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HELP, I FINALLY FOUND THE FANFIC CRACKSHIP I HAVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR! It was deleted from ao3, but somebody uploaded nearly every fanfic published for years now up to a public folder to download. It was the only one ever written, and I got it now. The only one with that tag, and relationship.

P.S. if anybody of any fandom is looking for an old ao3 fanfic, lmk! It takes a while due to the fic folders being huge, the one I’m downloading after downloading a 6.3 gb file is now 34.8 gb, though it is the biggest sooo. IT WILL take a while, but I will find fics for people if anybody needs. Took me so long to understand.

I’m so happy.

#fanfictions #ao3 #old fanfic #manga #anime #Yui komori #ema hinata #if you can’t guess by the tags #it is them being together #my fav characters #I’m so happyyyy #it’s taken me forever to get here #deleted fanfiction

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Is it just me, or has their been an extreme misogynistic wave in every fandom? Not even just anime or manga, but even in every single type of media. Don’t even get me started on the weird fetishization of gay men, taking men’s trauma who are genuinely complex characters, and making them ugly twinks? Not to mention, the sudden second wave of romanization of mental illness?

Even shows that don’t have men as much, and revolve around the women, it’s happening. Why are all the female characters being gender bent with horrible x readers or ocs? I don’t think this is support for the queer community as much as I think it’s just another wave of misogyny and fetishizing. As a lesbian, it’s so uncomfortable. You can read stories about gay men, but that is not what most of you guys doing. You can head-cannon characters, but again, that’s not what is going on.

Don’t even get me started on the taking of lesbian characters and making them like men. These people will explicitly mention they do not like men, but somehow is in love with a male insert? Lady Dimitrescu and Velma especially.

I’m so tired of not being able to find any sapphic media in most fandoms, unless extremely main stream, because straight men find it attractive or straight women feel disgusted.

Not every character needs to be a male twink or lesbian who somehow is in love with men? Not to mention, the people who write this crap have no idea of what ACTUAL queer people are like.

I can’t even watch any type of media without this crap popping up. It’s so funny how you can find millions of fan fictions, edits, and all that for men who y’all make twinks, but people have to search for hours to find lesbian media.

Also, rewriting a male character as gay and making him feminine doesn’t excuse him of his actions. Nor does his trauma. I have met people with actual trauma that these characters have, I have been to mental hospitals, have depression and family issues and everything, it’s not an excuse. It’s not “hot.”

People feel embarrassed in real life, and it causes people daily struggles.

MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS, PEOPLE WITH TRAUMA, AND QUEER PEOPLE AREN’T YOUR FUNNY LITTLE PLOT TWIST OR FETISHIZATION. WE ARE REAL PEOPLE. If you genuinely can’t write people without making them be fetishized and for other people’s views instead of representation for said communities, then maybe you are just a bad writer. You can write trauma. You can write queer people. You can write people with mental health struggles. All without fetishizing them.

Pro tip: if the media you’re writing about said group is mostly viewed by people not in said group, especially while they’re leaving disgusting comments, you aren’t doing it right. Do research, talk to people, do whatever to stop writing characters like this. If you’re not going to write it like the struggle that queer people, people with trauma, and people with mental health issues face, then don’t write it.

#lgbt #lesbian #gay #media #video games #tv shows #fanfictions #mental health #trauma #anime #comics #manga #yall are nasty #fetishization #so tired

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🥀🕊️Yui Komori🕊️🥀

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A book crystallized in the ocean

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I’m literally the biggest alternative lesbian loser there is, why do you think I’m straight??

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Me thinking women are texting me just to realize it’s a bunch of men <<<<<<<

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Shit posting, but I swear y’all are worst then Reddit and Twitter. Y’all just really are making random crap up.

Y’all use anti-fem and anti-queer talking points to back up random crap, and then claim y’all are inclusive feminist and pro-queer. Please stop. The oppressor cannot be the oppressed.

People can’t be oppressed for these reasons alone:

White people can’t be oppressed. Billionaires can’t be oppressed. Men cannot be oppressed. Cis people cannot be oppressed. Heterosexual people cannot be oppressed. Able-bodied people cannot be oppressed. Neurotypical people can’t be oppressed.

They can be oppressed for other reasons if they fall into another category, but are not oppressed by any of the categories above. I’m so tired of this.

REMINDER THAT FELLOW GROUPS DONT HAVE POWER OVER THEIR EXACT COUNTERPARTS: non-men, poor/middle class, people of color, transgender people, queer people, disabled, or neurodivergent people

I might as well go into one of those subreddits that think every minority is at fault at this point.

#queer feminism #disabled #poc safe #women #Misandry doesn’t exist #heterophobia doesn’t exist #cis people do not face oppression #reverse racism doesn’t exist #able bodied people are not oppressed #poor/middle class literally has no power #neurotypical people too #how is this even a debate at this point #not to mention tik tok #go outside #chronically online

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Radically inclusive people are inclusive to everyone but lesbians it seems....

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Just wanted to say, I think I’m on the wrong side of tumblr. Why do some of y’all act like lesbians are drooling but forcing themselves not to sleep with men and male aligned people?

Lesbians are not into men, we are into: cis-women, trans-women, non-binary people, gender-fluid people, and labels similar

We are not into: men (trans and cis)

(Some lesbians have crushes on fictional men, but not real men. I’m not talking about them)

Guys, y’all don’t have to use labels, it’s ok not to. It’s ok to not know, or to feel like a label doesn’t exactly describe you. You can go by queer, but please stop using the term lesbian. You can create new terms and everything, but this was originally made for non-men to describe their attraction to non-men.

Some people feel comfortable with labels, not everybody wants to be outside of the label. I respect you guys who don’t go by labels, so please just respect people who do.

It’s completely okay to not have a label, or to create a new one. You can go by queer, and that’s okay.

I like having a box for me to relate to other people, you don’t have to if you don’t want to. Just please respect lesbians space.

It feels lesphobic to identify as a man and still call yourself a lesbian, or to date men in the present and do it? Not everybody is attracted to men, this is the label that represents that. Please respect us. Maybe a different term would fit for you, or again, you don’t have to use a term. Can y’all please just stop trying to include men in lesbianism? This is the whole point of being a lesbian. You’re not a lesbian if you’re not a non-man liking non-men. You’re either a straight guy or bi/pan or just generally queer.

#anti lesboy #anti mspec #alt lesbian #fat lesbian #queer feminism #lgbt #labels? #i personally love it #some people don’t though #and thats okay #just please respect people who use them #I think a lot of y’all forget that not everybody is the same #some of us feel comfortable with it #it’s okay if you don’t #it’s okay if your attraction isn’t something you can describe #just please leave lesbians alone #I don’t like men #lesbian #not trying to argue

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Lesbophobes on this site love to act like lesbians’ identity and attraction is something restrictive, rigid, and stifling, a needless limitation that we subject ourselves to, like us only loving women and not loving men is some sort of rule that we’re aggressively forcing upon ourselves and in doing so denying ourselves the right to freedom, with that “freedom” being fucking men. They love to act like we’re forcing ourselves and other lesbians to stick to the majority agreed-upon rule of “not fucking men” and that if one of us does inevitably “decide” to fuck a man, then we’ll be punished by the lesbian cult sisterhood for “being a lesbian wrong” and forced to give up our Dyke Card and be exiled from the community. They love to say “let lesbians fuck men” as if us not fucking men is something we’re unfairly restricting ourselves and each other from doing, because obviously we all must secretly really want to fuck men, we just thought we couldn’t because then the other mean dykes would come for our heads! Won’t someone help out the poor little lesbians who just wanna fuck a man, just once, pretty please?

When in reality, that couldn’t be further from the truth. Lesbophobes can’t wrap their heads around the fact that not everybody genuinely wants a man in their life, and so lesbians must be depriving ourselves of something out of pressure to conform to pure lesbianism. But in reality, it’s not something we’re forcing ourselves to do. We actually do love women and women alone and sincerely don’t want to sleep with men or feel any attraction towards them. Us not sleeping with men isn’t some sort of self-inflicted punishment, in fact, quite the contrary. We’re happy to not be attracted to men, happy to not sleep with them, happy to not have an identity that includes or centers men and their pleasure.

For us lesbians, it’s actually being with men that would feel like a punishment, like something being forced upon us to conform to the right ideals, like something we don’t want to do but feel like we have no choice but to anyway. And many of us have been in situations like this, where we forced ourselves to like, be with, put up with, or sleep with men. And now that we’re not doing that anymore, we are freer and happier than we’ve ever been! Our “attraction” to men or romantic/sexual involvement with men was the burden, not the lack of it.

Lesbophobes always act like we’re missing out on some great and wonderful thing because who wouldn’t want to like men? Who would deprive ourselves of the joy of having men? But us lesbians would rather not be involved with men in any way, and that’s exactly how we like it. It’s natural for us. Not something we have to do or are forbidden from doing. Nobody’s “enforcing” the rule on us that we can’t like men or else(in fact, it’s quite the opposite, we get the message from everyone else that we have to like men and give them a chance or else, and Tumblr is no different.). We simply don’t desire men, we don’t WANT to desire men, and instead desire other women/non-binary sapphics exclusively, and we’re perfectly happy being that way, thank you very much. 😇

TLDR: Lesbophobes on Tumblr love to act like us lesbians are pressuring ourselves to abide by a rigid, strict set of "rules" that force us to distance ourselves from men and never, ever, sleep with them as much as we "want" to(because obviously all women crave men deep down, even the lesbians!) because they can't comprehend the idea of anyone not seeing men as desirable or centering them in our attraction, and so they think we're shutting ourselves off from men and holding ourselves to impossible standards(as if no one can truly NOT like men, sexuality is fluid y'all!), when in reality lesbians are simply naturally only attracted to women and enjoy not being attracted to men; we find not needing a man to be fulfilled legitimately liberating and relaxing for us, and we certainly don't want to sleep with one, so don't you dare try to tell us otherwise.

Derail and disagree with this and you’ll get hit by a car.

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TW: small mentions of SA (not detailed at all), I’m actually confused, please explain, I don’t know what sources are right and I’d rather not end up on terf stuff, short mention of incels, don’t be mean to trans men who use the tag, do not be mean to anybody, if this post is going to upset you right now, don’t read. Transmisandry

Little note before hand: I’m not trying to start a fight or blame anybody, I read quite a few posts under the why are men men tag, and I have never heard of this before? There is no oppression intersection between being a man and anything else, as I can remember. Don’t harass anybody under the tag if you look (I’m saying this like this post is going anywhere lmao)

Not trying to piss people off, but if it sounds wrong or anything, please explain. I’m not trying to be rude, it just doesn’t add up to me, but that might be because of the sources

The feminist movement is meant to be about women’s liberation, especially trans-women, poor women, women of color, disabled women, and women with different sexual orientations.

Im not trying to be mean, but a lot of the talking points from the blogs I’ve seen are just the same exact ones from subreddits like MGTOW and those incel websites. Im not saying trans men don’t face transphobia, but misandry isn’t a real thing. So how can you face transmisandry??

To be oppressed in some type of way, it requires having power over you. As in, the oppressed group can’t be the ones in power. That’s like saying billionaires, white people, able-bodied people, and cishet people are oppressed?

It just doesn’t make sense, men aren’t oppressed for being men. They might fall under oppression from something else, but not for being men. I honestly think what a lot of men mistake “male oppression” for is just capitalism.

The feminist movement isn’t meant to include men, and I would honestly argue for the better. The “problems” men face are often times just from trying to impress other men. There’s other movements for things they need help with i.e. the mental health movement, the me too movement, or any other movements that exist that showcase some form of oppression. Mens “oppression” isn’t really oppression I would argue from being men, as the problems most men face aren’t unique to men. Mental health, SA, or bullying isn’t uncommon in other genders.

Not trying to start a fight, but can somebody please explain to me what it is? Like, what it’s about and if I’m just reading the wrong posts or something??

#lgbt #alt lesbian #trans rights #leftist #transmisandry #queer #marxist feminism #queer feminism #confused #trans people #need help #misandry #Misandry don’t exist #isn’t this just transphobia #are men oppressed? #did something happen that I missed #genuine question #I’m confused #please explain

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Tw: sexual context, mental health, threatening harm of self

Unrelated post, but beware of people threatening harm on themselves or being upset on the internet. This is so sad that people actually feel comfortable doing this..

Also, I don’t know if I’m going to be able to be online for a while.

I have been incredibly panicked for the past hour, dealing with a guy threatening to off h*mself. I met him on wizz, and he blocked me off snap once he saw I opened the text and didn’t respond. I sat there begging him for an hour to not do it, just for him to ask me for n*des so he won’t feel lonely, claiming he had just gotten out of a 7 year relationship.. As a person who has attempted multiple times, I fell for it till he started asking for n*des. I sat there before this spam calling him, telling him I would be his friend and that it wasn’t worth it, just for him to do this crap. It’s sad that people feel comfortable using mental health as a way to guilt trip. Once he saw I opened the text and didn’t respond, he started spam calling me and then, as I mentioned earlier, blocked me. I tried everything, even begging him to turn on his location or to stay on call with me to make sure he is okay, just for him to do this. I was vulnerable with this man, just for him to do this. I don’t even normally respond, but I did to help him, and he pulled this…

As I mentioned earlier, I don’t normally do this. Im not even into men or male aligned people, as a lesbian. But I felt bad, as soon as I got that dm I opened. I normally don’t, as most of it, due to me being an alt women with a larger chest, is just men being weird or sometimes rude. Anyways, don’t recommend giving people your snap or number or anything of the sort. And if you see this post man, fuck you. This isn’t okay at all. Fuck you, I opened up to you and offered help. I tried so hard, just for you to pull this shit? No wonder you didn’t want to give up your address for me to call for help. You fucking liar.

#why are men men? #mental health #mental illness #actually mentally ill #depressing shit #I actually hate people #Why? #I have never hated somebody so much #where do people get off #guilt tripping #lying #wizz #don’t trust people

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I have come to terms with my Eviction.

And why not? I deserve it. I add absolutely nothing to society. I’m useless. I don’t deserve food, housing, or joy. If I wanted these things, I shouldn’t have been trans, I shouldn���t live a republican fascist state. I shouldn’t have lost my job in February.

I should have Grind harder. Work harder.

The American dream is available to everyone. I should have chased it harder.

I have lived in my car before, and during the winter it’s not as bad. It only gets bad during the summer because of the bugs and heat.

I just don’t think I will survive the elections.

This will be one of my last posts. If you would like to keep a black transfemme housed. My goal is $1310 I only have until December 3rd to raise this.

Thank you.

CA: $HushEmu

PP: [email protected]

GFM: http://gofund.me/0aeb98da

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LMAOOO, TELL ME WHY A REDHEAD OF A MAN WHO IS BALDING AND LOOKS LIKE HE IS IN HIS 30S JUST MESSAGED ME TO TELL ME IM FAT LIKE I DIDNT KNOW???!

THE AUDACITY OF MEN IS CRAZYYY

#alt lesbian #fat lesbian #I hate these fuckers #I know I’m fat? #why are men men?

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When you try to make friends online but they’re a bunch of horny men with mommy issues and the prettiest queer women you have ever seen <<<<<

(Love the queer women, Im just too mentally unstable for a ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP rn)

Can somebody please be my friend that’s normal?? Like actually. Just cause I’m alternative doesn’t mean I want to be called mommy or am freaky. I actually hate people.

#queer community #alternative #alt lesbian #plus size #fat lesbian #lgbt #lgbt pride #lgbtq community #IF I HEAR ONE MORE THING ABOUT MY CHEST IM GONNA HURT SOMEBODY

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{Yui Wip cuz I know I’ll ruin it the second I’ll color it :’D}

(( I think you already noticed how my art style keeps changing, it’s cuz I still don’t know which one I like using :’) ))

~ Gyaru Yui is my favorite thing ever tbh ~

I’ll post later when I’ll finish this 0>o”

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