#pretty bisexual if you ask me

[coquelicoq]

love kim dokja's non sequitur answer to people thinking he's into yoo joonghyuk: "i like women." okay? good for you?? quick question totally unrelated but have you heard of bisexuality.

#'do you like this man?' 'i like women.' okay. totally irrelevant bestie <3 #also the amount of genderfluidity in this series is like. way above my expectations #i just got to the breaking the sky sword saint arc and i'm pretty sure yjh has to turn into a lady whenever he uses that technique?? #AND i think he asked biyoo to cut kdj's screen in part so that kdj wouldn't see him turn into a lady??? #rotating him. centrifugally. #and that's just one guy. han sooyoung and jang hayoung and nirvana just off the top of my head also have Gender Stuff #plus kim dokja's orv stage 3 where he just inserts his consciousness into the bodies of his buddies of any gender <3 #orv #omniscient reader's viewpoint #bi #kdj #my posts #f #kim dokja is literally one of the most bisexual characters to ever and he appears to have zero awareness of this fact #which is great bi rep at least for me lol. some of us are stupid!

[hidefdoritos]

reflecting on life and realizing that I was actually really close to being the third in some good friends' relationship o.O

#they are very pretty #I worked with one of them #got to know them well and got along well #and then met their husband #who is also very pretty #bc we hung out outside of work #then J was telling me all about the last person they tried to polycule with #how she was just a little less mature than they thought and she actively tried to drive them apart and pit them against each other #and be the favorite #(like. come on. they married each other. give it some time as you join.) #anyway J told me about all this life backstory #and both of them being bisexual #(and switches) #then later they asked whether I was poly #(like a 'have you ever considered this #what conclusion did you come to?') #which. the conclusion I came to is that 'it's not for me' #but #well #there's an alternate universe I think

[dulaman-na-farraige]

Talking to the wall here, but I've been thinking more about Nausicaa manga recently and specifically Kushana and the way she's portrayed in it. If you think that viewing the manga through queer lens is impossible just scroll past this and don't scream at me, I'm not making anyone read this or agree with me, I'm just writing down my thoughts

Anything gender related doesn't*really* get talked about in the manga (except for maybe hate towards women in Tolmekia?) but I've read many reviews/analyses regarding Nausicaa and Kushana and the way they're shown as female characters and different"feminine" traits they have, and while I don't really understand treating various personality traits as "masculine" or "feminine" I believe that we don't talk about Kushana's lifestyle literally challenging the way Tolmekian society treats gender norms enough. Just think about it. A princess born in a country where women are looked down on and not taken seriously, where they have 0 chances of gaining any power, commands an army and takes the throne. Not to mention that Kushana also had 3 elder brothers who were more than likely to become rulers of Tolmekia. She's also admired and respected or even feared by many people despite nearly being called "inferior" in the scene with her brother just because she was born a woman. What caught my attention however is that it's unusual to see a princess being given the same kind of upbringing as the princes. Kushana and her brothers were given military education and were expected to command armies, despite the fact that in many ways (gender, being the youngest in the family, not being a biological child to the emperor * according to one of the interpretations of 3 really confusing panels *, just to name a few) Kushana was not supposed to gain any political power at all. You could almost say that Kushana was treated as a prince, despite being a girl, which is exactly why I started writing this wall of text.

Kushana is everything men are supposed to be in this kind of *medieval-ish* society: a leader, a military commander, an excellent swordsman and rider, a talented tactician etc. even more so than her brothers who are never depicted doing anything she did . Sadly, the manga never mentions anything about how Kushana views her position and her responsibilities as well as the way she achieved her status. We never see how she views herself and her gender and how she's treated by her brothers (and probably other people as well). I believe that being female is not exactly comfortable for Kushana, given her rather abusive family.

It may not have been a conscious choice for her, but taking up a social role of a prince is what gave her the privileged position she had. Unlike Nausicaa who never really was limited to a certain type of social behavior dictated by the binary norms, Kushana had to behave according to these norms, but the manga does not explore that.

I'm entering headcanon territory at this point, just a warning for those of you who have read this far. Ever since I reread the manga for the 2nd/3? rd time I can't help viewing Kushana as a transmasc character. She doesn't necessarily present herself in this way fully (the clothing aspect mainly, which isn't explored either) but behavior-wise she definitely does. Her hair could also have been an aspect of presenting in a different way than her cis gender if her decision to cut it short was less impulsive. Obviously that's not the only way to interpret that, because being a butch lesbian also fits Kushana really well. Neither of these hcs have any confirmations and that's why both of them can be valid. Her backstory is a very interesting part of her character I wish more was said about it in the manga

#There should have been at least 2 paragraphs regarding Kushana's relationship with Nausicaa but it's the middle of the night atm and I'm too #tired to write that #Nausicaa manga and film are the classic example of media that was not intended to be gay #but ended up being pretty gay #Kushana's lesbian feelings are left out of the narrative and are rather vague if you ask me #everything related to that we've seen are just that one scene ™ and also a few gay staring panels #she's such a disaster lesbian UwU #the only nearly “open” case of anyone being queer tho funnily was Namulith who almost said he was bisexual #anyways bye #please stop being mad at me in anonymous asks #anybody can headcanon as much as one pleases #it's just my wild interpretation of the manga and I'm not saying that it's valid or that any other possible interpretations aren't

[housewifebuck]

I thought you were a lesbian

Still don't know if you are

Don't ask me why I thought this

I just kinda saw you and just went LESBIAN 🫵

PLEAAEHEKDHDKDJ this is so fucking funny. Everybody I’ve ever met in my life has clocked me a mile away

#I’m gonna be really real with you #bc this is a no judgment space #I’ve gotten in the habit of calling myself bisexual because its easier than trying to explain that I’m a lesbian who occasionally #has sex with men #but I’m not attracted to them for being men and I wouldn’t date a man #I just have no physical preferences when it comes to like…no emotions attached sex for the sake of sex #and I get not everybody can separate sex from feelings like that #but that’s how it is for me #but I’m so sick of hearing ‘if you EVER fuck guys you’re not gay’ #and I also had a really confusing year last year. but I’m pretty much back on track with IDing as a lesbian #(confusing…gender wise) #anyway thanks for coming to my Ted talk #asks #anonymous #personal #<- tagging for everyone who has my oversharing posts blacklisted

[funkycarabiner]

kathleen day you are my favourite homophobe and i love you

#for context kath is the fictional lady in this video #and its also really cool that the plot of this episode is her being homophobic but assuming her daughter is a lesbian #and then she reads a book (or a few) and literaly stops being homophobic only to find her daughter was straighg the whole time #like idk man if you ask me that was pretty progressive for smth that came out in 2002 #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #sapphic #wlw #lesbian #dyke #gay #bi #bisexual #queer

[rescuefield-arch1]

the biphobia in this fandom is wild if you ask me

#nobody asked but about this take i do believe to know better and i'm sorry if it's gonna offend anyone #but yeah we got subtle instances of claire flirting with both guys and girls. seems pretty bisexual to me #or pansexual depending on which label people are more comfortable with i guess #why do i have to go into her tag and read that she's a lesbian who flirts with everyone #i promise us bisexuals are not monsters you can validate us and nothing will be taken away from anyone #people in this fandom LOVE to reach at straws when they analyse characters & then somehow they almost always have shitty takes UNBELIEVABLE #tbd.

[radioconstructed]

⌖ HI, HEY, HELLO! IT’S ME, hi, I’m the problem, IT’S ME, SIMULCASTING LIVE ON AIR and LIVE ON CAMERA! I almost NEVER DO THAT! Are YOU tired of scam calls? I SURE AM! Let’s make these CLOWNS our little APRIL FOOLS! TUNE IN for WILD IMPROV, VOICE ACTING, SCAMMER MALDING, and COVERS OF THE SCAMMER PAYBACK SOUNDTRACK! ALL DAY!

#// gonna drop context in the TAGS! #scambaiting is exactly what it sounds like! you bait scammers. for example pretending to be a potential victim to waste their time. some #people can go further and get their info to report to authorities or reverse connection into their computer and mess up their operations. #Al's goal here is to improv some insane scenarios (see link for an example) and have fun wasting these clowns' time so they can't make money #(this also saves victims but she is fueled mostly by pettiness and spite bc she hates robocalls) #they do get raging tho and she is gonna have so much fun making them rage. she has her own creative insults too. #(first link is long (but worth it) but the second two videos are short) #Her focus is improv but pls remember that she's pretty techliterate (like... her operating system is a linux and she set the hotel network #up with pihole to block all ads on the network) so she is running a virtual machine in case some scammer asks to remote into her computer. #Also! Scammer Payback is a scambaiter with a large following. He collabed with musicians to make a soundtrack. The songs pass as love songs #and stuff but they're about scammers/scamming/scambaiting and it's great. It's Al energy. #Anyway she VERY RARELY goes live on camera bc she dislikes being on camera in real time as there's no editorial control #but this is the sort of thing she wants to be on camera for! she's also broadcasting. #So. Lots of fun improv with live music between calls. It'll be fun. You'll get to see her make music live. Live looping and live instruments #(I don't think city lights & rain on me are officially part of the soundtrack. it's just the same artists collabing. but they have good sax #solos and I think april fool's is The day for Al to unironically refer to herself as h*rny in a song.) #⌖ online #⌖ hellfie #OH! THE FIREARM! I had drafted Al doing an iconic moment from a pengu*nz0 video and decided to use it for this. #She has that bisexual lighting going on too. It's to match the vaporwave music and also bc it's classic youtube.

[bioshzrd]

Heya!

I was just wondering what your Resident Evil gender and sexuality HCs are, if you've got any?

Thank you! :)

I THOUGHT I ANSWERED THIS BUT IT MUST HAVE SLIPPED MY MIND OOPS

this is silly / mostly joking but explanations in tags , also every single character I like is trans in some way shape or form

#starting with the joke categories nemesis is too animalistic to me for me to not feel weird putting him in an actual category #he’s like the i know what you are dog to me #gay but homophobic is characters i cannot stand (i tolerate lucas he’s kinda funny when ppl aren’t annoying about him) #homophobe is self explanatory except mr x is there bc claire and leon are lesbians and he chases them so ❌🏳️‍🌈 #STRAIGHT BUT AN ALLY. i’m dead serious with those i know the bakers are crazy white people but they love their gay children #mendez is also a total ally he loves his gay villagers I FEEL BAD FOR HIM HE JUST WANTED TO BE A GOOD LEADER #bi/pan category self explanatory .. i do personally think Luis is pretty Gay but he also talks about women and i’m on the fence on whether #it was intended to be bisexuality or just the writing team being homophobic and not wanting to make him Too Gay #so that one is up for debate #gay category self explanatory. two men. TWO MEN. /ref #every character im obsessed with is a lesbian #leon? transfem lesbian. (vine boom) #steve? transmasc lesbian. (vine boom) #ETHAN??? HE/HIM LESBIAN. (VINE BOOM VINE BOOM VINE BOOM) #talking #realizing now I left out a lot of people but i was so tired #asks

[zapsoda]

"im not bi but-" why not

#baby girl i can. idk. idk. im such a pretty boy ill make you bi. or something. idk #i look so ambiguous genderwise i turn bitched bisexual #my teachers pull me aside to ask for my pronouns and shit

[puppygirldanhowell]

hi babe what's a bones

AAAHHH HI!!! its a show about a (severely autistic might i add, though it might not be on purpose) forensic anthropologist and her fbi partner and they solve murders together. i PROMISE it's better than it sounds ASLKXBSJDHC

#its suchhhh a comfort show its one of the first ''adult'' shows of my moms that me and her bonded over #not to mention huge fan of fictional death murder also bisexual and most of them r pretty fine #DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED ON ZACK #he is soooo autistic and i would marry his ass on the first date #bones #seriously i love it soooo much it's like if supernatural was good /lh #there is some copganda just bc one of the mcs is fbi BUT if you can look past that #and some of the jokes that reflect more ill now than they did almost two decades ago #its pretty great #asks!!! #rowan tag<3 #ash is mentally ill

[notgreengardens]

22

22. Do you have an emotional support water bottle?

This is the one I currently use and I love her

#there are two things that always get me: pretty colours and colour schemes that can be interpreted as bisexual if you squint your eyes #thanks for the ask! #ask #ask game #anon

[yrbutchgf]

I thought I was a gay trans man for many years, but after a prolonged identity crisis, I've come to the conclusion that I'm bisexual and bigender (both a man and a woman.) I've always felt an affinity for the word butch and related to (as well as was attracted to) butch women. But in my day-to-day life I'm stealth as a cis man. I want to embrace my butchness but I feel like there's nothing radical or nonconforming about my masculinity since everyone sees me as a man. Especially since I'm on the road to getting phalloplasty, I feel like this realization has been sort of pointless. I'm not like those strong butch women who are visibly gnc and unashamed, though I envy them.

honestly, i don't see anything unchallenging about any person who decides to craft a form of gender different from what they were taught was right. in even mentioning that embracing your butchness would be a decision, you are proving that there is something in that action that changes the way you think about your masculinity, and therefore how you perform it and how it relates to others. and personally, i find even the sheer use of the word butch (as a positive thing, an honorific, especially) to be radical in and of itself for the way it can open up a room.

you may come to butchness from a different angle than many butch women do, but then many butch women come at it from different angles than each other. plus, butches from all throughout history have physically transitioned for all kinds of reasons. look at leslie feinberg. to me, and to many people, i don't think it matters what people see you as, 'cause people are always going to put something on you no matter what you do. when i was younger for example, i identified as a butch lesbian, and i was just like. a teenage girl wearing masculine clothing, and in a lot of situations people just assumed i was a guy. (one time it even happened while i was literally wearing a jacket that had a double venus emblazoned on the chest.) but what they put on and expected of me didn't change the fact of what i was, how i identified, or what it meant for me to be navigating life that way.

idk, i understand where your concerns come from, but i really think this sort of self-analyzing insecurity regarding whether you're doing enough by being butch is like... one of the most prototypically butch things i've ever heard, and also one of the things i feel like all of us have to learn to shed one of these days. it's better for the soul

#also congratulations on finding the words for it! identity crises can be really difficult to get through. speaking from experience #these days i conceptualize myself pretty vaguely as bigenderish too so i get it. btwn that and bisexuality butchness can feel #a little difficult to allow yourself to be. but to me even that friction of like 'idk if i can do this' is itself a challenge. #and it gets easier with time as you let yourself wear it. like a leather good that slowly conforms to your shape. #anyway. you are my brother/sister/sister-brother/brother-sister and i claim you #asks #anonymous #bi butch tag

[arthur-r]

actual footage of the smallest dance imaginable. a hundred people bought tickets which is. not a lot for an entire seven cities worth of students in a school. and then there was maybe fifty people total in the building at the most filled up time cause so many people just used the tickets as donating to charity and didn’t even want to go

#was excited to come home and laugh at the dance and then it just got a little much toward the end #but i still think it was pretty funny. also there were so many songs that literally no one there knew?? #my friends begged the dj (social studies teacher) to skip songs no one was dancing to and they wouldn’t #the entire night was really funny before i started falling apart about everything it just became a little much #kind of this whole week combined. monday i tried to take the bus to school showed up ten minutes early waited half an hour it never showed #(first time trying to take the bus from the apartment. school said there’s a stop here but apparently no) #tuesday i tried to take the bus after school and it never stopped within a mile of the apartment. got dropped off at a trailer park #that was not mine. had to have my mom pick me up. and then go to work after like regular #then wednesday was a little bit normal i think. pretty much regular. but did have trouble getting home again!! just not as exciting #anyway then thursday was probably maybe normal?? except my sister came in to school to visit her old favorite teacher. who is my teacher #in economics. and knows me trans and i had to have a conversation with my sister. so maybe not that normal #and then on friday. my older sister had my key card and i couldn’t get into the apartment building. waited outside for my little sister for #twenty minutes in the cold and then we went in the lobby and had to wait for a stranger to get close enough to ask for help. bad experience #so anyway there’s been a lot leading up to today. and it makes sense that i fell apart eventually. but no longer crying so call that a win #hope you all are well. i’ll go to sleep eventually. just a lot to get off my chest. in conclusion wasn’t this dance stupid #we hadn’t had a charity gala since pre-covid so i think just nobody knew what it would be like. i’m the only grade who’s been before #if it wasn’t for the charity gala i wouldn’t know i was trans. somebody complimented my transition there and i was like sorry i can do that? #(had cut my hair short and was wearing a suit. considered myself a stag bisexual and hadn’t heard of transmasculinity /gen) #so i had maybe high expectations. anyway i’m probably running out of tags soon just. yeah. idk. today was a lot #friends only #delete later

[skeletalheartattack]

any song reccomendations?

well i don't listen to music actively, so i can't say i'm the best with song recommendations BUT i can reccomend the Talking Heads. legitimately every single one of their albums are all great; their music is pretty wacky at times but, really they all slap. my favourite album from them is a hard one to pin down, but the album that has my favorite song of theirs (People like us) is True Stories

#ask #anon #honestly the last few songs ive been listening to are songs from moon rpg #goodbye pistol and killer blues specifically. but all the music discs in moon rpg are so fucking good #oingo boingo's dead mans party is also a pretty good album #a lot of oingo boingos stuff is relatively hit or miss for me but. when they slap they fucking slap #dead mans party i think is the only album i can listen to in full and like every song #i use to listen to a lot of pink floyd but. i listened to them so much in high school im audibly burned out on them #their music is fucking great but. oughhh the consiquences of my actions.... #the doors are pretty good if you want some slow rock. jim morrisons a treat to look at but 🙄 thats just me being bisexual #anyway i hope this is of some help!!!!!

[orcelito]

I love openly identifying as gay/vaguely bi & still openly talking about potentially being attracted to men. Like I Do lean towards women, but I also can be attracted to men, & I'm not gonna deny acknowledging that to myself

#speculation nation #and there r gonna b All kinds of ppl saying 'if ur bi u cant identify as gay 😤' but get this #im nonbinary. possibly even genderfluid. it all feels gay to me. #which is why i kimda vague hand wiggle when ppl ask my sexuality irl #like. bisexual I Guess. it's the word that makes the most sense to them. #i spent a long time with internalized biphobia feeling like i was gross for potentially liking men too #literally let a relationship fall apart when i was 19 when some1 i started dating as a girl turned out to be a trans guy #and i was like 'FULL support for u. but also . Oh No . the Man...' #post brought to you by me wearing a very flamboyantly gay sweater to the work party #but still openly talking about my dating history with both guys and girls #& no one said a thing about it. that was pretty nice.

[melusinah]

Why is this show trying to peddle to me that Erxi is hideous when she's one of the cutest people I've ever seen?

#love 020 #zhao erxi #it's the Ann Hathaway effect where theyre like wow ugly!!! take off glasses make hair str8 wow pretty now!!!! #you're telling me this clearly bisexual woman in flannel and her cute short hair is ugly??? #I'd be nervous yo ask for her phone number she's so cute wtf are you talking about #cate