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archivomeow · 2 months

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here are some harmful bi stereotypes that we should leave behind bcs of how stupid yall sound 🩷💜💙

there are probably so many more stereotypes, but those are the ones that i see more often! i also will be doing an aromantic version of this or at least i plan to.

bisexuals cheat more often. — we are simply attracted to more than one genders? there is no proof that people who are bi cheat more often bcs it is not true, im sorry if you got cheated on by a bisexual, but it wasn’t because they were bi, but because of the kind of person they were.

bisexuals are indecisive. — like where does this even stem from??? because they like more genders hence they „can’t pick”??? because „they can’t pick one gender”? like im sorry but are we saying sexuality is a choice now? it isn’t. hope this helps!

bisexuals are just homosexual/straight. — um… no. obv if you identified as a bisexual before coming to terms with your homosexuality that is okay, some people also might think they were bi for some time, just to realise they’re straight and that is okay. however the fact that their experience is valid, doesn’t make bisexuality less valid. both can be valid at the same time. there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and new labels, if something fits at the moment it fits and a lot of people struggle with accepting they like the same sex only so they identify as bi for some time and that is okay! sexuality is fluid. like i said someone having a „bi phase” doesn’t mean everyone who is bi is having said phase. if some people went blonde, but realised they like black better, does it mean everyone who is blonde WILL realise they like black better and they’re just having a phase??? NO. some people just like blonde, some people are just bi.

bisexuality is 50:50 — no it isn’t. bisexuals can have a preference, just like a lesbian can like mascs more then fems, a bisexual can like one gender more and have a stronger pull to one gender, it doesn’t make them any less bi, they still like more than one gender, just have a preference, some bisexuals will be 50:50 and that is also okay, just not all are and it is wrong to assume so.

bisexuality isn’t valid — i find biphobia so annoying, because literally the LGBTQIA+ is a community that is supposed to be safe to those who’s sexuality isn’t „binary”, doesn’t conform to the standard (aka heterosexuality), yet still bisexuality is stigmatised so badly even in their own community. so let me say this again. being bi is okay. you are valid if: you’re a man, you’re a woman, you’re experiencing internalised biphobia, you’re anything outside the binary genders, you are biromantic, you are aromantic, asexual or anything aspec. as long as you’re attracted to more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time, you are bi.

all bisexuals are poly — this is not true & i kinda get where this assumption stems from, but being attracted to more than one gender makes us in no way polygamous, while some bisexuals might be and it is completely valid, not all are. polyamory is present in all sexualities, so assuming all bi people are poly just cause they like more than one gender makes no sense, lesbians can be poly, straight people can be poly, bisexuals can be poly, everyone can be poly despite their sexuality.

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balker-again · 9 months

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Me, who has literally only dated other men and who’s been in love with one for *months* : women are so pretty, why am I never attracted to men… Am I really bi ?

#is this the bisexual version of impostor’s syndrom ?#cause that shit hits HARD #self doubt #bi doubt #bi issues #or as I call them… bissues ✨

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thirdeyesly · 2 years

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tras want everyone to be bisexuals ........ consider that they are fetishizing bisexuals as these people who just love sex with anyone....... that bisexuals do in fact have boundaries and standards ....... and not every bisexual will want to date a man in a dress calling himself sasha...... they just literally want to rape lesbians and are using bisexuality as a tool.........

#bi issues #gender critical feminism #radical feminst #bisexuals are not sex deviants who don't say no and are down for anything #I'm bi and I don't want your nasty ass dick #not into men with delusions

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dabisqueen · 2 years

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!!! Did anyone said bi is not good?

Here take a knife

Wait no don’t they don’t worth it

Dabi probably won’t mind burning more trash

-x

They are just -– indifferent. Like, I don't get any support because they are ignoring it.

Yeah, wish I could start a bi party.

#queen answers #bi issues #coming out

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gay-otlc · 1 year

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Actually I think we should talk about how incredibly fucked up it is for sapphic women to say shit like "I'm no better than a straight man 😔" when attracted to a woman in a way that isn't 100% pure and wholesome, or act like men's attraction to women is inherently dirty, predatory, or objectifying.

#like i mostly get impacted from this as a straight trans man #and the way people- even my friends- have acted like my attraction to women is now morally worse since i came out as trans #but this also affects like. bi/mspec men? it's shitty to shame them for their attraction to women!#and even cishet men. acting like objectification or predatory behavior is just inherent to male attraction to women #let's shitty men off the hook because 'they can't help it' or whatever #or victim blames anyone abused by a cishet man because 'what did you expect from being in a relationship with him'#yeah so like. sapphics stop saying this challenge #transhet #anti-transmasculinity #again i'm tagging because that's my personal experience with that sentiment but it has a ton of other issues too #antimasculism

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hobbymommyy · 7 months

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Would you follow me up the stairs? :3

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moonliteve · 1 month

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you have your father's eyes

#yayyyy bihan daddy issues yaaaayyyy #mortal kombat #mortal kombat 1 #mk1 2023 #bi han sub zero #bi han #mk1 bi han #sub zero #my art #tbh im not a fan of this it looks so flat #but whatever

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tomatoart · 1 year

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wait getting ur ass beat is an adhd trait ?!

#tf2 #team fortress 2 #scout tf2 #pyro tf2 #scout #pyro #ignore how bad these look im posting older art bc i havent been feeling too hot lately #im having major depth perception issues lately but the eye docs ddint think so WEIRD and SUS ! or something *bats eyes* ok #i think id change how i draw him a bit next time but its fine yknow YOU KNOW ?.#also trans bi truther to me. also i wanted to draw snipe too bc the threee of them r besties to me but i couldnt get it right NEXT TIME

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aunmenosheteroenespanol · 26 days

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Is this anything

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archivomeow · 2 months

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possibly a hot take.

there is nothing wrong with defining bisexuality as attraction to both genders.

you can say lesbians like women, gays like men, but not that bisexuals like both???

in open to hear what everyone else thinks, but to me saying bisexuals like both genders comes naturally, not saying they like more than one gender, which is also true.