#your body your life your choice

[craycraybluejay]

body modification is cool and hot as fuck pass it on

this includes:

-hrt

-diy hrt

-tattoos

-stick and poke/diy tattoos

-cyborg parts (such as in-body disability aids, mechanical heart, or just enhancement parts)

-piercings both professional and diy

-tongue splits

-scarification

-skin dye

-cosmetic surgery

-accidental scarring that you like to have

-birth control implants

-teeth mods

-eye mods

-literally any body mod you can think of. i love you and your unique and beautiful body and how much work and passion it takes to evolve like that. i love scientific advancement in changing ourselves. i love disabled modders. i love neurodiverse modders. i love queer modders. i love body mods as a symbol of rebellion. i love body mods that are just for fun or aesthetics. i love body mods for function. i love body modification. its awesome as fuck. you are valid and you deserve complete ownership of your body and to do with it whatever you wish. thank you for being you.

#pass it on #body modification #body modifactions #transhumanism #bodily autonomy #transsexual #body mod positivity #autonomy means for anything: even things that are risky or hard to understand or that you personally dont like #my body my choice #everything from life saving aids like birth control and disability aid to aesthetic changes like piercings and scarring #deserves to be protected and defended #because to people who want to own your body for you there is no difference #and i dont care if you ever exercise your autonomy to modify your body in any way. you deserve to have that option. #anyway #body modders are cool and sexy and awesome and and and #yeah hi :)

[archerinventive]

To all my American friends. With only a few hours left, please make sure your vote counts. It’s more important now than ever before.

http://www.vote.org/

#make your vote count #my body my choice #lgbtq rights #womens rights #human rights #vote #vote like your life depends on it #because it just might

[specialagentartemis]

Sarah Sisko’s whole deal is so horrifying and messed up and DS9 just kinda. Glosses over it

#Imagine you are just a random Australian woman on Earth. Living your life minding your business #and then you get possessed by an alien force who have a Destiny they need to enact #And so controls you to go to New Orleans and hook up with a guy you’ve never met and you marry him and live with him for three years #And give birth to a son #And evidently that was what the alien wanted because once you have had a son the alien possession vacates your body #And you are in control of yourself again for the first time in three years #Married to a guy you didn’t seek out with a son you didn’t have a choice in #And the man is sweet and kind and in live with you! And thought you lived him! But you can’t bear it #So you leave him and leave the kid and hightail it back to Australia because what else can you do?? #And eventually commit suicide because you can’t handle this. Your life was upended in an impossible horrifying way for three years #You disappeared from your life with no warning for three years and then showed up again to people who think you just left #It’s the Star Trek universe—‘I was mind controlled by an alien force’ is well known #But that’s not supposed to happen to you. You aren’t a starfleet adventurer you live on Earth. Why You? #I feel like. Sarah your life was so horrifying/tragic and it wasn’t even about you #And even DS9 just brings this up practically in passing and then never dwells on it ever #perpetual perpetual ladies night #Star Trek #Deep Space 9 #ST:DS9

[ms-boogie-man]

*Note: abortion takes more lives in one day than mass shootings (false flags) do all year

Angie/Maddie🦇❥✝︎🇺🇸

#abortion is not reproductive healthcare #murder of an independent life #baby's body baby's choice #owning a weapon of your choice is common sense #liberalism is a disease #abortion actually harms your reproductive organs #if you use abortion as your preferred method of birth control you are a clump of cells and not viable #fjb #2a #1a #solo roba di angie #non solo roba da angie #born a witch #vampire #here i am #arc

[dreadfutures]

idk I just love being out and about in the city or at my large college campus with my eyes open, there are beautiful people of all shapes and sizes and gender expressions everywhere dressing in every way possible

and I saw them and I knew them and I saw they were just living their lives and I saw that they were just having fun and doing what they wanted with their bodies on this earth and it freed me *forever*

no one else is watching you, no one is gonna say anything, except for your bitchy ass mother who has no right to exert any judgement or control on your body born out of her own self internalized shame and hatred.

you can and should wear whatever the fuck you want and free yourself from the fucking MYTH that anyone is spotlighting you and noticing you and fixating on you. no one is paying as much attention as you think they are, and if anyone is paying attention to you, 99% of the time they're meeting you with the energy you exude! so be confident, be happy, be daring or be comfortable, but be YOU and don't MAKE YOURSELF SMALL out of SHAME

And if that's hard then get help.

#body positivity #personal #i wore baggy t shirts and cargos and hid my body for so much of my life #and hated myself so much and thought there were people hiding and making snide comments about my appearance and choices #and you know what thats a fucking lie you and the catholic cop in your head are telling yourself #wear crop tops and mini skirts and bikinis and speedos if that's what you want! #there are no fashion RULES #there are no self expression RULES #body image

[gayvampyr]

i honestly don’t give a flying fuck if a fetus is alive or not, if it’s a human or not, if abortion is “technically murder” or not. i don’t owe anyone else acces to or authority over MY WOMB. even to save a life. it’s the same reason you can’t force someone to donate a kidney to a person in desperate need of a transplant, because it’s your body, so it’s your choice. what will it take to get that through y’all’s thick fuckin skulls

#not even to mention that a fetus is literally by definition a parasite #because it feeds on a host body for all nutrients and is not a viable life form outside of a host #by that logic pro lifers wouldn’t be allowed to remove a tape worm from their body because ‘it’s murder’ #your mom should’ve aborted you #you wet sack of expired milk #we take people off of life support every day because they are no longer alive #yes their organs are semi functioning but they are not living #yet suddenly when a pregnant person no longer wants to host a non-living thing it’s murder? #it’s misogyny #text post #abortion #pro choice

[seraphonfire]

i should probably get that checked

#i don't like explaining my art because like you should form your own opinions and stuff but this one is literally about my dental problems #that i am having right now as well as generally throughout my life #i have weak teeth (and bones) (that's why i can't get lip piercings though i really want to) #i had a really good dentist that i frequented before moving to a different city and it would be very difficult to see him now #and he has all my history like where i had nerves removed and all that and there's a lot and i don't remember all of it #and recently i got a gum infection #and i hoped it would go away on its own (based on nothing) #because i don't take care of myself until i have choice #maybe it wouldn't have gotten so bad if i saw a dentist sooner who knows #so in the end i did see a new dentist and i was like it doesn't hurt that much it's probably not that bad #and she was like no this is actually very bad and it will take a lot of time and money to fix #i was kinda saving up for a new laptop but like that's not time sensitive unlike my teeth. i need those to eat #ive never been afraid of dentists as a kid but now their prices do fill me with dread #traditional art #my art #body horror #ink drawing

[suburbanlegnd]

the 1950s shit they want from me 🙄

#Can the people who theorize whether she's pregnant or not finally shut their fucking mouths? #it's her body not yours ffs #her body her fucking choice #If she wants to have children then good for her #but if she doesn't want them then good for her too! #i swear but people like them drive me insane #first they speculate about her private life and then they consider themselves feminists #i hate y'all #rambles

[todderwodders]

My durge and Gortash’s relationship is like. Two horrible little best friends who put an amazing amount of trust in each other despite their positions and generally horrible personalities making it more or less impossible. They’ve known each other carnally and robbed a few supposedly unrobable places. It ain’t true but it is love.

#also my durge is a huge dnd pot head and a deeply capable monster of epic proportions #Aku is like cercei Lannister motivated by love to even more psychotic extents who also thinks hunting people is a delightful pastime #something something volo said all spawn are coins landing on their sides #he swings from being totally okay #even happy #with his occupation as anti christ #only to fall into short lived but deeply tumultuous periods of meloncholy or breaks INTO reality #where he may not regret his choices but he does regret bhaal and knowing he will never see an end to being father dears perpetual servant #no escape no life beyond this tiny little existence he didn’t get a choice in #he fully slides up to my quasi immortal tav multiple times #still brain damaged #and is like the things I could do to your body over and over and over again baby… #tomoko voice are you flirting with me or threatening me? #Aku voice oh baby it’s a prommy #anyhow durge is a funny tyrannical god complexer who says shit like ‘you approached the blunt with a heavy karmic debt’ after eating #an inn keepers face off and doing some very suggestive tongue stuff before he sucked out his eyeballs like other people suck out gogurt #has had like twenty kids tried to give Enver a kid (his? not? does it matter #take the honor you little worm) a kid only to be bitterly disappointed each time #would love to do some laundry and taxes #nic plays bg3 #they show up to the function (post bg3 events where gortash lives) lookin real good only to go hooooow could you cheat on me like this #(they are both fucking or wooing different people now)

[wavesoutbeingtossed]

Have we talked about this lately with added context:

… When your dinner is cold and the chatter gets old You ask for the tab Or that moment again, he's insisting that friends Look at each other like that

...

#evermore my beloved #it's time to go #look I know its time to go isn't strictly diaristic #and again also not saying that infidelity is necessarily part of the current narrative of the upcoming album #and at that point in her life in evermore we know other partners had cheated on her as well #but with the insinuations about ttpd #and the song choices last weekend #i'm just saying I'm bookmarking this for future reference lol #in the potential 'hiding in plain sight' callbacks #the tortured poets department #… That old familiar body ache #The snaps from the same little breaks in your soul #You know when it's time to go 😵‍💫

[dizzybevvie]

Listen I fully follow wkm lore but like how the FUCK did he come up with any of that

#Markiplier woke up one day and said What if i was a man tortured by himself and his sentient house. #What if you cant die in the house #What if the house lets you fast travel #What if the detective is only a cliche and nothing more; so when he is pressed on the details of the case hes been following for YEARS #hes devastated by the fact that he cant remember a thing? #What if the Damien looked like Darkiplier so that there was a sense of mistrust around him for the whole show #even as he is consistently the only one to help you? What if Damien was nice all along? What if Damien turned out to be Dark anyway? #What if The Actor deliberately made it so that Damien came across as the villain just as he wanted in “DAMIEN”? What if we fell for it? #What if Celine cared so much about her brother that she fucked you over in an attwmpt to help him? #What if she kept him in a winter pocket dimension while you reach out for the cane? #What if he didnt remember everything that happened in the house and is always tired? #What if hes constantly being told “get some sleep damien” and “its time to wake up damien” to show the duality of sharing a body? #What if at the end its all pointless because the ice breaks anyway? What if Damien “life is ours to choose” Mayor makes his first choice #to let his sister sleep while he pilots the body? #What if by the time you arrive back in the present the body Damien and Celine stole from you is looking in the mirror #and just like the ice broke in the pocket dimension; the mirror cracks and you are forever stuck behind the mirror/your device's screen? #What if the detective believes you were killed as he says in WWM? What if The colonel (now Wilford Motherloving Warfstache) #can fast travel; time travel; teleport; and fuck knows what else because he realised he was part of a story? #What if that was the reason the detective was a conglomerate of different noir detective cliches? #What if theres masks on everyone but the detective at the end and I said “what masks?” when asked abt it and you still dk what it means? #What if the gardener didnt have lightning strike after saying “murder” because he hasnt been in the house for years? #what if the house seeded things in the actors head after Celine left him saying about how nothing was his fault and it was all someone else? #What if the house did this for years untik the actor was well and truly manipulated by a force he didnt even know was there? #what if he wanted Damien to be the villain in his “story” which implies that when he figured out how to cheat death in the house- #he also figured out he was a part of a story just like Wilford and eventually Abe did? #What if no one had a happy ending what if everyone was tragic what if people were only what you wrote for them as characters? #And what if the house was my head? What if the house was a metaphor for my brain all along? #and also what if they were all gay? #wkm #who killed markiplier

[badgerburrows]

Do you think anybody ever sat the Gaang down for an interview when they were older to get the real true story of team avatar and the end of the war? When do you think they realized that interviewing them all together was a mistake because these world leaders may be in their 40s-50s now but get them together and they still act like the children and teenagers who stopped the war all those years ago.

#toph calls aang twinkle toes and sokka's like 'you still let her call you that?' and aang is like 'you honestly think i have a choice???' #toph: zuko still hasn't taken me on a life changing adventure #zuko: toph we've gone on several adventures together none of those were life changing??? #they're constantly getting off topic #zuko: facing my sister in an agni kai was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do #katara: idk it sounded pretty easy for you to ask her to shoot lightning at you #aang: wait you what? #sokka: dude you seriously asked your mentally unstable sister to shoot lightning at you??? how have you survived this long??? #suki. who's been Zuko's personal body guard for years: yeah zuko how have you kept yourself alive all these years? #atla #avatar the last airbender

[dollsuguru]

let it be known…. bestie!sukuna does a killer winged eyeliner

#sharp enough to cut a man and that’s his goal i just know he does the meanest winged eyeliner for you in class #you hand him the pen w/o saying a word and he’s immediately grabbing the back of your head to steady you #if suguru sees that he’s like What Thw Fuck Is going onnimm gonna be Sick #firmly believe that reader & everyone in school has a mini crush on sukuna #i say mini bc he is so fucking sexy but the moment he opens his mouth you’re like damn… i regret all my life choices why’s he yelling at me #anyways. reader is the only one who can tolerate sukuna and vice versa <3 reader is friendly so everyone loves them #but like. BEST FRIEND wise? it’s sukie & reader til death does them part 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 i love them so much idk why their dynamic makes me so happy #okay i’m just talking to myself in the tags rn hmmm how do i want him to look #pink hair + black undercut OBVIOUSLY. face tatts/body tatts OBVIOUSLY. #ear piercings + helix + industrials + eyebrow piercing + nose piercing + snake bites + tongue piercing OBVIOUSLY #he’d also wear reading glasses. FKN nerd 😹😹😹 i have 20/20 vision i can’t relate 🤭🤭🤭 #immaculately dressed & insanely intelligent you can call sukuna a lot of things but you can’t call him ugly or dumb #i think he’d have reader’s birth flower tattooed on him too just as a nod to how much he loves/cares for them <3 #where should he work… maybe at the same tattoo shop as suguru? yeah maybe that could work #sukie’ll be a piercer while sugu is a tattooist yeah that checks out #maybe they’re in the same frat? yeah that could work part 2 #okay YAY cool i’m glad i’m fleshing him out :3 #snippets #personal

[iliveinprocrasti-nationn]

one thing abt being disabled/chronically ill that some people don’t get is that sometimes body maintenance that ensures you have the absolute minimum amount of function can also be something that takes away a lot of control and autonomy. you can argue till the cows come home that making those decisions to try and help yourself (or realistically to try to make sure things aren’t worse than they already are) is something that exhibits control and autonomy and stuff, but they can be so limiting in practice because they’re things that take up so much time but have to be done to do anything else

#i have to sleep a lot. i’m at the point where functioning requires 8 hours of sleep if not more #I should probably be getting 10+ but i’m a student and i work so 8 is the minimum. but then also getting ready for bed is a whole process s #the whole thing can take 10-12 hours depending how much im sleeping. just to make sure i can do anything #that is time in my day i cannot use for anything else. it’s not ‘oh but i can push through it’ because i can’t without spending the next da #lightheaded and nauseous and vaguely dizzy and with such intense brain fog I can’t think with my fatigue so bad i genuinely don’t know how #get myself to work a lot of days. my abled peers don’t have to deal with this at all. they have unlimited study time if they want to #and yeah it is a choice i’m making that’s true i could just not do. except i would lose my job and fail out of college because i would not #be able to get to classes or do my homework or think. but being told ‘but you are making choices about your life’ when i have lost so much #of what i used to be able to do because i am spiralling down and continuing to get worse is so. #literally last year i would wake up at 6:30 and then go to school till 3 and then go to my internship until 10 and get home at 11 and be in #bed anywhere from midnight to two in the morning and then wake up the next day and do it all again. i graduated with a 3.9 gpa and made it #into my top college while dealing with my cancer symptoms and then the two surgeries about it #but now i lose half my day to just making sure i can get out of bed. i can’t go anywhere because my body is physically too exhausted #any extra time goes into doing homework or occasionally time to myself #not decimating my health by doing minimum body care responsibilities isn’t freeing. occasionally i have a good day which is freeing but tha #usually goes into just. other things outside class or work or eating. I don’t go do something for myself or go do something fun on good day #because I still can’t. good days just mean i don’t want to lie down on the pavement when i’m going somewhere #I just. I don’t magically have control over my life because i try to get enough sleep. i lose half my day to doing that and ultimately it’s #just a bodily function that would have to happen anyway #this is a vent post im just having a really hard time right now because it feels like im in exponential decline. it was nowhere near this #bad last semester. my grades are tanking and i have no free time because anything outside of sleep is either work or school #vent tw #yall can rb this just ignore my tags completely #disability #chronically ill #i keep trying to explain to people how pots works because that’s all logical but there’s no way to explain what it’s doing to my body or ho #i feel all the time. the last time i felt this bad was when i had a bad flu or immediately after surgeries because i don’t react well to #anesthesia and always come out of them feeling like shit. and now i just feel like this all the time and it’s only getting worse #I can’t even stay up late anymore because my body feels like it isn’t counting the sleep even if I get 8 hours #I can deal if I have a free day the day after but that just leaves Friday and Saturday nights and I usually still have to do homework

[justashadetalkative]

Status

I know I’ve been making poor life choices when the Clemcy in my head is telling me to fix my fucking sleep schedule 😅

Anyway. Sorry for the radio silence! Caught some hyperfocus for a while, and I broke out of that but now I need to sort out things like uh. Sleep. And time management.

#(Not *quite* as weird as it sounds) #(for one thing it’s less ‘Clemcy in my head’ and more ‘thinking abt. Clemcy’s reasoning and going: Wait. Shit. This logic applies to me’) #(and on the other front Clemcy has firm opinions abt. observing ACTUAL consequences and limitations and adjusting your actions accordingly) #(whether you like it or not >_>) #(Which. Well. It turns out that post-covid my body does not tolerate sleep deprivation NEARLY as well as it used to) #(and I… need to figure out better habits fffff) #(Something different than my old baseline even *aside* from hyperfocus-driven extra-poor choices) #ooc #status #life flails

[the-moogle-of-your-nightmares]

one thing i was not at all prepared for about having to go without glasses for a week is how the navigating my environment itself isn't a huge barrier--i have to be really slow and careful and it's annoying, but it hasn't actually stopped me from doing things including in the 'god this is going to be a hassle, i don't even want to start' way--but the major loss/change in sensory input as well as Oh God the HUD is Wrong is apparently a huge depression trigger. replacements cannot happen soon enough

#moogletalks #second half reminds me of when i tried contacts for a few weeks as a teenager and Dear Reader I Hated It #the contact care part aside it felt so SO bad to walk around places that aren't my bed without glasses on my face #and it turns out that feeling is the same whether i can or can't see while i'm wearing them! #i started wearing glasses full-time when i was eight and they're part of my brain and body map now #it used to throw me for a loop a lot when people talk about only wearing theirs part of the time; just because Wait but Your HUD #i thought maybe it was just a 'well i guess they must not need them as [often/heavily] as i to for daily life' #'i wouldn't be so freaked out by the idea of going about my day without mine if i weren't worried about not having them when i need them' #and tbh i think this kinda puts the kibosh on that because my vision *is* shitawful and things *are* more difficult without correction #My Life Would Not Be Unaffected on a Logistical Level #but i feel *considerably* less visceral OH SHIT FUCK THIS DERAILS EVERYTHING about it than many many many other smaller things #it's just kinda oh. well. alright then let's go #in fact i wish i could take a lot more things in stride like this one emotionally lmao #but the lack of the glasses themselves feels exactly as horribly wrong as it did over a decade ago #glasses can come with all sorts of fucking annoying problems and hassles to deal with! #but given the choice of affordable; sturdy; well-fitted glasses with the right prescription etc #i would 100% choose that over unassisted vision #including the increased peripheral vision i'd get from not wearing frames #braintag #adventures in mental illness