#but there's also that toxic codependence

[sluttyjonahmagnus]

Corruption esque avatar that embodies invasive species. Of the feeling of losing the identity of a place while native fauna and flora is devoured.

A mofo that trails kudzu in their wake

#tma #tma corruption #corruption tma #corruptions all about rot and bugs yes #but there's also that toxic codependence #the losing your identity in the masses #i just #don't get me started

[aphel1on]

jin guangyao text post meme

#i think someone may have already made that last one with jgy but i COULD NOT find it so. if that was yours sry for stealing ur joke #jin guangyao #mdzs #the untamed #xue yang #is there also #i may be delusional but they are toxic codependent coworkers in my heart #text post meme #aphelion.txt #jgy #villainous friends #xy

[wormboyfriendcentralstation]

i love the contrast between ishmael and heathcliff's revenge plots because ishmael was willing to steer a boat into a whale of skyscraper proportions to tear that old lady limb from limb with her bare hands, whereas heathcliff was trying really hard to increase his credit score. ishmael is here not speaking of hubris. striking the sun if it insulted her. she is madness maddened. she is that wild madness only calm to comprehend herself. in the meantime, heathcliff has trodden on the bathtub mixed timeline moonshine landmine that cathy made in her basement

#limbus company #ishmael limbus company #heathcliff limbus company #i guess if you look at it from a certain angle it's also about revenge and toxic codependency on someone who irreversibly changed ur life #but the difference is SO funny to me #that said it's also like #interesting to see that ishmael coped with her situation by sort of unconsciously trying to emulate the person who was so much stronger #in that moment #to guard herself from further harm #while heathcliff has internalized a lifetime of abuse so hard that he's literally jumping the walls between dimensions to act it on himself #guards. put these people in therapy

[thechy-fychannel]

thinking about wilson loudly throwing silverware into the sink while house was suffering a self induced migraine while simultaneously getting him a glass of water so his bby can hydrate......

#chyanne speaks #i want what they have sorry #is it toxic codependent and doomed by the narrative? yes absolutely #do i thrive in toxic codependent relationship that are doomed from the start? also yes #anyways #house md #hilson #gregory house #james wilson #hate crimes md

[milesworld96]

Sooo….If Hook is rlly in his Batman era

Y know… you can’t have Batman w out Joker😁😁😁😁😁

#PLEASEPLEASEPLEASEPLEASE #GIVE ME THAT TOXIC CODEPENDENCY BATJOKES HAS AND PUT IT ON HOOKHAUSEN #AND DONT EVEN SPLIT THEM #JUST HAVE THE FUCKING WRECK OTHER PPLS LIVES #WALL ALSO RUINING THEIR OWN IN THE RPOCESS BY BEING TOGETHER #I JUST WANT HEEL HOOKHAUSEN TBH #I JUST DESPERATELY NEED IT #danhausen #donovan danhausen #love that danhausen #send hook #730 hook #handsome devil hook #hook aew #aew #all elite wrestling #DONT Split them

[likeastars]

How fucked up it would have been if when Madoka starts to remember that she's supposed to be a god in the movie Homura just. Kissed her.

#YES we love the codependent tight hug that feels like a prison but ALSO #let's go even more toxic #and i bet japan can find some platonic exuse for it they've done it for marriages for fuck's sake #puella magi madoka magica #madoka magica #pmmm #homumado #homura akemi #madoka kaname

[wisteriasymphony]

"How many times do I have to push you away before you realize I'm not worth it?" "...You are worth it to me. Every time."

#using this in TWEOS perhaps?? #they are. so the worst. #but they are also the best. #writing prompts #otp prompts #ITS SO TOXIC BUT THEY'RE ALSO SO CODEPENDENT AND AAAAAAA #aaaaaaaaaa #writing romance #thewarmembraceofshadow #claudrien nation #my otp #writeblr #angst prompts

[keefechambers]

KELVIN GEMSTONE & KEEFE CHAMBERS in THE RIGHTEOUS GEMSTONES SEASON 2

"You didn't have to make it weird." "Yes, he did."

#kelvin gemstone #keefe chambers #kelvin x keefe #the righteous gemstones #look not to be charlie kelly at the conspiracy board here but i feel that we're looking at a rupture in season 3 not a get together #also i just want fandom to stop pretending these guys aren't toxically codependent little freaks in the worst way #all their fucked up physical contact and my favorite is the scene where keefe just GOES FOR IT and tries to play it off #kelvin 'boob boy' gemstone

[seriousbrat]

Severus & Lily + growing up in Cokeworth from my series The Darkest Days on Ao3

They giggle. Lily hands him the can. He takes a swig, then looks mournfully down at the packet of crisps, which is substantially less heavy now. “Sorry, I ate most of them already.” “That’s alright,” Lily says unconcernedly. “Wasn’t really hungry, anyway.” They swing, and talk about Hogwarts, and how excited they are— regretfully, Sev swipes the bag of crisps with a sticky, salty finger, trying to collect every last flavourful crumb.

#lily evans #severus snape #severus x lily #snily #hp moodboard #marauders era #hp edit #mine #waaah i love my toxic codependent children #cokeworth #lily #severus #sl #grimy bricks are such a cokeworth mood #lucky ciara baxendale has several pics next to a brick wall shes saving my life #also yes in two pics sev is represented by a girl what about it??

[nevermoretoleave]

is he your lord before he's your brother? how do you put your duty to your lord before your duty to your brother? how do you tell the difference? — on rahadin, of house zarovich.

@\iasoup-deactivated20190921 / you're on your own, kid, taylor swift / rest achilles, the world will wait, p.d. ( @\lostcap ) / norwegian wood, haruki murakami / so, you're a soldier, m.j. pearl ( @\fairytalesques ) / glass and god, anne carson / infinite jest, david foster wallace / curse of strahd / mirror traps, hera lindsay bird / the cruel prince, holly black / he ain't heavy, he's my brother, the hollies / brother, sister, rival, friend: the longstanding effects of sibling relationships, joshua a. krisch / matryoshka, mabel episode 28 / this is how you lose the time war, amal el-mohtar / antigone, sophocles / sue zhao / underworld, mabel episode 16

#curse of strahd #rahadin #strahd von zarovich #ravenloft #npc: rahadin. #relationship: strahd & rahadin. #hi this is the chara i have *the* most intense feelings and thoughts about #this module has such intense sibling relationships #(see: the kolyans + the velikovs + the zaroviches + etc) #the fact that rahadin's bond names (by name) not strahd but *barov* #and that his affiliation to barov as a *son* is listed before his affiliation to strahd #and that strahd is not even NAMED in there; just the family name #all of that has me FERAL #codependent suffocating toxic sibling narratives (w a dash of power imbalance) my BELOVED #they are NOT good to each other and they know it (and strahd pushes this) #bc like. what's rahadin gonna do. he's got everything to lose and nothing to gain from pushing back #it's not here but please know that in my heart 'how to be a dog' is also quoted here #(please ask me more abt rahadin i will go feral) #also shoutout to one of my players for that quote and grilling him abt his relationship w strahd

[crustycrackhead]

StarHalo is literally when two knights duel: one is honorable and and one would throw dirt in the other’s eye to gain an advantage. Also they’re sweating and covered in blood.

#starhalo #Clay rambles #qsmp #sweet duo #I’m gonna die on this hill #but also like… q!Bbh being so annoying is sooooo he makes me wanna pull out his horns but ZAMN HE’S SO GOOD AT BEING A RAPSCALLION #I say annoying in like positive way btw if you even care cuz I love annoying people so much #like he’s so homestuck troll core if you know what I mean #but anyways that one person taht said the Griffindor and Slytherin analogy is so right for that #THATS THEM?!?? #like dude— most of the time I like just twirling them around my head like little ocs in my noggin #cuz… they’re yuri to me. in my heart of hearts they’re not toxic codependent yuri like 4 halo but a secret third option of rival yuri #rival yuri of the 2 where they start of as a duel but turn a claw filled battle rolling around in mud

[arsenicflame]

The potential hilarity of Stede being so proud that he's helped fix Ed and Izzy's marriage, only for Fang and Ivan to go 'oh they're together again?' and for him to then find out that that was their 4th divorce and this will be their 5th marriage

#'divorced but not devout' ass men #theyve never been married for more than five years #they've been together since they were kids #theyre absolutely incapable of being apart #they are the most toxic codependent people youve ever met #they need restaining orders. they need to be locked in a room together #nyxtalks #ofmd #izzy hands #israel hands #blackhands #edizzy #i love fictional divorce #and i also love them absolutely not being able to stick to it

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is:

“You’ll get a crush someday!”

Five years later, seventeen years old, no crush and forced into a toxic relationship because your mom is toxic

I'm sorry that that has happened to you. To you, and anyone else in these situations:

You know yourself. Even if your current aromanticism is a phase, that doesn't mean people should be invalidating your current feelings and intentions. You deserve to be listened to and respected.

As much as is possible, establish boundaries in your relationships. I will always advocate that a boundary is not "Do not do this", a healthy boundary looks more like "If you do this, I will respond like this." For example, in toxic relationships, there is often an expectation that you will drop everything for the other. It may be useful to say "If I tell you I cannot hang out right now and you insist I should regardless, I will silence notifications from you for an hour." If they disrespect your boundary, enforce your reaction. If they tell you this is extreme, unreasonable, anything of that nature - remind yourself: I am respecting my time. Even if I would like to be hanging out, I cannot, and being pressured to find excuses or being shamed for circumstances I cannot change in this moment is unreasonable and harming me.

Things will get better, and that is a promise. I know at 17 I wanted to reach through the screen and strangle anyone that told me that - but seriously. My life at 23 isn't perfect at all - but I am in control of it. You will get there.

#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod axel #mod phoenix #(bcs the meddler phoenix is [<2] he saw this and was like oh?? protect???) #advice #also totally get if this was intentionally generic due to Internet #but i do strongly advise trying to specify to yourself what about that relationship is toxic #is it enmeshment/codependency/etc? is it specific emotional abuse or financial abuse or physical/sexual? etc. #at least personally that has really helped me with avoiding gaslighting and feeling more confident in describing why i feel the way i do

[taikanyohou]

#And All Three Lived Codependently Ever After. KinnPorsche (2022) : Episode 14.

#vegaspetemacau #kinnporsche #asianlgbtqdramas #asiandramasource #* #faiza gifs #IM GONNA FUCKING CRY #NO BC MACAU LOVES PETE SO MUCH HE WOULD LITERALLY SQUEEZE HIM INTO THE TIGHTEST HUG HE JUST HAS #SO MUCH INFECTIOUS LOVE TO GIVE TO HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #and at first pete doesnt know what to do with MACAU doting on HIM???? but then he gets used to it and realises how macau needs this??? #so he just LOVES macau back SO MUCH oh my GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #and vegas ufihbvhfdbv LMAO the Visible Sigh NFUJVBH LMAOOOOO. #but also IN THE VERY LAST GIF? YOU SEEEEE HIM HESITATING LOOK BACK AT MACAU. like oh BABY GIRL dont even WORRY ABOUT IT #macau ALREADY LOVES pete!!!! #ANYWAY THEYRE MY FAVE FAMILY EVER EVER EVER EVER EVERRRRRRRRRRRR!!! #AND YES ALL THREE of them live codependently ever after ALL THREE fucking NEED each other. to toxic levels. THEY NEED EACH OTHER.

[glittergoats]

the awful feeling of watching yourself become obsessed with a rarepair in a small fandom

#zero escape #zero escape spoilers #virtue's last reward #sigma klim #akane kurashiki #sigmakane #6sigma #my art #man #MANNN #im a sucker for kind of toxic detached but codependent interim lovers okay #obviously sigma and akane are in love with diana and junpei respectively #but the fact is they can't have them. not in this life #not when there's so much work to do #and after 45 years of collaboration on this massive project together i mean there's gotta be some complicated web of feelings #they're kind of using each other yeah #and im sure part of sigma hates akane for essentially ruining his life and forcing him into solitude with the weight of 6 billion lives #but also she's the only person who visits him #and she's the only person who can relate to that burden #SIGH #guess ill have to make the content myself

[kishimotomasashi]

Sliding you all the "Madara's desire to protect and look out for Izuna is genuine and he loves him so much it hurts BUT it's also in large part selfish: it's a combination of him trying to overcompensate for his own guilt for letting his other siblings die and being unable to see himself as anything less than the strongest/only reliable person in the room. To Izuna, who catches up to him pretty well in ability and insists to be seen as an equal, this is incredibly frustrating, and a constant point of tension in their relationship" dynamic so that I can share it with at least one or two people

#send post #Also funnily enough as much as I try I can't really ''toxic codependent'' their relationship at all. I just want them to be normal siblings #I already have my fill of Uchiha Bros relationships that would give an army of therapists the battle of their lives thanks #Anyways if you share this interpretion hmu