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[tessathegamefreak]

Neko and Dylan's reactions to seeing Stella. They are amazed!

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Steep: *through Stella* Aww, look at that! Lookth like your parentth enjoy our fusion

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[elahsworld]

Why I don’t yell at my children

Everyday we all see parents getting loud and angry with their children, some even yell at them on the streets. Because of emotional breakouts, because of defiant behaviour or the kids saying ‘no’ to something they don’t want.

It always breaks my heart, especially when the children are little like zero to five years old. Because it is a big world, emotions are big - and children are little. Yes, we are parents, we have to pay attention, we have to serve for the security of our children. But doesn’t that mean that we have to care for the mental and emotional well-being as well?

I remember the one time I yelled at my eldest son. He was about four years old and nearly ran onto the street. It was a shock for me, because I was scared - and because of my yelling he was scared. And we both cried and ... I felt so bad afterwards! And this was the time when I promised myself to never ever yell at my kids again! Of course, this was a special situation. But yelling at him afterwards ... It was just wrong. And I searched for other ways that I want to share with you. Maybe some of the ways may be right for you, too.

It is important to know your child. Every child is different and only by knowing them you know WHY they get angry, defiant or has emotional breakouts. With my second son, who I take as my example here, I know he gets into this behaviour when there is too much going on. From the outside or inside of him. Mostly this is the reason. Yelling or getting loud would only add more to this.

1) I try to stay calm myself. It is hard, especially when the children are crying or angry. But I know that my feelings and my behaviour also have impact on my child. He sees it. And when mum (or dad!) stays calm, he will calm down after a period of time.

2) I go down to them. I neither speak down from above nor bend I down. Because this gives the child the feeling of being small, of not having anything to say. Especially when their feelings are already crazy, it doesn’t help giving them the feeling to be more little. I come down to their size, sometimes even try to be a little smaller then them. I sit down at the ground and then just wait.

3) It isn’t helpful to try to navigate them in any directions. I avoid telling them, how poor they are, that they can’t understand or this is ‘just because you’re little you can’t understand’. But I also don’t tell my child to come over to me. No, I sit there, sometimes I even pick a book or my embroidery stuff - and wait. Looking at my child some times. Telling him once or twice that I’m there. Giving them the feeling to not be alone. They can go if they want, but I’ll stay at this place until they calm down.

4) Most times my children then come to me, sitting near me or want to come into my arms. And I let them, I cuddle them and just wait. Asking once or twice if they wanna talk about it. And a lot of times they begin talking by themselves. Telling me what’s going on. Sometimes I can understand it, sometimes I smile about it, because for me it wasn’t something to get angry about. But children haven’t got the experiences we have. They have to learn this first!

Yes, I do practice this nearly everywhere. Even in town, I kneel and give my child the possibility to come to me. Because they mostly know what they need at this time. And when I see other children in the kindergarten my second son visits three times a week for three to four hours, I really think that my way is much healthier then other ways. Because I am reliable for my children. They know that I take the time to listen to them. That I give them space to decide. And for me as a parent it isn’t as stressful. Because I am there for my child.

And mostly my children come to me after a few seconds. Because they know that I’m there. That I will hold them and listen to them. That I am their safe point, that they don’t have to be scared of me. I don’t need to use my physical size or strength. And I don’t have to yell at them. When they are calmed down they learn better when I explain in a soft and gentle way.

5) I try to show them what I feel. Messages starting with “I”, “Me” etc. are very helpful. I try to avoid accusations like: “You did this and that.” or “Because of your behaviour ...”. Feelings are understandable for children too. So I tell them things like: “I was scared when I saw how you ran onto the street. I don’t want to loose you, because I love you!” instead of: “You ran onto the street! That is not allowed! You can get into a car accident!” - My experience is, that they understand it better when I tell what I feel. And I teach my children to tell it that way too. They have to think about it and this helps, I think. It is part of a learning process. I think that those messages are also a social key for their future. Especially for their future relationships.

My Granny did it nearly the same way with me, even as a teen. And it gave me emotional stability in a time of struggling. In a time of so many changes. And I really see that my children trust me. That sometimes it even is enough to just smile at them and hold my hand into their direction to come to me. To tell me even before the outburst what is going on. And I really hope to raise my children that way to reliable and stable grown-ups. To build our relationship so they later know that they can always come home, no matter what problem they have. No matter with what they are struggling. I see this a the job of a parent, no matter if mum or dad. And I’m happy that my husband, even when he ain’t at home as much as I am, does it the same way.

Yes, it takes time. It is also something you as parents have to talk about. It is important that you are at the same side, that you show the children that you are one in this thing. Yes, sometimes it isn’t their mummy they need, sometimes just daddy who can be their hero of the moment. But that is okay. They are kids. They have to learn! And learning takes a lot of time! We as parents are responsible for the well-being of our children. Physical, emotional, mental. But how can I provide security and safety if my children have to be scared that I may yell?

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[quillfulwriter]

Nate Saito: Bittersweet 16th

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Word count: 650 (1 to 5 minutes) | Rating: G | Original Fiction | Note: Absent Parent

The trolley didn't stop outside his house, which was set back from the main streets on the edge of a not-great neighborhood. They managed just fine in the city anyway. Nate marched up the slight hill, opening the front door and dropping his shoes and bag just inside on the racks for each.

"I'm home, Mom," he raised his voice while he locked the door behind him and smiled at the smell from dinner tonight. Spices and the warmth from the oven spread through the pagoda—one of the benefits of a small house. "Tom threw a sci-fi comic at me when I got to his place. I think that's my birthday present...?"

He liked the beginning of it, anyway. Something about a rough-and-tumble rogue type getting caught up in a plot involving the survival of the galaxy. Not original, maybe, but pretty cool. Nate heard his mom pacing around and clacking a spoon against a pan in the kitchen, so why didn't she answer him? He eased towards the kitchen, leaning to peek around the hallway's corner. "Mom...?"

He jumped when she tossed confetti in the air, grinning. "Happy 16th, Nathaniel!"

The light laugh forced its way out of him, and he flicked some confetti from his hair. A couple years back exactly, she helped him bleach the tips and style it in a faux hawk. Nate didn't ask for anything that involved this year, since he'd learned to manage that on his own. He was happy enough getting tech and tools to make more things. Sometimes presents for her, so it was a little circular, but Nate didn't mind. When you got down to it, that was the least he could do.

"Putting the botvac to the test, huh?"

She chuckled, pointing behind her to the cake on the table with letter candles sticking out to spell 'Happy Birthday'. "Oh, sweetie. That already happened once I made that."

Nate glanced from it to her, smirking and raising his eyebrows to ask the question he had in mind. She nodded with a sly smile, a strand of black hair falling loose from her bun into her face. "Raspberry cream, just like you asked."

Of course, that meant he had to take a test taste, jogging over to swipe a fingertip of frosting from the top. Reflexively, she smacked his shoulder playfully once she caught up.

"You get one pass, birthday boy!" She passed him to the heart of the kitchen, taking out two plates from the cabinets and forks from the drawer.

"Yeah, yeah," he teased.  Closing the drawer with a bump of her hip, she circled back around to meet him by the seat he chose at the table. Nate shifted uncomfortably and traced  the dappled pattern on the tablecloth with his finger. Like that would make the real question  any easier when he had no choice but to ask about it. He could be direct or indirect, it didn't matter. Nate knew the answer already anyway. "Did you, uhh, get the mail? Today?"

Of course she sighed. Quiet, just a breath like any other, but he heard it all too clear. Almost deafening and definitely crushing. "Honey," she started and the sympathy hanging in her words confirmed what he knew to begin with.

"Nah, forget I asked." Nate waved it off, resting back and tapping the table in front of him. If he just managed to look alright, the rest would come after. It had to. "Let's just have the cake, okay? It's fine, really."

She put both plates in front of him, wrapping her arms around his shoulders with the back of the chair wedged awkwardly between them—not that he cared. Nate buried his face in her arms, the ones that carried him, helped him learn to ride a bike, held him, always there—always there. His breath hitched even when he tried to hold it back.

"All we need's right here, baby," she whispered, her voice thick too. "I'll always love you."

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[salcky]

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[elysianblessing-old]

First Day of a New Life

(Another VT fanfic. This time for my foster AU, in which Spencer is a Smol and Ghost+Toast are his foster parents.)

Words: 972

Triggers: Cursing; ask to tag anything else

It was a chilly autumn day, as a young boy inside of Briarville’s main foster care building was ushered by his caseworker into one of the several interview rooms.

The boy was only about 12, with pale skin and ginger hair, dyed yellow at the tips. He held himself timidly, slouched over and doing his best to stay far from touching anyone. He clutched an old GameBoy in his hands, sitting in one of the chairs inside the room with a small frown.

He’d been through this routine many times before; he’d learn that somebody got matched with him, they’d have their dumb interview, and the family would decide he wasn’t what they wanted. Or, worse, they’d take him, but they’d turn out to be major assholes. He still had horrid memories of his last home.

His caseworker left the room, leaving the young boy to play his game quietly, trying to stave off the dread he could feel creeping over him.

Out in the lobby-type area, two men sat; the older, a tall, black-haired, proper-looking man, seemed ecstatic, while the younger - a shorter, brown-haired man - seemed nervous. The two were obviously together, given their attitudes.

The caseworker gave the two a warm smile, letting them know that she was ready to take them back, leading them to the interview room that the young boy was sat in.

He didn’t say much as they entered, not at all seeming to notice that they’d entered at all.

Finally, the shorter man broke the silence.

“Uh.. hello..?” He spoke softly, a faint Southern accent over his words.

The boy took a moment to respond, pausing his game to look up at them, giving them a bit of a cold stare. “Hi.” He spoke bluntly, setting his console down and crossing his arms. He fell quiet, simply looking over the two as he waited for a response.

Eventually, the man spoke again. “Ah.. what’s your name, again? My name’s Johnny Ghost, and.. this,” he pauses, gesturing towards the tallerman, who waved slightly, “is my, uh, husband, Johnny.. Toast.”

The boy frowned, holding back a small scoff. “Wait, wait, wait. Both your nameth are Johnny?” He shook his head, a harsh lisp making itself evident as he spoke. “That’th weird ath fuck.”

He flinched a bit when the woman scolded him, leaning back in his chair. “...My name’th Thpencer,” he grumbled softly, looking down at his hands.

“It’s... nice to meet you, Spencer,” Ghost smiled at him weakly. “Uh.. how old are you?”

“Aren’t they thuppothed to give you a file???” Spencer huffed. “Doethn’t that thay how old I am?”

Now, it was Ghost’s turn to flinch, shrugging. “Well.. yeah, but, I mean.. wouldn’t you rather tell us yourself, kid?”

“Why would I do that?” Spencer frowns at them. “What’th the point? You’re jutht going to end up not wanting me! No point.. telling you anything!” He ranted lightly, only stopping when Toast spoke up.

“Er.. Spencer, would you mind if I sat next to you?” He tilted his head, gesturing at the empty seat next to the boy.

He stopped, looking a little surprised at the question before he nodded. “..Y—.. Yeah, thure..”

Toast smiled, standing and nudging past Ghost, giving Spencer a tender look as he sat next to him. “Do.. you want to tell us about you?” He spoke softly, his tone meant to indicate that Spencer didn’t have to.

Nonetheless, he nodded again. “I.. gueth tho..?” He shrugs, pausing. “...I’m twelve.”

“And.. how long have you been here, if you’re.. okay with telling us?”

Spencer fell quiet for a moment. “....Thince.. I wath five monthth old..” His voice went soft; obviously upset at this.

Toast looked up at his partner, giving Ghost a look of surprise. “What happened to put you..?” He looked back at Spencer, who was now fixated on fidgeting with his jacket strings.

“My parentth.. jutht abandoned me.. That’th all. They didn’t want me.” He scowled lightly, holding back a small sniffle. “Tho I’m thtuck here.”

Ghost frowned lightly himself, quietly upset as well as he leaned forward, tapping the GameBoy carefully. “Hey, uh.. what game you got in here, kid?”

Spencer lifted his head quickly, his eyes lighting up a bit. “Pokémon!! It’th Yellow!” He grinned brightly, sitting up a little straighter.

“Oh? How far are you?” Ghost smiled faintly, resting his arms on the table.

“I-I’m at Celadon City! I’m jutht having trouble with the gym..” He huffs, more a curiously frustrated noise than genuinely upset.

Ghost nods, scratching his arm lightly. “That’s Erika’s, right?” He smiled when Spencer gave a small agreement. “Well, she uses the grass-types. So you should get Fire, or Flying.. maybe Psychic. I used Charmeleon, uhh.. Venonat, Nidorino, Vulpix.. Abra and Slowpoke.” He pauses. “What do you have?”

Spencer leans forward, grabbing the handheld off the desk to look at his team. “Um.. Pikachu.. Weepinbell.. Poliwhirl.. and Meowth..” He looks up, smiling sheepishly as Ghost laughed softly.

“Aw, dude, that prolly isn’t gonna get you very far! C’mere, lemme see.”

—————————

After the three talked for about an hour, Ghost and Toast stepped outside of the room, the caseworker going with them. Spencer kept himself still in his chair, a little anxious.

Though, the anxiety didn’t last long before the two came back in, both trying to hide smiles as Toast spoke.

“So, ah… Spencer?” He rubs the back of his neck. “How would you, uh, like to—“

He didn’t get to finish his sentence before Spencer shot up, grinning widely and nodding. “Yeth!!!!” He waved his hands excitedly, bouncing on his toes as he looked up at the two, both cracking up in laughter as they smiled back, Spencer wasting no time in darting to his room to gather his things.

This isn’t going to be so bad after all, huh?

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[theaterkid821]

Touchdown Celebration (Rich x Jake x Reader) [Smut]

A/N: hey all! here with a new fic! hope you all enjoy this one and love you all! requests are open and see you soon.

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Request: “Can I request some rich smut or rich and Jake poly smut? Sorry if that’s a burden” let me make one thing clear NO REQUEST IS A BURDEN. BELIEVE ME, SCHOOL IS BORING AND WRITING THESE THINGS KEEPS ME SANE. regardless. heres a new fic and hope  you enjoy and love you!

TW: smut smut smut. also cursing probably.

You were new in the school, great. The complete opposite of what you want to do for senior year. You sit down at an empty lunch table and take out your phone. You really didn’t want a repeat of your old school. You made the mistake of telling your friend (who could not keep a secret to save their life) that you were poly and they told everyone in school. They literally drove you away.

A boy sits next to you and taps your shoulder, “ecthcuthe me, I’m thorry to bother you but I mutht thay that your beauty entranthed me when I thaw you from acroth the room. I’m Rich.”

“Oh, thanks… I guess.” You shake his hand

“Tho, are you new to the thchool?”

“Yeah, first day.”

“I thee. Well look, why don’t you thit with me and my friend Jake? He’ll like you I promithe. He’th really thweet.” “Sure, that sounds great.” You pick up your bag and walk with him to his table. Another boy in a green and white tank top looks up at you.

Rich sits next to him and they fist bump, “hey! Jakey D! what’th up? Oh right. Thith ith (Y/N), she’th new.”

“oh, well nice to meet you (Y/N), I’m Jake.” He makes some room for you at the table and you shyly sit down in it. You talked with them for a while, knowing they were staring at you.

“So um… (Y/N),”

“Yeah?”

“What are you doing tomorrow night?”

“Probably sitting at home, why?”

“Well,” Rich nudges him, “this is gonna sound weird but… would you like to go to dinner with the two of us sometime?”

You look up at him almost shocked, “I’m sorry what?”

“Look, I know thith ith gonna be a little hard but pleathe jutht hear uth out. Jake and I both are bi. We have a bit of a relathionthip and we don’t have the betht track record with the ladieth tho no one really wanted to be with uth. But you jutht, you jutht theem really cute and thweet and we jutht wanted to thee if you were interethted in it.” You smile, “well you two start thanking your gods that you hit on a girl whose poly.” “I-is that a yes?” “Definitely.”

.         .         .

You wait on the bleachers for them to come out. They just won the game and you couldn’t be prouder. You see Rich and run over to him. You hug him tightly and look up at him, “you were amazing. I’m so proud of you.” “Thankth babe. It meanth a lot.” You kiss him softly.

“I know it does. That’s why I said it.”

Rich laughs and Jake hugs you from behind, “and good job to you too Jake.”

“Thanks. So… where to?”

“Well, my parentth aren’t home. Maybe we could… do thomthing at my houthe?” “Y-yeah, that’d be good.” You wanted to, but you were a little nervous. You hadn’t done anything sexual before really and they clearly knew what they were doing. It was quite intimidating.

Rich could read you better than that though. He may act dumb, but he is adept at reading people’s body language. “No you’re not. What’th the matter?”

You lean against the chain fence behind you and look down, “it’s just… I’m not that… experienced in this area. You two clearly have experience and I feel a little… intimidated.”

Jake strokes your cheek and kisses you softly, “oh baby, it’s gonna be okay. So what if you haven’t done anything before? We’re gonna take care of you tonight. Make sure you have a good time.” You nod and walk with him to Jake’s car. Rich takes your hand and squeezes it. “wath that it or ith there thomething elthe?” “That’s it.” you lean your head on his shoulder.”

“good, I hate theeing you upthet.”

You kiss his cheek, “I know. I’m okay now, really.”

.         .         .

The ride to Rich’s house was fine. You walked in with them and the second you three were in his room and on his bed, the floodgates were opened and no one held anything back. Jake quickly pulled you into a kiss and ran a hand through your hair. Rich was behind you and pushed your shirt up a little, exploring the new skin and nipping at your neck.

“Jutht tell uth if you’re uncomfortable with thomething or if it feelth bad. We don’t want you to be uncomfortable.” “I don’t think I’ll be saying stop…” “Jutht making thure you knew.” He unclasps your bra and pulls your shirt off as Jake’s and your lips part. Jake was quick to respond by taking off his own as one of Rich’s hands grabs onto one of your newly freed breasts. Your hands move to Jake’s hair as you moan softly. A pool starts to form in your panties. God, these two didn’t know what they did to you.

Regardless, you were all quick to remove your clothing. You took the moment in for a second and sat up, “how exactly are we doing this?”

“We can decide that now I guess. I mean, we don’t want to make this too harsh on you. Well, it being your first time and all.” “Thanks…”

“Well, what if we have one of uth go in you, then the other goes inthide him?”

“I’m confused.”

“Jutht for ecthample, say we choothe Jake. Then Jake goeth inthide of you and I go inthide of Jake.” “Sounds good to me.”

Jake quickly gets up, “I’ll go get the lube and a condom.”

You nod and lean into Rich, “you thure you’re ready thweetie?” “Positive.” You kiss him softly. “Just, be gentle.”

“Making sure.”

You nod and Jake quickly comes back, condom in one hand and lube in the other. He quickly hands Rich the condom and opens the bottle. “When wath it dethided that I wath the one for thith?” “Since you were the one who figured it out.” “That’th fair.” Rich puts the condom onto himself and gets on top of you. “Ready baby girl?” you nod, and he pushes himself into you. You groan softly, you’d never felt something like this before and it felt heavenly. Jake carefully pushes himself into Rich and he does his best not to buck his hips into you.

After a few moments you give him the signal and he wastes no time. He thrust into you quickly and you couldn’t have been on more of a high if you tried.

You all came decently quickly and fell onto Rich’s bed.

“Wath it okay? Doeth anything hurt?” “No Rich. I’m fine. Thank you though.”

He kisses the top of your head. “Our pleathure dear.”

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Child Custody - Questions

Getting The Child Custody To Work

Joint legal wardship suggests that both moms and dads have the legal authority to make major decisions for the youngster. These consist of decisions relating to education and learning, faith, and healthcare. Parents ought to know, as well, that lawful custody is different from physical custodianship. Simply put, it is possible for co-parents to share legal protection however not share physical custody.

Appropriate proof should be brought before the court for joint lawful protection to be rejected. There are general aspects causing determining the most effective interests of a child, including however not restricted to: The ethical standard, conduct, and also activities of the parentsHow the parents have actually acted upon the kid's ideal rate of interests in the pastWhich moms and dad is most likely to allow the kid much more constant call with the various other parentThe top quality of the partnership in between a moms and dad and child Moms and dads need to not translate a ruling of joint legal safekeeping as a sign that the court is likely to additionally approve joint physical wardship.

There are many kinds of custody and visitation provided by courts. They normally fall into 2 containers consisting of joint physical and also sole physical: In this type of setup, the kid has two houses and invests equivalent time coping with each parent. Joint physical guardianship usually works finest when both moms and dads live within the very same city or area.

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Communication should be a top priority in between the parents for this type of setup to work. There likewise is some proof that youngsters in this setup fair better than those that are in sole-custody situation. In this kind of plan, the kid would certainly invest even more time dealing with one moms and dad. Nevertheless, both moms and dads make important choices about their kid's life.

It is necessary to keep in mind that one moms and dad might have the authority to be the "sudden death" in cases of dispute, or each parent may be offered decision-making authority in specific areas or situations. Joint guardianship has its advantages and also disadvantages for both the kid as well as the moms and dads. Moms and dads considering their safekeeping alternatives should think about the following: Parents that share joint legal protection must continue to interact with one an additional in order to get to joint decisions.

Children normally gain from seeing their parents interact truly with one another, preferably demonstrating what it means to jeopardize as well as overcome disputes in a healthy way. With time and also as moms and dads learn to co-parent collaboratively, a certain degree of efficiency can be reached when it concerns rules, repercussions, meals, going to beds, and also numerous other child-rearing selections.

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There will likely be ups as well as downs in advance. Every family members goes through this, and also when it happens, the input of your co-parent may not just declare but welcome. This is specifically true for major choices around education and learning as well as healthcare. It is frequently tough to team up on crucial choices.

Several moms and dads grumble that the system can, sometimes, be manipulated. For example, when one moms and dad suggests that the other "have to" do what they claim since they share joint lawful custodianship. Requiring two moms and dads to team up does not guarantee that they will be acceptable or show healthy and balanced co-parenting communication skills.

Joint legal custodianship is most excellent for parents who have actually currently shown a willingness to collaborate with each other in making essential decisions for their youngster. It's additionally best when neither moms and dad is holding a grudge against the various other or declining to communicatewhich occurs, however. Conversely, courts are sometimes careful not to designate joint legal guardianship in scenarios where one moms and dad is unreliable or has a background of 'having a look at' and also being out of touch for long durations of time.

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The term "protection" describes the physical and also lawful custodianship of a youngster. Physical custodianship includes where the child lives and also that takes care of them. Joint physical safekeeping (likewise called shared physical custodianship, shared household custodianship, shared parenting time, and so on) implies that your child spends substantial time coping with both moms and dads, and also both have equal obligation to physically take care of the child.

Instead, both parents have significant as well as constant time. The alternative to shared physical custody is single physical safekeeping. Joint or shared physical wardship works well when: Parents concur that it's in the most effective passion of their youngster. Moms and dads coordinate reasonably well as well as can choose with each other. Moms and dads live rather close to each various other as well as a joint setup is logistically possible.

There is no background of kid abuse, domestic violence or kidnapping. Joint physical wardship can deal with virtually any kind of parenting time routine. If your kid needs to live primarily with one parent, you can provide more time to the various other parent with midweek sees, expanded weekend breaks, longer holiday breaks, as well as school break gos to.

Getting My Child Custody To Work

Youngsters generally do much better if both parents are substantially associated with their lives. If you and also the other parent can make joint physical custodianship job, it will certainly profit your kid. If you have joint physical safekeeping, you need to make a parenting time routine that shows when your kid invests time with each parent.

You might desire to use a visitation timeshare calculator when you make your routine to guarantee that both moms and dads have significant time with the children. Numerous states have regulations that offer preference for joint physical safekeeping. Courts in these states will Bay Area divorce attorneys order joint physical guardianship as the default unless a moms and dad can verify that it would certainly be damaging to the kid.

Some states require that both moms and dads have a minimum quantity of time with the kid in order for the plan to be identified joint physical wardship. Various other states simply call for both parents to have significant as well as regular contact with the kid.

The 9-Minute Rule for Joint Child Custody

Joint safekeeping is a kind of youngster wardship pursuant to which wardship legal rights are granted to both moms and dads. Joint safekeeping might describe, joint legal custody, or both incorporated. In joint lawful custodianship, both parents of a kid share significant decision making concerning for example education and learning, clinical care and also spiritual training.

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Eeee! Clara is seeing a dragon version of herself being born out of an egg! With different versions of her parents or Mama Dragon and Papa Dragon, as she calls them) present!

Now, if this happened in the arcade of the Next-Gen universe, what are the Next-Gen children's reactions to this?

(These were drawn by @redscorpiocat X3)

Tootsie Fluggerbutter: Aw! Look at how happy that family is

Autumn Eve Orangeboar: So awesome! And cute!

Pepo "Fun-Sized" Orangeboar: It's so freaky, but cool!!!

Jolly-O Wipplesnit: Whoa, this is like a really cool manga scene!

Telrina L'amato: Oh- The popping out of the egg is kind of gross, but... The baby dragon is so cute...

Kaffe L'amato: The miracle of life...

Sabrosita Chamoy-Bing-Bing: Ah, I see a new life force has been added to the world. Welcome

Cerecita Chamoy-Bing-Bing: Uh.... Clara, you do see the dragon looks like you, right?....

Cadbury Treat: That's where babies come from?? Did I come from a chocolate egg?...

Akai "Pez" Treat: ... No Cadbury... But, you gotta admire how happy the family is

Oriana Batterbutter: Oh, It's always so beautiful to see the start of life!

Brezziana Flugpucker: *cracks open a soda and sips* Nice.

Dade Brumblestain: *He watches the scene, his eyes wide* ... Baby?.. Eggie.... Babies come fwom eggies? I need to tell mommy, now!!!

Sourpat just watched. She knows babies don't come from eggs, but she does remember when her dad told her she was kneaded and stretched from gelatin. She wonders if this is how Sourbill and Coalette felt after she finished forming.

Guard-It Gloria: Well, ain't that just something?

Deidamia: Wow. It's like watching a baby Cybug hatch, except I don't want to kill it....

Felix the III: ... *He looks at the dragon, then at Clara* ... *He chose to stay silent about the resemblance*

Steep: Huh. S'o that's what it'th like to have loving parentth...

Florence Von Schweetz: Wow... I know this is a happy moment, but it makes me miss my own father...

Anatoly: WHOA! That is wild! I have never seen a live birth before! It's a miracle!

#wreck it ralph #ask #send asks #wreck it ralph oc #wreck it ralph next gen #sugar rush oc #sugar rush next gen #tootsie fluggerbutter #autumn eve orangeboar #pepo “fun-sized” orangeboar #jolly-o wipplesnit #sabrosita chamoy-bing-bing #cerecita chamoy-bing-bing #telrina l'amato #kaffe l'amato #brezziana flugpucker #oriana batterbutter #dade brumblestain #cadbury treat #akai “pez” treat #steep #sourpat #felix the iii #deidamia calhoun #guard-it gloria #florence von schweetz #anatoly

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4 Simple Techniques For Child Custody

The Buzz on Joint Child Custody

Joint legal wardship implies that both parents have the legal authority to make major decisions for the kid. These consist of decisions concerning education, religion, as well as healthcare. Parents should be mindful, also, that lawful safekeeping is separate from physical custodianship. Simply put, it is feasible for co-parents to share legal wardship but not share physical safekeeping.

Suitable evidence must be brought before the court for joint legal safekeeping to be refuted. There are basic elements resulting in establishing the very best rate of interests of a youngster, including however not limited to: The ethical standard, conduct, and actions of the parentsHow the parents have actually acted on the kid's benefits in the pastWhich parent is more likely to permit the kid a lot more constant contact with the various other parentThe high quality of the partnership between a moms and dad and kid Moms and dads need to not analyze a judgment of joint lawful custody as a sign that the court is most likely to also grant joint physical protection.

There are several kinds of protection and visitation provided by courts. They generally come under two pails consisting of joint physical and also sole physical: In this kind of setup, the kid has 2 houses and also spends equal time dealing with each moms and dad. Joint physical guardianship usually works finest when both parents live within the same Bay Area divorce lawyer city or area.

Not known Facts About Child Custody

Interaction must be a priority between the moms and dads for this sort of arrangement to work. There likewise is some proof that kids in this arrangement reasonable much better than those that remain in sole-custody circumstance. In this kind of arrangement, the kid would invest even more time living with one moms and dad. However, both moms and dads make crucial decisions about their youngster's life.

It's vital to note that one moms and dad may have the authority to be the "sudden death" in situations of disagreement, or each moms and dad may be given decision-making authority in particular locations or scenarios. Joint custodianship has its benefits and downsides for both the youngster and the moms and dads. Parents considering their wardship options should think about the following: Parents that share joint legal safekeeping must continue to connect with one another in order to reach joint decisions.

Children commonly profit from seeing their moms and dads connect truly with one another, preferably showing what it indicates to jeopardize as well as work via disagreements in a healthy and balanced fashion. With time and also as parents find out to co-parent collaboratively, a particular level of effectiveness can be reached when it involves policies, effects, dishes, bedtimes, as well as many other child-rearing selections.

Some Known Details About Child Custody

There will likely be ups and downs in advance. Every family goes via this, as well as when it occurs, the input of your co-parent might not only declare but welcome. This is especially true for major choices around education and healthcare. It is frequently difficult to team up on important choices.

Numerous parents whine that the system can, at times, be adjusted. As an example, when one moms and dad suggests that the various other "must" do what they say due to the fact that they share joint legal safekeeping. Requiring two moms and dads to team up does not ensure that they will certainly be agreeable or show healthy and balanced co-parenting interaction skills.

Joint legal protection is most ideal for moms and dads that have currently demonstrated a determination to work with one another in making crucial decisions for their youngster. It's likewise best when neither parent is holding an animosity against the other or declining to communicatewhich happens, unfortunately. Conversely, courts are in some cases mindful not to appoint joint lawful guardianship in circumstances where one parent is unstable or has a background of 'checking out' as well as running out touch for long durations of time.

The smart Trick of Joint Child Custody That Nobody is Discussing

The term "protection" refers to the physical as well as lawful custodianship of a kid. Physical wardship includes where the kid lives and also that takes care of them. Joint physical wardship (likewise called common physical protection, shared property wardship, shared parenting time, etc.) implies that your youngster invests considerable time dealing with both moms and dads, as well as both have equal obligation to physically care for the kid.

Rather, both moms and dads have substantial and also frequent time. The alternative to shared physical custody is sole physical custody. Joint or shared physical guardianship works well when: Parents agree that it remains in the finest passion of their child. Moms and dads cooperate fairly well and also can make choices with each other. Moms and dads live fairly near each various other and a joint arrangement is logistically possible.

There is no history of kid misuse, domestic physical violence or kidnapping. Joint physical custodianship can deal with practically any kind of parenting time schedule. If your child requires to live mostly with one moms and dad, you can offer more time to the various other parent with midweek check outs, extended weekends, longer holiday breaks, as well as institution break visits.

Facts About Child Custody Uncovered

Children typically do far better if both parents are dramatically entailed in their lives. If you and also the various other moms and dad can make joint physical wardship work, it will certainly benefit your child. If you have joint physical safekeeping, you need to make a parenting time routine that shows when your kid invests time with each parent.

You might intend to make use of a visitation timeshare calculator when you make your timetable to make certain that both moms and dads have significant time with the youngsters. Lots of states have legislations that provide preference for joint physical wardship. Courts in these states will get joint physical custodianship as the default unless a moms and dad can verify that it would certainly be harmful to the youngster.

Some states require that both parents have a minimum quantity of time with the kid in order for the setup to be identified joint physical guardianship. Other states merely require both moms and dads to have significant as well as frequent call with the kid.

More About Joint Child Custody

Joint wardship is a form of kid wardship according to which wardship rights are granted to both parents. Joint protection might describe, joint legal custody, or both combined. In joint lawful custodianship, both parents of a youngster share significant decision making pertaining to as an example education and learning, healthcare and also religious training.

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The Main Principles Of Child Custody

Joint Child Custody - Truths

Joint lawful protection indicates that Bay Area divorce lawyers both parents have the legal authority to make significant choices for the youngster. These include decisions pertaining to education and learning, faith, and healthcare. Parents ought to know, as well, that legal wardship is different from physical guardianship. To put it simply, it is feasible for co-parents to share lawful wardship yet not share physical wardship.

Ideal proof should be brought before the court for joint legal wardship to be rejected. There are basic variables resulting in establishing the very best rate of interests of a kid, consisting of yet not limited to: The ethical criterion, conduct, and actions of the parentsHow the moms and dads have actually acted upon the youngster's best passions in the pastWhich parent is more likely to allow the kid extra regular call with the other parentThe quality of the relationship in between a moms and dad and also child Moms and dads need to not interpret a ruling of joint legal custody as a sign that the court is likely to also approve joint physical protection.

There are several kinds of custody and also visitation approved by courts. They normally come under two buckets consisting of joint physical and also single physical: In this kind of arrangement, the kid has two homes as well as invests equal time living with each parent. Joint physical custodianship generally works finest when both moms and dads live within the very same city or area.

The Child Custody Ideas

Interaction has to be a concern in between the parents for this kind of setup to function. There likewise is some proof that youngsters in this arrangement reasonable better than those that remain in sole-custody scenario. In this kind of setup, the kid would certainly spend more time living with one parent. Nonetheless, both parents make essential decisions about their child's life.

It is necessary to note that one parent may have the authority to be the "sudden death" in cases of dispute, or each moms and dad might be provided decision-making authority in certain locations or circumstances. Joint wardship has its advantages as well as disadvantages for both the child as well as the parents. Moms and dads considering their protection options must think about the following: Parents that share joint lawful safekeeping needs to continue to communicate with each other in order to get to joint decisions.

Youngsters usually take advantage of seeing their moms and dads connect genuinely with each other, preferably showing what it implies to endanger and also resolve disputes in a healthy fashion. With time and also as parents find out to co-parent collaboratively, a specific degree of efficiency can be reached when it involves regulations, repercussions, meals, bedtimes, and also many various other child-rearing selections.

The Ultimate Guide To Child Custody

There will likely be ups as well as downs ahead. Every family experiences this, and also when it occurs, the input of your co-parent may not only declare yet welcome. This is specifically real for major choices around education and also treatment. It is commonly difficult to team up on important choices.

Several parents complain that the system can, at times, be controlled. For instance, when one parent suggests that the various other "need to" do what they claim since they share joint legal wardship. Forcing two moms and dads to work together does not guarantee that they will certainly be agreeable or show healthy co-parenting interaction abilities.

Joint legal custodianship is most perfect for moms and dads that have currently demonstrated a readiness to collaborate with each other in making key decisions for their youngster. It's also best when neither moms and dad is holding an animosity against the various other or declining to communicatewhich takes place, regrettably. On the other hand, courts are sometimes careful not to assign joint lawful wardship in circumstances where one parent is undependable or has a background of 'inspecting out' and also being out of touch for lengthy periods of time.

The Facts About Child Custody Uncovered

The term "safekeeping" describes the physical and lawful safekeeping of a kid. Physical custodianship incorporates where the kid lives and that cares for them. Joint physical custodianship (additionally called shared physical wardship, shared domestic protection, shared parenting time, and so on) implies that your kid spends significant time living with both parents, and both have equal duty to literally care for the youngster.

Rather, both parents have considerable and also frequent time. The option to shared physical custody is single physical guardianship. Joint or shared physical guardianship functions well when: Parents concur that it's in the finest interest of their child. Parents comply fairly well as well as can choose together. Parents live fairly near to each other and a joint setup is logistically feasible.

There is no history of child misuse, domestic physical violence or kidnapping. Joint physical protection can function with practically any parenting time routine. If your child requires to live primarily with one moms and dad, you can offer even more time to the various other parent with midweek sees, prolonged weekend breaks, longer holiday breaks, as well as institution break sees.

8 Simple Techniques For Joint Child Custody

Children typically do far better if both parents are substantially associated with their lives. If you as well as the various other parent can make joint physical wardship job, it will certainly profit your youngster. If you have joint physical safekeeping, you require to make a parenting time routine that reveals when your youngster hangs out with each moms and dad.

You may wish to use a visitation timeshare calculator when you make your timetable to make certain that both moms and dads have significant time with the youngsters. Lots of states have laws that provide preference for joint physical protection. Courts in these states will buy joint physical protection as the default unless a parent can verify that it would be unsafe to the youngster.

Some states call for that both moms and dads have a minimum amount of time with the youngster in order for the setup to be classified joint physical wardship. Various other states just call for both moms and dads to have significant as well as constant call with the youngster.

The Only Guide for Joint Child Custody

Joint custody is a type of child custodianship according to which protection civil liberties are granted to both parents. Joint guardianship might refer to, joint lawful guardianship, or both combined. In joint legal custodianship, both moms and dads of a child share major choice making concerning for instance education and learning, medical care and also religious childhood.

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Living under one roof while separated. Is it the right decision for me?

If you’re considering separating, you may be wondering whether separating under the one roof is the right decision for you and your family. As with most things involving separation and divorce, simple questions often lead to complex answers. Ultimately, it depends on: Your financial situationYour relationship with the other parentThe age of your childrenYour relationship with your childrenWhat decisions you and the other parent have made regarding care arrangements in the short, medium and long termWhether anyone in the home is at risk of harm Let’s take a closer look at each factor.

Your financial situation

If you’re like many families, you live from week to week, paycheck to paycheck. Either one of you is working full time while the other remains home to look after the children, or you both work. And even if you both work, chances are the majority of one salary pays for the education and care of your children. So, before you do anything, you need to work out: How much money is coming inWho is contributing and what percentageWhat expenses you haveWhen those expenses are dueHow the mortgage, rent, groceries, and utilities will be paidWho will pay for those expenses moving forwardWhether these arrangements will be short-term or ongoing Also, it’s important to remember that if you continue to share expenses but don’t separate your bank accounts, the court may reject your application for divorce. You can check here to see what the court looks for when deciding whether you remained married, or separated.

Your relationship with the other parent

Look, if you’re choosing to separate, your relationship obviously isn’t ideal. However, if you and the other person can maintain an amicable relationship, your chances of successfully living under one roof while separated are higher. In amicable relationships, both of you are more likely to be open minded, flexible, and understanding. Not only will this approach serve you well, it will also demonstrate positive communication models to your children.  On the flip side, if your relationship with the other parent is acrimonious, continuing to live together under the same roof for anything longer than a couple of weeks will only damage the relationship further. Sadly, the majority of separations fall into this latter category. The primary reason being a lack of trust resulting from gambling, infidelity or secret spending. If you’re going to remain under the same roof while separated, you want to trust that the other person is paying their share of the bills, and isn’t bringing new partners home. So, if either of you is gambling, bringing others home to rub the other person’s nose in it, or aren’t contributing to your share of the bills, remaining under the one roof is likely to be unsuccessful.

The age of your children will determine your level of involvement.

The age of your children

Newborn babies are helpless little creatures. They’re incapable of feeding themselves, getting dressed, and going to the toilet in the appropriate place. For this reason, you may decide that if you have a newborn or toddler, the best thing to do is hang around and lend a hand. Not only will this help you develop a bond with your child, but it will also help share the burden of raising a child. If your children are primary school age, they still require plenty of assistance in their everyday lives. You can teach them how to make breakfast, prepare their lunch, and get ready for the next day the night before. Depending on your work hours, you may also be able to drop your kids off or pick them up from school. You may be surprised just how much they love having you pick them up if the other parent normally does. Don’t underestimate the value children place on spending time with you. As your children move into the teenage years, they’ll start to form their own identity. They want to be cool like the other kids (which means not being seen with you) and start to run their own lives. This doesn’t mean they don’t want to spend time with you. It simply means they want to decide how, and when, that time is spent. It’s important at this age that you still provide guidance and support to your children. Particularly for teenage girls and mid-teen boys. Provide them guidance, a listening ear, and strength to help them back to their feet. If your children are working, they may even choose to help pay some of the bills. This will ease the financial burden. It may help you decide whether you’re best to stay or move out.

Your relationship with your children

More important than their age, is your relationship with your children. You may have fallen into the trap of working longer and harder to pay the bills. This means less time at home, and less time with the kids. If you’re also the disciplinarian, this could lead to the children believing you’re always cranky and never around. You can fix this, however. Chat to your boss to see if you can work flexible hours. Maybe that’s leaving early one day a week. Or working long hours one week so you can take a day off the following week or leave early every day. As for the discipline, there’s no reason you always have to be the bad guy. The best time to address bad behaviour is when the incident occurs. If you’re not around, you shouldn’t be the one doling out the discipline. Do some research and chat with the other parent about how they can discipline the children when behaving poorly in their care. Being more active in your children’s lives, and showing them you have a loving, caring side also is invaluable. Not only will a good relationship with your children help you now, it will also help your relationship with them when you and the other parent are living separately. So, if your relationship with your children could be improved, now is the time to work on it. And that leads me into the next thing to consider.

What decisions you and the other parent have made regarding care arrangements in the short, medium and long term

Look, some guys want to be involved in their kids' lives, some don’t. At the same time, there are plenty of dads who want to play an active, ongoing role in the lives of their children but the other parent won’t let them. As I mentioned in the previous section, you really need to consider what sort a relationship you want with your children. If you have children aged 3 and under, and you and the other parent aren’t planning on you playing a role in their lives, get out now. Most children aged eight or older don’t have a recollection of anything prior to age four. Therefore, if you aren’t going to be around, it’s best to leave now before your child has memories and recollections of you in their life. If you are going to be around, you need to consider in what capacity? For example, if you want to spend more than every second weekend with your kids, you need to take a look at how your life is currently structured. Most men work long hours, Monday to Friday, and only see their children late at night or on weekends. In most cases, if there is a dispute regarding the care of children, the Court will retain the status quo. That is, however, things are now, shall remain. While this may appear unfair in light of laws regarding equal shared care, if you can’t demonstrate that you can provide that shared care, there’s little the Court can do. And don’t shoot me, I’m just the messenger. So, if you want to play a bigger role in your children’s lives moving forward, you need to make the necessary changes now. Therefore, living under one roof while separated makes sense in this instance.

If there's any risk of harm, you need to reconsider living under the one roof.

Whether anyone in the home is at risk of harm

Finally, the biggest thing to consider is whether anyone in the home is at risk of harm or abuse. This consideration isn’t just because you are separating. You should consider this is each of your relationships, whether intimate relationships or not. Regardless of your answers to the previous factors, if anyone is at risk of harm, the person inflicting that harm or abuse should seek help and remove themselves from the premises immediately. You can’t unbreak a broken child. And they can never fathom how someone who is supposed to love them could harm them. Therefore, if you or the other parent are abusing or harming your children, you should not live under the same roof while separated. Abuse and harm of any kind are learned, and often, victims go on to become perpetrators. The easiest way to break the cycle is to remove the offender from the environment before they harm the children. If you are being abused, record the event in a diary and report the incident to police. Everyone has the right to feel safe.

Final thoughts?

As you can see, there’s quite a lot to consider. Only you can decide whether living under the same roof while separated is the best solution for your family. In addition to the financial and relationship considerations, you need to consider past, current and future circumstances. Ultimately, each situation is unique. I hope this blog has helped you decide the best outcome for you and your family. Read the full article

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Dumbbell Baby Rattle

our little one's curiosity will be piqued by the gentle rattle sound and natural hand-gripsThis rattle makes the perfect gift for the fitness-obsessed parentThe rattle measures 5.5-inch by 2-inch and weighs about 1 lb.Safe for baby, no phosphates, and BPA-free

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Parenting Young Athletes the Ripken Way - Cal Ripken, Jr. & Rick Wolff

Parenting Young Athletes the Ripken Way Ensuring the Best Experience for Your Kids in Any Sport Cal Ripken, Jr. & Rick Wolff Genre: Parenting Price: $14.99 Publish Date: April 6, 2006 Publisher: Penguin Publishing Group Seller: PENGUIN GROUP USA, INC. Since he retired from baseball in 2001, Cal Ripken, Jr., has devoted his time to coaching kids, including his own son and daughter, who play baseball and basketball, among other sports. With a baseball league of nearly 700,000 kids, ages 5-12, named for him, he has also had a chance to meet and work with countless young athletes. Cal Ripken’s simple yet effective philosophy for helping kids get the most out of playing sports is to keep it simple, explain the "why," celebrate the individual, and make it fun! But Ripken is troubled by what he sees in youth sports: a competitive intensity that removes the element of fun from playing. Now, drawing on his experiences as a father, a player, and a coach to his charges at his youth baseball based organization, Ripken Baseball, the legend offers his insights and advice on how to approach organized sports with your kids to ensure they have the best experience possible, stay fit, and enjoy themselves. Whether you were a star player or a kid who never learned to throw, this book will tell you everything you need to know about sports parenting from the pre-school years to middle school. It covers all the bases, including:  Teaching the basics of sportsmanshipHow an overemphasis on technique or winning can harm your child’s gameHow to develop a good relationship with your child’s coachThe pros and cons of travel teams and club teamsThe importance of returning the games to the kids and how best to behave as a parentThe latest on performance and nutritionFun games and exercises to do with your kids to encourage themWhy most kids burn out on team sports by middle school and how to avoid it Few athletes embody sportsmanship and fair play as perfectly as Cal Ripken. His advice will inspire confidence in kids and parents alike. http://bit.ly/2IlYBTf

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When your kids wants to be #stevenuniverse for #halloween, you make her a #rosequartzshield just for her #parentthings #dadwithskills #almostdone

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