#tw anti mention

[sleepytownez]

I swear never should have even commented an opinion on Pintrest.

Basically got ganged up on from three accounts 7 months after the original comment I made. All three are in a boyfriends/problematic slander group. (And yes, it's very transphobic and homophobic)

Which last comment being stated was. "Unlike you I actually care about minors, just not the ones I dont agree with" which is basically what they said. Which basically means, no. They dont care about Minors actually.

The fact they spend all their time making hate boards is really showing. All while they try to say they are "Normal"

#proship #tw anti mention #tw discorse #pro ship #proshipping

[shxtaloid]

i see a lot of mentions of stances that the flags are against and it's often hard to find archives of those would you consider making an archive of anti-radqueer or otherwise bad or problematic terms for informational purposes? you don't have to include emojis for them this might sound like an anti-rq post but i can assure you that it's not and that i am asking this in good faith, i just want to know the context of things and i keep seeing words and phrases that are not in the archive

it will say something like "this term is anti-dogqueer anti-bananaqueer" and it just starts mentioning words and please i need to know what this is talking about or what the words mean /gen

[this was in our inbox for a while, apologies...]

as much as we'd like to do this for education, we know that there are anti-radqueer beings who have made blankqueer terms don't wish for radqueers to engage with their posts or elsewise.

additionally, we also don't want to inadvertently make a harassment list... since we're well aware that some beings in the community who can and will harass antis, especially those who have created anti-radqueer terms.

i'm well aware that anon here isn't compiling a list of anti blogs to harass. but considering we are on the internet, we are gonna take precautions to protect others and ourselves from harassment or harm.

we do know some two neutral blankqueer archives, though we won't publicly share it. however, we are open to sharing the links privately if it's made clear the intent isn't malicious in any means.

#（🦴）. . . M0D Kyle ﹕he . they #（✬）. . . asks #radqueer #pro para #complex contact #tw anti mention #tw harassment #ask to tag anything else #🩸🐺 #🌞🍓 #transid #transx #rad inclus

[pxppermxnt-tea]

someone just told me to kill myself for shipping CharlieDust, lmfao

#tw suibaiting #tw killing #charliedust #proship #anti dni #antis dni #anti anti #hazbin hotel #proshipping #tw proship #tw proshipper #self ship #tw antiship #tw anti mention #tw antishipper #tw antishippers

[bubby-simp]

you know remember when Hlvrai just came out and the fandom was fresh but it immediately went south

First it was anyone attacking anyone who make nsfw content

(which I know the guy said he didn’t want to see but he technically dosent own the half life chars so it’s a touchy subject and it’s fandom cmon there’s always gonna be nsfw it’s basically an impossible ask but as long as you don’t shove it in his face he won’t ever see it or know about it so it should be fine)

And adding onto that the people who were attacking regular half life fans for creating nsfw fanart thinking it was hlvrai cause they didn’t do any research, literally innocent people were attacked cause of ignorance

Then all the weird stuff with the big banner dnis, the fights over headcanons, people calling others ableist cause their autism headcanons for Tommy didn’t match up or if they dared to not headcanon as autistic at all

The non binary benry debates, or if frenry was toxic

Like the shit hit the fan so fast in than fandom I only stuff around for about a month

Seeing as you’ll probably know has it gotten worse since then or calmer or something different entirely

I agree with all of you points anon. You can't tell a fandom to stop doing anything, they will go against it and there's so much people to stop it'll be just a loop of trying to stop them, others posting more stuff, trying stop them etc. It's like how it's illegal to download movies that you aren't supposed to but SO many people do that and the police even just kinda stopped trying to stop everyone 💀

I also as an autistic person see anything wrong with head canoning Tommy as autistic. It makes sense, but I also like the idea of him just being a overly friendly non human who's too innocent for Earth or this dimension.

Like realistically in the real world a relationship like Fr3nr3y is toxic, but you can ship any fictional character it does nothing to no one. There's no such thing as an "illegal ship" like what does that mean? Udiejdhejejdjdjejrh

I miss the very early days where people were shipping Dr C00mer and Gordon together (Froomer) and I thought it was a really cute ship.

Unfortunately though, the fandom isn't very friendly or safe for creative freedom, 80% of h//lvrai are very aggressive towards proshippers and said violent threats as well as death threats and think they're saving the fandom doing so. Some antis do this and then act like it's all cute and "uwu" and valid to do so it's so disturbing.

Fortunately there are quite a few of us who aren't like them and do whatever the hell we want but we are sorta kinda forced to just talk about stuff in private such as discords or other private chats.

I'm sorry anon that this toxic fanbase made you dip, I understand completely why you did so and I hope you're having a good day/night wherever you are

#anon ask #anti anti #pro fiction #pro ship #answered asks #antis fuck off #tw anti mention #Idk if anything I said here made sense or sounded good and not somehow problematic #I'm just paranoid about getting into trouble LMAOO

[crimson-rain-smoked-flower]

I’m not trying to attack you, but do you know that proshipper means someone who supports and romanticizes pedophilia, incest, and abuse? Your reblog on that post seems to read that you think antis just hate on people for having ships they don’t like. But it’s completely different than that. Just looking on the proshipper side of Tumblr and the internet and you can see people happily shipping children and adults and making nsfw content of such things.

i appreciate that you're not being outright hostile, but i have to say, that on its own put you above basically every anti i've interacted with.

i understand where antis are coming from, i really do. there are a lot of things on the internet that make me deeply uncomfortable, including the minor/adult ships that you mention. i don't want to anything to do with those kinds of ships and i would be happiest if i never saw them again. which is why i'm proship.

nine times out of ten, if i see that kind of ship brought up on my dash, it's because i was following an anti without realizing it, and they brought it up unprompted and untagged, to talk about how bad it is that they exist. they are the ones putting that kind of content in front of my face and making it harder to avoid.

the thing about people who ship those ships is that they're generally very aware that not everyone wants to see that kind of content, and so they tag it. they make sideblogs to talk about it. they don't go out of their way to shove it in people's faces. that means i, and everyone else who doesn't like it, can avoid it.

what antis want is for it to not exist at all. they want the tags to be purged and blocked, and for anyone who uses those tags to have their accounts deleted. and sure, that might get rid of some of it, but do you know what would happen to the rest? it would stop being tagged. people who don't want to see it wouldn't have the tools to avoid it. this isn't just a hypothetical, that's what's happened any time a fan space has tried to do that.

that's not even getting into the rabbit hole of what should be banned and what shouldn't. obviously any content that depicts real children or real life abuse shouldn't exist and shouldn't be allowed to be posted, but basically any platform that people use already enforces those policies, and there's not much of a slippery slope to go down there. if it involves real living breathing people being abused, it's bad. end of discussion.

but the same can't be said for fiction. ask ten antis for a specific list of all the content that should be banned, and you'll get ten different answers. what about kink? what about roleplay? what about horror and murder and anything that involves fictional characters being graphically tortured? what about people using art to process terrible things that have happened to them? what about art that uses dark themes as a horror element? if you just want to ban anything questionable to anyone, that's the line of thinking that gets any mention of lgbt existence banned. and again, this isn't just a hypothetical, this has happened before, and that's generally where it leads.

i know, from personal experience, that antis do, in fact, send harassment to people just for shipping things they don't like. i've gotten accused of absolutely vile shit for shipping two fictional characters who were both consenting adults. i've seen ship wars turn into moral battlegrounds, over ships that an average person wouldn't bat an eye at.

the thing about "romanticization" is a whole other can of worms. the anti logic goes like this: if someone sees something (even if it's very obviously fictional) in a positive light enough times, they will start thinking it's okay in real life, and go on to hurt real people. the problem with that is that it's just. blatantly untrue.

if it were true every horror movie fan would be a serial killer, every person that studies dark media would be an unhinged psychopath, and everyone who is into ddlg would be a pedophile. but they're not. they just aren't. people have directed movies just as fucked up as the darkest shit on ao3, and are still capable of being normal human beings who know right from wrong in real life.

even if someone is that impressionable, scrubbing away the existence of every piece of questionable content isn't going to solve their problem, because they're still going to be vulnerable to con men, scams, and cultists. the only thing that would actually materially help someone like that is developing their own morals and critical thinking.

children are also more impressionable, and there's a lot of content that's not suitable for them, but that doesn't mean that content shouldn't exist. it just means that they should stick to spaces designed for them (which most social media sites, tumblr included, are not) or, if they're old enough to be responsible for their experience online, they, or a trusted adult in their lives, should block and filter out things that they aren't comfortable with.

which is what everyone on the internet should be doing. it's what i do, and it's made the internet a much more pleasant place to be. and it's why i sometimes worry for antis mental health, especially teenagers, because they're being told it's right and moral to seek out content that makes them uncomfortable and to engage with the people making it. and that's just. really bad. it's not good for the creators that they're harassing obviously, but it's also really bad for them! it's not healthy to seek out things that make you feel bad, and it's a terrible internet safety lesson to teach minors that it's okay for them to seek out and engage with people making adult content.

individual harassment and crusading is never going to succeed at removing dark content from the internet. it just isn't. at best you might get a small percentage of people who create that content to stop sharing it, at worst you're just going to make people stop tagging it, and either way, you're exposing yourself to things that make you feel bad, when you don't have to.

if you want to materially change the type of content you see, you can. the block button is your friend, use it liberally. same with content filtering and tag blocking.

#oops this got really long #cd.ask #proship #disk horse #tw pedophila mention #uhhh what to tag #tw shipping discourse #this doesn't even get into the antis that i've seen proudly professing that they care more about fictional characters than real people #because i don't know how to explain to someone that real humans matter more than cartoon characters #or how to avoid content on platforms other than tumblr bc frankly thats a lot of the reason i don't use them #i don't trust an algorithm #also im turning anon off after posting this so if you want to send me hate you cant be a coward about it #also be prepared to get blocked and ignored #the only reason i answered this person is bc they weren't being hostile

[nerdpoe]

Young Justice is always a little...concerned. With Phantom's living situation. Now they're outright afraid for him, and Bart has decided it's time to Ask An Adult.

It was the little quips. The tiny little things. Stuff that didn't seem to matter to Phantom at all, or appeared to be normal for him, that he didn't realize weren't normal at all.

"Oh, better not hope my mom catches me." "Doing what, staying out past bedtime?" "Nah, using my powers; she'd vivisect me!"

"Another stab wound. Great." "Don't worry Phantom, I've got the med kit-" "Oh, I'm not a baby or anything, I can handle it just fine. Just gimme a sec to take it out."

"My dad has better aim than that." "...Like, when he's hunting, right?" "...At what other times would he be shooting at me?"

"Huh. Not as bad as my parents place. Look; they have a decontamination shower!" "Phantom, this lab has been vandalized to the point of needing a hazmat suit." "Did I stutter?"

Finding out each others identities did nothing to soothe the worry. Tim quietly told the others that every time he tried to run facial recognition, he kept hitting a government firewall he couldn't breach. Phantom never told them his last name, just his first, and 'Danny' is super common.

The thing that really did it though, the thing that made Bart snap and run off to ask Max, was when Danny had a nightmare.

He was talking in his sleep.

"No. Don't-stop. Stoooop. I need...my skin. Mom, no. You can't...peel off...my skin..."

Bart didn't even wait for them to wake Danny up before he was standing in front of Max, talking a mile a minute as he tried to figure out what to do, with Wally staring in horror over a plate of waffles as he computed everything that Bart was saying.

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Danny had a dream about his mom and Skulker arguing about how to skin him. He wouldn't really call it a nightmare, because it was just Skulker, but the scariest thing was Skulker insisting to his mom that it was possible to skin him with a potato peeler. Dream mom was arguing that it was not, and that from a scientific standpoint that was a really piss poor way to preserve a specimen.

He hadn't been begging them to stop hurting him, he'd been whining at them to knock it off.

But when he wakes up, it's to a room full of worried friends and an old man who calls himself Max.

"Kid, I think we need to talk."

#dpxdc #dcxdp #dp x dc #dc x dp #phanfic #story prompt #first convo was with cassie #second was with bart #third was with kon #fourth was with tim #max is fully prepared to take in another kid #bart is fully prepared to share #wally went to dick to ask him to put his detective training to work and find phantom's parents #wally was just visiting max #catching up #shooting the shit #when suddenly bart comes in and just trauma dumps about one of the other young justice heroes #who is apparently in a super abusive situation #and probably needs help #body horror tw #skinning tw #but only mentioned in the context of a super weird dream #danny's living situation COULD use some improvements #but it's not as bad as everyone thinks #anti ecto acts are still a thing #but as long as danny is with young justice the GIW leave him alone so #eh #not like they're good at their jobs anyways #max is about to blow his mind with the following information #“you are not okay. it's okay to not be okay. but kid. you need help and we're offering.”

[just-antithings]

Found under a discussion of the ages of various characters using Genshin Impact’s loli model, specifically regarding one character implied to be an adult who’s either very short or has dwarfism (Dori, for those familiar with the game). Needless to say the comments underneath this were a shitshow.

#lolisho tw #loli mention tw #just anti things

[sparkling-pink-lemonade]

Saw a post of an anti saying that they are leaving AO3, as they are too uncomfortable to post their fics there now. The reason? They found out one of their long time readers was a proshipper, despite their fics having proship dni. And how "that includes silent readers too, I don't want you all looking at my content."

My brother in christ, you are posting on the fiction freedom site. The proshipping site. Dnis aren't god damn restraining orders. They are one tool in helping you display your boundaries. It's still on you to enforce your boundaries. You post something publicly, you forfeit your ability to regulate who can view your work. If you're obsessive enough, you can regulate who actually interacts with your work by stalking each person in the kudos list, comments, or bookmarks and then blocking snyone you don't like, but you do not get a say on who may silently read your posts. Not unless you private your work and only show it to specific people.

And if you don’t want proshippers to interact, get off the profic site.

#proship #profic #tw antiship #anti mention #antis being antis #anti harassment #anti censorship #ship discourse #purity culture #pro ao3 #rant

[angrylesbianstereotype]

A day in the life of Walter White wake up in your tighty-whities lie to your pregnant wife. Make sure the lie is completely ludicrous and easily disproven so she knows how little you respect her. Ignore your son. Break into the house of your former student/surrogate son/mistress and launch a series of personal attacks against his character until he agrees to do something for you that will leave him with lasting psychological trauma and probably result in his relapsing. Kill one of his loved ones for good measure. Cook meth. Make flailing Donald Trump hand gestures so that people think you are feeling real human emotions. Cry over the loss of your virility. Throw a live grenade into a children’s hospital or something idk. Go home and lie to your lovely wife some more then throw a bitch fit because she didn’t cook you dinner. Make passive aggressive bedroom eyes at your brother-in-law. Go to bed and get some rest. Tomorrow is another big day.

#breaking bad #brba #anti walter white #walter white hate blog #tw donald trump mention #i hate the bald man he does not leave jesse alone

[sleepytownez]

TW: Abuse and Trauma mention, also Genshin Spoilers and Genshin TikTok being idiots.

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How are these people real 😭 They act like a hivemind.

#tw anti mention #tw abuse mention #proship #proship safe #pro ship #im not even in the fucking fandom and the only character i like has this shit

[shxtaloid]

Hey I’m a bit confused by the few asks you’ve gotten about Heartqueer as a term. The coining post I personally have seems to imply that it’s supportive of radqueer folks (from https://archive.md/SPRVg), with “(heartqueer is) A queer identity in which one is wholly and entirely accepting every individual’s differences. This includes but is not limited to: paraphilia, transID identities, gender, and so forth.” But other people have said the coiner is anti-para and I see from here that the coiner doesn’t want to interact with radqueer folks. Do you have info on what might have changed? Feel free to privately respond instead of publicly if that’s better

from mour understanding, as of late it has been repurposed into a term that's against radqueers, transids, etc. it still remains pro-paraphilia as the coiner does as well...

the 'anti-para' claim may have started since in the definition it says it's focused on uplifting 'survivors' those from the aam/map movement... while it also specifically states it's pro-paraphilia, just anti-contact for 'nonconsensual paras' 🤷

the original coiner says it expresses distress at its usage by radqueers, and prefers not to have any interaction with radqueers unless the original coiner interacts first. [wi might've gotten it wrong the last post, but wi didn't know it exactly then.]

wi're also aware on the original blog, the creator mentioned no longer being a part of the transid/radqueer community while also stating it's fine for radqueers to use the term.... but obviously that was then and not now.

wi'm not quite sure what else to add since that's all wi got, but hopefully this helps.

#（🦦）. . . M0D Zen ﹕he . thou . or any #（✬）. . . asks #（✬）. . . school time #radqueer #pro para #pro transid #tw anti mention #tw anti #cw anti #cw anti mention

[pxppermxnt-tea]

Guys I'm getting harassed by an anti I'm a real proshipper now /j

#proship #anti dni #antis dni #anti anti #proshipping #tw proship #tw proshipper #self ship #anti harassment proship #pro ship #pro ship safe #pro shipper #pro shippers please interact #proship please interact #proship positivity #proship safe #proshipper #proshipper safe #proshippers please interact #tw anti mention #tw antiship #tw harassment #tw harassment ment

[troythecatfish]

#threads #threads app #jk rowling #tw jkr mention #cw jkr #harry potter #fuck jkr #anti jkr #screw jkr #jkr is trash #current events #social justice #human rights #important #i do not support jkr #trans rights #lgbtqia #lgbt #lgbtq #trans community #lgbtq community #lgbtqia+

[dastardly-crows]

my reaction to seeing people compare the real and horrifying reality of childhood SA and violence to fictional characters who will never experience pain or emotion:

#tags for reach #tw vent #vent post #tw child abuse #tw childhood trauma #sa mention #sa tw #tw sa mention #proshitter #proship #fuck antishippers #fuck antis

[xdleviathandx-blog]

Edit: TW mentions of zoophiles (I’m newish to tumblr and don’t know the proper post stuff)

Zoo’s are using this flag to group zoophiles and therians together, DO NOT use this flag. Real therians WILL NEVER support zoophiles

#canine therian #therian community #therian #therianthropy #alterhuman #theriotype #otherkin #anti zoophile #zoophiles dni #tw zoophile mention

[xx-slug-xx]

//tw- mentions of pedophilia, csem, csa, and lolicon

Guys, please please please don’t use the term CSEM to refer to fictional pornographic drawings that involve fictional characters who are depicted as minors

I can’t believe I have to say this, but I’ve seen too many people, just in the past 24 hours, use the term to describe porn that someone drew

Holy shit, lolicon and the like is not CSEM, CSAM, or CP just because a hypothetical and fictional minor is involved in the art. Those terms are specifically used when talking about real sexual abuse cases involving real-world minors.

Fiction cannot be CSEM because it doesn’t involve the direct sexual exploitation and abuse of a real minor! The creation of these pieces of media do not involve the direct harm of a real minor!

Just say “lolicon” or “fictional porn involving fictional minors”. Just use something, ANYTHING, that isn’t used to specifically identify real life abuse materials! Please just don’t use a term that has this much seriousness attached to it as a means of labeling fictional content that you don’t like, even if it triggers you!

You being uncomfortable doesn’t justify the misuse of a term that is used to directly describe abuse, and it makes real victims of CSEM feel like shit when you label some random anime girl as a “victim” right next to them. Because, get this, when you label something fictional as CSEM, CSAM, or CP, you are inherently insinuating that there is a victim involved in the creation of this media, which is inherently untrue with fiction. STOP DOING THIS!!!

#tw pedophila mention #tw lolicon mention #tw csa mention #tw csem mention #proship #profic #antianti #anti fanpol #comship #anti anti #profiction #proshipping #fandom discourse #proshipper #anti censorship #anti harassment