#anti stay at home

[luvsigil]

stay at home wives are begging someone to gaf because they’re getting neglected at home and it’s eating away at them. they have to convince other ppl around them that they’re happy w/ their life and tell other women to join them in a sandwich making circle jerk until the psychosis takes over. u making tiktoks and tweets shitting on feminism because ur desperate for someone to express care for you because ur husband is one late night shift away from having a workplace relationship where he’s wearing her scrunchie to print copies. your children will loathe u. your son calling u a bitch and only interacting with you for his school lunch. your daughter hates u because u project on her at every possible turn. as a feminist i understand it’s capitalism and patriarchy but y’all are pathetic and i no longer feel bad for saying that. ur pathetic and idc anymore because you don’t care you.

#rant #marxist feminism #feminist #feminist rant #anti stay at home #terfs dni

[stardew-bajablast]

can 2024 be the year we stop calling stay-at-home moms stupid for being ‘financially dependent’ and risking being trapped in abusive relationships, and instead start addressing why there are no social safety nets in place for people who choose to leave the workforce to raise their children

#i’m so tired of the way everyone talks about this issue #like no it actually is really fucked up that doing something which is a net positive for society (raising children) #can put someone in a potentially devastating and life ruining situation #tradwife discourse #stay at home mom #stay at home parent #feminism #anti capitalism #capitalism #star rambles

[rainbowsky]

Please stop, I beg y'all.

Aaaaarrghhhhh....

I've been seriously considering blocking some Anons, or closing my inbox to Anon asks. I don't like doing that to turtles, but I'm getting past frustrated and feeling drastic about it. A huge percentage of asks I've been getting are from turtles who do not curate their online experience and who constantly bring Twitter drama and anti messages to my doorstep and I'm tired of saying the same things over and over again.

I can't believe the volume of asks I've gotten about this stupid F'n Douban page, which tells me 100% that a decent number of you are not staying in your own lane!! The only people talking about this (fake BS) are antis!! Stay out of solo hashtags on Twitter!! Yes, that includes GG and DD's individual names. BLOCK AND IGNORE.

If you can't curate your online experience, that's your problem. Don't make it mine, or anyone else's on Tumblr.

You know what bugs me the most, is that some of you seem to put a lot more weight to what those antis who are trying to hurt you say than you do to anything me or @accio-victuuri or any of the other turtles who try to help you are saying. Why do you bother asking any of us anything if you're going to ignore the answer?

Look, antis are liars. I've said this a thousand times.

Douban is a USER EDITED site. Don't let yourself be trolled by haters. Stop buying into their narrative. They're trying to spin a negative story for you and you're getting sucked into it, and it's so frustrating.

If people keep writing me about stuff like this I'm going to close my inbox, or else take my own advice and use the block button. Stop hand-wringing about what idiots are saying on Twitter, or if you're going to do it, please don't do it in my inbox.

Focus on GG and DD and their works. Isn't that what we're all here for? Fandom should be fun!

Whatever you focus on, that's what your experience will be. Just remember that. Choose wisely.

For the next couple of weeks no one is allowed to send me negative asks. If you have any happy, positive questions related directly to GG and DD or their works, please feel free to send them in.

#antis go home #fandom reflections #twitter is a cesspool #stay in your own lane #personal #ask

[jaspyvhs]

Jasper says… SAVE PALESTINE 🇵🇸

Pro-isreal dni ur exetremly gross!!

Dont stop talking about Palestine. CEASE FIRE IN PALESTINE 🍉

Dont forget your daily click !!

#palestine #free palestine #help palestine #free gaza #gaza #help gaza #gaza genocide #gazaunderattack #palestine genocide #welcome home #medhammer #phighting #rentry #carrd resources #hatsune miku #project sekai #tumblr #dont stay quiet #palestine news #war on gaza #anti isreal #pro palestine

[vaxieth]

i genuinely can’t believe people are calling steve a misogynist for dreaming about having kids with nancy. if you heard this and assumed nancy would be a housewife, even though nothing steve said even implied that, you need to examine your own biases and stop projecting them on steve, who, let’s be honest, would 10000% stay at home with the kids while nancy was out being a girlboss journalist.

#stancy #steve harrington #nancy wheeler #stranger things #st4 spoilers #textpost #my posts #women can have careers AND a family? #this reminds of how mileven antis always call el finding any strength in romantic love anti-feminist #anyway ​now i’m thinking about stay-at-home dad steve and i need to lie down

[sinclairstarz]

baby renesmee WILL happen in st5 TRUST. 🙏🙏🔥🗣️

#milkvan wedding so real #holding out for renesmee #and el will be a stay at home mom 😍 yassssss #trust this makes the most sense for their characters and will definitely happen #will can idk probably die in s5 or something lol idc #stranger things #byler #mike wheeler #will byers #anti milkvan #renesmee milkvan

[lissy-strata]

"Sometimes the only choices you have are bad ones, but you still have to choose." - The Doctor

A message for all Americans of voting age: You don't have to like Biden, you don't even have to approve of any of his actions.

But if you choose to protest by NOT VOTING this year, you lose any right to call yourself an ally or progressive.

"But Biden-!" Doesn't fucking matter. If Trump or any Republican candidate wins, not only will the genocide in Gaza continue, but it will get worse. Not only will it get worse, but now the stage will be set for the far-right to install an authoritarian theocracy.

You know what's worse then genocide or an old guy? The fascist hell that the GOP wants to force upon us.

Go read up on Project 2025.

This isn't a game where you can refuse to play until you get a better outcome. You can't protest or petition your way to the perfect candidate. One of these people will be elected whether you vote or not.

There is no way NOT to participate, as not voting for Biden is the same as supporting Trump. (Doesn't matter what you say, that's exactly what it amounts to.)

Neither candidate is good.

YOU STILL HAVE TO CHOOSE.

#politics #American election #voting #seriously make sure you are registered to vote #make sure you have correct information on how to vote #and for fucks sake don't fall for the anti-Biden propaganda! #they WANT you to stay home! #they WIN when you're able to vote but choose not to!

[sleazyjanet]

this is the face of a woman who thinks this could have easily been an email

#maggie smith #dame maggie smith #coronation #anti-monarchy #anti-british monarchy #her face kills me #this poor woman is 88 #let her stay home

[b-a-n-d-e-r]

#a pretty one today #and a good one #doesn't do any fucking good :(((( but it feels better than staying home #lots of people in cars very supportive and grateful too and only one (1) zionist anti lmao #I've always been obsessed with the civic demo alerts I love them. very SF. #interestingly hit or miss too sometimes it will tell you it's a demo; other times it will just say 'police action' or nothing specific at a #but iykyk like oooh freeway shutdown you say I WONDER WHY! ...and sure enough... #free palestine

[theridgebeyond]

Spoilers for Barbie ahead, I guess. But who in the writer’s room looked at that plot line and thought, “Yes. Feminism.” ??

The citizens of Barbie Land spend the entire movie fighting for privilege, not any sort of freedom (I borrowed that quote from the interview with Alok on the Man Enough Podcast 10/10 recommend). Over half the movie is about how awful it is to be a woman in the real world, and then they literally treat the Kens the way women are treated in the real world. That’s canon. The narrator says it Herself.

We never learn where the Kens live. For all we know, when the precious status quo was restored at the end, they just made half the population of Barbie Land homeless.

Yay, girl power.

#when I heard people complaining about how this movie was anti-man I snatched my ticket and said yeah I sure hope it does like everyone else #but I did not feel empowered in the slightest by that movie #where was supportive stay at home dad vibe Ryan Gosling Ken?? #I was fully convinced by the trailers and the hype #like #I was fully convinced he was going to have Barbie’s back 110% and let her live her dreams while knowing that he was enough as he was #but I didn’t taste a drop of respect women juice #not at the beginning and not at the end #and they kept. bringing. up. how. Barbie. doesn’t. return. Ken’s. feelings. #I’m aro - I’ve been in that situation - I appreciate media normalizing how men aren’t entitled to women’s affection #but if you really wanted to make some kind of statement #just let them communicate resolve and move on #that’s it #the cellulite bit was my first indicator that maybe it was a good thing I didn’t spend $40+ on a bright pink outfit #let 👏 barbie 👏 have 👏 cellulite 👏 and 👏 be 👏 okay 👏 with 👏 it #like cellulite is damn cute I don’t make the rules #I could say more but I’m feeling mid as it is already #gonna watch Barbie Princess & the Pauper for some real gender class commentary #barbie movie #barbie #thoughts

[little--beetle]

putt ing the ' rat ' in prat

#↱ home ↲ #radqueer #rq🌈🍓 #pro rq🌈🍓 #🌈🍓 #radqueer community #radqueers please interact #rqc 🌈🍓 #transx #transid #radqueer safe #rq safe #transid safe #transx safe #in an anti server from before i switch ed #stay ed for the friends and infiltration

[makorragal-312]

I was scrolling through the tag and I saw a couple of posts talking about how Kameron and Connor keep inserting Buck into their issues and disrespecting his space and boundaries, and it had me thinking:

I highly doubt this is gonna happen because this show apparently hates us, but I would find it absolutely hilarious if after Kameron gives brith and she and Connor get back together, Buck just straights up tell them to never show their faces around him again.

Like maybe they stop by to see Buck after they get out of the hospital with the baby and Buck is just smiling and being his cinnamon roll self and then when Connor and Kameron are about to take their leave, Buck just goes “Well, congratulations! Thanks for stopping by and please DON’T EVER CALL ME OR VISIT ME EVER AGAIN. LIKE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, PLEASE DON’T.”

And then he just smiles at them and says bye while he closes the door on their shocked faces. XD

#911 #911 abc #911 on abc #911 fox #911 on fox #911 season 6 #911 s6 #911 s6b #evan buckley #911 buck #oliver stark #anti connor and kameron #but all jokes aside #i know everyone is praising kameron for destroying the buck and natalia ship #and im grateful #but that doesn't change the fact that she just waltzed into his house #ate food that wasn't made for her #and instead of going to a hotel like a normal person #she thinks it's a good idea to ask to stay at the home of her husband's best friend #who was also their FUCKING SPERM DONOR #honestly both her AND connor can kick rocks #ever since that stunt they pulled at the station and outing buck I was done with them #sometimes I lowkey wish they just dropped buck after the donation #at least that way they wouldn't just pop up at buck's place with no warning and blindside him #now buck has to sit on his mom's uncomfortable stupid ass couch #like full stop connor is NOT buck's friend far from it #i really hope that buck gets fed up and just straight up tells them how shitty they've treated him and to leave him alone #or at the very least tell them to keep him out of their business #i mean it's not gonna matter because he's gonna end up staying with eddie and Christ the end of the season but still #but yeah

[gentlemanbutch]

If another person — especially a trans person in a blue state — tells me to “just move” because of the transphobic laws here in the South, I’m going to scream.

#like are you going to pay for that? are you going to find housing that accommodates my pets? #are you going to help me find a job that is accepting? #also yes a blue state would be safer without anti trans laws #but there is still rampant transphobia EVERYWHERE #also I have literally never lived anywhere else. did you ever consider I want to stay and fight if I can #did you ever consider that this is my home #idk a trans person was flippant about moving today and it pissed me off #I was expecting compassion and did not get it. #transphobia #trans genocide #transgender #transgender genocide #us politics #lgbtq #lgbt #southern #southern queer

[perfektblau]

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#just wanna say I'm not anti homemaker. #I think ppl should choose the life they want #and this also includes men who want to be a stay-at home spouse too #I just can't stand those hypocrite TrAd wife influencers 🤮🤮🤮 #and their attempt to normalizing doing backward stuff like refusing to drink pasteurized milk.. #I think they know what they're doing. maybe they're just doing this so ppl like me get upset and that improves their business #and just pandering to dumb guys who truly think women must be subservient to male and have no say to anything 🤮🤢🤢 #shut up cici