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thecoolerspringbon-t · 3 months
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…Valentine's pfp on the main blog…
Yeah cookie run…
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I hope you find true love
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delusionalblfan · 7 months
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Let's talk Ray and mental health.
Ray thinks he is not a priority. That he is easily left behind and not worthy of care. That people have to be patient with him and most won't want to be. Clearly, he has anxiety that leads to abandonment issues, and his mothers lack of care plays a big role in this. Don't have much information about his father, but I believe care is not much used between them. I believe he loves his son but neglects some aspects of his life.
And then the addiction, that is a chronic disease but treatable and a piece of crap. He has the family history, the mental illness, the lack of family involvement, the early use, and so on. If we analize the 4 C's, Ray has them all. He has the compulsion to fuel his addiction, craves it like a physical need, lacks the inner-means to control it or his behavior and has clear consequences to his life in terms on relationships with friends, lovers and family, and with work and also has legal issues. Though, he will go to rehab because the person he loves the most and makes him happy begged him to. Not because he thinks he is ill. So he also lacks insight.
I could also talk about a potential personality disorder and the fact that he tried to unlive himself and the depression. But I'm going to force myself not to do it, or my mental health nurse side won't shut up. And I think we get some relation between those and the aforementioned.
So Ray is someone experiencing mental illness that desperately needs help. He has been bottling up so many shit inside of him, so many unspoken words of 'help' and 'love me' that it's hurtful to watch. And as hard as he tries to bottle it up, his love for Sand grows. So his need to Sand to be the one to understand and stand by him is getting more and more real.
So with the therapist, he just lost it. He once again did something that could potentially make Sand get away from him, and I believe he cannot go on with life without Sand being a part of it. And that's how you love someone but get a clear indication that your mental health needs more love than you need the person. So thank you for considering rehab. But please, take care of yourself and love yourself more than you love anyone else.
Now I'll cry alone
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honeytonedhottie · 4 months
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long list of self care practices⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🍈
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brush ur hair
make urself a warm drink (tea, hot chocolate etc)
light a candle
go outside and get some fresh air
dance to a song that u rly love (look at me/heart-shaker by twice)
put on a face mask
stretch ur body
do a guided meditation
journalling (shadow work/writing in ur diary)
have a bubble bath (or use a bath bomb or bath milk)
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say ur affirmations
binge watch a comfort show
take a break from social media/ur phone
read a rly rly juicy book
paint ur nails
use ur gua sha
oil ur hair or do a hair mask
eat one of ur favorite meals
take a long nap
give urself a pedicure
take care of ur lips (exfoliate, lip plumper, whatever u like to do)
hydrate
do guided yoga
listen to ur playlists
lymphatic drainage massage
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selfhealingmoments · 10 months
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larabar · 3 months
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putting him through it again
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enii · 2 months
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Please grow happy and strong💕
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shitpostingkats · 4 months
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Alabasta Ace is so funny.
Like the strawhats keep commenting that Ace is so polite and restrained compared to Luffy but like. This dude drags himself out of the ocean just to thank them for looking after his brother and offer to help wash dishes. Mans asks "Are these guys bothering you?" and proceeds to blow up an entire fleet with his bare hands. He trips over himself to make sure all of Luffy's crew likes him and no, really, you don't mind that he's a weirdo???? That we, I mean he, are feral little insane guys who take up space and emotional labor and are kind hard to handle? Really???? Cool cool cool hey just a reminder I can help out with anything that needs doing. I got lost in the desert but donnut worry in the 0.6 seconds since you last saw me I have somehow acquired water and provisions for several weeks. Don't ask me how!
Peak oldest sibling behavior.
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bxnnie-bxwl · 3 months
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happy valentine's day everyone! day for you and your loved ones! <33
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catzgam3rz · 2 years
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everything you need is within you
you are stronger than you know
you are the daylight
you are the night
the darkness you fight is within you
the light you seek is within you
you are not alone
Good Game, Mr. Blade
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rjshope · 1 month
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elven princes for my dearest @magicshop🌿
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trans-androgyne · 2 months
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I love you, transmascs, with all my heart. I want to see you love yourselves. Your masculinity, your trans and queer masculinity, is beautiful and should be celebrated. You don’t have to be invisible and you don’t have to punish yourself for being a man or masc. Talk about yourself, talk about your experiences, be loud, take up space. Turn your body into a home in whatever form that looks like for you. You deserve safety and comfort, you deserve community and belonging. Surround yourself with people who will give that to you and don’t you dare settle for less. Remember that you’re a human too—your first responsibility is to yourself before you can help others. Take care of yourselves and each other out there. I love you.
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euphorictruths · 2 years
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Do It For You- Elijah Jambalaya; 2022
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maxiglow · 1 month
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By @peopleiveloved
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