#just-a-random-dyke

[bimiio]

sorry princess u are just too beautiful for older lesbians to resist 🥰

i LOVE older lesbians!! wut i DON’T love is freaks harassing me n my friends n tryna take advantage of n fetishize how young i am😄

#dis ask if from #just-a-random-dyke #or well now their remade url is #dyke-lover #they r blocked <3 #asks #anon #block list

[idolomantises]

Anyways speaking of being gay apparently teenagers on tiktok are mad at me because they found out I’m a lesbian who uses he/they pronouns

#txt #there’s something funny about telling a nb lesbian that their identity is ‘terminally online’ while regurgitating talking points #from 2015 transmed tumblr #like first it’s Pearl clutching over masculine women and feminine men and now it’s non-binary lesbians making people go berserk #honestly I wish I could find this funny (I mean in concept it is) but it’s irritating how tiktok incited so much online harassment and #bullying by just making shit up about queer identities and terminology to a point where we’re just back to acting like we have to fit into #our stereotypes. but only the accepted ones because god forbid your lesbian character is masculine lol #I remember a bunch of 15 year olds on twitter blew up at me because I pointed out that dyke is not a term exclusive to black lesbians #because guess where they got that insane ass assumption that ignores decades of lesbian history and queer activism #that’s right! another random ass teenager on tiktok with no sourcing #just gatekeeping a slur meant for all lesbians #I feel like if a tiktoker interacted with a real butch lesbian they’d explode and die

[2dieavirgin]

nobody told her that's literally the hardest way to put on a bra. it's her first time she's nervous

got hooked on transfem chase i literally carry her inside my pocket now

#house md #my art #i dont know the persons tumblr!! or if they have one!! so idk if you do i hope you see this and if you dont then i just hope you get like #random shivers to indicate that something happened #robert chase #im a transmasc warrior but also im a transfem warrior. messiest dyke ive ever seen

[fictionadventurer]

Fun genres of old tv shows:

TV is such a new format that we're just using radio play scripts, so our dialogue helpfully describes what you can see on the screen

Youtube doesn't exist yet, so we're going to pause this sitcom to let these musicians play whole entire songs

#random thought of the day #sitcoms #major example for number 1: the lone ranger and really old gunsmoke episodes #number 2: basically every show before 1970 or so but the andy griffith show does this a lot #dick van dyke show too but that's usually in the context of the variety show so it feels both more natural to the show and more artificial #it's not quite the same thing as the characters going #'oh this local guy happens to sing really well' #or 'wow these hillbillies got a whole bluegrass band' #or 'main characters are just gonna pick up a guitar for fun' #where it rises from the lives of the characters #instead of being presented as something done by professionals

[morsobaby]

HEAD SHAVE DAYYYYY

#Morso puhuu #I'm hoping this will degender me in people's eyes #But ofc if I'm allowed to dream at all I'd like to look more masculine perhaps like a dyke or like someone who looks like a boy #But I. Try not to dream anymore #I'll probably just look like a random freak but hey.

[comradekatara]

my "no canon interactions" gfs. and yes they smoke weed

#id in alt text #avatar the last airbender #atla #toph #smellerbee #smellerbeextoph #figured i may as well draw my most obscure ship for #atlasapphicweek #oldergaang #since everyone else loves throwing random dykes together heres my favorite example because it actually MAKES SENSE #also this is like the second time ive ever drawn smellerbee #so ive never actually given thought to her older design #but at the very least i think she'd have to outgrow her makeshift armor #and maybe she steals some of longshots shirts #and my older design for toph just has her looking chiller and dykier bc duh #also yes she would cut her hair. uninternalizing those confucian values #anyway. we need more femslash thats like. grimy morally ambiguous dirtcore dykes that smoke weed #and less ultra feminine princesses supergirl kissing or whatever #baby butches getting high in a forest!!!!! thats what its about babey!!!!! #its MY house and i get to choose the femslash #art #mart

[femmespoiled]

ok, being around my sleepy butch did make me sleepier, it's contagious

#we took a nap and i woke up tempted to just call it a night because so tired #random stuff #but hungry too and miss them lots #can't escape the sleepy dyke condition

[honeybabymp3]

yesterday I was gonna make a post about how the single thread separating us from “gaylors are enforcing gender norms by saying a woman in pants looks gay” is that the only people bothered by this are too scared of people who say dyke to start a fight with us so of course this is actually already happening on twitter

#og tweet getting ratio’d to hell and with good reason but djjdjfjf #like Yes the whole boyfriend taylor stuff always feels like 'this is the butchest woman twitter can handle before they start biting' #to be fair the og tweet didn't say butch or masc it just said dyke but still #at some point overly focusing the idea of what a gay woman looks like only on relatively feminine woman sucks cause #if we're focusing positivity only on the most easily digestible model of Anything we're still leaving out everyone who #doesn't fit into that mold and they remain the most stigmatized people who are still harmed looked down upon etc etc #even more stigmatized cause it's like 'why can't you be like one of those normal []' #(<-saying it like that cause it also fits with how people talk about mental issues lol and defs other groups) #but dude lesbians calling a woman a dyke as a compliment is not regressive we are NOT there yet #calling random people gay in a positive way is not regressive. you only think that cause you still think that being gay is abnormal #and that's on pointless gaylor discourse of the week!

[itstimeforstarwars]

My diary when I was a teenager: I am so angry and this is where I put my rage about how the world is ending and how mad I am about it and how much I hate politicians and the school board

My diary now: here is a recounting of what I did today as well as how I feel about some of the news from today, so that in twenty years when everyone is lying about how the 2020s went I have proof that I'm not insane.

#chit chat #it really hasn't changed much except that I am now writing about the context of the wider world #because so much of my teenage diary was 'i am so mad about what's going on in the world!!! how can they do this!!!' #and older me is like 'hm. what WAS? going on in the world?' and then i have to go look up the news for that day #which feels harder to do now than it did back then #so now im adding context so that when im forty i can be like 'yeah! how could they let this happen!' in solidarity with my younger self #also my grandmother worked at a museum for twenty years so now im actively trying to be helpful to whoever ends up with these things #cuz i won't have kids to pass them onto but some random archivist might think they’re interesting #I've been heavily inspired by dykes to watch out for and how like half the strips are just responding to the news #lol #sometimes i wish i could be less fucking weird but unfortunately i have been Like This since at least the seventh grade #i took one elective journalism class and it was all over for me

[bimiio]

wait bim from another young femme what happened with dyke-lover and should i watch out for them?

they mass followed n DMed every femme they could find n were EXTREMELY forward. they basically sexually harassed n expected/demanded submission from every1 they DMed n also posted a bunch of stuff dat read like it was straight off a dyke breaker kink blog. they were also super weird abt how young i am/our age difference cuz they were like 30

#just-a-random-dyke #dyke-lover #dykewithdick #<- all their prev urls #reblogged one of my posts abt older butch dykes sayin they “love to bread in younger dyke princesses’’ #break in* #so yes stay away from them #most of us r on our guard cuz they keep remaking n tryna work their way back into our little sphere n disturb us #so if a new blog follows u n looks a little odd u can always check w ur mewchies n stuff if they think it might b da same person #i try 2 post updates abt it too just incase cuz i’ve had a few ppl DM me sayin my posts were their warning n they blocked em #asks #anon

[kaeyapilled]

. (tw heterosexuality)

#i am having the worst sexuality crisis of my life. i was so sure i was a lesbian but there is this One Guy.. #he makes me feel things. i think. but i cant categorize them #relationships w men sound.. unappealing.. if i think about it generally #like a random man? sounds weird. or maybe not. i dont know. i havent even had a first kiss lmao i dont really know stuff #but him............oh...........hes so funny and cool and nice to everyone. his hands are pretty (weird thing to notice but ok) #he explains math to me and i cant focus because he's too close. thats so MORTIFYING I THOUGHT I WAS A DYKE #but at the same time 12 year old me was having heart palpitations around my first girl crush and shit #and he hasnt made me feel anything that strong so far. so. idk. but also i was 12. so idk #well okay generally speaking women make me feel much more doing way less #there was this occasion where this girl who i always had a mild thing for but never did anything about it just came up to me #at school #and just. haha lol i had a dream about you last night ;) #i am not joking when i say i felt weak in the knees. she was smiling in a like playful way so i was gonna make a joke but i could not #because i was going to pass out from being too gay #this guy (or any other guy for that matter) doesn't seem to have the power to make me feel like that #..........am i bisexual with a female lean or whatever people say. or am i experiencinf the worst case of comphet of my life #this is awful. not because i don't wanna like men (its just sexuality idc) but because i don't want to prove my mom right #😭what if it WAS a phase #but who knows. mentioning the girl who dreamt about me kind of replaced the thoughts i was having of him for a bit there #i miss her she was nice. well sort of. but i was never involved in the drama so who cares fr. she graduated last year #anyways sorry for breaking character. tumblr user kaeyapilled is lore dropping

[bad-doodz]

the way that men express their love is so so special actually

#silently but strongly #like no im not hungry but yes ill have half your muffin bc you love me #send me a random picture just bc you were thinking of me #send me a random picture bc it MADE you think of me #anxiety #lgbtq #butch #demi #dyke #lesbian #bi #sapphic #queer #wlw #gay #bisexual #depression #autism #adhd #mentally chill

[themanwhowouldbefruit]

I wish dean winchester would block me for calling him a dyke

#ok dyke #lmao it was just a random ass blog some people just have thin skin about dean winchester getting called a dyke

[bbqhooligan]

you know what despite the problems it brings and the possible danger and all being visibly queer isnt all that bad. the least it helps that you pass by a stranger and feel less alone, at most it actually draws other queer people to you, to talk, to know. give it up for obvious butches today. letting gays know youre a dyke is a service

#mypost #''queer'' fashion getting popular makes it harder to know sometimes cuz fashionable and feminine girls can really go either way #but im just a plain ol dyke like most days i just look like a dyke and thats as good as it gets #butch #dyke #lesbian #yeah its about a random lesbian coming up to befriend me. im glad

[dancedance-resolution]

was talking with my dad and he mentioned that everyone on his side does know i’m gay (which is good, i’m glad i don’t ever have to tell them). i asked him how he told them and he said when i was in high school and having my ~anxiety issues~ keeping me from graduating, he told them about it and would say, “yeah she came out to me and her mom a while back and i think some of her anxiety was about coming out to everyone else” and i was kind of shocked to hear that bc. i didn’t come out to him and my mom lol. &my anxiety wasn’t about coming out, or at least not the bulk of it. i was *outed* to him and my mom, and my anxiety was about that and being prayed over by nuns and being in an environment that tried its damndest to instill in me that homosexuality is evil.

#i guess it’s just eye opening bc we have. such fucking different perspectives on how everything went down and how it all affected me #some random cousin learning i’m a dyke isn’t my issue; my issue is that it’s been years and i’m still having nightmares about crashing the c #ar bc i’m on the phone crying trying to convince people from my old catholic life that i am not evil my homosexuality does not make me evil

[carpathxanridge]

my chronic fatigue in the past months is slowly morphing into chronic pain and i can’t fucking cope. i’m not seeing the rheumatologist still for another whole month. i have no clue how i’m going to handle school. i’ve lived with this absolute lack of energy for so long i anticipated it, i thought “i can push through.” but now my fears aren’t even about coping with the stress and exhaustion, but purely physical and logistical. how am i going to walk or bike to class when a flare up now entails physically struggling to walk and i chose a dorm slightly off the main campus? will the joint pain prevent me from practicing piano when i need to be at least proficient for my degree? if this is how my joints and muscles feel now, how excruciating will the pain be when the michigan winter hits? i just don’t know what to do.

#and then my dad and my mom and my aunt and fucking everyone on the planet tells me #‘if you did more you’d be able to do more’ #‘you just need to be more active’ #THIS IS WHAT BEING ACTIVE GETS ME #LITERALLY GOING FOR A SWIM IN THE COLD WATER LIKE TWO WEEKS AGO IS WHAT TRIGGERED THIS FLARE UP #like i just wanted to hang out with friends and enjoy the ocean like a normal 22 year old #or like when i did 10k steps at the dyke march a few weeks ago? random ass carpal tunnel pain and full body muscle weakness the next day #my mom yells at me why didn’t you do this thing i told you to do #well i did wash the dishes and unload the dishwasher and being on my feet made my legs hurt so much i had to lay down #and i got a headache! #so yeah #this is all pretty new to me too like it’s never been this bad before it’s scary what’s happening to me