#tw sexuality

[saunter-vaguely-down]

How has nobody combined the scenes of soldier boy (Jensen ackles) masturbating next to the bed and Harvey dent (misha Collins) naked in bed?

#destiel #zaddy dent #soldier boy #the boys #gotham knights #spn #misha collins #jensen ackles #cockles #jenmish #tw sexuality

[themogaidragon]

is there a label similar to aegosexual except the individual imagines themself as the character in the fantasy in a very disembodied way? or would that just be under the microlabel

There's not a lot of subsets for aegosexuality, sadly. But I've found some labels that are similar to aegosexual.

Adexsexual: an ace-spec greysexual microlabel that describes one who does not experience sexual attraction towards real or specific people at all but experiences what is described by some as phantom partial sexual attraction and by others as arousability and sexual desire through imagination of experiencing specific sexual acts and sensations from or with partially specific but not fully specific or real people or through witnessing high-intensity sexual content with unspecific people.

Cogitarisexual: an ace-spec microlabel for individuals who only experience attraction within their own head. They may experience sexual attraction when imagining it, when imagining certain things, or when thinking about certain individuals/things, but they only experience that attraction because they're imagining something. They do not experience actual sexual attraction in real life, and have no desire to act on the attraction they experience in their imagination.

Also, the full definition of aegosexual does kinda describe what you've said. So here it is:

Aegosexual: a microlabel on the asexual spectrum that describes individuals who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. Aegosexuals may experience sexual fantasies, enjoy p*rn and other sexual content, or m@sturbate, but they generally feel little to no s*xual attraction and typically do not desire to involve themselves in s*x with another individual.

Some common aegosexual experiences include:

Enjoying sexual content, masturbating, or fantasizing about sex, but being indifferent towards or repulsed by the idea of being in a real-life sexual relationship.

Fantasizing about sex, but:

the aegosexual individual is not involved. They may only be a disembodied observer viewing it from a third-individual perspective rather than from the first-individual.

envisioning only other individuals, such as celebrities, fictional characters, or even friends.

it involves generic, faceless individuals, not specific individuals.

it is seen through the perspective of another individual rather than as one's actual self.

only imagining oneself, and no other individuals.

it is idealized and unrealistic. Adding realistic elements to the fantasy makes the idea of sex less appealing or even repulsive.

Perceiving someone as "hot" or recognizing someone as sexually attractive, yet not seeing the appeal of having sex with the individual in real life. The aegosexual individual may instead prefer to fantasize about them or admire them.

Enjoying erotic content but getting turned on by the situation or relationship dynamics in story lines rather than by one's attraction to the individuals.

Liking the idea of sex, and/or enjoying sexual content, but not actually experiencing attraction or wanting to have sex with anybody.

A individual who enjoys the idea of sexual relationships but does not wish to have one. (Associated with a disconnect between the individual and a sexual target/fantasy)

Feeling sexual attraction and desire only for situations that do not involve one's self.

Someone who feels sexual attraction, but does not want to participate in sex.

I hope this helps. :)

#aegosexual #adexsexual #cogitarisexual #tw sexuality #tw sex #ace spec #asexual spectrum

[devilscastle69]

sexuality

now that I have my own physical space to process things I’ve been shoving down for years I’m realizing I really did choose guys to obsess over based on criteria I had and that my goal was to get them to like me vs me actually liking them. I don’t just walk past a group of guys and think that one’s hot. I was filled with immediate dread when my employers relative asked me out the other day even tho he was nice. The only times I’ve been into men were times when the kink was involved and it was exciting like finally I’m into them. I think I’m a lesbian and need to let go of the idea of being with a guy. I think I’m hesitant to call myself a lesbian bc I’m scared I’m wrong but the idea of never being with a man or having to date one is like extremely relieving. When I liked a guy id feel panicked like this one had better stick bc he meets this arbitrary criteria and talking is fun and whatever else so I’d become codependent on trying to make something work that obvi does not work just so I could feel like yes I’m normal I like guys hello fellow women. I’d wanna watch anime together with my ex and with guys I thought I’d like and like do kink scenarios but like just plain vanilla sex or even kissing wasn’t something I really wanted except I wanted to be told I was good at those things bc i figured I have to be good at those things to be worthy or whatever. Idk if I’m right honestly bc I spent so many years suppressing everything but I’m finally at the place where I’d rather be alone than with the wrong person even tho it took almost 25 years. But even more than that I don’t even really want to date I wanna travel and learn more instruments and get a job that isn’t destroying my health and I wanna spend time with ppl who value me and don’t just validate me bc they look down on me or like wanna feel better about themselves

#not snz #tw sexuality #probs internalized homophobia

[liminal-station]

OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD

Why are you guys hot

Ingo: I’ve, uh… been informed of the… “impression” we’ve left on you.

Emmet: Whatever did we do to deserve all this affection?! This is highly unprofessional… though, I suppose we *are* flattered…

Ingo: No one talks to us like this… this is something new entirely…

#submas #submas au #ena joel g #subway bosses #ena dream bbq #au ask blog #pokemon au #send asks #pokemon askblog #pokemon ingo #ena submas #ena fandom #tw sexuality #flirting #ena au #ena oc #ena fanart #enasona #pokemon emmet #submas emmet #ingo and emmet #emmet pkmn #subway master emmet #subway boss emmet #emmet #ingo #ingo pkmn #subway boss ingo #subway master ingo #submas ingo

[realhbomax]

my mom told me that men shouldn't suck another man's dick. well i guess i'll just have to suck girlcock ig

#lgbtqia #ic #hbo man's tedtalk #tw sexuality #trans

[gabetheunknown]

Hello, Gabe.

I've been reading your Geraskier fics on AO3 and enjoying them a lot. Especially Dandelion Kisses.

Now, I'm on the third installment of Improper use of Witcher signs, and in one of the notes, you state that you're asexual and I'm curious. It's definitely not meant to be judgmental or mean. I'm just genuinely interested.

An asexual who writes smut. I've seen other asexuals do the same thing, and I'm just puzzled. Is it a wish to expand your horizons in writing, stretching your abilities? Or is being asexual not being completely disinterested in sex, just not with others?

Does smut "Do anything" for you when you read or write it.

Again, I'm just curious, since I would probably label myself as overly sexual.... I write and read because it turns me on. I guess I'm just trying to understand a bit more about asexuality. I realize you cannot speak for everyone.

I hope this question isn't too much. If so, I apologize and you can just ignore it....

Hello there Anon! Aah 💕 I'm so glad you're enjoying my fanfictions!

Ooh, some good questions! I hope I can answer them and that my answers make sense lmao. Also I can never keep things short, sorry in advance.

These questions are not too much for me and I'm actually very open 💕 to anyone reading this TW talking about sexuality/asexuality under the cut. Also this might not apply to someone else, purely talking about my experiences.

I have been writing smut ever since I first found out what fanfiction is. Which was when I was about 15 or 16 years old, the perfect age to figure out what it all means, the whole romantic or sexual world.

After a lot of 'fucking around and finding out' it was only years later that I realized I am on the asexual spectrum. In my environment (and honestly, I feel like this is the case in a lot of environments) talking about sexual feelings wasn't really normal. Still I wanted to talk about it, so I was actually being viewed as someone who was obsessed with sex. But I wasn't. I never had sex, and if I did (because of the want to 'be perceived as normal') it didn't really do anything for me.

When I say years later, I mean I am currently 28 and with my first partner who I can discuss these things with in a healthy way. And I am actually more intimate with him than I have ever been with anyone else. Intimicy and sex are also two different things for me. Like the touch of skin, just cuddling and being close to each other or leaving kisses on bare shoulders, without actually doing the do. *chefs kiss *

The funny thing is, writing smut doesn't do very much for me, so I can turn something off in my mind and just... write whatever the fuck I want? xd

Reading smut does do something for me. Always has. And the more I learn about myself, the more I think it's because I am not involved. My body, my being, my brain is not involved, I'm merely fantasizing about fictional characters doing the dirty and that's so different for me. The moment I include myself, I want to roll myself up in a blanket for at least 3 hours, but I do get excited if I can focus on a fictional character's feelings. Or my partner for instance.

I am the biggest sucker for romance though. I'm the sappiest motherfucker you'll ever meet. And I also start kicking my feet when I think about my fictional characters having a romantic moment and I absolutely love writing/reading/watching those.

My relationship with writing smut still manages to surprise even me, and that's why I sometimes add the 'anyways I'm asexual' tag because I can casually write a nasty threesome between three men while having a conversation with my boyfriend about what's for dinner. And I think that's so funny.

I usually just say I'm on the asexual spectrum, because sometimes I think I'm demisexual, sometimes I think I'm aegosexual (it's worth it looking this one up, it made me feel very seen)

Hopefully I answered your questions 💕💕 I hope you have a good day!

#anon #answered #asexuality #asexual #aegosexual #demisexual #fanfiction #tw sexuality #gabe yells

[traumatizeddfox]

sometimes i dont feel valid in my sexuality bc i feel like my trauma has a big part to play in it

#tw sexuality #? idk if i should tw that but incase #sexuality #lgbtqiia+ #idk what to tag for this lmao

[hecho-a-mano]

I'd let Artemy Burakh do unspeakable things to me.

#artemy burakh #the haruspex #pathologic #nsft #tw sexuality #text #queue are lovely #gaming

[anchoeritic]

you say you’re unlabelled but post/write more about men? make it make sense. i’m not trying to sound mean but it looks like you’re putting on a front for your followers.

god, it’s so infuriating trying to explain my sexuality to someone when i don’t have any clue on it either. i like the people i like and i don’t know how the fuck you’re basing that off the people i write for.

for one, i don’t really receive many wlw requests.. well, not as many as fxm. men are more high in demand especially in my inbox/requests so obviously there’ll be more being written but that doesn’t tell you a lick of my sexuality. you have no place in my personal life to tell me whether or not i’m attracted to a certain gender, race, sex, etc. it’s truly none of your business. i do find interest in men, yeah, i can admit that but that does not mean they’re the only people i can find attractive.

#tw sexuality #fuck off #fucking pissing me off at 7am #જ⁀➴ mail: received

[kiirotoao]

Alright, I’ve had this happen three times now in my TikTok comments, and I wanted to write things down here if not addressed there. Here’s the three-time happening, in short: ‘why are you, as a girl, so obsessed with a gay mlm ship?’

And, oh boy. Look. Yes, I am a cisgender woman. Yes, I primarily ship Byler (cisgender males) over all other ships in Stranger Things. But do you realize how objective that is? I am more than my gender. So are the characters portrayed in film and media and thus Stranger Things. I think that there are indeed underlying issues and reasons for genders that are more praised in film and media and whatnot, but I think that that’s a large oversimplification of what’s going on, here.

Guess what? Two cisgender men created Stranger Things. Do you think it’s easy for cisgender men to write in the shoes of cisgender women and just automatically know the nuances and be comfortable writing for them? No. That’s why we have an opening of the show with our four main characters, four boys. Because this story is one of the Duffers’ love letter to being nerdy as once nerdy boys themselves. However, I think that the Duffers have created great opportunities for discourse on the issues that women face through Nancy and her struggles, especially in season 3, and if you want to talk about women and discrimination, please do! But I’m just here trying to ship my ship. I talk about inter-relational issues, not gender issues. Are gender issues important? Absolutely, but I clearly don’t talk about them on my page. Maybe I can be more clear about that. I’m currently considering saying this in reply to the people who asked. I get it. There are no rules on my page, so it’s an open book.

But what I take issue with and what makes me passionate enough to write all of this is that the comments were clearly made to break me down and question, in essence, why I’m shipping males as a female. Well, to answer that, when I went into shipping Byler, I thought about what was happening in front of me as a story whole: two best friends, one lost and then found, empathetically and lovingly sticking by each other and being honest to each other through blood, sweat, and tears, facing an emotional and then physical rift, rejoining and rekindling their love, and finally deciding to stand by each other in the face of the world crumbling before them. No. Gender. Attached.

Byler are simply written as male characters and I’d take no issue if they were females and I think I’d still ship them the same if they were. But at the end of they day, they weren’t. They are males. And that’s not why I like talking about them. I like their character traits, not their goddamn DNA. But all that being said, I also won’t hide it, I do ship women, too. I like Ronance. God, I really like Ronance. Even if they very likely won’t be canon, I adore their moments in season 4 and love me a good sun-and-moon dynamic. I also like Elmax. I think that those two genuinely make each other happy which I find plain adorable. I even have a friend who has convinced me to see the light of comphet Joyce and Karen having a grade school fling before ultimately marrying heteronormatively.

Thing is, there are far less women featured as main characters in Stranger Things than there are men. And so that is just how it goes around here. And I didn’t have a problem with that to talk about it until it was presented as one.

Also, side note, I just started watching Grey’s Anatomy, and my current favorite relationship is between Meredith and Cristina, who are - guess what? - women. So, okay. Here it is. Bare bones down to gender, yeah, I actually do like sapphic wlw ships, too.

At the end of the day, this is my cry: please don’t assume that my fixation on Byler is because I - as a girl - like talking about boys.

That stung, a little, as someone who wrestled with her own sexuality for years and rarely had crushes and never really properly liked boys at all. I think that I feel like I need to make a video stating my sexuality because of this, and that makes me a little uncomfortable. But I’m putting it out here because I feel just a little safer. So let me be clear. I am aromantic-asexual.

So please just trust me. This is not about Byler being boys.

#personal rant #tw sexuality #tw sexism

[liminal-station]

May Ingo call me a "naughty candle"

Ingo: Uh… okay?

Ingo:

You’ve been a naughty candle… haven’t you?

Emmet: …Brother. Do you know what you’re doing when you do it???

Ingo: What? I’m sure this message came from a candle who was rather ashamed of themselves. Right?

#tw sexuality #submas au #submas #ena joel g #subway bosses #ena dream bbq #au ask blog #pokemon au #send asks #pokemon askblog #pokemon ingo #subway boss ingo #ingo and emmet #subway master ingo #ingo pkmn #submas ingo #emmet pkmn #pokemon emmet #submas emmet #subway master emmet #subway boss emmet #ena fandom #ena submas #ena au #submas ena #enasona #ena oc #ena fanart #ena

[realhbomax]

its just max now

NO FUCKING SHIT GO SUCK A COCK GOD I HATE WOMEN

#joking #i actually love women #objection: asked and answered #tw swearing #tw sexuality #normie #hbo man's tedtalk

[oh-lacy]

hi! i saw @tea-and-a-clandestine-agenda do this and wanted to try!!

#tw panic attack #tw sexuality #blood #the way these options make no sense because i'm sleep deprived #they're also literally just me being stupid and clumsy #i'll probably make another one of these when i think of better ones

[amiru-shrubfeast]

God I love dominant bottoms.

Bottoms that tell me exactly what to do. Bottoms who allow me how to pleasure myself with them. Bottoms that lover themselves onto me because they allow it. I want to fuck someone who calls me a good boy while doing it.

#hornypost #tw sexuality #dom bottoms #196