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#i don't want to sugarcoat this to yall.
sm-baby · 4 months
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Ive only been vaguely following your swap (?) AU and I have to say you're stronger than any US Marine. Not only the amount of content you put oout but the detail and story and quality- AND you somehow manage to put up with people who don't seem to care about the story you want to tell, or otherwise only read look at the art and none of what you've been saying for awhile. Like if I were you I would have turned off asks because of the crazy flood of Jax lovers, coming from someome who also likes Jax. So I jusy wanted to pop in and say I am in awe of your patience and energy to put up with some of the less fun aspects of fan content
Yeahh ... Ill leave the discussion on this ask for the day U_U Thank you, I didn't know I needed to hear that!
I honestly don't mind that some people only come over for the art, thats still flattering to me! As long as theyre having fun, Im happy!
I just have s o me bounderies I wanna put front and center cuz its hard to spread word to a lot of people with out explicitly and repetitively doing so.
This is exactly why I hessitate to write Jax. Ive had my fair share of people grossly infantilizing my characters and it got so uncomfortable; I do NOT want a repeat of it. I don't want jax to be the mascot of the au, I don't want him to be seen as a pretty face rather than a character I also put a lot of writing into!
Ive had suggestions saying to just ignore those people, and yes! I mostly will! But I wanna flat out say in the beginning that I don't like that before it grows in the background!
Its not fun, and I wanna snip it out. I don't want Jax ruined for me. I want to write him the way I want, and I want others to see him as he is. People are allowed to have their interpretations of the guy, by all means go ahead! I love the interpretations that hes a little more chill, or goofy, or soft-- People are allowed to empathize, find him attractive, and all that! I love that for you!
just not complete... Uh... Whatever that "baby boy", "cinnamon roll" thing is...
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notjuststardust · 1 month
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One Piece Monster Trio +Law and Ace: What kind of dog breed would they be?
Monkey D. Luffy
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American Pitbull Terrier
-In general terms american pitbull terriers are often misconstrued as something they aren't because people want to sugarcoat what their original purpose was, dog fighting.
-THIS IS LITERALLY LUFFY'S PLAQUE THROUGHOUT THE SERIES.
-DOESN'T MEAN THEY ARE MEAN.
-Just means their inner goofball comes out when they are doing terrier things.
-LIKE LUFFY BEING A CAPTAIN.
-Though they're silly, loyal and more intelligent than people give them credit for, a purpose driven life with people that understand that insane drive and appreciate a velcro dog are best for these dogs (ahem, Zoro, ahem)
-LOVE TO EAT.
-Also their big gaping smile reminds me of Luffy too.
-Above pictured is Dino, a dog at my local shelter who has been looking for a home all his life. I have hung out with him and can vouch he is dog friendly, people friendly and an overall great pup. He is now with a foster home to care for his very specific allergy needs. I would take him home and rename him Luffy if I could, please check out his adoption page and share so he can find a good home!
New Bern, NC - American Pit Bull Terrier. Meet Dino a Pet for Adoption - AdoptaPet.com
Roronoa Zoro
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-ANATOLIAN SHEPARD
-Yall thought I'd say pitbull.
-Absolutely not because Zoro has PRESENCE and that comes with a livestock guardian breed.
-These dogs are intense.
-Bred to take on wolves and coyotes and to be willing to die for their families.
-The Anatolian shepard specifically is a very quiet livestock guardian dog hence why I chose this over the great Pyrenees.
-ALSO THEY WERE SPECIFICALLY BRED FOR THIS COLOR TO STAND OUT TO SCARE THE WOLVES OFF AND I FEEL LIKE THATS SO ZORO.
-Though they're MASSIVE they have athleticism similar to big cats because they were originally bred for the fields of Turkey.
-Y'all can't tell me that the level of athleticism Zoro maintains while being built like a tank doesn't make this match.
-Good head on their shoulders to access threats and work well within their job and independently.
Vinsmoke Sanji
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-Dachshund
-HEAR ME OUT
-I'M SERIOUS.
-Dachsunds are go getters, HOUNDS.
-They're independent, drivey and WILLFUL and like who they like.
-They're meant to work alongside terriers (Luffy) to trap the badgers so the terrier can take the threat out.
-Literally the goat of hound dogs.
-EXPLORERS.
-EVERYONE SEES THEM AS SOMETHING THEY'RE NOT.
-Distinguished little velcro dogs who will recklessly fight for their person despite the threat to themselves (SANJI'S SELFLESSNESS??)
-Not actually breed specific but literally every dachshund I have ever met has a love for women.
Trafalgar Law
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-Siberian husky
-I'm going to get really specific and say a husky that pulls lead on the sled.
-These dogs will work themselves until they die.
-They're so stubborn that their drive and need to work literally has altered their metabolisms to adapt.
-Thats definetely what happened to Law's brain.
-ACTUALLY (Their metabolisms are biologically different than other breeds, able to practically slow and speed up at will)
-Not to mention they are meant to be working together at all times BUT are incredibly independent unless forced to work together.(LUFFY AND LAW).
-Smarter than you.
-Also, the markings on them just look so Law to me.
-Don't do well when they aren't working.
-Will easily fall back on anxious behaviors when separated from their jobs.
-Also, I can so imagine Law doing the quiet grumbling that these dogs do when they 'complain'.
Portgas D. Ace
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-ROTTWEILER
-It is in their blood to be silly (not a fact, just speculation pls don't cite me for a college paper)
-Drive for food and play is high.
-Originally bred as herding dogs but due to unforseen circumstances of their size and perception were forced to become protectors of the families of sheep they herded (ACE WITH LUFFY AND SABO).
-THEIR SMILES ARE THE SAME.
-Smart but dumb.
-CLINGY. LITERALLY JUST CLINGY.
-Threat perception and self preservation is skewed just because of the herding breed in them so it can make them a little too brave sometimes.
-Originally bred to be a family herder and fated to be an independent guardian, close to work but far from family.
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msallurea · 3 months
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Yall are pissin me tf off
Sadly darlings I have to be the tough cookie of 2024 today...so brace yourself but do know if you have any issue with anything I say just know you may be part of the bunch that is proving my point in everything I'm about to say.
I would first like to say that everything I'm stating right now isn't directed towards anyone specifically and I'm only speaking generally but I am not about to sugarcoat when I say this post are about the anons...and unfourtanetly I have to give yall the donkey of the day. (AGAIN this isn't towards anyone specifically I'm speaking generally)
First and foremost anons, QUIT SENDING THE SAME GODDAMN QUESTIONS TO MULTIPLE LOA BLOGS!!!!KNOWING SOMEONE!! ALREADY!! ANSWERED!! YOUR!! FUCKIN!!! QUESTION!!!!!????
At first I really didn't understand what loa bloggers meant when they said that anons can sometimes be pretty annoying and honestly before really taking my loa blog seriously I never knew what they meant til now and honestly this THIS first reason is why I'm so upset with yall anons right now. While it isn't everyone it is very very VERY annoying when anons come on here and ask questions and while asking questions isn't an issue at all, IT DOES become an issue when you decide to take your ass to not just 1 not just 2 hell not even 3 but damn near EVERY! SINGLE! LOA! BLOG! YOU KNOW ASKING THEM THE SAME GODDAMN QUESTION YOU JUST ASKED THE LAST ONE and will still have the NERVE, THE FUCKIN AUDACITY, THE BRAIN CELLS to still sit up here and say "omg I don't know what to do" "I don't know how to manifest" oh and the crowd favorite "I've tried but nothing is working because..." 😑😑😑😑 loa bloggers could tell you the ABC 123 version of how to consciously apply the law and manifest your desires and you will STILL sit up there asking multiple blogs just to see if something will change in what we're saying. Honey let me tell you RIGHT NOW, everything loa blogs have said is literally the EXACT. SAME. THING the ONLY difference is how it's explained and the millions of different fonts it's written in 😑😑 and the worst part about it is that if a loa blogger decides that they don't want to tell you because they already know that YOU ALREADY KNOW THE DAMN ANSWER TO YOUR OWN QUESTION all of a sudden they're mean, they're rude, they aren't helpful, etc. Do yourself a favor AND GO TOUCH SOME GODDAMN GRASS!!
This leads me to my next point:
Loa blog or not WE! ARE! NOT! YOUR! THERAPIST!!!
I know I said I was speaking generally but this is specifically for the anons who come on here and decide to TRAUMA DUMP on loa blogs KNOWING they've already done it before. Now before yall come in my comments attacking me do understand, the problem isn't you venting and wanting someone to listen and hear your cry and you needing a slight shoulder to cry on before you can finally say enough is enough and pick yourself back up again. That isn't the problem. The problem comes in when someone who's an loa blogger who btw, unless it is said by the blogger personally that they are actually licensed for,ARE NOT THERAPIST!!! YOU ARE CONSTANTLY TRAUMA DUMPING ON THIS PERSON AND TO PUT THE CHERRY ON TOP YOURE NOT EVEN TRYING TO TAKE THE ADVICE THAT THIS PERSON HAS GIVEN YOU!! to make it even worse, it isn't just when you don't actually try the advice and listen to the help you've been given but you have the NERVE, THE AUDACITY to not only go to 1 not 2 hell not even 3 BUT MULTIPLE bloggers with this same story. Yall finna hate me for saying this but knowing that I too was once this way I don't give a fuck how yall feel about this because you NEED to hear it: STOP LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY TO FUCKING BABY YOU!! IF YOURE NOT GONNA ACTUALLY TAKE THE ADVICE GIVEN QUIT TRYING TO DRAG OTHERS IN YOUR DAMN SOB STORY!! YES YOU MAY BE A VICTIM TO YOUR HARDSHIPS BUT YOU ARE NOT! A! DAMN! VICTIM! WITH HOW YOU CHOOSE TO HANDLE IT AFTER RECIEVING HELP. STOP FUCKING CHASING ATTENTION!! STOP TRYING TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL SORRY FOR YOU!! AND GO ACTUALLY HELP YOURSELF!!
This leads me in with my final point and honestly I think this one has pissed me off more than anything in the world and actually ties in with what I said in my first point.
While I love and admire all anons because of course there was a point in time where your fav loa blogs you see now living there dream life amd have there success stories and what not were once like you where they too struggled and had there ups and downs with the law of assumption...these many different blogs took time out of there life to commit to helping you guys so just like them, you can live your dream life as well. They have created countless post and advice and tips and even the cutest fun ideas to make consciously applying the law daily a super fun and cute experience all the time no matter the situation....with this being said, if you as a anon are looking to find out how to manifest your dream life or whatever desire, and you fix you FUCKING FINGERS TO TYPE IN VERBATIM "I don't feel like going through all these post" and "omg that's too much work" and "I'm not reading all that" and "I don't feel like going through that masterlist" ....while literally not only the question you're asking has already been answered for you SO THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS FUCKING AVAILABLE but I've seen time and time again of loa blogs showing anons where to find the info they are looking for, not only is it for FREE but it is also WRITTEN OUT AS SIMPKE AS POSSIBKE SO YOU CAN UNDERSTAND AND YOU FIX YOUR DAMN FINGERS AND SAY YOU DONT FEEL LIKE GOING THROIGH ALL THAT. Let me just be the tough loving logical one out the bunch and say to anyone who is in fact like this: YOU!! ARE!! FUCKING!! STUPID!! AND YOU DO NOT DESERVE THE HELP YOU ARE RECIEVING FROM THESE BLOGS ...at least not for free and honestly your wasting not only the bloggers time BUT YOURS AS WELL. If you seriously don't wanna take out a couple minutes to really get the gist of the law FOR YOUR DAMN SAKE BECAUSE YOURE THE ONE WHO IS "STRUGGLING TO MANIFEST" FOR THE LOVE OF GOD JUST LEAVE THE DAMN COMMUNITY. I'm not saying that you being here isn't your right but if you're here just to be here and to just follow a trend and complain to others while at the same time being LAZY ASF not even TRYING to truly better yourself and your life by USING THE KNOWLEDGE GIVEN..seriously you are quite literally worse than a lazy person YOU. ARE. AT. THE. BOTTOM OF BOTTOMS!!!! At least someone who is lazy can work themselves to be a bit productive by tweaking what they know to suit who they are as a person so it works for them...but if you're really about to come on this loa blogs pages ans don't do ahit but mindlessly scroll, criticize, shame them, judge them for THERE MANIFESTATION JOURNEYS, constantly asking questions you ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWERS TO AND WILL STILL HAVE THE AUDACITY TO NOT APPLY IT!! With all due respect fuck you. Like deadass. Because you're not really hurting the bloggers you're hurting yourself and dont sit up there coming and crying in these loa bloggers asks talking about "my life is just so miserable" "nothing is working" "I'm so sick of everything I'm just gonna leave" ..knowing GODDAMN WELL YOU DIDNT EVEN TRY TO APPLY THE LAW EVER SINCE YOU STARTED AND JUST OVERCONSUMED EVERYDAY TIL YOU WERE TIRED AND READY TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN TOMORROW. Like real shit this is NOT FUCKIN FUNNY AT ALL, loa bloggers have a life and are human JUST. LIKE. YOU. We are NOT your parents, your babysitters or your heros. We are simoky people who found the law just like you, applied the information given and actually succeeded just as you could to if you STOP FUCKING PLAYING AROUND.
The most sickening part is that yall expect loa blogs to baby yall and be all soft with yall. Honestly this doesnt even just apply to situations with loa bloggers but also many other blogs specifically self help and beauty blogs and really any blog that gives advice on certain aspects of life you may or may not need help in, want to enhance or are interested in...literally bloggers being nice isn't the problem. The problem is when loa blogs like myself and others help you and you do absolutely NOTHING and eventually when we get to a point of no longer wanting to help you because we already know that you know exactly what you have to do...then you wanna have THE GODDAMN NERVE to disrespect them and calling them all kinds of things all because your little ass ego was hurt and you can't handle the truth. NOBODY IS ABOUT TO DO SHIT FOR YOU THIS IS WHY YOU WANT WHAT YOU WANT AND NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. SO QUIT BEING SO GODDAMN VICTIMISING AND ACTUALLY GIVE YOURSELF A FUCKING REALITY CHECK!!
Ima be 100, I genuinely could've said WAY more in this but ima just say this for now because it's plenty of yall anons who either needed to heat this or you've witness anons like this and this is also for any loa blogs or just helpful bloggers in general who take time out of there life to come on here and share you knowledge to the world in hopes that it may help others as well as enhance your growth in your own journey. Bloggers I completely understand that with what you do naturally we help but PLEASE for the love of God we are in 2024 ..I dont want to be a mean person but in all honesty, if you're running into anons like this that genuinely fit the description please just block them or something. You as a blogger are a person as well, yes you help others when they are in need of assistance and guidance but because you are a person who needs help sometimes too...please don't forget that YOUR PEACE, YOUR SANITY is just as important that person you're helping amd do not forget. And to the anons that hopefully don't fit into anything I've said above, thank you so much for supporting loa blogs as well as other helpful blogs such as mine and many others. Yall are the reason why we do this despite if the foundation of it is to improve ourselves, knowing that we inspire others is why we continue to do what we do and why spreading our knowledge of things we've learned is all the more valuable and for that, for THOSE anons, on behalf of loa blogs WE FUCKIN LUVS YOUUUUUU💗💗💗🎀🎀🎀
Xoxo, Ms. Allurèa
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sunnygrey99 · 1 year
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Death Be Damned Pt. 4
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~Trigger Warning: Typical TWD warnings. Minor Character death. depictions of violence. (minors DNI) If any other Triggers apply please let me know.~
A/N:Sooooo I took a bit of a break again and I was a bit stuck on what I wanted to do. Like I've said before I don't like how much unnecessary death is in the show but that doesn't mean there won't be any. I think some are important for character growth. I hope yall enjoy this chapter I am hoping to post another this week.
Wordcount: 2,035
Each member stood outside the doors of the now-locked shower room. They all stare in disbelief at the body laying in front of them. None of them dare to speak first until you and Daryl round the corner.
“The hell happened here?” Daryl’s question was hushed not to alert anyone who might pass through at this time of night. Glenn’s voice is the first from the otherwise stoic group, “No bites...had the doctor look him over. He said it seems like a flu virus of some sort.”
“We are having him and Hershel going around first thing in the morning to see if anyone else is having flu-like symptoms.” Sasha’s soft, clear voice rushes out as she crosses her arms.
“I’ll help them I had a few years in as a Nurse while I was in the military.” You couldn’t help but pipe up in the meeting of the council members, even if you weren’t one yourself. Daryl glanced over at you questioningly for a moment before choosing to ignore whatever thoughts he had about it.
Carol looked over at the two of you before speaking up, “We need to get ahead of this. Quarantine his whole cell block and post a guard. Keep anyone else from dying needlessly.”
“We can’t just send anyone over there and possibly get sick too” Glenn’s conscious speaking for him.
“I’ll do it. I was already exposed to Patrick just by killing him.” You couldn’t help but look back at the boy’s body. This kind of stuff never used to affect you but this time it’s different. These people are entirely innocent. “We all need to start wearing some type of mask too. If it’s a flu its mostly spread through the air.” Pulling your bandanna from your pocket, you start tying one around your head to cover your face. “What do I tell them when they ask why I’ve locked the cell block door?”
 Carol sighs as she looks over at you, “The truth...just sugarcoat it a bit. We better get a move on then. Try not to let this spread.”
With that, you take the key from Daryl and head to the cell block. Checking that everyone is in the cell block before locking the door and setting up a chair where you can see the whole cell block and its occupants.
 The night goes by in a slow drag. Eventually, people start waking up and coming to the front of the block to head out for the day. The first was a dad and his two girls. “What’s going on? Is there something wrong?” His worry is ever present in his voice as his hands grip his daughter’s shoulders.
You give him a tight smile as you stand to talk to him. “We had someone pass away from this block last night. The council is putting the block on lock down until everyone gets checked out by the Doctor. He should be here soon.”
“So...we...we are locked in here? What if someone else is sick?” You are quick to step forward and put a calming hand on the man's shoulder.
 “It's all under control. We have medicine to fight it off we just need to have the doctor make his rounds and once you’ve been cleared we will isolate those who haven’t been. The best thing for you to do now is take your daughters back to their room and keep them company.” The man looks down at his daughters next to him and he nods taking them back to their room. Each interaction goes about the same until the doctor finally arrives at the cell block door.
After letting Dr.S and Hershel in, locking the door behind them he fills you in on what the illness is. “It’s likely a mutated form of swine flu. It’s a fast-acting strain so if the whole cell block was exposed then they will either be asymptomatic ond non-contagious by this point. But the ones with any symptoms should be secluded from the others. I’ve already let the council know.”
Nodding you look around at the other cells. “What do we tell the others that aren’t sick?”
“I’ll have them all go to the showers to decontaminate just in case and stay in another block. This one will need cleaning.”  Nodding you head to the top of the block starting from the end while Dr.S and Hershel work the bottom row of cells. Only 3 of all the people examined seem to be experiencing any symptoms. Karen, David, and the father of the two daughters Ryan. It wasn’t until the final cell on the top row that things started to look grimmer. A growl has you pulling your hunting knife from its sheath. Pulling the makeshift curtains to the side it a walker makes its way to the bars. It felt like an eternity as the man got close enough. sticking the long hunting machete through the bars he simply walked into the blade himself. Pulling back and taking a deep breath you turn to look at Hershel and Dr.S talking at the bottom of the steps.
They give pause looking at the grim look written across your features. Shaking your head and walking down to give them the news. “Who was it?”
A shaky sigh escapes you, “I don’t know his name. I only met him last a couple a nights ago when he swapped me on fence duty.” He had been nice to you and given you a fresh water bottle before taking your place.
It was then that Rick and Daryl walk through the cell block doors. “Bathroom should be clear for the others to wash up now. How’d rounds go?” Rick’s calm voice has a hint of anxiety to it.
Not wanting to have the others relay the bad news to the others you take it upon yourself. Pointing up to the cell you give another sigh, “Only one passed. Must’a been sometime in the night, he locked himself in his cell. Only 3 others are showing symptoms.”
Daryl’s eyes followed where you were pointing. His stoic features only give away the sadness and recognition slightly. “That’s Charlie’s cell. Use ta sleepwalk.” His voice was quiet as the name left his lips.
Looking to Dr.S you decide to relay any other information as Rick and Daryl head up to take the body out to be buried.
The day progresses slowly until screaming can be heard at the front gate. By the time you make sure Judith is safe with Carl and Sophia, you make your way to the fence Rick and Daryl are already on the other side of the fence leading the walkers away with the sick pigs. Pulling your hunting machete out you make your way to the other side of the fence killing off any stragglers that get too close to the truck. Daryl shouts out the window at you with half a grin and the other half worry, “What the hell ya doin’ woman? Gonna get yerself killed!”
You only smile over at the man before you slice the closest walker’s head clean in half. By the time all the pigs were dead and all the walkers from the build-up were laying motionless Daryl and Rick swing back around to pick you up.  You plop down next to Rick who doesn’t seem very happy about today’s events either. You give him a knowing nod.
He gives a scoff and half smile, “Why the hell ya gotta be like that? That was stupid.”
You roll your eyes at him as you all re-enter the gates “I ain’t never been smart Rick you know that.” You wink at him and shove his shoulder. The small playful smiles on your faces fall when you both see a very upset Tyreese.
Everything seemed to happen all at once and one right after the other. On zero sleep You stand over the chard remains of three bodies. The same three that you had led to that room earlier in the day. Karen, David, and Ryan were all dead now. It isn’t until you have to help pull Tyreese off of Rick that it becomes so real and so fast. Your first thought going to Sophia and if she’s safe being here with a murderer along with this flu. Then the pain hits you that she isn’t yours to look out for anymore even if you desperately want to. At that moment you decide it's best for you to leave. This would cause problems if you don’t.
~3:00 AM ~
Sliding the last thing in your old bag you decide it's best to leave without as many people knowing as possible. Leaving a handwritten note for Carl, Rick, and Sophia laying on your bed for one of them to find. As quietly as possible you make your way to the front gate only to be stopped by a gruff voice.
“Ya really leavin’?” He has been the only person this whole time that’s been able to sneak up on you without even trying. Freezing to your spot only nodding at the man in the dark of the night. “Why? Ya found yer family here...”
Sighing at the man you turn to fully face him. “Daryl...I don’t have any family. My brother is dead. Sophia ain’t mine and well Rick was just Shane’s best friend.”
He scuffs, “That’s some bullshit and ya know it.” He starts pacing slightly like he usually does when he gets upset. You’d seen him do it a few times now.
 “I can’t stay Daryl. It’s not fair to them if I do.” Turning to walk off you stop as Daryl grabs your arm just tight enough to keep you from stomping off.
“They need ya and yer just gonna leave? Sophia still needs ya. Ya’ve been protectin’ her this whole time and now you are gonna leave her high an’ dry? I can’t accept that.” His grip tightens slightly at his words.
You rip your arm from his grip. “You’re gonna have to. Carol is her mom. Not me. I only promised her I’d get her back to her family. I should have just left that first night. Would have been easier for all of them.” With that, you stalked off. Daryl tries to follow after you but you make a break out the gate and toward the woods faster than Daryl can get them to close the gate back up. Tears stream silently down your face as each step gets harder to take away from the prison that was starting to feel like a home for the first time in your life.
After finding your bike that you had hidden away from the prison you made your way as far away from the camp as you could. Little did you know they would have needed you more than ever in the next few days to come. Weeks later you go back just to check on them. You regretted ever leaving since you ran out the gates. Seeing the overrun fences and the walkers everywhere your heart shattered. It was the worst feeling you could imagine. Anger coursed through your veins as you slashed your way through every single walker in the field then all the ones in the courtyard. Even the fatigue in your muscles was pushed aside by the pure rage burning through you. By the last walker you still hadn’t found any of them. Only a few were people you recognized but the others had to be out there somewhere and you were determined to find them again and make sure nothing else would ever happen to them again.
Part 5
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rosecrystal · 1 year
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So I need some input/advise if you wouldn’t mind please 💕. So basically I was talking to this guy for over a year long distance, he lives in Miami and we’ve met 4 times in person. We would talk consistently, he told me how he wanted a relationship, for me to move there, have kids with him and all that but every time I’ve gone there something happened (him leaving me unexpectedly, him not being able to see me for very long telling me it was because he was taking care of his grandpa who he lived with) anyway but he kept in contact all this time and was just about to go see him again in 2 days and I received a call from a Miami phone number which I thought was weird so answered it and it was a girl and she goes “hi I received a phone call from this phone number” and I was like “no I didn’t call you” then she hangs up abruptly...then she calls back like 2 minutes later and then says she actually saw my phone number on her boyfriends phone and wondered how I knew her boyfriend...we continued to talk she at first told me they were together for a year and then she changed it for some reason to 3 years over text after I sent her the proof and everything of our texts and she was nice and respectful and not mad at me at all and after sending her all the texts to confirm she told me they broke up...he blocked me after I called him as he was on the way back to see her and I was like “you have a girlfriend” and then he goes “you had a dating app and hangs up and blocks me”...I did have a dating app and he went through my phone last time I was there and saw it and was upset and said “it broke him”. We weren’t ever official and like I said every time I went there he would leave me. Anyway, I have tried to call him from a private number many times because he blocked me and he’s been so hurtful. He unblocked me and said to “stop texting him, to move on, how he’s blocking me, how it’s clearly over, to stop being obsessed and to find someone else” why is he saying this when I was supposed to go there 2 days after the girlfriend called me?? Like they broke up and now he’s saying he doesn’t want to see me? I don’t understand...he’s also done this a lot with me where he’ll say bye or it’s done, block me and always come back. So our relationship has been challenging to say the least. But doesn’t it mean something that he’s kept in contact with me this long? At first, I thought he just wanted to hookup but he kept on talking to me and wanting me to go see him...for over a year. Why would he do this when he’s had a girlfriend of 3 years and she said they basically were living together. I don’t understand. Any input?
I'm not gonna sugarcoat this.. And I know it's not pretty to hear but for a lot of yall the reason why these cheating/inconsistent men keep coming back to you is not because there's something special between you - it's because you allow them. You allow them to keep putting in minimum effort and give them benefits far greater than they deserve. And yes, allowing for physical/mental/emotional intimacy is a benefit far greater than they deserve. If I find a machine that whenever I put 50 cents in it gives me back 500 dollars it's a matter of fact that I will keep going back. My question for you is - are you really chasing after a man who is a cheater? Who lied to you several times? Who doesn't own up to his responsibilities and doesn't hold himself accountable for his actions? Who has shown you time after time that he doesn't care about you? Whose actions don't match his words? Who instead of apologizing and owning up to what he did accused YOU of being in a dating app (while yall werent even exclusive) while HE WAS IN A WHOLE RELATIONSHIP ALL THE TIME? Girl is this who you want?????
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toyafreethoughts · 8 months
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alright, then!! may I request a prsk match up? I don't mind romantic but platonic is preferred! (also I would like it if you choose a girl)
personality: I'm an ISFP, and my syns are ena, shiho, saki, minori, and shizuku!! I'm considered dumb to others since my academic skills aren't so good.. luckily, there are other people who think otherwise of me! I'm more of an ambivert, and I don't have a side that I slightly lean on. I like to think optimistically, but I do allow to let myself to be negative to balance my emotions. I'm pretty creative and could make an interpretation of an object I'm fond of! Writing paragraphs of something or someone is my forte, after all. I could be seen as a loquacious person sometimes. Although I'm good at complimenting others and like to make people happy, I can't say I will sugarcoat your actions or work. I could be brutally honest and blunt when I find it necessary. I'm still an airhead and quite apathetic, though-
Likes/hobbies: I like drawing traditionally and digitally! I also sing, too :) writing, editing, and cooking are some things that I do, but it's rare. My niche interests are language, calligraphy, along with linguistics !! My favorite sports are jumprope and badminton.
Dislikes: Negativity and anyone who crosses my boundaries. I also dislike loud noises and interruptions..
and I think that's it! good luck writing !!
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A/N: Yoo!! Thanks for your matchup! And since you wanted platonic you’ll get platonic :) anyways, ¡Empecemos esto!
Your Project Sekai BFF is…
Honami Mochizuki!
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Okay, honestly I thought of shizuku, nene and/or mafuyu for a little but I decided that honami may be a good match for ya! Here’s the information.
She would never think your dumb at all! She thinks your pretty intelligent! She’s not sure why you think like this but she’s there to tell you that you are intelligent no matter what.
She’ll help you with anything anytime!
She loves that you think optimistically as well! she looks up to you a lot! She also loves that you balance your emotions, she shows her emotions too, she is mostly worried due to her thinking people may not like her so please reassure her that people do and if they don’t then that’s their fault :).
I think you guys would do karaoke nights with Leo/need on special occasions and wow, do they love your voice, you may even be in their group!
She would never EVER cross any of your boundaries, as the person she is she’ll probably ask what your boundaries are so she won’t have to upset you in any way! and since you don’t like loud noises, if something’s to loud she’ll try to get you away from it and go somewhere calmer with you.
And lastly, since she bakes and you cook yall would do that a lot for when you guys are hanging out, when she comes over to meet with you or whatever she’ll have baked cookies in a plastic container just for you!
Round-ups: Shizuku Hinomori, MAFUYU ASAHINA, Nene Kusanagi
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disjecta-membras · 1 year
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ig i should do a real intro
-my name is nick but disjecta is cool. pronouns he/xe/she/woof/kit/arach
-im autistic, my special interest of 7 is the sims lore, and special interest of almost 2 years is car seat headrest
-im what the kids call "chronically online", i speak in the most obscure references and don't get out much
-im a furry, my sona is rez the fennec fox
-i could talk about music for hours if you want me to make you a playlist i will even if i don't know you
-i used to write alot but now i don't due to good ol ao3 author's curse (my life is a bad movie i swear). might start again soon!
-im poly so far i have one bf hopefully i can obtain more (hj)
-my top kins are vriska homestuck and asuka evangelion
-I LOVE ANIMALS favs rn are pallas cat and fennec fox
-other musicians i really like are phoebe bridgers, 4lung, taylor swift, black dresses, lana del rey, alex g, and mitski
-shows n games stuff i like: my little pony friendship is magic, bluey, neon gen evangelion, madoka magica, parks and rec, splatoon, zelda
-i really actually enjoy stranger things but dislike alot of the fandom (milevens, adult eddie stannies). byler and jargyle tbh
-i really like plushies
-i don't really have a dni besides the obvious stuff but id prefer you not interact if you're a 4lung/black dresses/cate wurtz anti as i find y'all to be transmisogynistic as hell. gross. also dense ppl, "is this satire" commenters, adult eddie munson stans, overstaters of harm, mfs who think furries r zoos, rap music haters, genshin fans, i think yall r weirrdd
-not gonna sugarcoat, im extremely mentally ill (bpd, cptsd, severe depression and anxiety) so please be patient!
this has been the most terrifying intro you will ever have to witness, toodles!
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NAC but I'd love to know. Admins, if yall had a chance to sit and talk with Emilie and have a real conversation about everything regarding her career and the drama over the years and whatnot, what would you want to tell her? What criticism and/or advice would you wanna give her?
I'm not sure. There's a lot I'd want to say and ask, but I'd have no idea where to start. I got to meet her once, almost exactly 10 years ago, and even then I didn't manage to say everything I'd planned to say (even though back then I was very much a 'stan', I was an impressionable 17-year-old and she was my idol who could do no wrong, so things have very much changed since then).
I don't know. I'd want to ask how much of this is real and how much is a façade, if she's keeping up with the asylum image out of obligation or genuine desire. I'd ask if she wants to move on to other things or if she's happy where she is. I'd tell her it's okay to do either or, and that there's strength in taking responsibility for ones mistakes. I don't know how blunt or honest I'd have the guts to be, I wouldn't want to be rude but I also wouldn't want to sugarcoat things either. I no longer worship the ground she walks on like I did when I was younger but still.
Sadly, I feel like our talk would end badly if I was honest in my comments and questions. She's done and said a lot of things that have shocked and disappointed me and it took me a long time to stop making excuses for those things. Obviously I still respect and like her enough to follow what she does and to keep this blog running but after over a decade of investment in her I'm no longer surprised when something unpleasant happens, and I think I'd try to make that clear. Really I don't think there's any scenario where one could sit down and talk to EA about all the past drama and her career etc and not end up in a heated defensive argument.
TLDR I'm probably not making much sense but I'd try to have an honest gentle talk, which realistically would most likely not work out well at all. :/ — ❤Faerie Admin
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jrueships · 2 years
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Omg this deebo serge video soooo long lol i need to write down my thoughts while it plays just so i don't forget plus deebos talking about blahblah rn now wait hold on he just put eazy e under.. bruh . well anyways so WHOAWTF!?!?? 24:48MINTUTES ????? I CANT WATCH ALLAT?? IM HALFWAY THRU MY PUDDING!!! well man wtf whatever man ANYWAYS imma just burp stuff here rq
Deebo entering five seconds in and admitting how he just wanted to look cool while on the show lol... he is so cute <3 'im on this wretched horrid little show TWO times and i did THIS wooow' and serge trying to embarrass him about it smh serge came to KILL
Deebo mentioning the spurs 🥰🥰🥰 love how deebo cherishes certain memories so much that he makes it a mission in his life to tell EVERYONE about them while reminiscing on all the details like it was just yesterday 😊😊 he may not remember how math works sometimes but he can CERTAINLY remind you of how kyle pouted in the middle of the court with the ball clenched in his angry lil arms !!!
But anyways more about the spurs because I am but a poor... delusional little spurs fan (who has NO idea whAT is going on with the wizards anymore... John wall brad divorce.. done for?? Ex reunion??? HATES*X?!??!? IDK!!!) .. i was KIINDA hoping the spur who showed deebo the Nigerian restaurant was KELDON and THAT was the start of their dad son bond... but no. It makes sense tho and it's rlly cute how much deebo hyped it up! We love a culturally conscious king ! Plus im sure if keldon took deebo to go to a restaurant, it'd probably be like... Texas roadhouse lmao let's be honest
Serge mentioning kyle OF course. Then later using him as trade leverage and demar IMMEDIATELY taking the bait 😭😭 they are HUSBANDS your honor. Demar 'kyle can't lice without me' darnell 'I WOULD TAKE A TEN PERCENT FIFTEEN PERCENT PAY CUT FOR KYLE!!!!!' Derozan. Deebo going back to the raptors no questions asked if kyle was there... him being the only factor there for him.. like YEAH of COURSE he love Fred n pascal! THEY HIS KIDS!! HIS LIL BROS!! But they all grown up now !!! It's THEY team now! And Yeah no matter what deebo n kyle will always be part of the culture, but you gotta admit change when it comes to you! Deebo was so young with his first team.. going back to the past is difficult when the goal in life is striving toward the future. Too shiny shoes to fill when the feet too big!!! Deebo's mentality is so !!! Yeah!
'Kyle is selfish they'd be no money if he there' LMFAO??? The way kyle is so demanding and deebo LOVES it. Laughing while he and serge call kyle stingy. And it makes sense too lol all them 'he's payin for dinner' hashtags. Kyle is here to get that BAG!!! and that's ok!!! Cus as long as deebo gets to be by his side, kyle can take all the money he WANTS! sugarbaby kyle..sugardaddy deeb-ANYWAYS serge being like 'why you do this to my people :(( why you turn them down!!' Then remembering, as a tumblrina connoisseur, that kyle exists and demar is gay so he goes "😏😏😏what is / Kyle / was on the clippers...?" All sly grinch face. Deebo answering SO fast with "I'D BE THERE. 10 15 percent pay cut, I'D BE THERE." arUgh.. the ROMANTICISM???? No matter what.. demar will Be There for kyle. All to sit on a porch together rocking in their creaky lil wooden chairs drinking lemonade while laughin in the sunset... they'd Be There. wAgh!! The KNIGHTISM of it all!!!
Serge asking demar for one annoying thing about himself then getting mad when deebo tells him LMAO???? Trying to defend himself???? 'I am PRO! I am pro for YOU!!!!' he just wanna impress yall smh deebo 😭 and deebo not even tryna sugarcoat it.. just straight up 'you sooooo slow when gettin ready serge' probably because he had to hear kyle complain about it so much back then. Floor general vs unmoveable object serge. I'm glad serge is on the bucks now because giannis rlly appreciates the tiny details about serge that serge manically wants people to notice. He belongs in the bucks clearly😭.. idk HOW many 'wakanda' jokes he had to take from pg.... but yeah giannis said in an interview like 'SERGE ALWAYS A L W A Y S IN THE GYM!! SO LONG! AT NIGHT TOO! AND MORNING!! THAT IS S O COOL :-D!!!' so I'm glad serge has someone that appreciates his snailspace !
I haven't even GOTTEN to the... infamous kyle phone call OR serge apparently exposing deebo for his music so.. let's watch
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lol i sent an ask abt george's pov and his teams humor, took a 2 hour nap, and came back to this.☠☠
i think there's just a big disconnect between different communities of different streamers. which make sense, bc everyone has preferences, senses of humor, and things they look for when they watch a stream.
i think the main difference is how thick ppl's skins are and how much they want to be babied/cuddled by their streamers, which often translates to how protective the community is of said streamer. and how the community acts in general.
like for example, dream and gnf are very soft (so to say) and look to make everyone as happy and comfortable as possible. and they have stans who would actually fight for them.
and then there's ppl like sneeg, minx, schlatt (sry to bring them up) who stream with a 'take no shit from anyone attitude. u don't like me or my stream? fuck off then.' and they have viewers who just tune in to watch a stream and woulnd't waste too much time on cheap twt drama.
and here it depends on what you want from a streamer, a calm place to chill or someone who's unapologetically themselves, even when it makes them unpopular. sugarcoat and tiptoes or loud and abrasive.
sry unpopular opinion but i have to say this. i've been following the dream drama in the past few weeks and dream stans' reactions, and sometimes there's just tremendous overreactions to certain things. like ppl raging bc they didn't understand the tone of the statement or flat out not accepting apologies when ppl explain themselves. and i'm saying this as a dream stan.
i feel really braindead when i scroll through your asks bc i genuinely don't see if should also be offended like everyone seems or if i'm the only one thinking rationally. idk as someone who grew up chronically online, i'd assume that people who did the same would have thick enough skin to not demand an apology they won't even accept when they're slightly offended or think that they should be offended.
sorry but when i look at some of yall's thoughts and opinions, no wonder boomers call our generation 'snowflakes'.
i mean like its not that deep… i agree that as a community dream fans could do a lot better when it comes to just not getting baited into fights and leaving stuff alone and keeping things to priv but you don’t HAVE to get mad or offended if you aren’t but there’s also no need to like put other people down for their feelings. sometimes its funny to be dramatic and in certain situations ur not really hurting anyone, so, whatever u know. like just because someone goes AND FUCK SNEEGLE SNAGGLE on anon in someones askbox doesn’t mean they’re obsessing or losing sleep over it
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Chapter 132 :)
(This post is queued so goodluck to yall when this is posted lol)
I'm going to talk about how likely the fiances are going to end up together.
Gwen and Frederick
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Come on guys let's not kid ourselves, they're the main couple. They are gonna end up together lmao.
That aside, these two have grown their relationship. Gwen settling on them becoming friends at first gave way for them to progress their relationship at their own pace. They got to know each other's interests. Frederick's knowledge with administrative support was helpful to Gwen and she genuinely appreciates it, she saw it as one of his strengths.
Of course Frederick was open to his dislikes at first, although there's that. He had grown to like Gwen in and out.
They communicated their feelings to each other and they know that they have feelings for each other.
Of course, the biggest issue with their relationship is Gwen not telling Frederick about the damage that he had caused her. Frederick had grown and starting to stop fearing his demons, and we all saw that even when he was the first one to snap out of it and try to fix things with Gwen in 132.
I honestly don't know how they will fix their relationship, but I hope it'll make Gwen realize that she shouldn't think of marriage with Frederick as a "Happy ever after" and try to speedrun to it. There is still ups and downs in a relationship no matter how much you love each other, Leelathae and Jack's relationship is proof of that.
Lorena and Lance
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Honestly, I'm not sure about them.
Pros:
No thoughts head empty couple
Lance can be a malewife /j
Cons:
Both are too grounded to their loyalty to their kingdom
They both follow the pace their siblings have
They are still very stubborn about their future
We all know Suzie ok, the girlie in love with Lance and Lorena's self-proclaimed bestie.
Although I was annoyed at her trying to break Lance and Lorena's relationship at the gala. She easily brings out the strengths and weaknesses of their relationship as well.
Suzie said that their are compatible, a bit too compatible and she's right. Lance is basically a male version of Lorena. They both love eating, fighting, have dreams of leading the military of their own kingdoms, they want to support their siblings, and they aren't willing to side with others for it. They are so alike that it's a problem.
Lance and Lorena clicked together at first. When all is lighthearted and happy. But when their futures comes into play, thats a major conflict.
They both said that "they'll work it out" but when? They keep giggling about how they can't decide yet, but when it comes to it, who are they siding with? Well, 132 answers that. Lance, whether out of fear or not, sided with the Plaid Princes, even when he saw how much is Gwen is hurting. Everyone in that room knows that Frederick was in the wrong, yet he chose to defend him.
Suzie doesn't sugarcoat her words with Lorena. She acknowledges Lorena's weakness and tells her how to improve. Although from time to time, we see that Suzie is slowly warming up to her, though in-denial lmao. Lorena really likes Suzie, almost all their meetings are Lorena attempting to hug her. Now, that LoreLance broke up, who will Suzie chose I wonder? Her long time crush or her bestfriend?
Maria and Blaine
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I do not Think. They even have a chance to be together anymore.
Blaine is just a huge red flag (pun intended) for me.
Blaine already has a dream, that is to lead his kingdom and become the greatest ruler of Plaid Kingdom. Blaine is the most favoured child by Leland, not out of love but because he fulfilled all of his expectations and wishes perfectly. Blaine had learned how to hide his imperfections and he knows to hide his ugly sides in order to show the world his perfect self. And when his imperfections are revealed to the ones he wants to hide it from the most, he begins to breakdown.
His downfall began when Leland acknowledged Frederick and not him during the dinner party.
His engagement to Maria is also a wildcard. Maria liked him for his looks at first, and that worked out for both of them. Blaine had played as the charming and perfect fiance and Maria gobbled it up.
Maria is also a culprit to this. As the eldest sister, she played as the elegant fiance which also worked for Blaine. But also, while Maria liked the perfect him, she was good with getting to know each other at a slower pace. But Blaine stuck to being perfect that she was taken a back when he got mad the first time and rejected her advances.
After Dandridge(?) called out Maria's behavior, she had reflected on it and comforted Blaine during the piano competition that she'd still support him.
However, all of this progress broke in 132. It revealed a side to Blaine that Maria never even considered.
When her own sister was hurting because of Frederick, where was the fiance that she liked? There, siding with his brother and defending him despite knowing that he is in the wrong. We've seen from time to time that Blaine tends to get out of control when he's mad. And that ultimately led to him spilling his true opinion on Gwen.
Of course, that already was enough to show Maria how far Blaine is willing to hide his ugly side. That in secret, this whole time, he too, had the same view as Frederick which unfortunately hasn't changed.
Insulting her would be another thing, but Blaine had insulted her sister, her sister who looked similar similar to her deceased mother.
How would that be fixed now? Especially if Blaine apologized, it doesn't change that he meant what he said, and said it in the girls' presence, and with the knowledge that he might be apologizing just to keep appearances?
(Maria play "Surface Pressure")
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kc-james · 2 years
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Endometriosis & Racial Disparity in Healthcare
Hey Yall,
So last week I gave a brief overview of who I am and some of my story. I wanted to discuss and will be discussing a lot when it comes to discrimination in health care for WOC/POC. I will not only speak on my personal struggles with dealing with bias with my conditions but as well as the birth rate and more.
Do you know what racial disparity is?? Well let me sum it up for you with a quick example; AA people are more likely to be killed by police officers whether they pose a threat or not. My example may ruffle some feathers, but that's why we have an open discussion with positive communication.
So moving on. Endometriosis is described to affect 1 and 10 women worldwide. Last year when you would look up those at risk for endometriosis you would only see it described for caucasian women. Fortunately, that has changed but not enough. I take into consideration, that I am a Black woman, with black genes and my whole genetic makeup differs from a caucasian woman. I look at the data that was done to test 13,500 UK women and I think how many were WOC. They necessarily don't have to be AA but what about Asian American, Hispanic American, etc. With all my research I was unable to come up with identifying factors to determine the data of race for these women. I am aware there are a plethora of clinical trials and things of that nature. That’s not the point. America has used POC as guinea pigs for far too long.
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(((This has been updated but this was on the website April 2021. Think about it))))
Let's be real, this America was never designed for the care and treatment of POC. I can mention the syphilis experiment but that’s is only one small part. We have individuals like J.Marion Sims who thought it was a bright idea to test on black women without proper anaesthesia. He not only created an untrusting relationship between doctors and African American women. Some may have the ideals because these women were “enslaved” he was able to do whatever he wanted. Just simply because those women were considered “property”.
Can you imagine? Another human believes another human suffering is okay because they have brown skin and they were considered property. Which they had no choice over. They did not choose to be born black women or to be tested on. Yet he chose, he was not the only person who took advantage. Sims, was able to get his research and his schooling from Philadelphia and moved on down the road to NYC and conducted these procedures on white women utilizing anaesthesia. He was just as bad as the “Angel of Death” if you don’t know who that is, please do some research. Even research the things I am saying outside of my personal truth.
As time continued a woman by the name of Henrietta Lacks went to John Hopkins hospital for vaginal bleeding. Ms.Lacks was diagnosed with cervical cancer and her cells were sent over to Dr. Gregory Gey, he had acquired many cells from John Hopkins. These cells were special. Her cells were special we aren’t going to sugarcoat the facts. She was special everything about this beautiful black woman was special. Ms.Lacks did not know despite her battle with cervical cancer her cells would change the course of medical history. You do realize that these cells were taken without her permission, she was tested on and used to change medical history without her consent….
I know exactly what that feels like, to have something taken from you despite your pleas and despite your request. You put your trust in healthcare “professionals” to do the right thing, to do what was discussed during the time of care. I have been living in chronic pain for 20 years. I know a joke right, unfortunately, that is my truth. I got my period at 9 years old. I have been in and out of hospitals since 13 years old. I was the guinea pig for multiple multiple birth controls at 13. As a child, I had no say in my medical care. I did not know enough to advocate for myself. I am not just a black woman, I am a survivor, a warrior and so much more. My dark skin may limit me through other people lenses. I fight for myself, I advocate for other black women because we deal with so much discrimination and microaggressions when it comes to speaking up for ourselves.
I have been fighting for my fertility as long as I can breathe. My ovary was removed despite me explicitly saying I wanted to have children. The surgeon who performed this surgery was so unkind to me and wanted me to do what he wanted me to do. I was not allowed to ask questions and baby don’t dare ask about the medication they were referring to me. That experience was so traumatic. I was always in pain, I was always crying and I felt like death had to be better than my reality. I wanted to end it all.
I came across this Instagram page around the time and I decided to start thinking holistically. I studied and studied and created regimens that worked for my flare-ups but nothing could stop the debilitating pain during my menses. I was unable to walk, sometimes talk, vomiting blood and bile for days. I was so strong willed and due to my bad experience trusting western medicine was the hardest thing for me. Until this day I will not even take a Tylenol. To have a doctor call me a drug addict because of my pain changed everything for me, to be verbally abused in my time of need made me look at the world differently.
My ovary was taken without consent on March 27, 2019, and on January 26, 2022, I had my hysterectomy. I did a lot of research and cried a lot of tears my dreams of being a mother going through a water birth or feeling the butterflies your baby kick would create. This decision was not made lightly and the doctor who did my last surgery was my very first surgeon when they found an 8cm cyst on my left ovary. He was not the doctor who took my ovary in 2019. This doctor and I discussed forthright what I wanted to be done in order to relieve my pain, it is funny when you have doctors who have that power over an individual in the operating room. He gave me hope to be able to experience life outside of the four walls that surround me.
I have never been to a beach before and as a grown woman some things you just want to experience. My doctor was very respectful about what I wanted and all of my questions and the fact he and his team treated me like I was human. Let me repeat, they treated me like I was human and they all adored me and my energy and I can say that for a fact because I checked lol. I can say being a black woman dealing with the atrocities in health care and life in general, especially a dark skin back woman. To have to deal with microaggressions from your own people when you advocate for yourself and the “professionals” have no negativity towards you wanting to know what is going in and out of your temple. This is an experience, it is a fight. You have to fight for you, you have to use your voice despite anyone's opinion who has not endured any of your pain or hurt. How can anyone tell you that asking questions is disrespectful or advocating for yourself is disrespectful? You do not deserve to be silenced, you deserve answers, You deserve to be treated fairly because no one who lives in pain wants the attention of toxicity, they want to be able to live a fruitful life and it is your right to choose you at all cost. The team I am currently working with, they want me to live. They respect me and my energy and that helps when you are fighting a losing battle….
Reminder: Do not let anyone silence you!! No matter if it's a “professional” friend or kin…
Your voice needs to be heard!! You are not wrong for setting boundaries when it comes to policing YOUR OWN BODY!!
Baby because you only get one and who else lives in your flesh??
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Headcanon: Tsuyu likes Mineta because she's secrearly a perv herself. Let's just say that people in general make jer feel a certain way. However, unlike my boy here she isn't as open about it and certanly disaproves about some things he did. But because Mineta is so loud about it she fonda him easy to relate to and as if only he could understand her sometimes.
Tsu always struck me as a sweet girl who has a less generaly sweet side to her, while still being an actual cinamon roll
Plus, I've alwas imagined a scenario where they'd have a discusion about this. Like, just imagine Mineta not holding back at all with saying what he would want Midnight to do to him, while Tsu tries to sugarcoat these scenarios, because she feels kinda guilty and embarased about these feelings but still enjoys the conversation, because she can understand these things and honestly thinks that Mineta is the only person who she can openly talk to about this.
P.S. This is why I honestly never got the speak of Tsukoyami. Her and Tokoyami have litteraly nothing in comnon. Even if we don't count my headcanon, Mineta and Tsu still have a decent amount of things im comnon. They'd both silly looking, kinda blunt, cooperative and aproachable, ocasionaly enthusiastic... Tokoyami and her are... both animals in a way.
I get that people like the dynamic of oposites atract... but even then they must have something on comnon. It's usualy that one comnon trait that balanced the couple out and makes them come together neatly, because polar oposites can't work as a pair (think of it as the mixture of soda and milk and chocolte milk- one is disgusting because soda and milk are drinks we enjoy for different reasons and puting them together cancels that out, while milk and chocolte can both be asociated with sweetness so they can work well together and form something tasty). Tokoyami is a realy edgy character, both design and personality wise, so paring him up with someone who not only lacks this trait but is the complete opposite to it feels kinda icky. Same goes for Tsu's bluntness and straightforward way od acting.
Also if you wanna talk about their history... Tsuneta still has more. Tsu and Tokoyami have interacted once, for a test and have worked well. That isn't even that special, especialy considering the fact that Tsu is very friendly and cooperative anyway so she would be a good teamate, no matter who her partner is. Mineta and Tsu were once forced to work together because the villains sent them on a boat with Deku, once worked with him and Shoji willingly and had plenty of screentime with him seperazed from the main plot. The key difference between these two ships is that one of them brings out the most enjoyable aspects of both characters making their interactions fin to watch and write, while the other one washes their defining traits down in order for them to reach comnon ground and their whole relationship ends up boring and plain.
I can not stretch enough how much I do not care if other people ship something that I dislike. Maybie the rest od the fandom sees that comnon thing I physicaly can not see. My problem is when you start policing people for shiping something because you don't like the character.
Idk how many Tsukoyami fans are like this, maybie most of them are Nice and wholesome people... but I've heard people say that you should ship Tsukoyami instead of Tsuneta because, ew Mineta. Excuse me oficer, but just because both od these are heterosexual ships, involving the same female character does not mean that they're the same thing.
...I am so sorry, that was a little agresive. Wouldn't like to start a shipping war here, I've just held all this salt for way too long and it just kinda spilled everywhere...
no no anon,,,,go off sweetie youre doing amazing <3 
the only way tokoyami is getting with Tsu is thru a poly ship and thats my policy on that! Also, once again, i can’t even say much because yall are so damn eloquent and comprehensive in your replies that idk where to start or if i should even add anything! But hell yeah to everything you said! Spit them facts!!
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(1) "its almost like you guys blatanlty refuse to listen to like any victim ever" Bitch, I was a victim of both emotional and sexual abuse at a young age, and I can 200% guarantee I don't give a rat's ass who ships josuhan. I personally don't ship it, but it's NOT pedophilia (josuke is not a child, his body is fully developed and he is a teenager, he is 16 not 10) and it is NOT abuse in any way ??? As someone who's been a victim of REAL abuse it's disrespectful for you to call it that,
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wow. you really typed out all of this fucking bullshit, huh?
first of all, your “as a victim of REAL abuse thing” ? cut that shit out. you have no right to decide whether my abuse or not was real abuse. you dont personally know me, or my trauma. that was a lower than low move, and i shouldnt even give you the time of fucking day for that comment, but i know your pathetic ass is probably refreshing my blog every two seconds wondering when ill pay attention to you, so ill take pity on you and bite here, but you should quit your whining about how mean im being before it starts. youve got no fucking right to try to personally judge the trauma you dont know, and all my anger here is justified.
your body is NOT fully developed at 16, what the fuck are you on… ? you are literally admitting that Yes josuke is a teenager at 16 years old. How can you not see how damaging that would be for an adult to date him? as someone whos also a victim of real abuse, its quite frankly fucking sickening that you cant see the harm here. yall are acting like im the only one finding this weird? why dont you go out in the street and yell “hi, i think a 16 year old and 20 year old getting together is hot as fuck!!!!!!!!” and see how many stares you get. this isnt just a fandom thing. its gross and predatory anywhere.
its triggering for you to hear the truth? cant help you there. the ship is abusive, what do you want me to do about it? im not going to fucking sugarcoat it. and cut that “you get off on making others feel bad?” shit. dont put it in those words. its gross and uncomfortable, try not to be a freak here. but yeah, im okay with making others feel bad about shipping an abusive ship. i dont care if your friends feel harmed by facing the facts that josuhan is an unhealthy and inherently abusive ship because of their age gap. i dont feel bad for making your friends feel bad because they have to face the fucking reality of things! i know im helping some people get out of some shitty situations or at least finally realize its wrong, i know this shit from experience, and thats all i care about. everyone who ships this is either a shitty manipulator or a misguided kid, and im here to make the first ones uncomfortable and help the second ones realize this isnt okay.
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