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hey I'm sorry I stopped in the middle of that sentence my brain decided to flush its cache and I totally forgot what this conversation was
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Real talk why does social interaction feel like you’re trying to get a good grade in being a person
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queerasflux · 8 months
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man I wish people understood how much it sucks ass to be neurodivergent and trying to find the middle ground where people like/tolerate you. like, I'm either "boring" (trying to wait my turn in conversations, holding space for other people, taking a back seat to let others get some spotlight) or "too much" (too loud/talking too much, getting excited to share, trying to participate in group conversations/activities). No one really talks about how much of being neurodivergent is just sort of trying to make yourself palatable.
I feel like so much of my life has been spent trying to find this effortless sort of middle ground everyone else seems to automatically already know, and I'm always swinging too far one way or the other. I'm lucky to have neurodivergent friends who grok me, but goddamn I wish that I could just like, exist without the constant background script in my brain that's like "you're being too loud. You're not talking enough. you're being self-centered. you're being boring. you're wrong, you're wrong, you're wrong." I feel like I'm back in high school trying to make friends but stuck as the eternal "weird kid"
it's just... lonely and sucks bad.
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marcymaccamish · 1 year
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Autism: If something changes, I will cry.
ADHD: If nothing changes, I will cry.
ADHD/Autism comorbity: I will cry.
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octal-codes · 7 months
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Shout out to autistics who:
Don't know much about their special interests
Likes food commonly disliked by other autistics
Dislikes food commonly liked by other autistics
Enjoy social settings
Use sign language as their primary form of communication
Use diapers or have troubles with toileting
Like childish things or age regress
Are unable to work
Are unable to figure out their gender
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beenovel · 7 months
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Pro tip for people looking for meds or diagnosis. DO NOT MASK in front of a psychiatrist. I went in for an evaluation with a new psychiatrist this week with the goal of getting meds and I was just fully myself during the interview like bouncing my knees, only looking at him occasionally, breaking off mid-sentence to ask about the room decor (“were you in the Air Force? That’s a really cool chess set. Is that a Star Wars tie????”). And he did not even hesitate when I told him I was there to get adderall or another med he was just like “yup makes sense, let’s talk about your options”.
In the past I’ve always really struggled (and still do!) with masking around other people especially if they’re new, and this has sometimes made it difficult to get meds because I mask so well that sometimes professionals haven’t believed me when I said I was struggling because I looked fine.
Edit: I’ve seen a lot of people saying “it’s so hard to unmask though!” and yeah, it is. For me it was physically painful and nearly impossible. So I faked it. I bounced my leg, I wouldn’t look the provider in the face, I interrupted myself, I rubbed my palms on my legs and none of it was natural. I faked it all. And I did that over and over and over until it was real. Until I was comfortable enough with being odd to actually unmask
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warmafternoon · 5 months
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vroomvroomwee · 7 months
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If I ever give you an interesting rock without uttering a word, you should know that that is the highest form of love I am capable of displaying and the highest honour I can bestow upon you
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ejbuckley · 10 months
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i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again, being autistic is like playing a board game without knowing any of the rules.
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starstruckvega · 7 months
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Shoutout to AuDHD kids who were told to just "be who you are" but then when you were, you got told "no not like that".
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genderstealer2000 · 5 months
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guys we should start a thread about how we feel about our hyperfixations
ahem, ill go first
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Op turned off reblogs so here’s the post as a pic. And here’s the link to the thread: https://href.li/?https://twitter.com/the_tweedy/status/1600287106072735744
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roanawayspoons · 1 year
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angelasscribbles · 5 months
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Neurodivergent Things Part 2
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Neurodivergent Things
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adhdxxsdiary · 5 months
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Share how your Autism and ADHD find a compromise. I'll go first:
Autism: Wants the same breakfast everyday 🤛
ADHD: Wants a new breakfast everyday 🤜
AuDHD: Will eat the same breakfast everyday, until I get tired of it and change to a new breakfast to eat everyday and so on. 🤝
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deetz-ghuleh · 6 months
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My silly neurodivergent brain:
Jumping, thrashing, and slamming my head against the wall with joy when hearing industrial or metal music
If YOU MAKE A LOUD NOISE ANYWHERE NEAR ME I WILL DIE
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