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I'm in a recovery house now. Doing way better than the last time I blogged. Thank you all for reading and sending so much love to my inbox! 😘😘😘😘😘😘 I am taking things hella slow. I began this blog full of wild thoughts and even more reckless behaviors. But now it's time for me to find me. I really wanna go on a retreat in Arizona or Bali. I want to find myself fully. Any ideas??
My boyfriend is still here for me. I have put up with his ex's cruel texts and hatefulness. Fuck her. I still have the fkn prize..... No way an ugly old bat is gonna drag my soon to be husband back in her pathetic household's clutches again.
The woman is disgusting and reeks of uneducated mess! This August will be 2 years of our relationship. Going strong! I just had to put the drugs down. Once and for all....
It’s Not About What You Wear But How You Wear It ! 🥂♥️ Here’s Some Accessories to Add To your must have list. Level up you look without killing your pockets. 😘
I am a 27 yo blk woman, living in the Midwest. I am currently working as a C.S.R rep making $45k annually. It’s a newly acquired position, and I’m really excited about it. I live in a tiny studio apt. Basically I created this blog, to keep myself accountable with my goals; also to track my progress. I hope to accomplish at least 7 of my goals for the year.
2023 Goals
Level up / Invest in myself
Lose 25lbs >
1 bedroom apt
✔️ Used car $5k<
✔️Work Schedule 6am-2pm
Launch online business
Enroll in Community College Fall semester
Credit score 690pts
Debt Free
Monthly budget $1650 / cash envelope system
I am always working on my self development, and striving to be the best version of myself. Follow me along my personal journey!
Well hun because they can and they have been for centuries. For years women have been dating and marrying men that aren't on their level in the slightest. It's pathetic really. Yet men will require a woman meet more than half the itinerary. Baddies and dream girls have been getting with men who don't check off 1 of the 5 standards she or any other woman has. It's the primary reason they get upset when he breaks her heart and simultaneously shatters her pride. She's mad she let someone she knows is quite frankly beneath her access her. This is the primary reason I say that the majority of men especially the ones that don't qualify for a partner will not be alone. There has been and always will be a bulk of baddies ready and willing to date a guy who isn't on their level and cannot meet their needs and cannot satisfy them. Until women see their worth and act it this will always be this issue. Stop doing charity work babe.
I'm on the road to leveling up and living a hypergamous lifestyle, but these thoughts keep creeping in...I wanna be a spoiled girlfriend; to be loved and, well...spoiled by a great and generous man. Someone to buy me gifts and send money, to take me out on nice dates and just show me all being the affluent world has to offer as far as experiences are concerned.
But has anyone ever felt weird thinking about it sometimes? Like, I know there are guys willing to do this for the woman they love, but I'm so used to mindset that you can't have that 'cause you'd be a "gold digger", or you'd be "taking advantage" of them.
Like, I have a job and still plan to have a career in the future. I'm also in school furthering my education, so what's the problem?
Does anyone have any words of wisdom or just solid advice? Please and thank you!
It’s okay to have standards. And it’s okay to stick to them despite what anyone says. You do not have to settle for anything. The perfect person(s) are out there. Develop an abundance mindset and you’ll never feel like you have to settle for anything ever again. #richblackwomen #hypergamy #affirmations #spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledgf #hypergamoushunnie #blackownedselfcare #selfcarecandles #candlelover #blackownedcandleshop #jabaliandco #abundancemindset #mindsetiseverything💯 #levelup⬆️ #levelupchallenge #youdeservethis #candleslover #blackownedcandlecompany #blackgirlspirituality #blackgirlaffirmations #blackgirlrocks #blackfemininity #blackfemdom #blackrelationshipgoals #blackrelationshipsmatter (at Atlanta, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CFxS0uDBaOv/?igshid=2pglqjisl176
I’m really enjoying all the Black Women In Luxury posts, and IG pages. A few years ago, all the luxury blogs only featured white and non-black WoC. It’s amazing to see any woman living well, but it’s so much more inspiring and motivating to see women who look like me.
No matter what anyone says or tries to sell you... this kept woman life? The key to success in it? Just constant and consistent self development. This self development does not look the same for everyone. It’s all about knowing yourself and what target audience you appeal to and want to attract. This self development should range. Additionally, it’s all a game of numbers and luck. You never know how many men you have to vet/meet before you find one where things “click”. Sometimes the odds are great and it happens right away, other times it will take a while. Not every night out for drinks, networking event, or even swipe on an app will get/provide you with good quality men you will “click” with BUT all of these will serve as practice and an opportunity to hone your skills and self development.
Ladies, do not beg for anything from anybody, seriously. If you have to beg or fight for affection, attention, effort, anything, you need to leave and go on with your life. They have just shown you that they don’t see you or the relationship as worthy of their time, energy, or effort. I know some of you hate to hear it but honey, if he wanted to he would do it. Remember, what one man won’t do for you another man will do without hesitation. Don’t waste your time.