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It's really not that bad, it just needs a little... more consistent medication schedule.

#its going to be okay #coping #mental health #depression #anxienty #adhd

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Idk I just don’t think you can look cool while fucking

#it’s the hip thrusts #they just look kinda silly

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What’s your favorite pig latin word? Someone just brought up banana to me and like man that’s a good one

#ananabay #pig latin #conlang

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Me, having ADHD: Ugh I’m going to have to stay up late. I have so much work to do

Friend, also ADHD: Well why didn’t you do it earlier?

Gotta be like top 100 worst feelings ever

#it be your own #like what do you MEAN why didn’t I do it earlier? #uh that’s what I’d like to know #I’ll get back to you on that #oh wait! #I won’t because I’ll forget #adhd #add adhd #adhd things #adhd inattentive

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Aromantic vent

I would be both happy and sad if my (alloromantic) best friends got partners.

I’d be happy that they found happiness with someone and happy that they have someone they want, but sad because I’m afraid that I would lose them.

The idea of being considered lesser to my best friends is horrifying. My best friends mean the world to me and it really hurts me to think that they don’t feel the same way about me.

I like having 1 one 1 time with my friends. I like the intimacy. I like being able to give each other our full attentions. I understand that that can look like romance to people but it’s just not. I’m afraid of a significant other being jealous and me not being able to hang out with my friends because of it.

I’m afraid of my best friends gaining significant others because I’m afraid I’d be jealous.

I know I have no right to other people’s lives or feelings, especially when I couldn’t even give them romance if I wanted to. I’m not going to do anything about these feelings. I know I’m a hypocrite for wanting to be someone’s #1 while also not wanting to be their significant other. I’m just sad and scared and I don’t want to be alone.

I’m afraid of the thought that all my friends will stop being single and they’ll go off with their partners and just leave me and I’ll have no one left.

#aromanitc #seeking comfort #anxienty #lonliness #jealousy #vent #plz help

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College degrees are a scam in a similar way that insurance policies are idk that’s how I’m feeling rn

#united states of america #they’re both expensive #and not necessarily worth what they cost #and you can probably #get by in life without them

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Wish I knew what to call my favorite art styles so I can find more art like it. I’d never thought about asking what style a piece is until now but now I can’t even if I want to bc I’ll just look like some prompt generating weirdo :(

I deeply want to learn to do stuff like @celestial-fang, unrefle, wlop, Vector Tenoimu, Tayumeru, Lucia Hsiang, KanLiu, @yuumei-art, @pianta, @sillychaotic, @hskachu, and Nenek Hani

Those first two especially I could stare at forever. I think what I like is how they work with color.

I’m also trying to find an artist I want to do a lineart study on or something… I really like Tenoimu for that I think…

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Demi peeps, what’s it like to eventually feel attraction to someone? I know it’s probably different for everyone on an individual level, but I’m just kinda wondering if it’s like a “click I feel understood” sort of situation or if you at some point thought “I really really like this person actually” or something else or…?

I’m acearo so I don’t understand the process of falling for someone at all, really. Idk, I’ve thought about writing demi ocs but I don’t really know how and I’m having trouble finding resources

#demisexual #demiromantic #demi #writing advice #questions for writers #lgbtqa #asexual #aromanitc #aroace #writing relationships #lgbtq #writing help

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Apparently if you go to a Catholic institution that has a health center that you can get your medication delivered to, you can’t get your medication delivered without a doctor’s note if it’s hormone regulation meds bc that’s birth control

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I was listening to a Hazbin Hotel fansong and I had this thought of like “the way this person does Angel Dust kinda sounds like SpongeBob”

And I haven’t been the same since

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Religion and mythology are a goldmine for absolutely beautiful names. Let me name my ocs kid Medusa or Lilith of Lucifer or Aphrodite without the connotations. I’ve never met someone named Jacob and been like “oh your parents must’ve really been into the bible”

#what’s a nickname for Aphrodite #mythology #name aesthetic #ocs #baby names #character names

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I feel bad for some of us in the LGBTQ+ community because some of these pride flags are tacky af imo

#lgbtq #lgbt pride #pride flag #color theory

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Nothing has been better for my constipation than me getting into drinking coffee now that I’ve gotten a tasty creamer on hand

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Pettiest, Most Spoiled Internal Conflict Ever

tl;dr — Some meaningless numbers in my expected graduation date make me way too upset and I still can’t cope

I have a problem. A really, really, petty problem. I know it’s dumb and that it doesn’t matter but it matters to me way more than I’d like to admit.

So my expected graduation year used to be 2024. Fall 2020 didn’t go well for me at all. I had the worst depression for months where I wouldn’t even leave my room for days until I finally dropped out at the end of the semester. I skipped the Spring semester and thankfully was able to come back for Fall 2021. I am happy for that.

Here’s the petty part though. Since I essentially had to redo my Freshman year, my new expected graduation year is 2025. Fine right? Wrong. I just can’t come to terms with it in my head that I’ll graduate in 2025. And it’s not because I’m in a rush to get out of school and start working (the opposite actually. The real world terrifies me) or accept the failure (although that part is true) or anything relatively reasonable. It’s the fact that I just like the number 2024 a lot more than the number 2025. The number 24 is a nice number. It’s 1*2*3*4 or 4! and 4 is also a number I like a lot it’s 2². 2, also a really nice number. It’s the base number in computer stuff. 2024 also just rolls off the tongue really nicely you know? Not to mention the fact that I also graduated high school in 2020 which is also a pretty nice number when you don’t think about how much of a dumpster fire of a year is attached to it.

25? Well it’s 5² and… um yeah. That’s it.

And like the thing is is that I know it’s dumb and unreasonable and nobody cares but the thing is I care and no matter what I do I just can’t let it go. And like I’ve had this delusion that I’m somehow going to speedrun all my credits and still graduate in three years and it’s finally starting to hit me that it’s just not feasible and it really really hurts and like I can’t talk about it with anyone because I know it’s like the pettiest thing to be this upset about but I just keep thinking about it and thinking about the fact that I’m gonna live with that the rest of my life and I really just can’t get over it.

Like it’s at a point where I’m just sitting here in the middle of the night typing this out and really thinking about it and just completely breaking down over it like I’m ugly crying over a number. And I just don’t know what to do about it.

Normally at this point I’d ask a clear question asking for advice but I just… idk what anyone can say to me that’ll make me feel better about this.

#yes I’m a math major how’d you know? #petty #personal rant #depression #plz help #not relatable #mental health #college #mathblr #numbers #anxiety #unreasonable #unreasonably upset #trying to cope #actually crying #this is a cry for help

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Does a stay away order (what most people think of when they think of a restraining order) mean that the restrained person always knows where the protected person works or lives?

That sounds absolutely terrifying and I feel like the answer must be “of course not” but I don’t know how the order would work otherwise. But how does one stay away from someone if one has no idea where they are?

Say you, as a protected person, move away to another city. Then, later, let’s say a couple years later, the restrained person unknowingly moves into a house just down the street from you. What then?

#restraining order #stay away order #legal help #not legal advice #abuse #stalking #assault #question #hypothetical question

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In one of the discord servers I’m in, someone asked to move the mee6 level up notifs to some other channel because they said it was really jarring when it would come in during a conversation in the venting/heavy topics channel.

I just thought it was interesting that people get so mad about it. Not just in this particular situation but in general. I get that it can be annoying but it’s just essentially the same message every time. My eyes just kinda glaze over it at this point. Like how you eventually stop hearing the sound of the air conditioner.

Idk. Just something that’s been piquing my interest

#discord #mee6 discord bot #levelup #discord bot

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I hate passive aggression. Half the time, if not all the time, it’s hurtful and half the time the receiver doesn’t even get the message or even know that there’s a message to get.

Please just communicate y’all

#if it’s safe for you to do so that is #and I’m talking about passive aggression as a form of communicating #throwing shade can be fun #but otherwise #how can you be mad at someone for crossing a boundary you never layed? #i recognize that sometimes being mean is the only way to retaliate bc some people just don’t respect boundaries and #sometimes you’re just stuck with those ppl #communication just gives you more of a reason to cut disrespectful people out of your life #i’m so tired #anxiety #neurodivergent #social cues #passive agression #communication #communication is key #learn to communicate