#my dad sucks

[scripturesofateenagegirl]

Q.A.B.

a poem i wrote about my biological dad. ive never posted something this personal online before haha so im very nervous to share it! the title is our initials lol

I don't know your birthday

I don't know your age

I don't know anything

Yet we share a name

I'm so mad at you I can't breathe

Your incompetence bequeathed

My tree forsook its only apple

And then left for NYC

Abandonment isn't an accident

Fatherhood isn't optional

It took you nearly a decade to try

How much of that was spent forgetting?

Your return hurts more than your absence

Our divide somehow grows farther

And if blood is thicker than water

Why weren't you there for your daughter?

Questioning and begging for answers from a brick wall

So much wasted breath on your name

My love for you feels like utter sin

Forever and always, Q.

the last line sounds a little better when i don't have to censor the name lol but this is a very emotional poem and mostly just me pouring my emotions so sorry if it's a little incohesive or inconsistent! criticism is always appreciated ^_^

#poem #original poem #poetry #poems and poetry #daddy issues #trauma #beginner writer #beginner poetry #art #writing #my dad sucks #lol

[northlt]

Sometimes i forget you cant actually get a random father figure irl

Like im still expecting my great adventure where this reluctant old grumpy man turns into my dad slowly and loves me fiercely and will do anything for me

#there should be like a place where you can adopt father figures for people who didnt have any good ones #literally any old guy character just existing : •_• me : youre my dad boogie woogie woogie #tlou #the last of us #joel miller #father figure #daddy issues #my dad sucks #colm fahey #i am in desperate need of a male guidance in my life who also loves me a lot

[gayforerwinxlevi]

Idea: a tv show where people can get Gordon Ramsey to yell at their parents and tell them about how they suck at parenting

#gordon ramsey meme #shitpost #talking to the void #bad parenting #my dad sucks #gen z #kind of joking but kind of not #gordon ramsey

[unofficially-racetrack]

I think I know what’s preventing myself from actually trying to figure out my gender and who I am.

My dad is Christian as fuck, and he doesn’t support LGBTQ+

#lgbtq community #still trying to figure it out #my dad sucks

[strangebossyuri]

I am not having fun today

#el rambles #my dad sucks #EERRRMMM #yeah #I hope everyone else has a fun day tho

[alexislovesjvo]

bro my dad looked thru my phone and almost made me delete all my johnny orlando and sturniolo triplets photos and almost made me delete wattpad

#my dad sucks #i don’t like my dad #my dad is mean #he looked thru my phone for no reason

[jdropglitchartz]

Me:*trying to get along with my irl dad* hey look what I drew! *shows a angst picture*

Dad:all you draw is negative stuff *negative talking*

Me:well not all of it is bad- this char is a half alien half fallen ange- [Fallen angel looking is what I tried to say]

Dad:satans angels-.. see always negative- Me:.. can I talk for 2 SECONDS

How's your day going?

#insane parents #Mental abuse #Verbal abuse #My dad sucks #please don't go into the microwave #Why does everything have to be negative #seriously wtf #R/insane parents #mentally tired #narssisist #narcissistic father #why is my dad like this #Why is my dad so dumb man-

[kittyoverlord]

Saw my dad tonight for the first time in years and threw a cup of water on him.

He's been going to places he know my mom will be to keep hurting her post their divorce. There's a lot more context, but he deserved it.

I was on my way out and saw my opportunity. I "tripped" and tossed the water, made eye contact, said, "sorry" in a way that made it clear I was not sorry, and quickly walked out.

I think I would have regretted not doing it. The risk benefit worked in my favor, and my dad's face was priceless.

#my dad sucks #falsely accused my mom of abuse when she was the victim #he should just leave colorado #personal #my life

[ask-pinkie-polkadot-pie]

[TW transphobia] dad said I could be in his life as his daughter or not at all. oh well, he was a shitty dad anyway so the only thing that’s changed is that I don't have to pretend to like him anymore, finally a win for good ol’ lemon heart.

#that was your last chance bucko #i cast fuck you for one billion years #reminder that im a trans MAN :^) #tw transphobia #my dad sucks #no new news #not story related #vent post #vent

[lucky-starling]

Another thing that makes this kind of infuriating to me is... these people do not offer alternatives. They tell me to get a good job and get a house and get a new car but when I ask how to do those things they shrug. I'm getting a good job ($16/hr with free housing) to afford a new car (camper van to live in rent free while working in $15/hr min wage states to save up for a down payment and some cushion) and eventually buying a house (for less than 100k in a beautiful state with a high minimum wage and low crime and plenty of entertainment). But because I'm not doing it "right", because I can't do it the same way they did it 30 or 60 years ago when they were my age, or maybe even because it involves me moving to different states, it's not good enough for them.

What do they want me to do! I don't understand! Work for 9 dollars a day while paying 1200 in rent and somehow, somehow, miraculously save up enough for a down payment on a 300k house, which I will continue paying off into my 50s? Never getting a fucking break? Can they just be happy for me? They can't help me so can they just be happy for me? Can they just be happy that I'm smart, and that I've found a way to fucking Do Life despite everything in this fucking country being stacked up against me, despite my mental health being absolutely shot for most of my life. I am telling them I'm happy, I've found a way to be happy, this will make me happy. Why can they not just share my joy. Why must they instead respond with "it would suck to get a cold while living in a van" and "ooooh a single wide is so small for a permanent home" I'm gonna cry. Just be happy for me.

#sorry this is so whiney but my family #they don't suck #my dad sucks #my grandma is kind she is just so out of touch #people who last participated in the economy 30 years ago stop giving me unsolicited advice about it challenge

[i9abella]

arguing with your parents is a whole new level of arguing & it makes me wanna kms

#i cant stand my dad #expressing my emotions with hashtags #my dad sucks #i hate my parents #my parents act like they have a stick up their ass

[sincerely-angel1]

Tuesday, April 23, 2024

This morning, on the way to school, I was thinking about something.

My graduation.

I know It’s two years away, but I was just thinking..how is that going to go?

Will my dad be there?

It would be horrible, to not have spoken to him and years and then see him show up uninvited to my graduation. Then again, I don’t think there’s any way for me to win..I’ll be annoyed if he does show up and I’ll also be a little annoyed if he doesn’t.

He is still my dad after all, and even if I don’t have contact with him these days..I’ll still be frustrated if he does anything at all. He’s missed so much of my life up to this point. He’s never even seen me on stage, since he always found reasons (while we were still talking atleast) not to show up.

I don’t know. It’s just something to think about.

#my dad sucks #daddy issues #ha ha funny #i’m so scared #graduation #screaming sobbing throwing up #school problems

[g00fy-g00b3r]

My mind when my I think my dad is gonna pick me up:

TW!

Why the fuck am I here why the fuck am I just sitting here why don’t I run why don’t I do something why don’t I just die already. Somebody shoot me or something I can take it. Please please please please. He’s the reason I’m like this he’s the reason I’m fucked up HES THE REASON I HATE MY LIFE. He’s the reason I’m going insane. Fucking insane. I want him to burn in hell he doesn’t deserve this fuck you fuck you fuck you

This vent isn’t directed towards anyone but my dad, I love y’all and stay safe

I’m sorry for venting.

#I hate my dad #fuck you #I hate him #why #vent #personal vent #vent post #tw vent #fuck him #my dad sucks #burn in hell #painful vent #I need help #depression #mental health

[paintwizard]

I need my dad to die all alone in a hole immediately

Just got this notification

That was my mom's contact name, she died over a year ago and my dad fucked off 2 months later and took her phone with him, but didn't pay off the phone bill so I couldn't contact anyone or have my phone unlocked so I could use it, but guess he paid that off 🙃

#sammymadeapost #my dad sucks #i miss my mom #i wish he died instead of her

[liliththequeenofdemons]

Last night I wasted my mental energy making some shitty food because dad just HAD to buy the absolute terrible cheese and then he gets mad after I suggest to get quick trip (and I wanted to pay)

This is probably the most mild thing he did

I'll explain if yall want me to

#my dad sucks #QmQ

[psychopomp-gay-guy]

I just learned that Grant Morrison has been nonbinary for almost 50 years and my whole world just tilted a little bit. I can now say my dad, raging homo-trans-enby-phobe, has read and enjoyed something by a nonbinary creator

#demoth rambles #my dad sucks #grant morrison #nonbinary