#aroace tho

[nebuleeart]

HAPPY PRIDE!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

#my art #pride #pride month #lesbian #aromantic #asexual #aroace #nonbinary #pansexual #transgender #trans #bisexual #bada bing bada boom we got em tagged #seriously tho happy pride everyone

[almostshamelesspenguin]

Character: I think boys are pretty

Fandom: oh! They're gay! That's canon!

Different character: I have no interest in romance or sex. I don't understand it. Relationships confuse me. They seem pointless to me. I have no desire to be in a romantic or sexual relationship. I am an aromantic asexual.

Fandom: well, I guess you can interpret them as aroace...I don't see it though.

#has. has anyone else seen this or am i complaining about a virtually nonexistent issue #this is about a particular fandom that im not going to mention tho #not saying theres anything wrong with the first one either #but. cmon #bitches will give any excuse before having a character they can romantically ship #not every character needs shipping. not every character needs a realtionship #shut up for the love of god #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aroace erasure #aromantic erasure #asexual erasure #aroace rant

[theaceofarrows]

Reminder that it's international asexuality day eve, so don't forget to leave milk and cake slices out tonight for all your local aces

#asexual #asexuality #ace #aroace #aspec #international asexuality day #international asexuality day 2024 #srsly tho tomorrow is important

[waokevale]

Context: Lucifer is lonely after the (supposed) divorce and unconsciously ends up pinning for his nemesis/frenemy.

After past experience with Vox, Alastor can almost immediately tell when someone is crushing on him, so he did the only reasonable thing for an Aroace person to do in that situation. 👍

#hazbin hotel #hazbin lucifer #hazbin alastor #radioapple #kinda??? #mostly onesided tho #aroace #aromantic #asexual #hazbin #hazbin fanart

[static-quo]

Not certain these clergy can do anything about cleansing my sins- ówò

#Vox #Alastor #1 AM POST FATHER VOX AND SISTER ALASTOR AND RUN‼️‼️‼️ #this has been living RENT FREE in my head #me b4 ep 5: oh radiostatic yeah it’s cool #me now: OHHHH The bitter exes have MATCHING OUTFITS ???? #Al is 100% Aroace but this is def some kind of queer situationship they got goin on- #hazbin alastor #hazbin vox #hazbin hotel #tagging bc I am proud even tho I didn’t go for full shading _(:’3_\/_)_ #volt’s art

[fizzyoz]

aroace people are so cool because if they live without a spouse and it’s just them theres so much more room for pokemon plushies and other trinkets

#might live alone with may b a cat for this reason #not aroace tho i just enjoy my own company #aroace #asexual #aromantic

[agendercryptidlev]

Thinking about how Riz is the one who first used he/him pronouns for Baron & what it's like being AroAce is a queer space. Thinking about Riz seeing the kinship that Raugh and Kristen formed over both being gay and wanting that connection, that sense of community, but holding himself back because while he wasn't "normal" he also wasn't like them. When you're gay you're family and when you're straight you fit in but what happens when you're neither? How do you categorize that.

Riz isn't afraid of his orientation because he's different by societal standards. It's not being queer that scares him no, it's the isolation of not knowing if anyone else feels the way he does. He knows that if he were gay or bi or pan his friends would understand, he'd be like them and be surrounded by people like him. But he's not like them, he is different in a way that seems entirely unique to himself.

So maybe he kind of wished he was gay, and that Baron existed because that was what he was afraid to admit. It'd be a lot less lonely than the truth.

#riz gukgak #Fantasy High #Fantasy High Junior Year #Dimension 20 #D20 #baron from the baronies #It's like the experience of knowing someone accepts queer folks but not knowing if they accept how you're queer #Tho I don't think Riz fears not being accepted as much as he fears not being understood #He realizes the second he admits he's AroAce he admits there's something entirely different about him than his friends #And he just wants to belong to a group for the first time in his life #To the point that his identity as part of this group is prioritized over his personal identity

[strawberrycowtime]

being aroace must be so nice cuz like you don’t have to deal with romance. you must have so much more free time to dedicate to like. fostering healthy friendships and stuff. idk it seems like it would be easier to live like that

edit: im muting notifs on this sorry i justdidnmt expect it to blow up to much so. yeah

#i don’t think im aroace #bcuz i want a partner and stuff #but if any of my followers fall somewhere on that spectrum #is it like this? #like you just don’t think about wanting a relationship? #lmk if i’m being stupid/rude tho #asexual #aromantic #aroace

[clownsuu]

i love all the flavors of howdydarling art you make sm!! i've really been stuck on the drawings you did of wally with insomnia, i love the idea of howdy carrying his ass to bed when he shows up at the bugdega totally exhausted. i thought it'd be cute if wally stepped in to take care of howdy too when he's feeling overworked, or the two of them just collapsing into a nap pile at the end of a long day

It’s been raining all day and the vibes for cuddles n sweet shid is I m m a c u l a t e

Sometimes when I think about howdy and Wally, I think about them doing that specific lil wiggle/dance you can do with your followers in cult of the lamb smhhh (and frank really wanting to join but is very shy about it)

#Th e mb #Those three are my top favorites NDFHHDDJ #Howdy first Frank second Wally possibly third #Tho I will say I might like sally more than Wally specially with her having the chaotic personality headcanon #Absolutely love sally smhh absolute wholesome chaos #Oh yeah I still headcanon Wally and howdy to be aroace #Mostly because I can NDHGFDHDJDJ #But also I just love the thought that howdy is very generally loving and caring but when it comes to romance #He’s like- super flustered and has zero clues on how to be any of that #He tries his best smhhhh #welcome home frank #welcome home wally #welcome home howdy #welcome home eddie #howdy pillar #frank frankly #wally darling #Eddie dear #Wallypillar #Also Wally having zero clue either so they just kinda vibe and enjoy eachother’s presence #It’s nothing spectacular or ground breaking- #It’s very soft and loving with a lot of convos and understanding #And just having a good time smhhhh

[redysetdare]

I'll never understand why people assume that something being a phase is a bad thing, especially when it comes to identity. because the thing is that our lives are made up of phases - they always have and always will. nothing, and i mean nothing, stay's completely the same forever. it's always changing ever so slightly - we are always changing ever so slightly.

We grew up in phases. We would grow up and maybe we liked robots as a kid but then as we grew up we instead decided dinosaurs were cooler - you didn't see people getting up in arms about how a kid liking something was just a phase and why that made their experience with that interest invalid.

We grow up choosing random jobs that we think would be cool as a kid but then as we get older we tend to choose something completely different - no one ever shut down those dream jobs for kids because it's understood that changing your mind isn't a bad thing. It's not bad to say "i want to be an astronaut" and then change that later. No one makes a big deal about "how do you know you actually want to be an astronaut, though?" because that's seen as a silly question to be asking.

it shouldn't be any different for identity. "How do you know you're aromantic?" how do you know you're straight? how do you know you won't change your mind later and realize something about yourself as you grow as a person?

sure, i'm aroace now. That may stay the same it may not. I'm a human being who grows and changes just like you are. Just like we all are. that's the whole point, isn't it? to grow and change?

So what if being aro or ace is a phase. The experience isn't any less valid. it still helped build me as a person. my life was richer because of it, even if it was temporary. I'd rather grow as a person and be happy than feel miserable because I forced myself into stagnation.

#text #marriage can also be a phase. attraction is a phase #you have probably had multiple partners in your life time. they all count as phases in your life too #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aroace #only tagging these becuz its what i mostly see with this argument #anyone can reblog tho if this fits u

[subparcarrion]

the aroace rage is real. I can feel it in my fucking bones.

I dont even know what to say,, I wanna punt all those weird love songs to the moon and then down so much iced tea I implode on the spot.

#aroace #aromantic #silly goofy mood #idk what im doing lmao #asexual #acespec #arospec #silly #rage #idk man #no shade to people who like that kinda stuff tho #also not all aroaces have the same experience so this wont apply to all of us

[bacchuschucklefuck]

I know a normal amount abt waistcoats

#fantasy high junior year #riz gukgak #heard americans call those vests. deranged. thats not what that is #riz gukgak is a character made to target me specifically bc I am aroace and I love drawing formal menswear more than god #tho Ive been giving riz hard sole shoes which. wouldnt be good for stealth #I wear those I know. you can hear that shit through a meter of concrete #probably less important in a setting with real actual magic so its fine. but its something I do think abt #this kid is so fun to draw... its a Problem for me. I have to force myself to do my goddamn job knowing I could be drawing him instead #its a curse. I have to treat myself at the end of the day. sucks to be here so much

[jaxypaxyhaxy]

My brother just told me that my father told him “Aro-ace people don’t have feelings”

THATS HOW HE TOLD MY BROTHER WHAT BEING ASEXUAL AND/OR AROMANTIC IS?!?!!!? JUST OHH YEAH THEY DONT HAVE FEELINGS AT ALL. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK.

When I tell you the unfathomable rage that stirred up in my stomach. I was absolutely speechless. Like that slapped me across the face I legitimately couldn’t.

#I got so angry I was about to fucking cry #I didn’t tho #like when I tell you I was absolutely SPEACHLESS! like I couldn’t think of something to say for a good 5 mins #I asked my brother to confirm for me and he was like dad said being asexual aromantic means you don’t have feelings #DIRECT FUCKING QUOTE FROM MY BROTHER #fuck my fuck ass father 😝🖕 #demiromantic #asexual #aromantic #misrepresentation #aroace

[groven4]

"I don't ship securitywaiter" I say as I continue to fall deeper and deeper down the "crackship" rabbit hole.

#ig the main reason i feel weird about it is that at the end of the day Ness is currently just a matpat-insert character #and im personally not into real person ships #tho you could argue its just his youtube persona so maybe im overthinking it idfk #the other reason is that everyone in this movie feels aroace to me (mike especially imo) #so like i cant really get myself to ship them without it feeling forced #not romantically anyway. i will gladly shoot just about any pairing with the queerplatonic ray #fnaf movie #fnaf #five nights at freddy's #mike schmidt #mike schmidt fnaf movie #ness the waiter #ness fnaf #securitywaiter #mike x ness #rambles

[my-lonely-thoughts]

Aroace culture is finding out as an adult that sex and romance is not just an over exaggerated concept but a very real thing people like/do 😵‍💫

#no hate to allos! #but im ngl i always thought you just talked and sang about it #not actually DO it lol #love ya'll tho 🫶🏻 #aroace #aromantic #aromantic culture #asexual #asexuality #asexual culture #lgbtq #lgtbqia+ #lgbtqia #queer #my lonely thoughts

[hannaxjo]

friendly reminder it is not like this

it is like this

thank you<3

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aroallo #alloace #they're not the same thing #all valid tho #lgbtqiia+ #pride 2022 #pride #aromantism #asexuality #you can be both #or neither #or only the other