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#my psychologist friend is INFP
sillylittlelemon · 2 months
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uhhh hi... I'm kinda scared to do this but I wanna do a saiki k matchup :3. I'm 16, she/they, panromantic asexual, I'm fine with platonic matchup btw. Mbti is infp-t, I'm introverted but as a child I was super extraverted so I still have some extraverted tendencies and interject when I'm not supposed to. I also have ADHD and maybe Autism but my psychologist is still unsure about that. I don't like people who force social interaction on me or rope me in situations I wasn't originally a part of. Basically, if I don't make the first steps to interact with you, please just respectfully leave me be. People say that they feel at home and comfortable around me when first meeting but that's probably because I'm a people-pleaser. For hobbies i love to read, draw, write, look into anything that's obscure enough, and listen to music ALL THE TIME. i dislike big wide spaces, heights, dark places, and others. Anomalous and supernatural stuff interest me so MUCH. I love crazy stuff like that. I like to yap about history and crazy supernatural theories about the world, even if I don't believe them. Yeah :333
Hi lovely! Thank you for the request! 🫂❤️ I hope you enjoy!
Okay hear me out- The dark revival guy? One sec i gotta google his name bc your girl is blanking so hard rn
KAIDO
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I just feel like with your listed interests/hobbies plus a couple of your characteristics (for example; dislike of big/open spaces, heights, dark places, etc) would totally match his vibe and he would instantly be head over heels if you started talking paranormal/freaky stuff with him (bc letsbe real this poor baby just wants someone who doesnt think he's crazy)
Kaido is 100% a proctective boyfriend or even just friend- because he just KNOWS the dark reunion is out to get you to hurt him. You tripped? No, the dark reunion put that rock there in hopes to injure you. Theres a spider in your room? The dark reunion is attempting to assasinate you (you can kill it now because theres no way in hell he's getting within 10 feet of that thing)
Kaido is also simultaniously broke and dying to spoil you. Like- he *wants* to give you the world, buy you everything youso much as *glance* at because this boy worships the ground you walk on- but he has 69 cents and you know what that means? He doesnt have enough money for chicken nuggies (iykyk)
If you'd like more headcanons/a rematch please send me the link to this post and let me know some light details, love you Anon 🫂❤️🫂❤️ thank you for the ask! They brighten my day so much 😊😊
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justgowithitplease · 1 month
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Hello! I was wondering if I could get a QSMP romantic (or platonic) match up please? This is my first time requesting one so I apologise if it is phrased a bit awkward, i’ve re-wrote it like five times and compared it so so many other matchup requests 💀. Feel free to ignore this if you don’t feel like doing it. :)
I am a AFAB pansexual person that uses any pronouns with my MBTI being INFP-T. I am rather short (~5’3) with a slightly plump body. I have bleached hair with brown roots, blue eyes and am lathered in freckles alongside being gifted in the front and the back ✨. I dress both fem and masc but more on the fem side due to the lack of masc clothing that fits me properly and I have been told that I typically have a more gothic style though I typically throw in random splotches of colour. And I am the oldest of four children.
My hobbies include gaming, DnD, reading, listening to music and making art and I am working to become a fully fledged psychologist. I have a tendency to warm up to people pretty quickly depending on if we have similar interests or if my social battery is high and have a tendency to be a bit of a scatter brain and struggle with undiagnosed mental health issues. Also I am attempting to learn how to cook! (alongside my other twenty forgotten hobbies 💀). I also find myself being able to drink a lot but only ever doing it whenever their are fruity drinks or at special occasions.
I am physically affectionate and my main love languages are acts of service and physical touch(not really caring for PDA), though I can struggle with communication. I like to collect and make small an abundance of small things and give them as gifts instead of giving one larger gift. I hold my close family and friends close to my heart, even if I do act closed off a lot of the time.
Oh, and I am also making an attempt to lean Spanish (gave up on Swedish) :D
As for my dislikes, I don’t have many apart from anything political or historical in a war scene. Oh, and loud noises or being ignored in any form.
Thank you so much and remember to take care of yourself and take breaks. Kisses to the chef cuz you are always SERVING!! <3
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Thank you!!!! As for the breaks, absolutely not. Gotta be chulking 24/7, 365, at a million %
I match you with...
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ALEX MALDONADO!
The black hole closet
His side - black tshirts, jeans and beanies
Your side - black blouses or dresses, jeans, and hairpins
No light reaches that space
If you guys have a cat it is hiding in there and never being found
"Mamí!!!" He calls from inside the closet "Yeah?" You respond from wherever you are in the room "I can't find the kitty" He whines softly "Jichaels disapp-AAUGH!" "Alex? Y'okay?" You say as you walk over to the closet, worried He steps out of the closet, holding your black cat at arms length as small cuts on his hands bleed. He's glaring at the cat as he sets it down on the bed "Fucker was hiding behind your shoes and grabbed my hand while I was looking for him. Jichael sucks ass." He says, glaring at the kitty who was now rubbing up against your legs
Called you mamí as a joke but bro...he doesn't think it's a joke anymoreee!!!
He'll spend nights up learning how to play your favorite games (if he doesn't already know how to play them) just so you two can play together
If he does know how to play it, he'll throw the game just so you can 'teach him'
"I thought you said R2" He giggles as he gets blown up "L2. R2 is emotes." You laugh as the character does some stupid pose with the death screen in front of it
Begged Charlie to teach him how to play DnD so he could play with you
"No, Charlie, PLEASE!" He begs, moving his curser to follow Charlie's MC character "I-i-i....I'LL GIVE YOU JUANA FLIPPA BACK JUST TEACH ME HOW TO PLAY DNDDDDDDDDDDDD"
He doesn't read much, but he likes when you read
Free cuddles
You're trapped in your book, zoning the world out when you feel a weight on your shoulder "...hello sir, can I help you?" You ask, looking over at your boyfriend "Mhm. Can you lift your arms up above your head real quick?" Alex asks You do so, albeit slightly confused. He quickly rolls himself to lay on top of you with his head in the crook of your neck
His love language is also physical touch, as well as...restaurants?
He's a foodie, no doubt. And he loves you, no doubt.
So he combines them
"How do you feel about Ecuadorian food?" He asks you one night as he gets off stream "Never had it." You respond, flicking through a book "why?" "I found a restaurant 20, 25 minutes away. Wanna go?" He asks with a grin, not telling you that the reservation is just first in line for random restaurants this week
He has a little shelf behind his streaming set-up dedicated to the little things you find for him
Whatever it is, it goes on the shelf, gets pinned to his bag, or goes in his phone case
"Bro1 how the fuck is your phone case still on?" Noah giggles as Alex's phone case comes off on the corner "Dunno" Alex mutters as he tries to put the case back on "Just take some shit out-" Noah says "ITS NOT SHIT" Alex says as he gets the case back on "My girl got it for me and I love her."
He LOVES that you're learning Spanish
He gets to teach his native language with the person he loves
He'll change the language on Netflix too 'make you learn faster', though
"Alex I can't under stand half of this." You say as you try to use context clues "Shhhh. Jane just confronted Rafael about Mike" Alex says, gently covering your mouth with his hand as he shovels popcorn into his mouth
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mayablr · 8 months
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studyblr intro ! ✩
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💙about me ˚₊·
maya !
19
infp - t
virgo (sep 2)
she/her
US (eng)
first year undergraduate
psychology major
💙 classes ˚₊·
college algebra
united states history i
general psychology
learning framework
💙 goals ˚₊·
80% or higher in all classes (esp non-math related!)
stay on top of my classwork
meet new people
improve my writing quality
be active in campus events and join a club
💙 my hashtag ˚₊· ›› #maya can study
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💙 hobbies ˚₊·
i occasionally draw both digitally and traditionally
video games (mostly shooters and rhythm games)
learning new various things
💙 likes ˚₊·
cats
winter
video games
music
feminist theory
cozy things
girly drinks
nature
the rain
💙 dislikes ˚₊·
the heat
headaches
savory creams
💙 other ˚₊·
i wanted to make this blog as a form of motivation to help me do my very best in college! i'm extremely new to studyblr and i'm not too sure where this blog will go but i have high hopes !!
my name is maya but most of my friends call me mayo 😓
i hope to become a clinical psychologist in the future and specialize in working with women who struggle with trauma
due to various mental health issues throughout my previous academic career i haven't built the best work ethic, but this is the best time to start!
i struggle with making friends but i hope to form connections! feel free to chat <3
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›› 🌀🫧🐋🤍
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luminousbravery · 1 year
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Hello, if you are still doing matchup, I would like to ask about it (If is it possible May I ask for classic romantic matchup and moirail matchup too? Because I find moirallegiance really incredible thing). I love reading your headcanons.
I’m infp 9w1 girl, demisexual, heteroromantic, 5'3, page of breath. I'm big nerd, laid-back, optimistic, dyplomatic, always find something good in people and generally love all of them, non-judgmental, kinda passive, stubborn, unconfident, prone to escapism, space out often, really like puns and playfuly-sarcastic. Kinda emotionally numb but really empathetic, supportive and likes to help others, so I'm trying to be as useful as possible. I'm really love listen people while they talk about something they love and when they talk about their feelings and the thing, that bother them. I'm appreciate people differences. So I'm really like to make a new friends, even if I'm kinda socially awkward with new people. I like to create things, so my hobbies are baking, drawing and knitting. Want to become clinical psychologist once.
i'm so glad you like reading my headcanons!!! i've got a red quad and a pale quad right below the cut for you!!!
for your red quad, i pair you with kankri!!!!
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and for your pale quad, i pare you with rose!
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seelestia · 1 year
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Dulcet! ✨
Notable personality: It would be sarcastic, sincere and helpful? I always help my friends when they have their problems (more like a psychologist lmao) Person's that don't know me at first glance think that I'm mad or just a serious person (on the contrary when they get to know me! Does that count?)
My hobbies and interests: I like to sing a lot (I used to play a lot the guitar!) it relaxes me, sometimes I write stories and reeding! I listen to music, go for walks and hanging out with my friends (their not a lot, just a few little) I loooove playing videogames! When I'm with my friends we walk a lot because of me, sometimes we go find some abandoned houses and tell scary stories.
My love languages: Quality Time! It's a must for me! <3 And a bit of— (mind you I always ask for permission to touch the person first! For example: if I'm really close to my best friend and have the trust with each other or they're comfortable around me I will always ask first “Can I hold your hand/hug you?”/“Let me huuuuuug you”, if they say the “Okay” I let myself go with the mood!) Physical touch
MBTI (optional): I did a test and said this? Mediator (INFP-T) I'm not sure if this is that—
Hopefully I did it right! This is my first time doing something like this. :') If it's right thank you so much! Hopefully I didn't miss anything! (Love your stories and blog! I always check if you updated anything or you like my request 😭💞)
Anon— Rix. ^^
Btw: Have a nice day or night! Remember to always take a rest and eat something!
thank you so much for choosing 1-800-SEELEETIA's speed matchmaking services! the keyword: dulcet is inserted . . . congratulations, your result is successfully unlocked! [ submissions are closed, event post. ]
lia's note: rix, hi! nice to see you here, thanks for joining my event ;D your friend group sounds cool btw, i wonder if they will like itto? that's nice to imagine, haha.
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「 YOUR MATCH IS . . . ITTO! 」
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He can be quite the spirited guy, but this kind of energy is what allows him to ease himself into your friend group. Some of your friends might find him a little too loud, but no one can deny that fun and adventures tend to follow ITTO wherever he goes.
There is some irony there, though; while he never cowers at the face of risks as long as everyone is having fun, but the moment any of you mentions ghost stories or abandoned houses, the Oni just freezes. It looks like he already saw a ghost before you guys even stepped anywhere near an abandoned house.
He'd say, "Uh, a-are you guys sure about this? Like really, really sure— Huh, scared? Pfft, me!? No way!" If you tease him, he'd fake a cough and puff out his chest like a peacock.
Don't worry, ITTO isn't a spoilsport nor is he the type to hold the group back solely because of his. So, he will still go! But uh, expect him to cling onto you. You don't mind, do you? Heh, hehe... Sorry.
Also, according to Heizou, ITTO has a flair for singing. So like, you know, you get what he is trying to say, right? You strum the guitar while he sings his heart out! Bam, you and him? A match made in heaven! (Apparently, his lyrics are pretty trash, though. Just throw a pillow at his face.)
「 RUNNER-UPS: Heizou, Cyno. 」
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silvermistcosmos · 2 years
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hiii! I’m back for the ship game :’) can I have one romantically w enhypen?
I’m 19 years old and I have shoulder length black hair, glasses, brown eyes and I’m around 153 cm.(Niki share some of those growth gummies pls 😫✋) my pronouns are she/her! im an infp and pretty shy and introverted irl but I love the presence of other people- like sitting with or facetiming ur friend while you both do your own work. I also enjoy spontaneous day trips and going out to eat. I’m currently studying to become a child psychologist and I absolutely love working with children and playing with them! They’re just the cutest ever 💗💗 def wanna work at a daycare someday 😌 as for love languages I love giving others handmade gifts (I love to crochet!) and receiving physical touch & quality time :) I usually comfort others when they’re upset by trying to make them laugh or smile. The jokes are fails half the time but I try :”) and this game is so cute, ty for doing it!!! -siri 💕💕
HIII, Siri, thanks for participating and sorry this took FOREVER to do! The amount I write has gone 📉 !! but hey, I’m doing it now! I hope you like it! 💕💕
I ship you with...Sunoo
ok ok, hear me out, doesn't this description just make you think of someone Sunoo would date? like seriously, you seem so caring and sweet and cute and just skjdka Sunoo’s type! also ngl, he’d love your height even though he sometimes teased you about it, he does it out of love =) 
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pairing - siri x sunoo
genre - fluff
wordcount - 710
warning(s) - n/a
a/n - if you would like to be shipped as well, check out my enhypen & bts ship game
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"Alright, guys! Are you ready?" When you heard a series of 'yes' and the kids getting in formation, you smiled and pressed play.
As you and the kids danced with giggles and laughter, you saw from the mirror, your boyfriend walking in through the door, holding a banquet of flowers.
Before you even said anything, one of the little girls with brown hair stopped and pointed straight at Sunoo, "That's for Miss Siri, right?" She held a mischievous smile on her face, "She told us all about you. How she's sooo in looov-"
you jumped towards her, pressing your finger to her lips with a nervous giggle, "haha that's enough for today. Miss eunjoo will take over for me now."
Sunoo smiled, "aw, but I wanted to hear more about what you've told them about me. I bet you told them how in love with me you are." He teased, making everyone laugh except for you. You hid your face in your hands slapping his shoulder softly.
"You're so mean..." You whined
"I'm only joking, but I wanted to ask the kiddos if I could steal you away for a while. I wanna take you out for dinner."
Before you could answer, another young boy popped in, "Sure, as long as y'all don't get lovey dovey here." He laughed.
You both shook your heads, “then we'll be on our way out!" As you walked out the door, you heard them in unison, "Sunoo and Siri sitting on a tree K.I.S.S.I.N.G. !"
"The kids you babysit are the darn cutest kids I've ever seen." He commented, handing you the flowers.
"They are adorable. I love taking care of them, but they can be little stinkers." You laughed, taking the flowers and getting in his car, "So, where are we going?"
"Just someplace.."
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"JUST SOMEPLACE?!" You gawked at the huge building in front of you with wide eyes, "No way..."
You started to walk away before he pulled you back and wrapped his arm around your shoulder, "Yeah, just someplace." He said nonchalantly, opening the door to the restaurant.
You cringed into his side, "Sunoo, this is the type of place where people wear red dresses and suits and like super expensive jewelry. I'm literally in an old T-shirt I use to wear when I'm cleaning the bathroom and ripped jeans. I dont feel like I'm dressed suited to the occasion." You whisper-yelled, but he only shrugged, looking back down at you, "Love, you look gorgeous. Don't worry about it."
As you opened your mouth up to speak, a lady at the front spoke to Sunoo about reservations and sorts before leading you to your table, "Enjoy your night." She bowed with a smile, leaving.
"This place is so nice." You began, taking a look around, "when did you make reservations? It must have taken forever."
"Mmm, I made it a couple months ago. I wanted to do something special together since we've...or particularly I have been so busy with work that we haven't been able to actually sit down for a nice dinner and enjoy each others company in a long time." He took your hand in his and grabbed the menu with his other hand, "Take a look at the menu and pick what you like."
You ‘awwed’ before leaning over and placing a quick kiss to his cheek, “I really appreciate this, thank you.” You squeezed his hand and looked back at your menu. 
“Ahem, after this...do you want to teach me that dance you taught this kids?” 
You giggled, raising a brow, “You want to learn it?” 
“Yeah...it looked cute.” He shyly scratched the nape of his neck. 
You eyed him, “You just want to tease me, right?” 
“No no, of course not! I just want my girlfriend to teach me a dance. Is that so wrong?” 
“Okay okay, after dinner, let’s go to the dorm and I’ll teach you!” 
“In front of the others?” He widened his eyes, taking a sip of his water that the waiter had brought them earlier. 
“What? You embarrassed?” You snickered.
“Wh-what? No.” 
“Okay it’s settled then.”
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After dancing in FRONT of the boys, DO expect lots of cuddles and kisses from Sunoo cause the boy is embarrassed!! But it’s okay, you make sure to make it up to him by cuddling with him all night...and maybe all of the next day. 
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noroi1000 · 2 years
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hi! i'd love 2 be in your jjk match-up event hehe :D I'm 18 years old and I identify as queer, my big three are leo (sun) libra (moon) and virgo (rising). i'm an infp so i'm quite introverted but i'm very emotionally aware and open around my friends. i'm a psychology major and i love love LOVE psychology so so much, i'm an absolute nerd for it. i also love learning new languages. I'm very sentimental and i value things like letters or anything someone brings me out of genuine love. i love writing poetry, especially on people around me! I'm a very clingy person physically and almost always end up holding the hand of the person next to me or hooking my arm around theirs. I'm terrible at social situations and find it hard not to get anxious but once I'm comfortable it's all good
thank you so much! have a good day sweets ♡
I think your Jujutsu kaisen matchup is
Yuta Okkotsu
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He likes his friends. They are like family to him. He takes their friendship very seriously and does not want to lose it. When he is finally not lonely, he never wants to go back to that state in his life. He's so much better now.
He is fully aware of his emotions. He knows when he is happy, sad or angry. He only clearly shows happiness. He always tries to somehow contain his anger, although he does not succeed. Sadness is what I want to hide the most. He does not want to sadden others with his sorrow.
He is far from a psychologist, but he influences the psyche of others. He wants to cheer them up as well as repel negative thoughts. Because such thoughts can lead to something that cannot be undone. He knows too much about it.
He hurt someone who was close to him with his negative thoughts.
He can't be someone to literally oil someone else's bad emotions. He is concerned about the very lack of a smile. He will know when something bad happened. This cannot be hidden from him. He has good intuition.
He may feel uncomfortable in certain situations at times. For example, when someone tells him to do something he doesn't want to do. Then he does not know how to react.
He really prefers to be comfortable with loved ones. Which do not order him and make him happy.
In some situations, he is unable not to worry, which makes his interactions with others temporarily strange. This is sometimes a bit of a problem as everyone would like to spend their time in peace. And also someone may want to hide their emotions. However, when Yuta is dealing with a sad person, he becomes sad himself.
Headcanon:
• He's also more of an introvert. So you'll get along. He may not speak much, but everything he says is very nice.
Sitting in silence is also fine. And how satisfied are both of you. Instead of talking to give you confidence and comfort, he can also do it physically.
He hug you up to cheer you up and warm up, or they will sit next to you with a smile on his face.
• He likes it when you are ready to meet friends. I don't want to drag you out of the room just to make friends. You make things easy for him because he knows you don't be your only loved one. And seeing you with other people when you smile makes him happy that he already knows exactly what your feelings are.
He want you to be happy. Friends can provide it. It is certainly better than sitting alone. (Although the two of you are just as well)
• The relationship with him is very delicate. There are no crazy moments. He won't force you or beg you for anything. If you prefer to just sit with him, talk or cuddle, he is always at your disposal.
• Wherever he is, he wants to feel you touching him. When he knows you like to hold and cuddle, he will do it more often than before.
• When he was on longer missions, he tried to send you a photo postcard so you could see what he did. You were on the phone. But a letter with written emotions and feelings is something he cannot give up. Then he knows you'll read it. Definitely. He knows you won't forget it. Or that you will not throw away. You smile a lot when you read this. He would not have been writing letters if he had not started to find it romantic.
You can have an entire cupboard and read those nice words written on the pages.
• He likes to look at photo albums with you. He feels a bit embarrassed when you show him the notes. He can sit next to you with a blush.
And your photos are something she can watch with you. To remember those moments. Pictures and any souvenirs. It just reminds you always of your relationships, adventures and love.
"Please do not read these letters aloud. I wrote them for you, but… But I don't know if I'm ready to hear it what I wrote to you. It was all from the bottom of my heart, but don't make me embarrassed! *smiles with a light pink on his cheeks* Do you remember that crystal heart I brought you? I carved them myself. For you."
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lovely-renard · 2 years
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Hello!! Congratulations for reaching 300 followers!! I don't know if it's still open, but I would love to participate on your match-up event, please!
i would like to be matched with a Tokyo Revengers guy! (My pronouns are she/her)
I'm an INFP, Taurus sun (cancer rising and Scorpio moon) female (she/her). I enjoy reading, listening to music and cooking, especially with friends. I would describe myself as a very loyal person and a good listener (in my group of friends I'm usually the psychologist xd).
For the fandom, I would like to choose a guy from Tokyo Revengers!
I'm a literature student so I have a lot of favorite books, as well as poetry. My favorite authors are Virginia Woolf, George Orwell, Roberto Bolaño, Gabriela Mistral and Dylan Thomas. My favorite series are Friends, Vikings and Supernatural.
I love when someone shows me new music, new genres, or artists. I like to listen to all kinds of music, but my favorite artists are the neighborhood, Years and Years, the weekend, cigarettes after sex and Ruelle.
About my physical appearance, I have wavy hair and I recently dyed it copper and my eyes are brown. I'm 5,3 tall and my body is curvy (I'm a bit insecure about it).
About my fashion style, it depends on my mood. Sometimes I wear big sweaters, jeans and sneakers. Other times I like to dress a little more edgy.
Thank you very much and congratulations again. Have a beautiful day/night. Greetings from Chile. 🥰
I match you with ... Chifuyu Matsuno ♡
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Your relationship song : Every Summertime (NIKI)
Chifuyu knows how much you like to read, spend an entire afternoon with a book in your hand, not caring how long it’s been since you took a pause. If he’s honest, he actually loves this side of you. Seeing you all bundle up in a blanket during winter or splay out on a lounge chair was a view he’d never get tired of. However, this doesn’t mean that, sometimes, he wishes he could be a book, just so you could give him you undivided attention for hours.
When he comes home from work tonight, it’s dark and there’s no sign of your presence downstairs. Knowing what this means, he doesn’t hesitate and goes straight in your shared bedroom, finding you calmy reading in bed. You acknowledge his presence when he coughs, putting your book on your lap and waving at him with a small smile. “Hi pretty boy! How was your day?” Chifuyu strips from his coat and falls on you, face meeting your stomach. He mumbles through the clothes and covers how there was more annoying customers than usual and how scared him and Kazutora were when a puppy escaped his cage and ran off the street, resulting in Chifuyu chasing him for a good twenty minutes before he could catch him.
“My poor baby, that was a rough day, huh?” you coo, hands stroking his disheveled hair.
“Mmh…” he mumbles, tracing your stomach with his forefinger. “Can you read for me?”
You stare at him curiously, even tho he can’t see your face. “You want me to read to you?” you repeat, as if you couldn’t grasp what he wanted.
“Mmh.” he mumbles again, snuggling further into your body. “’Want to hear your voice, love. It relaxes me.”
You obey him, hands leaving his scalp to take the book you were reading earlier and starts reading out loud. And, just like he said, Chifuyu sighs, a sigh of relief, your voice washing away all the worries and difficulties he faced today, feeling himself succumbing to sleep but not before kissing your skin, whispering an “Thank you, my love…” as he drifts off to sleep.
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ibolyafagyi · 2 years
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been going through a phase recently where everything seems ridiculously obviously boring and meaningless. my mind has become the kind of place where u hear stuff like "ugh why look at a painting dear god its all so boring and obvious and shallow how do you get paid for that" and "why listen to anything why read anything it literally doesnt help" and "why post anything why say anything i can literally feel myself becoming stupid theres not a thing im sure of anymore so whats the point". somehow nothing gave me anything anymore n i lost curiosity, even the energy to intake things. i stopped being able to express myself much bc i *was* smart before and i knew things and i used to function well but now all those things dont work or lost their meaning, their effect, their depth. i think my feeling for things might be coming back (maybe just a bit) bc i can look at a painting again and not feel so nothing but i very well remember being horribly disinterested in composition and colors with the knowledge that it was the most exciting thing to me before, and i feel like it must not be that hard to fall back into the nothing state. its a thing of feeling! you can only sense depth when you approach with some kind of mindset? i dont know. i dont give much credit or reliance to mbti, but recently realized i got the isfj result both times i got ill enough to ask for help. its primary function is introverted sensing. another result i remember getting from a better time is infp, with introverted feeling. maybe i need abstract inner values for myself? i remember how good it felt to just decide this is important to me for no reason. this is my thing and i dont need to explain or search for a reason. but that also sounds kind of stupidly idealistic... and im not sure im able to do it. but like im beginning to think if i continue being so realistic in my perception of things im gonna go insane.
i need to cut some slack on making everything so 100% clear. it goes for expressing myself, taking things in, completing a story fully. i need to bring back my stupid sentimentality. (maybe i got here bc of that ridiculously high-bar seminar paper i needed to work on all semester. or well, all of university and academics has this horrible fact-checking side to it.) i dont know where from to take resources for that -- idk if i function like this bc perfection fuels me, and if i dont have that but im not *guaranteed* to enjoy feeling things like before, then what... no one ever tells you you can suffer from being too objective, conscientious, hardworking. "u dont need to be a perfectionist" ok but thats just a few words, meanwhile most of the world operates in a way that rewards perfectionism. im gonna hate telling this to my psychologist bc thats also a place where i dont know how to approach things lightly and abstractly and it makes me suffer. i routinely feel stupid and exhausted and empty after psych sessions. like overwhelmingly stupid, like i dont understand the most basic things about myself and the world anymore. once somethings been questioned and i cant really answer im like huh? out the window that goes i guess, that was stupid of me i guess. when she asks more details about anything i feel like im a criminal whose story is falling apart. idk how to bring this text to a positive closure but ill keep the idea of sentimentality around, what can you do. i wanna solve my problems but i cant take the perfectionist approach to that. i cant be "good enough" to the psychologist, and i shouldnt attempt it, but i can only swing it the other way like "guess ill be a nuisance then". if i sense i cant continue being as good in human relationships, as attentive and whatever cuz i got shit going on, the thought of "i need to become a nuisance" surfaces. i guess i became a nuisance. but thats got entirely nothing to do with me i feel. i need to tell that friend eventually the things that bothered me in our relationship. or we will never talk again, might happen too. im just unable to make the painful experience of bringing up shit and the anxiety of waiting for a reply into a situation of self respect and self empowerment. (what do i say here.... once again, unable to bring things to a clean close.)
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random-esfp · 4 years
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To: the person who thinks Yoongi uses Fe and is INFJ because he said he would like to take a therapist license to help people who have suffered like him: drop MBTI before you get hurt.
I mean, when will people stop addressing as Fe things that are just interpersonal intelligence, empathy and/or being a decent human being.
Stan Fi for clear skin
(No offense intended to Fe users)
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aesopsbaby · 3 years
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Heya! I wanted to ask for a match up of cookie run or idv, if u can!
I'm an INFP and usually a pretty socially anxious person too who tends to keep to themselves, but can also be pretty extrovert sometimes and my friends usually say I'm sweet and positive, even if it's quite the contrary actually! I love helping others and I'm pretty patient unless it has to do with harming animals, in which case I get pretty aggressive. Usually I'm also quick to forgive, but never forget and have a little trust issues which results on me ghosting people accidentally, also have the tendency of taking care of everyone around me and feeling guilty for saying no. I also like baking a lot and reading, along with painting and singing! I'm really into mythology, especially greek and norse, and I'm trying to learn more about energies and supernatural entities. One of my other main interests are psychologist, flying and languages! I love traveling a lot and trying to decipher human emotions and what motivates them, along with how to understand other perspectives! Even though I'm pretty stubborn when it comes to ideologies and kinda rule my life by what I consider "morally good".
I'm not really sure if what I put was ok or if it works, so sorry if I did something wrong! and hope u have a good day! Take care! :D
I match you up with...
Identity V:
Eli Clark | The Seer
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This man adores you with all his soul-
I'm not even kidding,he gets so soft and just has this huge smile plastered on his face whenever he sees you.
He's always gushing about you,bringing you up in any conversations like "Y/n is just adorable aren't they?"
He literally melts. Im not kidding. Eli literally MELTS everytime he sees you because you're like a small ball on sunshine.
Not related to anything but,,,receiving head pats from Eli....<3
He loves how you're so adamant on your ideals,he really admires you for that.
He falls heads over heels for how you're so kind/loving/caring and patient for others. Never backing down and never neglecting someone's problems.
He gets so distressed and upset whenever he sees you carrying everyone's responsibilities :((
He understands that you're not able to refuse someone's help because you'll feel that you're not good enough or that you're a bad person for neglecting someone's struggles.
Whenever he sees you taking up yet another responsibility from someone,he almost breaks apart because he hates seeing you so stressed out and rushing around to accommodate to everyone.
He wants you to have your own time,to relax,take care of yourself an look out for yourself.
He knows he can't just waltz on into your life and try to control what you do,try to force you to stop accepting people's struggles. He knows that doing so will only make you even more stress and paints him in a bad light- he'll never do something so mean.
But he still wants you to at least think about how much of a toll this is taking on your health. Physically and mentally.
Will always try to help you with whatever you're doing to lesson your responsibilities.
"Honey,you know you don't have to drain yourself like this."
"Remember. It's okay to say no sometimes,alright? Your health is much more important than anything else,understood?" He'll huff playfully,pinching your nose.
He'll always be beside you whenever you need. He'll listen to all your troubles that you've probably never gotten to talk about since you're always helping others and listening to others.
He loves to read with you <3 Loves it when you're relaxing and he gets to be with you to enjoy the moment together!
Supports you throughout everything. No matter what decisions you make,he'll always be there to cheer you on and help you. ♡♡
Melts whenever he sees you playing with his owl <3 You're just so soft and gentle with the animal that it just creates this fuzzy and warm feeling to well up inside him.
He'll always be hugging you,always having his hands wrapped around your body as he presses feather like kisses on your neck and shoulder just to hear you laugh <3
Kisses your nose and cheeks as he holds your hands in his. ♡
He understands whenever you question him or subtle hint that you're worried he'll leave or something along those lines.
He will never get mad nor pissed,instead he'll feel a little bit down. How much have you gone through that you're questioning someone's loyalty? He always gets so emotional because of what you could have possibly went through.
What could someone have done to make you have trust issues,he wonders. It truly pains him to see you with small trust issues so he'll never ever get mad at you.
"Dear,I'll never leave you. I promise."
"Here,a kiss for my loyalty." [A kiss to your nose] "another one for my love for you," [A kiss to your forehead] "and one more,a promise that I'll love you forever,love." [A soft kiss to your lips]
He always compliments you! It's a daily routine and he will never grow out of it!
Sometimes when he's in a particularly good mood,he'll rush over to you,practically beaming with love and affection as he tackles you into a hug <3 Picking you up gently and spinning you around as he peppers your face with kisses ♡♡
"I'm so in love with you,dear,so very in love."
Thank you for your support! <3
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whaleofatjme1920 · 3 years
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howdy! may i request for a matchup? your blog is so splendid and your writing is incredible ^^ can it be a mix of romantic and nsfw? do whatever your heart desires tho!
first of all, i go with she/they! and i’m pansexual, however i’m mostly inclined towards the ladies because ✨girls✨. but i also wouldn’t mind a male matchup tho! i’m aquarius sun, libra moon and virgo rising, and if it is helpful, i’m an infp 4w5 :)
about my looks! i’m 18 and italian, i’ve kind of got a curly wolfcut with deep purple hair, it reaches my shoulders now, and i’m settled in letting it grow long. i’ve got cat eyes, they’re hazel, and this funny button nose that has a nostril piercing and a septum ^^ my face has a lot of tiny lil moles, which i find really cute, and i’ve got thick thighs and hip dips, i used to dislike them a lot but i vibe with it now :) also my eight is 5’9, i’m a tall gal and i tower over a lot of my friends, i hate it though because i’d love to just pass unnoticed- lastly, my clothing style is dark fairycore! my favorite outfit is this cute black dress with a small ribbon and moon jewel at the top, along with this…. really fairy-sh giant open shirt with weird turquoise designs, and simple skull thighs paired with short black converse!
i suffer from social anxiety, depression, slight eating disorder and extremely low self esteem, i’m really insecure and i always apologise because i’m terrified of talking too much, being too scatterbrained- every moment’s a good one to say sorry for me, i’m just scared i’ll do or say something that’ll mess everything up. i joke around alot about how sensible and empathic i am, seeing a stranger being sad while i’m taking a stroll around the park will literally bursts to tears in the middle of the street, i just can’t help it- i always overload myself by trying to help and regularly check on my friends, to see if they’re doing well, if they’ve tried to eat something, took some breaks from work and all, but i’m always mindful of not asking every single day in fear of being oppressive. i know i’m too caring and nurturing, i’m a mom friend, and the last thing i want to do is annoy them by being over-attached-
talking about my personality, i’m very very playful and sweet, i like being helpful to people and am studying to be a psychologist!! at first i’m extremely shy and try my best to stay quiet, but once i open up my dorky side comes bursting out lol, and then there’s no stopping me because i’ll start being a scatterbrained clumsy mess with no fears of being judged 😎 i’m proud of my creativity, i have this cute little recycled sketchbook where i’m constantly drawing skulls, skeletons and flowers, and also i love singing while strumming my uke or guitar <3 i often talk REALLY fast, it’s usually when i’m really excited about something that i enjoy, and i also get tongue twisted frequently, which is kind of fun because when i’m totally into something i’ll start also say weird things, too busy paying attention to what i’m doing than actually register what comes out of my mouth. and that’s pretty fun, if you also know that i even talk in my sleep. it runs the family or some shit, my dad and my sister have whole conversations while resting and it’s THE BEST THING EVER- sorry i got giddy and started ranting- i’m really affectionate, i love hugging people, but before starting physical contact i always try to see if they don’t mind being touched, and if that’s a no then i’ll smother you with goofy love, such as gently head butting you while we’re laughing (i started doing this with my mom when i was a child, it’s our way of being sweet to each other ^^), kissing your cheeks often or just playfully biting you. i always joke a lot with my blinding black humour, but there are days when i get really melancholic and tired and i just spend the whole day crying or being lazy because i’m unmotivated. it might happen sometimes that i get a bad anxiety overload where the tiniest sound makes me snap badly, and i might get really irritated. i always feel guilty of snapping afterwards and i make sure to excuse myself. my personality is kind of.. awkward in a funny way, i always get told that i remind them of Emily the corpse bride. we have the same name actually, and that movie brings me so much comfort <3
i’m a huge softie, i love stargazing while holding pinky fingers with someone, talking about crazy conspiracy theories and staying awake late at night, talking and giggling till we’re both on the verge of crying. (black humor is majorly involved-) i’m interested in witchcraft, my grandma and mother have the third eye and me and my aunt are into spiritual stuff! so i could be the big tiddy with gf 👀 i have a whole collection of cute crystals, and my favorite one is my black star necklace! i’m also into tarots, meditation and the likes. i’m also in love with flowers but i’m sadly allergic to pollen, and i’ve got four cats ^^ i also enjoy writing! i write small poems and cute things, usually because i’m a lovesick pup 💀 i’m smitten with philosophy and knowledge and i know how to translate ancient greek and latin!
nsfw part here, gonna get spicy- i’m 100% a submissive brat, i’m a huge masochist and i love being choked. please bite me, and i’ll love you forever. i can’t stand degradation, praise is my way to go, as i’m really insecure. call me your pretty girl while holding my chin and i’ll die andjwjjw- also i kind of… have a blood kink? i love the taste of blood, and i wouldn’t mind small cuts and little bruises. overall i need praise and i’ll be a brat about it, i just love playfully denying and defying orders ;) and lastly i don’t know if it’s a thing, but i’ve got a smoking kink? just- smoking is bad kids, but people smoking are hot? how is it even-?
this was so long, i tried to be as detailed as possible and i’m really sorry for the inconvenience. you’re a wonderful author and you masterpieces never, and i mean never, disappoint! i’m so happy that you’ll take a week of, breaks are important for your mental health and well-being! <3
Your matchup is… Clockwork!
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I have found myself back on that ?? with who to put you with and that’s honestly just because I see you working with a few different people! I love that. At first, my brain bounced around to Jeff simply because of the blood kink, or maybe Kate, but like,,,, your hobbies all line up with Natalie?? So Natalie it is! I think she’d just adore everything about you and that your other kinks match up with her SO WELL. So! Let’s get into that. I also happen to like both Natalie and Aquarius-es.
Things she likes about you:
What doesn’t Natalie like about you? She’s such a sweetheart ngl and everything about you fascinates her. Physically, she thinks you’re the epitome of beauty? Like, your hair is just so pretty?? She could spend hours just threading her fingers through it, playing with all the curls and remarking how the purple hue changes in different colors. She’s also a sucker for piercings, like that could’ve been what physically attracted her to you at a glance first - the piercings. She’s weak. The moles too?? She’d just straight up “did you know moles are places your past life lover used to kiss you?” And then she’d smother you in kisses. Your face would always smell faintly of her chapstick ngl. I also like to think that Natalie herself is pretty tall! So she really like have a partner she can just smooch when standing and doesn’t have to swoop down or crane upwards. You’re perfectly sized and she’s just in love. Heart eyes. She also really likes your sense of style! If you wore that outfit around her? Either Natalie’s gonna act up or,,,,,, she’s gonna show you off,,,,,,, She also really finds your altruism endearing! Admittedly, Natalie is a little rough around the edge so someone as sweet and kind as you? It’s just melts her that much more. PLEASE SING TO HER and play your uke omfg that would be so precious I CANNOT stress that enough. She also really loves your art! I will come back to that point. And by all means, she loves hearing you talk! Sometimes, Natalie doesn’t know what to say so it’s nice to have a partner fill her head with sweet words. Sometimes, she just likes listening. Also YES PLEASE HUG HER. Just touch her! I think all of the creeps are touch starved but Natalie especially.
General cute stuff:
Back to the music thing, please do this. I genuinely mean it, like just sit in the room with her while she writes stuff or draws and just sing to her and play your instruments she will adore it. She’d probably also hum with you, just spending time with you. Also also, little sketch dates are an absolute must? Going to pretty places out in the world, sketching together. You could be sketching the world around you and flowers and she would sketch,,,, you! Because you are the most beautiful thing present. Natalie would love to hold your pinky and just swing your hands gently as you walk together. Just lots of cute, soft stuff, y’know? She doesn’t understand witchcraft at all ngl but feel free to tell her all about it! She loves learning, especially when the info comes from the lips of someone she loves. She might also buy you little crystals or pick them up in nature, maybe find some nice things for you and give them as little gifts to show you she listens to what you’re saying and because she thinks it might help in your craft/just be nice to have. Because you have an allergy to pollen, she might just take up to painting flowers to give to you instead :} The poetry thing!! I can see the two of you laying on a blanket under the stars, just tracing constellations and talking about the universe, your head on her chest and reciting poetry to her? It’s just so cute in my opinion.
You two as a couple & NSFW:
Natalie understands that sometimes, the days are hard and all you can do is be there for the ones you love when they come. And she’s there for you 100%. She’d always want to be there for you, making sure you’re eating alright, and that you know you’re loved, appreciated and absolutely cherished in more ways than one. She would be your number one hype woman!! And once again, please keep talking around her. She will never make you apologize or feel bad for going on rambles or just going off track because she appreciates it so much. Just lets you talk and talk and she’d commit every single little thing to memory, really. She’s admittedly not as empathetic as you but understands it’s important to you - she just doesn’t want you to spread yourself thin. Wants you to take care of yourself and remember that it’s okay to put yourself first sometimes. You know how you check in on everyone else? Let her do that for you. She is 200% here to love and support you, let her take the wheel every now and then. She wants you to feel pampered and loved. If you start crying over something sad like in the park and someone looks sad? She’s got you. Just holds you, lets you know it’ll be okay. Just lean on her for support, and she will hold you with all her love. Also you are never annoying to her! Natalie just appreciates everything about you, from your deep empathy, to your kindness and all your hobbies, your physical body and just you as a complete human being. Furthermore, Natalie is really understanding about the overload thing. Sometimes that happens with her too, and she will always apologize as well. If you were in one of those bad funks, she’s there to do what you want her to. Just tell her, and she’s already on it. You're also a mom friend? That's perfect she honestly,,,,, she honestly needs that sometimes,,,,
Alright here’s the most decisive part for me, the kinks! Natalie is, without a shadow of a doubt, a brat tamer. Lucky for you, she’s also a masochist as well. She’s pretty dominant, but she likes be challenged every now and then so it works out that you’re bratty. I think in Natalie’s OG story she mentioned liking the taste of blood so like, if you had any little cuts, or maybe just let her bite just hard enough? She’s licking you all over. Her tongue knows no bounds. Also please mark her up she adores that stuff. You can cut her and she’d moan lmfao. She also doesn’t really like degradation either and she’s got praises from here to Timbuktu. She’d have you kneeling in between her legs, hand gripping your cheeks, pulling you upwards and looking into your pretty hazel eyes and smirk, “show me what you’re capable of, pretty girl. Make me smile.” Spanking, if you defy her too much. Good girls aren’t good all the time. Unfortunately, I don’t think Natalie smokes cigarettes. Maybe weed and vape pens? So, you got puff the adequate magick dragon over here too. Blowing rings and heart shapes into your face before patting your cheek and telling you to be a good girl for her? Yes.
Closing Thoughts/Other Stuff:
Ah you are so so sweet! Also I was so happy to see that ‘howdy’. And no, thank you so much for giving me so much to go off of! I LOVE to fill up these matchups to their limit and you gave me such a good amount. Thank you so much for all the kind words! Also also, oh my goodness another witch!! I always get so happy to see other witches. Seriously though, never apologize for being who you are! I was so happy to receive this ask and you seem like such a delightful human being who deserves the world and more! Remember to take care of yourself, okay? Have a fantastic day/night, love bug, from both me and Natalie! And ofc, let me know what you think. Hope you enjoyed <3
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Hello! How you doing? I'd like to request a match up!
I'm a girl who's most likely bi (still not completely sure). My Hogwarts House is Ravenclaw, my zodiac sign is Virgo and my MBTI is INFP (sometimes INTP or INTJ).
Overall I'd say I am quite shy and reserved but I do overshare a lot when I'm comfortable with someone! I can be really serious when it comes to school/work but otherwise I don't think I'm very mature... As in I have a childish taste(?) for a lot of things, so I'd like someone who can accept it!
I like to stay at home more than going out and I have a cat. I love sleeping a lot too so I think my energy matches a lot with a cat's energy more than a dog's one, even tho I do like dogs very much too.
I'd like to think I'm creative but I don't really share the things I create or my ideas very often for people actually tell me I'm creative. A lot of my friends say I'm calm and meant to be a psychologist (it's what i am in college for) but I feel like I'm constantly freaking out about literally anything before calming down and realizing "oh i CAN handle it"
I hope that's good enough! Have a nice day and thank you!
Thanks for requesting!
I ship you with Heat
He's also quiet, so you don't need to feel pressured into holding a conversation if you don't want to. Despite being affiliated with the Kidd Pirates, he's relatively gentle and kind. He doesn't mind your sleepiness or "childish" interests. He finds it sweet.
I think Heat would encourage you to share your art with him, but he doesn't seem like the type to pressure you into doing anything that makes you uncomfortable. I've always perceived him as the type of guy to be self-conscious about his own interests and passions, so he can understand how difficult it can be to open up to others.
Relationship Trope: Friends to Lovers
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funkymbtifiction · 3 years
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An example of the Fi Lens: how everything relates and pertains to me.
I thought I’d share here as a little glimpse into what goes on in an INFP brain, if that’s ok?
So, one of the departmental managers at my work passed away suddenly a few months ago. I was devastated to hear the news even though I didn’t know her well. I do feel so sorry for her family. They have a reason to be so sad. I don’t, but I keep thinking about her often. On how I wish I got to know her better, that her passing has made me realize life can be so unpredictable and unfair. I recall the last emails she sent out, the last time she visited our office...I miss her yet I didn’t actually really know her! It seems so daft and inappropriate of me to process this so personally.
Yup. An FJ would probably feel sorry for their family and leave it at that, or offer support in some socially expected way (casseroles, cards, flowers). Instead, a Fi somehow relates it back to their own moral failure. (Not to make this all about “me” -- haha -- but I had a neighbor commit suicide once. I had never met him, knew nothing about him, and was oblivious to it until a police woman knocked on my door and handed me a card for their psychologist in case I needed to talk through things. I said thank you, but I had not known him and did not need the card. And then spent the next few days wondering if I should have made more of an effort to say hi to him at the mail boxes. It was an irrational thought process -- he did not lack for family, friends, or support, and his neighbors being more welcoming to him likely would not have changed his mind. But my own feelings absorbed me for awhile, as I did that Fi thing of analyzing my own behavior, looking for mistakes -- a ‘less than ideal’ self.)
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hi!!! can i get a cm ship, preferably male, please??
i’m 4’9, INFP-T personality type, pisces, slytherin. i have shoulder length curly hair that’s partly dyed black, but it’s naturally a brown with a reddish tint and some blonde strands, and i have bright green eyes and i have freckles galore, and i’m skinny but somehow still muscular. i’m a trans boy, i have autism and add, and my special interests include geography, video games, music, actors, psychology, and medicine.
i’m very sarcastic and i always make jokes out of my ptsd, i love reading (fanfic and speculative fic!) and writing my heart out, and sugar. i love sugar. so much. if i could play sports, i’d play soccer and hockey. i’m the most chaotic gay person you’d ever heard of.
thank you!!!
Spencer reid😎
(sweetie you scream many spencer vibes)
You and spencer met at a comicon. You were with your best friend who was dressed as frodo from the Lord of The Rings and you, dressed as your favourite video game character. Spencer was dressed as a star trek character. You were in a small crowd whilst listening to a person dressed up as gandolf. He was rambling on about how the 2nd lord of the rings movie was better than the 3rd. You were standing next to Spencer when he leaned over and whispered ‘This guys is nuts. The 3rd movie is obviously better someone needs to operantly recondition his brain’ you laughed at his psychology joke and turned to the handsome boy next to you ‘I guess you take psychology then?’ he nodded ‘Yeh I did. Got 3 Phds now.’ you smiled ‘Woah that’s amazing.’ Spencer blushed at your remark before sticking his hand out to shake yours ‘I’m Spencer Reid.’ you graciously accepted ‘I’m alex and I’m guessing your a doctor’ (i looked at your page for your name hope that’s okay!💕) he nodded again ‘Yep. So... weird question do you wanna hang out sometime. You seem cool. I’ll give you my number?’ you bit your lip and looked up at him ‘Sure. Yeah I’d love that.’ The rest was history. On your first date you guys went to a psychology lecture and then went to see a movie. It was perfect you both spoke about yoyr insecurties, bands, movies.. the lot. that 1 date turned into 2 that turned into 4. On that 4th date he finally asked you ‘Alex... would you wanna maybe...like be my boyfriend?’ To which you and your 4’9 self, stood on your tip toes and kissed his 6’1 frame and said ‘Yes I will.’ 8 months later and you were still going strong and more in love with each other than ever. You ended up working as a psychologist correlating nicely with your boyfriend’s bau job. You had moved together and weeknights were filled with listening to music, debating about geographical and psychology statistics. Spencer loved hearing you ramble on about new medicine developments and you hearing him ramble about anything and everything. At weekends you’d go and play hockey with your local men’s team you were apart of. Spencer would sometimes come to your games. When the evenings finally rolled around that consisted of movies or playing video games whilst cuddling on the sofa with as many sugary snacks as you thought possible. Spencer was scared that you would get a cavity from how much sugar you ate. Some nights you’d suffer in bed with your PTSD but your boyfriend’s hold helped guide you and make you feel safe again. Your relationship was perfect but there were still times where you felt insecure to which your boyfriend would say ‘Alex, I love you. I love your freckles, your curly hair the way you can tell me anything about medicine or geography. I know you feel different and imperfect sometimes. But I don’t see it. Any of it. I just see your perfection. You make me feel comfortable and secure. You’re amazing and the most beautiful boy in the whole world.’ he would say as he gave you a sweet kiss and from those words you felt like you belonged again. Spencer reid was your home.
wowzers this one was longggg. I hope you like it 🥺 You sound like a really cool guy btw 💓💓💓
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elianamarie-blog · 3 years
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Hey bestie! could i get a ship for that 70s show?
i’m a 5’6 nonbinary (she/they) with short hair and curtain bangs my hair colour is done to look like narcissa malfoys (dark brown with platinum blonde on the underside). I have blue/grey eyes.
i’m an INFP, Ravenclaw, and a Taurus. My hobbies are making music, and playing pranks on my sister lol. I love marvel, harry potter, and criminal minds.
ive been told i’m very cocky and my ego is through the roof. I’d consider myself a very kind person who’s easy to talk to. i like to joke around a lot with my friends and sarcasm is my first language,
My aesthetic conveniently is very 70s/vintage, and my music taste is also a lot of throwbacks.
what i want to do when i’m older is forensic psychology!
hope you get to mine but if not that’s fine! Love your writing!
-M
Thank you bestie! You sound like an amazing, interesting person! (And gorgeous too) I got you! And thank you SO much for reading my content. You, are amazing <3 
Who’s Up For A Challenge?
Michael Kelso x reader
-Y/n L/n was new in town and found enjoyment in messing with the players of the town.
-She was known as “that chick”
-She was incredibly witty, sarcastic, cocky, but so kind and beautiful.
-She may have accidentally had a couple of good guys fall in love with her.
-She had to gently turn them down and that actually broke her heart.
-She loved a good challenge though.
-She was sitting in the Hub with her college lab partner, Donna, when the none other than himself, Michael Kelso, walked in.
-Y/n had heard about him.
-The infamous Michael Kelso. Playboy of Point Place.
-Donna called him over and as he sat down, he noticed her.
-Of course, he had to hit on her.
-When he asked her out, she, of course said yes.
- “Alright, I’ll be here to pick you up tonight.”
-Y/n smiled as he walked away.
-As Donna leaned in and started to warn Y/n about him, Y/n cut her off.
- “I know.”
- “You know?”
- “Yes. I’ve heard of this dillhole and I’ve got a plan.”
-Donna was intrigued as Y/n started unraveling her plan. 
- “I’m going to make him fall in love with me. Then I’m going to break his heart and make him feel what he makes every girl here feel.”
-Donna wasn’t so into it, but knew she couldn’t stop her.
-So, Y/n went through with the plan and met up with Kelso that night.
-He got her a burger from Fatso Burger and took her to Mt. Hump.
-He started kissing her neck and making out with her.
-She knew she was good at sex and everything else.
-But she refused to give it to him on the first date.
-She was a classy person after all.
-Kelso had set up a challenge to get in the sack.
-She already knew that though, because well duh.
-She ended up befriending Donna and Jackie over it.
-Jackie was thrilled and squealing.
- “Finally, he’s going to feel the hell that he put me through,” Jackie said.
- “You scare me,” Donna said. “Besides, you’re with Hyde now. It shouldn’t matter.”
- “Oh, whatever. Revenge is dish best served cold.”
- Y/n laughed and threw an arm over Jackie’s shoulders. “Don’t worry, girl. I got you. I’m going to drag him through the mud and then hang him out to dry.”
- “Oh, I love you!” Jackie squeaked and hugged Y/n tightly.
- “Okay, now you both scare me,” Donna said.
-Donna tried to warn Kelso, but of course he didn’t listen to her.
-He just took it as her being jealous that he wasn’t going to nail her.
-Even though she was back with Eric.
-Kelso this time took Y/n to a drive in and bought her the classic: popcorn and a coke.
-Y/n was down to date 2 out of 10.
-He started kissing her again, softer, gentler, but started getting handsy again.
-Y/n smacked his hand away multiple times before he finally up.
- “Well, damn, Y/n!” he cried out, shaking his hand. 
- “Keep your hands to yourself, lover boy,” she threatened.
- “Yeah, or what?” he challenged.
- “Trust me, you don’t want to challenge me.”
- “Maybe I do.”
- “Trust me, sweetie, you don’t. I can snap you in half.”
-His eyes lit up. “You must be hot in the sack!”
-Y/n couldn’t help but laugh. “Take me home, you jerk.”
- He chuckled. “Yes, dear.”
-When he dropped her off, she turned to him. “Pick me up Friday for dinner at 8pm.”
- Kelso nodded and smiled at her.
-Eric, Hyde, and Fez caught onto the challenge and decided to make it a bet.
-Hyde said Kelso would make a fool out of himself and end up being dumped.
-Eric said Kelso would actually score.
-Fez said he just wanted to be part of the action and said Y/n would win.
-Doesn’t mean Hyde didn’t try to sabotage the bet by giving Kelso wrong information.
-For example, he told him to pick up Y/n late instead of on time because it shows that he’s desperate and clingy.
-Which is what the idiot did.
-Y/n was NOT pleased.
-She made him buy her lobster and flowers.
-At the end of the night she ended up giving him a hot make out sesh, but left him to take care of himself.
-Date 3 out of 10 down.
-Now, Eric was trying to sabotage the bet by giving Kelso tips how to get laid.
-Which Kelso laughed at until Donna spoke up.
- “You got to invoke her mind, man,” Eric said. “People like her like to be intellectually challenged.”
- “Yeah right,” Michael scoffed.
- “No, Eric is actually right for once,” Donna said, bored. “Y/n isn’t like the other girls in this town. She actually has a brain.”
- “And some nice jugs,” Fez said earning a glare from the group.
- “Try talking to her about literature and psychology and music. She likes that kind of stuff. And leave out any kinds of ‘doing it.’ Intelligent people like her don’t like that.”
- “But I wanna do it.”
- “I know, but you got to make her think you want her mind, not her body.”
- “Yeah, that’s a good idea!” Kelso said and ran out the door to spontaneously surprised Y/n at her house with flowers and a...book.
- “Donna, what the hell are you doing?” Hyde asked.
- “I know, I’m such a bad friend to her,” Donna said. “I’m going to hell.”
- “No, not that. I’m trying to get her to dump him for being stupid. Don’t give the guy pointers!”
-Kelso showed up at Y/n’s door with a picnic basket, a blanket, flowers, and a gift.
-She was definitely surprised.
-He found the perfect spot under the tree and laid out the blanket. 
- “I got you something” he said and gave her a gift sloppily wrapped in paper. 
-She opened it up and it was a vintage psychology book from the late 1800′s.
-She was genuinely impressed. “Where did you find this?”
-Well, I heard you talking about your love of psychology and vintage things and found this at an antique store. Thought you’d might like it.”
-Her eyes actually filled with tears.
-Even thought it was their fourth date, she felt touched by the gift and allowed 2nd base.
-The next few dates ended going the same flow. 
-He’d take her out, hoping for sex, she would tease him and then leave him to take care of himself.
-By their 7th date, he was beginning to grow frustrated.
-So, far Fez was winning the bet.
-On the eighth date, Y/n introduced Michael to her parents.
-They were spectacle, but polite to him nonetheless.
-Eighth date consisted of the carnival.
-As the lights shown down on y/n’s beautiful face, he realized he might actually feelings for her.
-Y/n knew she started developing feelings for him after the fourth date, but she refused to say anything. It was just a reaction to the sweet gift.
-Even though she knew he had a kid with another woman, it didn’t stop her from feeling the way she did.
-He won her a stuffed elephant, a goldfish, and bought her a hotdog.
-Back in the car, they were making out again. “I think I really like you.”
-She smiled into the kiss. “I like you too, but you’re still not getting any.”
- “That’s okay,” he whispered, shocking both of them.
-He ended up panicking to the guys later on that night.
- “So? Just go bang the next chick you see. You did that to Jackie a lot when she didn’t want to sleep with you,” Hyde said.
- “That’s the problem. I can’t,” Kelso said and ran a hand through his hair. “I tried but every time I went to, I just couldn’t find myself to do it. They’re not her, man.”
-The guys gave him crap and started taunting him.
- “You love her!” Fez said and tried to make kissy faces with Eric.
- “Yeah, we don’t do that,” Eric said, pushing Fez’s face away from his.
- “What’re you going to do?” Hyde asked seriously.
- “Just...try to make her mine at this point.”
-On the ninth date, Y/n was freaking out.
-How could she have fallen for him?
-She’s never felt this way after messing with a guy like this.
-Why?
-Why?
-WHY?!
-Stupid, stupid, stupid--
-The doorbell rang.
-He stood there with a dozen red roses.
- “I got something special,” he said.
-He ended up taking her to the lake with a complete romantic dinner.
-Candles, wine, chocolates, and pasta that he had help from mom make.
-Y/n’s eyes pricked with tears.
-No one has ever done this for her before.
-Throughout the evening, he had actually engaged in intelligent conversation and opened up to her.
-He talked about his hopes and dreams, his fears, and his loves.
- “People don’t give you enough credit,” she said. “You have a lot going for you. You just don’t show this side to people. Why?”
- He shrugged. “It’s funnier this way. I don’t want them knowing this side of me, Then they’ll start...expecting stuff from me and I don’t want that pressure.”
- “Well, you’re secret is safe with me,” she said, taking a sip of wine.
- “Well, come on, you have a lot more going for you. You want to be a forensic psychologist. That’s awesome, whatever that is.”
-Y/n chuckled and explained it to him while he actually listened to her!
-She actually changed the playboy of the town!
-Y/n wasn’t sure if it was the wine, but she couldn’t take it anymore and brought him for a hasty kiss. “I want to go all the way with you tonight.”
-At this point, she didn’t care if he broke her heart, she just needed him before he could.
-The moment was actually beautiful.
-He was so gentle and and sweet, making sure she was actually okay with it.
-And it was the best sex either one of them ever had.
-As they laid down in the back of the car, they confessed they ended up confessing their feelings towards each other, including the plans they each had for each other.
- “I’ve never felt this way towards anyone before,” y/n said. “This really bit me in the ass this time.”
- “I’ve never felt this way before period,” he chuckled. “I guess it bit me in the ass too.”
- “Are we dumb for doing this?” she whispered.
- “Totally.”
-They laughed together and ended up doing it again the second time that night.
-On their tenth date, he took her to the carnival again, but he had something more special planned.
-He took her to the top of the Ferris wheel and when it got to the top, he grabbed her hand and nervously asked her if she’d officially be his.
-She grinned at him brightly and nodded yes.
- “Great, now I can give you this,” he said and took off his hoodie that he was wearing. “You’re my girl now and I want you to have it. It’s my favorite hoodie.”
-She kissed him deeply and put it on.
-She wore it everyday from then on.
-One day she was over at the Forman’s and while they were waiting for everyone to join them, they started making out on the couch.
-The door opened, revealing Hyde, Eric, and Fez.
- “DAMMIT!” Hyde shouted.
- Fez laughed. “Pay up!”
- “Wait,” Eric asked. “Did you guys do it yet?”
- Kelso smiled. “Totally.”
-Eric turned to Hyde with his palm turned upwards. “Pay up, bitch.”
- “What’s that not fair!” he bitched.
- “Oh, it totally is,” Fez laughed.
- “No, I’ll tell you what’s not fair. Michael didn’t get hurt like he was supposed to!” Jackie said.
- “No, he got something better,” Donna said. “True love! And someone to kick his ass into shape.”
- “A matchmade in Heaven,” Fez joked while Hyde handed him his cash. “Thank you Hyde.”
- “Yeah, shut up.”
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