#like it’s not a DEADNAME but it’s not ME

[svogthos-middle-management]

How I think the Fallout 4 Companions would react to me/you/the Sole Survivor coming out as trans:

Curie:

• "Zis is exciting! What an intrezting medical challenge!"

• Synthesizes HRT

• Studies you like a lab rat (affectionate)

MacCready:

• "So your like a (Chick/Dude)? Whatever floats your boat I guess. Hey you got any smokes?"

• shoots people for deadnaming you

• still takes 2 full months to get your pronouns right

X6-88:

• "Noted."

• that's it, he's a machine he don't care

Deacon:

• "Hey me too."

• Gets you set up with any surgeries you want

• Warns you not to use HRT made by Tinker Tom

Nick:

• "It means a lot that you trust me enough to tell me that. I'm always here if ya need to talk."

• helps you research HRT and other procedures

• makes sure to change your name in all of his case files

Danse:

• "That's unnatural. I suggest you seek mental reevaluation immediately."

• Deadnames you bc "that's what's on your records"

• Changes his tune after Blind Betrayal

Piper:

• "Thanks for sharing Blue, I know that couldn't have been easy."

• ask A Lot of very personal questions

• shames Diamond City transphobes in the Publick

Cait:

• "Awright, bit weird, but aernt we all."

• takes a while to get your new name/pronouns right, but genuinely tries

• takes you to the bar to celebrate and gets blackout drunk

Hancock:

• "Hell yeah (sister/brother), wanna huff whatever this thing is? I found it on the ground."

• excellent at helping with HRT injections

• also takes you to the bar and blacks out

Codsworth:

• "Right oh, (Mum/Sir)

• that's it

Strong:

• "What"

Preston:

• "That's great General, you can tell me all about it while we head to this settlement that needs our help."

• very supportive in a chill way

• apologizes for other people misgendering you

#fallout 4 #trans #curie #maccready #x6 88 #deacon #nick valentine #paladin danse #piper #cait #hancock #codsworth #preston garvey #fallout

[unaesthetic-writer]

im so sorry guys, and if you like it that's great but like

For the trans reg HC I will never believe that his deadname was REGINA???? Cause let's be so fr, to me, it wouldn't have been 😭😭

Like you all know that they're all named after stars right????

Like Lyra or Vela or Aquila

Cause I'm just saying also for some people, they wouldn't choose a new name so close to their old one(I'm not saying ALL PEOPLE just some)

And Honestly I saw in another post talking Abt this that Regulus could have been his name from the beginning

Regulus isn't a terrible name for a daughter (if you're looking at it from a parent standpoint)

But yeah just my opinion, I swear if you like Regina I'm not coming for u I just don't agree 😭🩷

#regulus black #trans regulus

[our-nonbinary-experience]

ok funny story. ive never liked my deadname, and after figuring out i was nonbinary i decided to change it. butttt ironically my deadname is actually pretty androgynous and sounds exactly like a stereotypical enby name. i still wanna change it tho because what this community has taught me is that your name should fit you and my new name really does <3

I'm glad you found a name that fits!

#our nonbinary experience #nonbinary #enby #nb asks #nb names #name change

[trickscourse]

Why does Sunny make you uncomfortable?

The real question is how she doesn't at this point.

We don't like how she constantly rides our virtual heels and will take any second to accuse literally anyone who is vaguely similar to us, to being us or any members of our system.

It's creepy at best how much she posts about us, including a lot more than her partner/husband and just how dedicated she is to reaching out to people we may or may not know or used to know. Some ex mutuals of hers said she, Evie or Loli all gave frequently googled my deadname for anything they can find.

Normal people don't do that.

Sunny absolutely sees no need to pull punches about our abusive family, us being a victim of grooming, rape or police brutality with the gross shit she says about us. We don't expect her to ever apologize for making a sex joke about our sexual abuser, then getting mad when someone who she's mutual with called her out on it, and decided to accuse us of messaging her.

In our friends, family, therapists, a few outsiders, and the police's opinion, she's an obsessive stalker. We keep a few aspects of our life like our day jobs, where we live, our phone number and our family VERY private. We don't want people she's buddies with knowing where we live or texting us, like how Jack has given out our number more than once.

My close ones and I are trying to legally change our names and move ASAP so she and her mutuals will stop harassing and swatting us. The swatting thing happened once, but there are still packages being sent here to T%ny with razors and rope we just haven't been posting about.

I am 100% willing to apologize or do anything to get her to move on from me and stop talking about me. A few people have given me scraps of information to file a restraining order against her and her husband, and I don't know if I want to take those steps yet in case she backs off.

#text post #transfemmes

[campirebites]

kinda considering blocking & deleting almost everyone I know irl on discord ansbdjsjsks

#also mutuals can ask for discord :3 #I wanna be cam :( #tired of seeing **** there #like it’s not a DEADNAME but it’s not ME #and by ‘almost everyone’ I mean my older sister whose number I have #thinkiiiiiiingggggggggg #there’s a couple people that might text me like ? #and I can be like ‘iM tRyInG iT oUt’ which is for some reason easier in my brain #my sibling will either see and comment or see and be like ‘idc none of my business’ bc he’s the most private person ever #I’m gonna sit on it but I’m thinking #camshitposts #I think it’s kinda amusing that u can see the gears turning in my head in my rambling in the notes on my posts #idk probably not ajdhdjjdd I just have brain worms 😇 <3 #I’m cam in my irl best friends phone now and it makes me emo 😭😭😭😭

[teacup-captor]

H E L L O

I quote this in my mind so many times over

#For context I was like “Hey. You deadnamed me :(” and he said sorry #And I actually got so happy and overwhelmed I was shaking and crying #sherlock & co #sherlock & co. #sherlock and co #sherlock and co. #john watson #dr john watson #john hamish watson #john h watson #jonk watson #jonk

[rainofthetwilight]

whoever decided it was a good idea to deadname sora in her tag on AO3

#ninjago #ninjago dragons rising #ninjago sora #levi's shitposts #that meme is NOT made by me guys #just a disclaimer #anyway to the person who made soras tag Sora | Ana #whatre ur last words? #i will NOT allow my absolute fav charcter who i relate to w/ the backstory be deadnamed like this like cOME ON #HOW HARD IS IT TO UNDERSTAND HER NAME IS SORA. SORAAAA

[drinkinggblood]

Frogs

#lighting practice ft layne staley from alice in chains #ragaaaaah RAGAAAAH #sry not my usual content whatsoever. i was compelled. #i was possessed by alice in chains to draw this guys #alice in chains #aic #grunge #alternative #metal #layne staley #i dont usually draw people from real life but idk. i felt compelled too #for one me and layne share the same name (albeit mines from my middle name #which ive taken now to replace my deadname) #and two idk. layne seemed like such a great dude and it really is a tradegy what happened to him #rock music #my art #lighting practice i diddd use a ref pic of layne from a show

[graciousdragon]

who up getting devastated to mama by my chemical romance rn

#rys.txt #having like 90% of your birthday wishes come from family who deadname you and call you their “beautiful daughter/sister/niece” #does some shit to you man #mama mcr...save me... #mama mcr #save me mama mcr #mcr #my chemical romance

[thestarsofpines]

just gonna,, post this here...

the first chapter-kinda/prologue?? I was inspired by multiple prompts, two of which are HERE and HERE .

#dpxdc #dp x dc #dp x dc crossover #dp x dc fanfic #demon twins au #trans danny #honestly i'm so scared to post this but i am also really excited #because this is what i've been working on for weeks #aka the document that has grown to over 170 pages with the outline and some chapters ready to go #i'm just gonna post this and go offline for the night because i am legit anxious #sage speaks #oh also danny's deadname will appear like-one or two other times so if that's upsetting to you please be careful #I thought you were gone (and you still found me)

[ofpd]

hey besties ive decided im changing my name on here :) call me chana (pronounced like 'chanukah' but without the 'uk' in the middle) instead in posts etc! i don't mind my previous name in private like dms etc but i'd rather go by a different name in public on tumblr!

#mutuals sb pls. i'll rb this a bit more also #the other one isnt a deadname by any means but i'd rather be more anonymous on here #is smth im very belatedly deciding for a few reasons #txt #also giving u a little pronunciation thing as if im not sure half of u have been mispronouncing my name this whole time lmao #also like if you have a tag for me then changing that using the tag changer thingy would be nice but like #definitely no need to scroll back and edit posts lol. i myself won't be doing that

[birchisnotokay]

got bored at the mall and cafe

based on this

#sorry for the shit quality i screenshotted this from flipaclip<\33 #ibispaintx hates me on my phone so i drew it on flipaclipp #the result is way better than what i expected #anyways i kinda wanna make small doodles of transmasc kyle hc but like more “realistic” #like hes still called his deadname n used she/her bcus hes still a child #but he already acts like more masc #probably realizes hes trans around middle school #thats probably the earliest #okay im talking to much TAGZ #south park #sp art #sp fanart #stan marsh #kyle broflovski #style #i guess idk #my art

[etchedstars]

sorry for the influx of darcy heartstopper posts its just that her arc in s2 is about how she doesnt think shes lovable and that she can't and won't ever come out to her parents for her own safety but she still somehow manages to be happy ., and i think it may have gotten to me a little bit

#came home from that gay art program a couple days ago back to my Closet where i have to go by my deadname and she/her pronouns because even #though i felt safe there theres no way i could possibly come out to my parents not bc theyre like darcys in that theyd kick me out its just #that theyd say things about me forever and they wouldnt be positive #but i know its possible for me to be queer and happy and loved bc that art program exists and i was there for a month and i was the happies #ive ever been #but the rest of the year i dont feel lovable and safe and i go out and try to be happy anyways . im just kinda waiting for the day when i D #get to be happy and feel loved and safe and be openly queer with my parents hundreds of miles away from me #it will happen #darcy gives me hope for myself in case you couldnt tell . #the overdue asteroid strikes again #heartstopper #darcy olsson #heartstopper s2

[iindigoeyed]

it would be very amusing if season 6 does end up having amelie & felix stay in paris for many reasons, but one of my particular favorites is that since felix and adrien are literally identical, I imagine it might be hard for felix to go outside without getting ambushed by dozens of fangirls mistaking him for adrien only to be met with a feral yorkshire terrier of a british boy

#ml #miraculous ladybug #adrien agreste #felix graham de vanily #does the accent mark matter actually? idk #félix graham de vanily #felix fathom #sorry to deadname you king #felix #adrien #<- blog tags #to my knowledge i dont think anyone has ever known of felix being in paris at all really #and iirc he doesnt really have a public presence he's just rich #I mean obviously in england he would be known but this is fucking france #so that being said one could imagine the fangirls reaction upon seeing a seemingly well-dressed adrien... #felix probably busting out all of the britishisms upon being bombarded by tweenage girls #get your bloody hands off of me you wanker etc #I know there's no canonical evidence of him using britishisms. I just think it's funny. #can you imagine if he only used them when he was really mad? #(even funnier is if he had a mouth like a sailor but this is a kids show and they wouldnt do that obv) #indiposts

[ispyspookymansion]

gripping the counter. Misgendering and deadnaming at work constantly dont matter because its not real thats not Real to me so i dont care its a worksona i dont care i dont care i dont c

#theres no fucking reason my register should have to say my legal deadname. #its printed on every receipt its on the screen whenever i pause my register all my fucking coworkers know it and the company pats themselves #on the back for being able to put my chosen name on the printed out schedule #my coworkers are good about CALLING me my right name but the fact that they know my deadname is embarrassing. yfm? #its so loud in the store + i wear masks i cant project enough with my voice dropped #its so. fucking . aughhhhh #and people dont treat me like a human being and they expect me to read their mind and get mad when i cant #<- this is your brain 2 weeks on customer service job. #kora.txt

[catinasink]

me when I rarely got compliments as a child so whenever anybody does it I think they're lying

#cat's rambles #its so hard for me to accept compliments now #like I'll be in the server n shit and I'll say something and they'll go #“nico you're so awesome”/“I like hearing you talk”/“noo it's fine it's funny” #or my irls #“you're really pretty”/“you deserve to eat”/“you're a wonderful friend” #or my teachers #“[deadname] does well in my classes”/“she's very good at memorizing”/“she's very helpful”