderful

#i love this fandom. i know im not really in it but almost everyone in the cars fandom ive met has been a lovely creative individual #please keep creating and dont take my riffing on mcqueen as genuine hate or negativity #that was never my intention #van finds mcqueen mildly annoying but does not actually hate him #lightning mcqueen #cars fandom #pixar cars

[foldingfittedsheets]

So a friend (Friend A) on a video chat was telling us that they were horribly horribly ill, were having dizziness and nausea, and couldn’t drive. They fucking blacked out and pissed themself at work in what was almost certainly a seizure. Then kept working. They said, “I had to do what I did when I was little and my mom died and just force myself to be okay!”

Three people on the call instantly froze in a way of like, dear god, how do you address that fucking statement without reaaaally harshing the vibe?

Later we all brought it up like. In what way can you tell someone with all the love in our hearts to get therapy?

So tonight as we hung out one of us (Friend B) offhandedly mentioned the therapy they went to over their parents when Friend A mentioned their supremely fucked up dad. I instantly hopped on board to add that I had a long chat with my therapist over my parents and that the Friend A would have so much to material if they got therapy.

As a quick aside I shot Friend B a thumbs up in a side chat and they did a virtual high five that we were on the same page of just subtly bringing it up in a positive light.

#ramblies #like really guy I want nice things for you please talk to someone #like buddy there’s a reason you never know how you’re feeling and are incapable of recognizing negative emotions #please I love you and want you to thrive

[maxphilippa]

Following the ii dark fics thing.

On some- if not most of the dark fics, disorders also tends to be used as a main thing to explain why the character is doing what they're doing. Which is, of course, not really great. Most au's that do this are about the Bright Lights as well.

Listen.

I can totally GET it. Mental health is a very important thing and having it ruined by people, or by other factors, can and WILL do some real damage to you. Yes. I can totally see a character doing questionable things because of their mental health being so so bad that it leads them to think that maybe, just maybe, these thoughts and actions aren't as bad, or that given the situation they're in, they're somewhat justified/it isn't inherently terrible of them, because of the state they're in doesn't let them think clearly, and they hold onto something because it's the last thing that makes them feel real.

One thing is doing that.

The other thing is using mental illnesses or their symptoms (per example: BPD, DID, Schizophrenia, and others) as the main reason as to why a character has done a killing spree or commited terrible actions. Meanwhile yes, having said disorders and going through heavy amounts of stress, and having no support can really make things difficult, mental illness won't make you a criminal or an awful person, a disorder isn't something you can just use for "oh well they have this so they commited murder because of this", people that have those already go through enough with others not even accepting that their condition is real or that it doesn't make them a bad person, for other people to use those disorders as a "Hey So This Is Why This Character Is Bad Now" for a story.

just sayin'

#inanimate insanity #ii #inanimate insanity invitational #ii 2 #ii 3 #ii fandom neg #if a part of this is disrespectful PLEASE let me know #despite having depression i am not very great at using mental health terms as well #but this is a recurring issue i saw at osctwt and generally on dark fics #i recognize that i did that mistake one time. but i ended up changing everything about the au and erased that. #fics on mental health can be so so much better than how they are nowdays #and listen i'm NOT saying that the character CAN'T have any disorders or anything. #of course they can. #but DON'T make them the reason as to why they're an “horrible person”.

[swords-of-a-soilder]

I've sleep on it here's my beef

If you wanna log in to participate in a event that fine, I get for some CC's purgatory 2 isn't lore (I mean it clearly is, but some players are choosing not to involve it in their lore.) But when you've made the discussion not to take part in the lore you can't ask about it on screen.

I literally got confused when someone told me bad had a reason and to check there lastest reblog, thinking the book gave them the reason and apologising, this fully left me thinking that the residents where told to return home until I was discussing with someone else and realized I fully misread that (I need to wear my glasses more TBh)

But this play apart of the problem because what I except was a lore reason and I went looking for it, just to find out later there is no lore reason bad just calls himself vactionbadboy halo when he wants to log in.

Look I get playing purgatory for fun, I get wanting to log in to see your friends, Tubbo did it, and Pac did it; but the difference with them being they made up a reason to be there (the boat didn't leave) is a completely valid reason.

I can see them going home and then later being drag back to the boat by the incompetent egg Island workers, but jumping back and forth to the island in the middle of purgatory is problematic.

If you don't want to take part in the lore then don't, don't ask questions about what's happening lore wise (on stream he can always inquire in dms ) , don't do things on the Island that messes with other people's lore or breaks the immersion make it easy for the actual people who care about the lore; Ie: fan fiction writers, artists, role players (I am all these things) to pretend you're not there!

This sounds dumb but I genuinely, when lore is happening take note of every little the to go "how can I explain this in lore, how could I enhance this in lore" to help with my fan art or fan works.

Genuinely I have a list of game mechanics,(chat, tabs list, death messages) and have written ways to explain them in lore, so you can imagine my annoyance when someone who isn't supposed to be involved ask questions fresh of a lore event.

I think the confusion to add to it is that Phil has been trying to do more improv on the spot right now rp; like leaving cuucurhoo the notice of the eye guy and keeping his webcam on until a big event ( and I love him for that, genuinely I love lore so much because it feeds art and fan fiction)

But I feel like im being taken a fool when someone who isn't technically supposed to be there asks questions about something they're not supposed to be awear of and even bounces of it like they're in lore "yeah it looks like we're going to war with you guys." we who? You're supposed to be Vacation halo, you aren't in purgatory right, if so how did you get home?!

Get what I'm saying? It sucks because everyone else so far seemed to-do A decent job of staying out of lore if they want to visit some committing to not coming back to the island at all (cough* bolas *cough ) .

If you don't wanna take part in the lore don't complicate the already existing lore, it annoynes me greatly.

I don't mind the attenting events so much, it's the fail rping of discussing something you shouldn't know not long after it happened. (Metagaming)

#qsmp #qpurgatory 2 #bbh neg #this is why you dont fail rp #like ok i get it its not canon for you #but it is for others #and like you need to respect that #if some players dont have the option to call upon certain people because they been kidnap despite stating they wish they could #i need you to play along and pertend you're not here dont ask about the lore #ignore the image at spawn #is that so much to ask #-50k rp points #you can disagree innthe comments but please dont do it when they intention of getting me to respond and see it your way #i get that you want people to see things your way but let people have opinions #you can state “i disagree cause” but please don't start getting accusatory towards me i domt h #i don't have the time for this #let people have opinions thanks #also if any other creator did this i would be upset #it's not a bbh specific thing its the action that upsets me #i know for a fact to im not the only one who found stuff confusion evem others are saying they cant tell what's canon anymore #like please i need players to work around not wanting to lore #be a good sport please #qsmp discourse