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crazyalien87 · 1 year

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probably at some point i will make a long post or many smaller posts ranting about transphobia in radblr. but im tired now so here is a shortened version.

too many transphobic stereotypes. shit like "transwomen is just fetish". like damn have u considered that some legit just have dysphoria & want to transition? damn.

hypocritical catch-22 situations w/ transwomen. shit like "medical transition is bad & no one should do it, but also only 15% of trans women get bottom surgery, so they are not really trans." well uh maybe they can't get it bc u keep saying it not neccessary & it is too risky. so like that would make insurance not cover it but also make some trans women choose not to get it.

also just in general most of it is towards trans women due to radblr has so much misandry as well.

also there is a lot of condescension like no dysphoric person is smart enough to decide to medically transition without being misled or uninformed.

also just too many nondysphoric & non-professional/experts acting like they should get to decide how gender/sex dysphoria is treated. like uh maybe it is none of ur business. like imagine like rando without depression or any relevant science or medical exlertise telling depressed ppl what meds to take or not. likeit is not ur business u dont know better than them actually.

also some of u clearly dont understand gender dyshoria anyway. damn it is not the same as anorexia or body dysmorphia. those involve misperception of what one's body is. gender dysphoria is correct perception of what it is but then feeling disconnected from it & distressed due to this. very difficult functionally. but then again i dont know that much about anorexia or body dysmorphia.

#tw transphobia #radblr #ok i said radblr bc radfeminism itself is not the problem #the term terfs is just iffy #it doesnt really make sense unless u mean twerf #it is often used for transphobes in general or like gencrits even i. they not feminist #but like this transphobic shit happens in other online radfem communites like ovarit or whatever #idk im not there but sometimes i see screenshots

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mueritos · 1 year

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screaming and crying i dropped an ask on like july last year and then left tumblr so cannot see at all what your response was to it (if even responded at all) but it’s so cool to still see your being a very open loud and proud faggalious transmasc, given how many terfs are false reporting openly trans people (specially if they’re that loud and proud about it) i was worried they would’ve stuck down your shit by now anyways, what your thoughts on being mixed? im mixed (black dad, white mom, both latino) and it feels so complicated?? you’re not black enough for black people and you aren’t white enough to get any safety out it. even if you’re white passing (which is an iffy term for me ngl but i understand the point of it so i still use it)

Aw hi there!! I apologize if I never answered it, I have close to 2k unanswered asks in my inbox, so I try to answer what I can with the energy I have. I'm happy you could find safety in my blog from how open I am :)

As for your question, I can say that I'm mixed myself! I can guarantee you that all latines are. I found out last year that I am half indigenous (North American and Central Mexican Native) and half spanish/portuguese. This makes sense due to colonization, of course, but its hard not to know until an actual DNA test of what that makeup is. Even now I still struggle with being okay to call myself indigenous (I have no tribal affiliation due to colonization), and I at the most call myself detribalized. I am often "too mexican" for white spaces, but I am also constantly question why white people about my ethnic/racial status, or about the extent of how "mexican" I am. At the same time, I worry I am not mexican enough even when in mexican spaces, as I am trans/queer/neurodivergent, and this complicates my relationship with my ethnic/racial identities. I, however, have white privilege (I refuse to use "white passing" because what the fuck is that), and I won't ever experience colorism or racism the same way darker skinned latines will.

I think being mixed can bring complicated relationships, especially when it comes to dual identities, whether racially, ethnically, or nationally. It can make you feel like an outsider within your own family, but it can also allow you to see and experience multiple worlds/cultures with a level of intimacy others do not have.

I know other mixed latinos with 2c hair, Black/indigenous features, and latino last names who call themselves "white passing", even though I have paler skin than them! You can use whatever terms you want to describe yourself, but please keep in mind that white folk have taken this term and run off with it, applying to any and every mixed/non-white person just because they look slightly "european".

I think latines have a long way to go in terms of acknowledging race, but colonizer racial castes definitely have their blame in this failure to recognize Blackness and Indigeneity in latine populations. Afro-latino wasn't even recognized in countries like Mexico until a few years ago. I really suggest finding community with people who are mixed like you, who can understand the deep rooted confusion, unlearning, and relearning that being mixed and accepting that mixed identity can bring. Finding community with others will always allow you to feel safer and connected with others.

#muertoresponds #i can talk more about it but ive stopped myself there #its not easy being mixed and my experience is going to be wildly different from people who are mixed black because phew #antiblackness is one hell of an oppressor #wish u the best of luck my friend

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olderthannetfic · 1 year

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On one hand I dont think taking a reddit post at face value with no proof given is good practice. On the other hand all of the things the reddit post mentioned about what was going on online are things I've either seen with my own eyes happening, or line up with accounts of ex-antis and other incidents of grooming using fandom stuff as a tool. There's nothing outlandish in these claims, Im more iffy on the medical resources actually being sought out and working but that's only bc it doesn't work that way in my country, and it's only a little iffy if they're also claiming the mom has been to therapy and so have other family members with good results.

It's also that "online bullying and irl bullying have resulted in suicide", "anti culture operates like a cult" and "given that, it's worrying how easy it would be to groom or otherwise manipulate teenagers if you know how to use anti thinking as a tool" are all things that have been talked about for years and aren't actually a reach. It's the same with terf shit or other forms of online cults, just with a bend that's more likely to radicalize teenagers specifically and has a focus on making them see dangerous "pedophilia" everywhere being overlooked by every adult they know.

So like maybe this story isn't real but these are all things that have happened/are happening online

The therapy stuff sounded like upper middle class Americans to me (in terms of access and how people talk about things). I don't see any particular reason to disbelieve the reddit post beyond normal caution about unsubstantiated stories on the internet.

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fictionfreedom · 9 months

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My DNI/BYF/ETC.

Heavy Christians

Homophobic, transphobic, sexist, racist, etc

Pro-Capitalism/Anti-Anarchy

Antishippers

Anti-Kink

Anti-Abortion/Pro-Birth

Pro-Gun

Theriscum/Othermeds

Sysmeds

Queer exclu groups (Battleaxe Bis, Longsword Lesbians, etc)

Supports heavily controversial people with no good reasoning (mostly politicians)

Anti-Furry/Avian/Scalie

Think queer is a slur

Use Slurs you can't reclaim (ex: white person using n-word)

Queer exclus (anti-mspec lesbians and gays, etc)

Anti-Sex Work

Radfem, TERF, FART(lmao), TER, TEHM

Flag discourse on stupid stuff (ex: saying vincian flag is lesbophobic cuz it uses a similar line style like what-)

Police pronouns and labels

Pro-Trans X (If you use transabled I will kill you /hsrs That term hurts both trans people and people with BIID, learn to use the proper label.)

Pro-Contact harmful Para (maps, zoos, necros, and other seriously harmful shit)

Anti-Inclus/Anti-Critinclus (we aren't exclus for being against pro-contact/neu-contact pedophiles- we're decent beings omfg)

RadQueers (basically pro-harmful para, pro-ed, medpunk, and pro-trans x dipshits)

Medpunk (excluding BIID, basically shit like transabled, but excluding BIID, or other similar terms.)

"Safequeers" you aren't inclusionists, you're an exclusionist in sheep's clothing

Partake in cringe culture and/or on cringe subs

Xenosatanists (I've heard bad things, but I don't fully know what it is)

Police others trauma and coping mechanisms

Anti-Cishets (like.. I don't like most cishets, but c'mon..)

Misogynistic and Misandry

Against AMAB transmascs and AFAB transfems (they're transitioning to be MORE fem/masc, it doesn't hurt us)

Support AI "art" (Kind of, I'm iffy on the topic for a few small reasons, but generally don't without maybe DMing me to explain why first??)

Anti-Intersex or discriminate against intersex people

Xenomeds/Xenoscum (Peeps who believe you need dysphoria to be Xenogender like what.. eugh)

Supporters of the creator Fuboo/InvertedMindInc (Again, don't know much but have heard bad things)

BYF (Before You Follow)

We/We’re

Pro-Kink

Pro-Abortion

Pro-Furry/Scalie/Avian

Pro-mspec lesbians/gays

Pro-GNC lesbians/gays

Pro-PNC lesbians/gays

Support ALL good faith identities

Pro-NSFW artists

Pro-Xenos and Neopronouns

We are a RADICAL INCLUSIONIST (sort of)

We support ALL systems! (No, that doesn't necessarily include endos and whatnot, though I do support educating them and helping them find out if they might have hidden trauma)

We don't censor queer

We use reclaimed slurs (rtard,fggot,dke)

We are a Critical Inclus (transx isn't trans, paras don't belong in queer community)

We understand the difference between harmful paraphilia and kink, please know the difference!! Don't rope us kinksters in with fucking pro-contact pedos/zoos/etc!!

Proud pro-fiction, pro-shipper, and com-shipper

We support non-contact paraphiliacs (if the paraphilia is harmful)

We have a few paraphiliac disorders (sadly necrophilia and zoophilia but we are strictly anti-contact and coping healthily)

We support paraphilias that are not harmful and the harmful ones that are strictly no-contact (unless there are ways to "act" on them that aren't actually harmful, such as CNC for ppl with rape-related paraphilias)

Pro-BLM, StopAsianHate, #MeToo, & Land Back Movement

We call ourselves a femboy occasionally. We understand its history, but we are not using it with malicious intent. We're a femboy. Deal with it.

We support transspecies used in their original way, as for alterhumans/therians/otherkins!

DI (Do Interact)

If you/you're:

Part of Creepypasta, ATSV/ITSV, Unrealities/Horror, Gore/Guro, Cannibalism, and Analog Horror Fandoms/fans!

Metal, Punk, Rock, or genuinely any other music genre fan

Fictionkins from ATSV/ISTV/Spiderman 2099 comics (PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BEGS CRIES SOBS PLEASE PLEASE)

Use ANY xenogenders <3

Satanists or Astrotheologists

Followers of Lucifer and Lilith, or just any God in general who can talk to me about their worship (if they'll be respectful, obvi)

Like Sex Pistols

Kinky asexuals

Brandon Rogers fan

Radqueer, but not really?? If you support people like RCTA and others with harmful "identities" or labels, or are pro-contact for harmful paraphilias.

Etc Info on us:

We use plural personal pronouns for a few unlisted reasons, but very rarely unless on big posts like this

We are Otherkin, Therian, Fictionkin, Otherhearted, and Alterhuman. We support any labels of similar extent except for people claiming to be "transspecies"

We use a LOT of labels, and plenty of them contradict each other. We may make a post specifically to give the list I have of ALL labels we use/are comfortable using.

We use lots of pronouns but just use it/thou/AI for us.

We are a necrophile and zoophile, as well as having many generally harmful paraphilias. We are anti-contact for all of them and make sure to properly cope with them in ways that keep us from possibly harming others.

We LOVE guro/gore, and will repost things about it.

We sometimes struggle with tone indicators and putting tags on posts, please be patient with us!

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thatspookyagent · 3 years

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Alright so I'm not sure how to start out this post but I'd like to explain something before I get into what I'm actually going introduce!

For those who don't know, this account is owned by a third gender person of color. I don't identify with the gender binary or the nonbinary spectrum. I didn't realize how many labels relied on being nonbinary, defining themselves by said word, or being on the spectrum until I started to no longer identify as nonbinary. Even the word anonbinary has the word nonbinary in it, which is a word I've been specifically trying to avoid. I know that can sound nitpicky but I tried my best to find a label that wasn't male, female, masc, fem, androgynous, or even neutral, and doesn't use the words nonbinary to describe itself and even upon finding words such as pèra and ilyagender, they don't really specify being anonbinary, which is basically what I'm looking for. (Also I know words like outherine, aporine, atrinary, and abinary, exist but they just aren't for me!)

I'm not comfortable with calling myself aliagender or maverique (aliagender being something I'm a bit iffy feeling on and maverique often being defined explicitly as a nonbinary gender). And honestly, I've been rejecting Western labels due to being anti-binary so I ultimately settled on third gender which is how I identify overall anyway and I don't feel a need to coin something adjacent to it when the word has everything I want (connection to gender via culture, being abinary and anonbinary explicitly etc). But the only third gender flag that I could find, is not something I'm very fond of admittedly. And a big thing I've been struggling with while label searching is finding flags that I actually like and ones that don't strain my eyes.

So this is me coming up with an alternate third gender flag and putting some meaning behind the colors that I chose. My flag is influenced by the nonbinary flag and neutrois flag but ultimately has nothing to do with both. My flag is only similar to neutrois in structure and I took some color meanings from the nonbinary flag in order to contrast from it.

Any and all third gender folks may use my flag of course. I'm not going to dictate "who isn't really third gender" and who "truly is third gender" either. Basically any third gender person can use this. Period. Also this flag was made with being unrelated and apart from the gender binary and nonbinary spectrum in mind. I really wanted to differentiate myself from both so the meanings do mention being disconnected from both labels and anything that falls into them. Any third gender folks who also use the term nonbinary to describe themselves, are more tham welcome to use this of course, just note that I specifically made this with emphasizing how third gender isn't apart of the gender binary nor nonbinary spectrum.

Another thing I want to say real quick is that any and all discourse from white people will be blocked. Same with any gender critical folks, TERFs, radfems, and the like. Also please read my dni before interacting with me. Any and all exclusionists will be blocked!

FLAG AND IT'S COLOR MEANINGS UNDERNEATH THE CUT!

Disclaimer: If my flag is similar in color to any other flag, feel free to tell me so that I can change it, meanwhile this flag is not meant to be similar to any other flag color wise so it being identical or looking similar to another flag is by pure coincidence!

White: Representing how third gender is beyond both the gender binary and the nonbinary spectrum, inclusive of all third genders that are unlabeled, culturally exclusive, and have qualities that can possibly be described or perceived as feminine, masculine, androgynous, neutral, neither of those things, many of them, etc.

Faded yellow: Disconnect from the gender binary and nonbinary spectrum, represents fading away from both the binary and the nonbinary spectrum.

Black: Area that third genders occupy, away from the gender binary and nonbinary "areas", a distant space or entirely different plane that is nowhere near binary and nonbinary, nor is it derived from them.

That's pretty much it for the flag and color meanings! I really hope the colors I selected aren't too bright or harsh on anyone's eyes! If someone wants to, feel free to drop a more darkened version of this flag via reblog if the colors being too bright is an issue! With that being said, I really wanted a simple flag with only three colors, and nothing too wacky or jumbled. I'm a pretty simple person myself especially when it comes to flags and I really really like how the neutrois flag looks and the way the color scheme is set up so I decided to do something like it for an alternate third gender flag!

Also the meanings for the flag colors are overall supposed to convey how third gender isn't synonymous nor the same as nonbinary. And how it's not connected to the gender binary or nonbinary label. I didn't want to do a whole blue = "male & masc" third genders and pink = "female & fem" third genders thing. That would be shoving this label into many cisnormative and binary categories that would ultimately harm both the label and third gender folks, a major reason why I specifically said can possibly be described or perceived as (mainly by the West) because I don't want to inherently link all third genders to words such as masc, fem, androgynous, neutral, etc. (also not everyone is fond of the whole blue equals boy and pink equals girl kinda thing.) So I used white, often considered a non aligned color in a way, to represent all third genders regardless of how we might present or (not) align ourselves!

And to add on, the reason I chose faded yellow was because yellow (at least on the maverique flag and nonbinary flag) is used to represent nonbinary genders at times and I decided to chose a faded version of the color to show the distancing and space that separates nonbinary genders from third genders as well as how they're unalike and different from one another.

Meanwhile with black, I kind of thought of a different plane or area, that's entirely separate from both the gender binary and nonbinary spectrum. A space that's occupied by third genders and operates in completely different ways compared to other gender spectrums (often due to being tied to specific cultures and whatnot).

Also third gender folks of any sexuality can use this of course! On top of that I'm not the label police, so any third gender person who does use alignments on themselves is also welcome to use my flag!

Since I think I covered the major points, feel free to ask me any questions you might have! Either about the third gender label, how I personally use/perceive it, the history behind it, more details about the meanings behind the colors and why I chose them specifically, and pretty anything pertaining to this post! :D/

IF YOU WISH TO POST/REPOST THIS SOMEWHERE OR SIMPLY @ ME AS THE CREATOR OF THIS FLAG, My Instagram is @ werewolfbutch, My Twitter is @ teddy_turn (thatspookyagent), and my Reddit is u/no-kick-9552! Best place to @ and or reach me is on Tumblr btw!

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airasora · 2 years

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While I know that the obvious most probable answer is Slytherin for Holli and it does fit her a lot I think it would be cute if she was a Hufflepuff solely because it would be ironic and nobody would expect Holli Would to be a Hufflepuff but also I do feel like she fits the description in a way in her movie she's very determined and therefore patient to fulfill her plan of becoming a real human and her plan does take a lot of hard work and patience on the long run and the way you portrait her she seems really loyal to Lina maybe loyal on her own unconventional terms most of the time but loyal nonetheless

So basically it would just be cute for her to be a Hufflepuff because irony and it gives you an oddly intimate look at how she is beneath her masks and also Lina could tease her about acting all strong and cold and actually being a Hufflepuff inside

Also I wanted to thank you for making such amazing edits and such a cool personaoand making me fall in love with this characters hope you have an amazing week

💞💝💕💓💖

I never answered this ask because I was planning on doing a short fanfic, 10k words or so, about Holli being in a family of Slytherins, but have always felt like a Hufflepuff, despite acting like a Slytherin to please her family. And then when the sorting hat sorted her into Slytherin instead of Hufflepuff (even though she begged him too, the same way HP did in the original story) her mind would turn dark cause she'd essentially give up. And that'd give a Draco Malfoy vibe to her afterwards.

But I can't in good conscience do that now. I was already iffy on it ever since someone told me about JK Rowling's terf views on transgendered people. But now, since she's going at it at full blast again AND is claiming her fans have the same opinion as hers, I just can't do it.

My heart goes out to transgendered people during this time, ESPECIALLY if they were Harry Potter fans. I can't even imagine the pain and betrayal they must feel now.

Her disgusting behavior and opinion outweighs anything else. Nothing is more important than the real and true pain of real people. A franchise, no matter how popular, just isn't worth it.

And I'm sorry for not taking a stronger stance until now.

Oh, and this isn't directed at Anon or is supposed to be interpreted as a criticism of Anon. This is an old ask that's been collecting dust in my inbox.

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the-book-reaper · 3 years

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Hey jsyk @ tchaikovskaya is a terf. You reblogged her post about Gabby Petito

(this got extremely long so I'm putting under a read more)

I appreciate your concern and taking the time to tell me, but I spent some time searching their blog for "terf" and "trans" and the general vibe I got was that they are against terfs, not one themself. These three posts, two of which by tchaikovskaya themself, for example:

[ID: The first two pictures are of posts by tchaikovskaya. The first says:

you: is a TERF

me, an intellectual: shut the fuck up

The second post says, "nothing is grosser than people who treat the term "terf" as a badge of honor like no jessica shut the fuck up your ideology is bad and you should feel bad".

The third picture is of a post by a deactivated account, reblogged by tchaikovskaya that says, ""terf is a silencing tactic!!!" you're damn right it is! shut the fuck up"".

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But yeah, some of the posts are iffy like:

[ID: Both pictures are of a post by rocktheholygrail, too big to fit in one screenshot. The post is screenshots of a twitter interaction between @RahulKohli (Kohli) and @claireopatraaa (Claire).

Kohli tweeted, "Hi Twitter account mocking the pronouns in my bio and for supporting the transgender community. I'm not gonna reply to you individually, I just want you all to know that I'm better than you in almost every way. Inside and out. And we both know that. Hope you find happiness 💕".

Claire retweeted this and said, "actors stop being pretentious douchebags challenge 2020".

Kohli retweeted with "Cunts stop being cunts challenge 2020". And then again with a screenshot showing an email saying Twitter had received a complaint about that tweet and ruled that it did not violate any of their guidelines with 😎 as a caption.

Then there is a picture of a separate tweet by Kohli saying, "Normalise calling transphobes "cunts" 2021".

thestateonmtv reblogged that post adding, "I know this is gonna get me called a terf but men shouldn't be calling women "cunts" under any circumstances are you kidding me lol and I don't believe this man care about trans people in any meaningful way and is just using this opportunity as a free pass to clown in women and use a misogynistic slur. This is insanely performative and you're all falling for it. Like when Anthony Fontano called that woman a "terf" because she called him out on his misogyny. These cis straight men are hijacking conversations for their own gain. If You shouldn't insult a bigot's looks when you're criticizing them because they way someone looks is morally neutral then you shouldn't use a misogynistic slur that hurts All women when criticizing someone even a terf. I hate this man."

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So, Kohli tells off the people mocking him for putting his pronouns in his bio and for his support of the trans community, saying he is better than them in every way. A person retweeted calling him pretentious. Kohli responded by calling them a cunt

thestateonmtv then adds that men shouldn't be calling women cunts under any circumstances and accuses Kohli's support of the trans community as being entirely performative

Here are my thoughts on this post as a whole:

Kohli's original tweet is fine. I thought it was obvious that him calling himself better than the transphobes in every way was an exaggeration. But truthfully, he is better than them. A person supportive of trans people is better than a transphobe, at least in one department

Claire then completely ignores the point of the tweet, and addresses the (in my opinion) exaggeration, fed up with actors being pretentious

At face value, yes, famous and/or rich people should not think themselves better than us everyone else. But if him saying he's better than transphobes offends her? That implies that she is a transphobe herself. I'm not drawing any conclusions, simply stating what it implies

The only problem I have with Kohli's "cunts being cunts challenge 2020" is the word cunt. I thought him responding in the same format as Claire was funny, but the word choice is poor. Most likely, if her name and icon had implied a man running the account, he would have chosen a different word

He didn't have to then gloat about Twitter not removing that post. He didn't have to continue using the word cunt in his other tweet. If he had used another word, then I would 100% agree with it

As for his support being entirely performative, I have no clue. Based solely on this post, it doesn't really seem like it? But this is such a small sample that no conclusion can be drawn from it alone and, again, I'm not going to go scouring for evidence

I don't know how I stand on the "cunt is a slur" discourse, but considering I don't identify as a woman, I'm not sure it really matters (even though I'm trans masc aka I'm AFAB aka I have a "cunt"). As it is, on the surface it just feels like a word used as an insult, but looking into the reasons why it is used as an insult, it's obviously problematic

Anyway, my point is that I don't think tchaikovskaya is a terf, but after looking at just a few of thestateonmtv's posts, I immediately blocked her. And while I don't think tchaikovskaya is a terf necessarily, I've still blocked them because they follow thestateonmtv

So, thank you for alerting me of this, anon. I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to tell me 💕💕

#I spent an hour and a half on this response; it is 1am; and I am not going to read it through for the eighth time #so I apologize for any inconsistencies or half formed sentences or w/e #I really am serious - thank you anon #if it happens again please /please/ tell me!!#cw terfs #terf #terfs #cw transphobia #transphobia #long post

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shallow-seas-we-sail · 4 years

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hey, i got a gay question i'd like your thoughts on. i'm currently kind of unsure what more specific labels for myself would be besides queer. i'm mostly okay with that, but it is a bit difficult to explain to people, even other lgbtq+ people, what i might fall under. i'm just curious if you think that's a big deal to not have a specific label? or even your general thoughts on those labels? i guess i feel a little pressure to not give myself a label in case it's 'wrong'.

oh boy, anon. I am so sorry it has taken me 87 years to answer this question (my phone app has been iffy for awhile, and i can’t always see whats in my inbox) but the good news is that i *finally* got a new laptop (today!) and finally answer you (and also start writing again!)

i identify as a lesbian. I felt that label really resonated with me when I first came out, and it still does. I know that obviously that has changed overtime (lets be real, i was 16 when i came out, and our rainbow has changed for the better) but that’s just me. Not everyone wants, or needs a label. I also had a small crisis with this ‘label’ in the last few years, as my spouse came out as trans masc, non-binary, I still identify as a lesbian (though some TERFS would love to tell me differently I’m sure and I will happily battle them in the arena of ‘get the fuck out of my face with that shit.’)

To me, queer is an umbrella term. I think it also allows more freedom along with gender expression (though, some of the straights still associate ‘queer’ as a derogatory term, the LGBTQIA+ community has reclaimed it so it longer represents that)

But I also understand that having a label gives some a sense of self (it did for me 800 years ago when i came out) and that is absolutely valid. Some may feel as though they are floating out there, and we live in a society that wants us to identify, so we feel the pressure to do so.

All that matters anon is that you are happy. Dont hesitate to find out who does that for you. You deserve that, and if you find yourself identifying that along the way, then great, and if not, that is great too!

#wow i hope this helped #i hope youre still out there and can read this #Anonymous

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glittergroovy · 5 years

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coming from a nb and trans radfem, radical feminist isn’t the problem, terfs and transphobes r !! i know u didn’t mean anything by it but radical feminism is simply feminism analyzing the problem from the root, it’s not inherently transphobic !!

Thank you for being so polite!

I’ve definitely seen a lot of overlap of transphobia & radical feminism, and it seemed like blogs with “radfem” in their url or bio tended to be transphobic or “gender critical”.

I read up on it after seeing this ask, and though it does seem very black & white about men vs women it seems that radfems that are “gender critical” are transphobic, hence the term trans exclusionary radfems (terf)

Still a little iffy about how the radfem perspective sees trans & nonbinary people, as it seems very all men are oppressors of women- where do trans men fit in? Do they oppress women? Are nonbinary people just completely left out of the viewpoint?

But thank you, and I’ll specify that I do not want gender critical or trans exclusionary radfems following me. Thank you so much for informing me in a polite way.

#long post #not glitter text #radfems #discourse #discourse tw

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confettistim · 6 years

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It's really iffy that "radfems" still want to align themselves with that term after how its been adopted by terfs though like why would you willingly allow yourself to align with that terminology knowing its connotations

i dont mean this as a “gotcha” kinda deal but i do want to point out tht thats the same argument ppl use to justify associating lesbians with terfs, because terfs claim to be the face of lesbianism. my issue isnt necessarily that ppl are wary of others who self-identify as radfems bc terfs def have a grip on that term and obv its good to be careful, but pretending that transgender & trans-inclusive radfems are in any way similar to terfs is…. not good, yknow

and to elaborate, most activists on tumblr agree with radical feminism whether u realize thats what ur ideology is or not. for example, advocating against the beauty industry and the culture of makeup has been a hot topic lately- thats radical feminism. and while there are terfs who talk about it as well, trans women radfems contribute just as much (and actually more since theyre not transphobic) to the conversation

also i def need u to know that radical feminism isnt a recent thing, but terfs identifying as radfems IS fairly recent. theyre trying to take it over but that doesnt mean we should just let them

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Rules For This Blog:

[This is a supernatural Fandomless adult theme side blog for all the oc/canon characters I rp. As well as a made up town so supernatural beings can be safe. I have no lore about the town so you don’t have to worry about rules or anything like that. The reason I’m doing this is, because I don’t want it to clutter my blogs with the verses and other things as well. Now the rules, and more reasoning as to why this blog is the way it is.] Now here are the rules for the blog: -These icons, images, and gifs are not owned by me. They belong there there original creator/respected owners. There are some I made, and taken from official manga, but I rather not address them, due to laziness. -My fandom (FGO/Arknights) muses are in a modern verse. So know they are not the same person as they would be in there world. They are different people with different lives. -Same for my fandom Ocs (Quinn and Dimitri), and if you have come from another blog to rp with them, then know you have three verses to pick from. -Everything on this blog is not connected or canon to my other blogs. (eternal-servants-of-old, and asexual-incubus.) -The blog has city of it’s own. So know that if we rp I might think we are setting it there with out talking or plotting about it before hand. - This blog is very OC friendly. Give me your ocs please! I want to see the ocs you wrote so hard to make. -This is a multi-muse/multi verse blog. No cheating will happen on here, and each ship is set in there own universe. - Okay it’s a adult blog for both themes and the characters ages. This blog will deal of themes of drinking, smoking, consensual sex, light bullying from some character’s bio, and one of my oc has a past abusive relationship. These will be tagged in there bios. So that way you can prepare yourselves or not read it if it’s too much for you. Don’t force yourself if you don’t want to. It’s okay to ignore a character on here. -Triggers: Okay I had to think about this and look at blogs but blood (No Gore), fangs/teeth, and monsters with eyes, werewolfs or Yoakis (These are not furries. I don’t know what to tell you.) mentions of suicide are okay on this blog. I will tag them like the eye one being body horror. so no one can see them, but if I forget to tag something please remind me in cause there is a chance I forgot to. -Ruby aka host/hostess club verse has drinking in it. And to those who don’t like drinking or alcohol know, that the ruby menu page has it where the first thing you see is alcoholic drinks. I have non alcoholic drinks as well, but if you can’t handle anything involving drinking, then this verse might not be for you. -The Blue Rose aka the Brothel verse has nsfw things in it. Now I will not go into the darker side of people who work in places like this. Its a safe verse, and if you don’t mind smut, then this verse might be for you. -The Royal Chow Chow Cafe aka the Cafe Verse has food in it. This is to those that don’t like to see food, and I will not tag food being mentioned cause sorry I think that’s dumb. I will only tag food photos never rps. So if that’s not your thing, then block me and move on. -On the topic of this blog being adult it doesn’t mean mostly sex or anything nsfw. It means adult topics, and plots. If you are not okay with that and want a pure smut blog, then sorry to say, but this blog is not for you and you can unfollow or block me if you so wish it. - I will try my best to tag things. The tags will be ’“//Abuse Mention” “//Drinking Mention” and so on. Meaning it will be under //Mention tag. - I will put my NSFW threads in keep reading.. -In the NSFW threads I will tag them as lemon for sex/smut, bdsm as bd/sm, and tag kinks as K!nk in case no one wants to read it. - I don’t do smut with anyone. One, you can’t be underage to rp smut with me, and if you are 18 and over, then understand I ship off chemistry. One night stands are a thing here, but if I can’t work with the rp, then understand I will drop it. - if you want your muse to have a sexual relationship but do not want to write it then know I can do fate to blacks and plot with you on how our muses feel afterwords if you like. - Speaking of underage, if you have a under aged muse, and want to write smut with me, then I will block you and it will be the end of it. - I’m going to be a bit selective with smut. Sorry, I just can’t do it with strangers with a drop of a hat. So we would need to build on our muses interactions. We can even plot what kind if you are up for it. My DMs are always open. - I am open for plots whenever, but if I am late to a message, then know I will get to it between a day or a week. It depends on how my IRL is at the moment. - I don’t do the “only manuals should rp with me” thing. But if I don’t follow you then there is a change that I might not want to rp with you. It’s nothing bad really. Most of the time that it has happen was with very dark blogs. So if you don’t have that then don’t worry about it. - I don’t rp with blogs that use real life people. Like youtubers, movie stars, or tv actors. Sorry just not comfortable with it. -I also don’t rp with blogs that use kid cartoon characters or ponies. Adult cartoon characters i will be okay with and iffy with some. - Do not rp with me if you have things I don’t like: Cannibalism, forcing my muse to do things for your muse kink wise, and are a dick. Try it any of these things on my muses, and I will block you. Things I will do that I never have a single problem with. Also addressing somethings: - If you want to rp a event with my muses by discord. Then I am fine with giving you my Discord name. Just ask by mailing me a tumblr message and, I will tell you my username. - This blog is Multiship and Multiverse friendly.- This blog It’s okay with some crossovers and most canon characters. And it goes with out saying as well as ocs. Just don’t do anything crazy. Also I can not rp with fandoms I do not know. Sorry but, I lack that kind of skill. - The character I rp dose not equal me. And I don’t equal them. - You don’t have to match my length in a rp. But please don’t do short one liners over and over again. I find those dull, and will lose interest in the rp. - I didn’t come to Tumblr to find someone to date or be with romantically or sexually involved with. So if you confess to me then, I will just deny you on the spot and, that will be the end of it. About certain muses: I have two trans muses. one I do not feel ready to talk about or point out on this blog, and another one, Quinn who you can see is trans in there bio, and in all verses. Knowing this, please be respectful of these muses. You can hate them for there personality, actions, or just your muse not liking them for what ever reason, but do not be a terf. You will be blocked. Balan is someone you can not smut. BUT if you want to do a long thread of your muse going through Wonderworld, only for Balan and your muse developing feelings for each other, and the heartache of them having to say good-bye, then we can do that sad fairy tale shit! Kinks/Ideas: Yes we are finally here! Kinks and things I’m fine with. If you don’t see a kink or thing you want to rp, then there is a chance, that I don’t like it or forgot to put it on here. Also my muses have a kink list so it should make things easier on you. But if you still don’t see anything you want to be addressed, then go to my inbox to remind me or to see if I’m down or not writing it. -Kinks: bondage, tentacles, boob job, blow jobs, handjob, blindfolds, light spanking, chocking, riding, mutual masturbation, masturbation, pegging, crossdressing, toys, phone sex, humiliation, monsters (Depends), NSFW Audio, edging, lingerie, quick/long orgasm, threesomes, begging, teasing, light dirty talk, overstimulation, more then one round of sex, biting/marking, size difference, after care, and vanilla. -Kinks that get passes from me, but I will not write it a lot: Angry sex (consensual on both people), Woman with normal sizes or small male members, Guys with a lower female part. (I am not writing the slay terms you can’t make me.) - The ones above will be tagged as //not for your eyes as well as under keep reading. You do no have to like this, which is fine, but know I am doing everything I can to make everyone comfortable on this blog -Ideas: Unrequited love/onesided love, one night stands, friends with benefits, crazed love to the point of obsession (No killing or anything abusive if you please), friends who just want to help another friend out by making it a monthly or weekly thing, booty call, romantic love, and just fluffy cute couple stuff. -Kinks I will not do: Pedophelia, bestiality (furries count), anything with human waste, watersport, vore, gore, guro, eating a person, over eating or forcing someone to eat more food, non-con/dubcon, knife kink, mind break, incest, drugging people, hypnosis, cheating (Yes some people get off on this), breeding or anything with pregnancy, anything with feet, and body horror. [The list might get bigger over time. As of right now this is the things I will not do.] -You and not liking a kink: Look going to say this right now. I will NEVER force something your muse or the mun is uncomfortable with. That’s not me, but if you come to me and want to try out something, due to thinking about it, and want to see if it will be your thing. Then also know, that I’m okay with that, and if you say you are not feeling it, then I will stop everything, and give you the understanding of just experimenting with your writing. (Yup. That’s pretty much it. These rules might be updated at a later time, but for now it’s good.)

#rules #//i think I got everything?#//moving it as a post so I don't delete by mistake.

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