this isn't me doing a bit btw but people really want to talk about "transgender milfs" and then treat trans women/fems who genuinely want to get pregnant and be mothers like shit.
like it's a really rough experience feeling that alienated from your body and desires and the amount of hostility towards literally just wishing you could be a mother in a specific way and being upset that you can't is really fucked. everyone is so fucking hostile and weird about bodily autonomy including wanting to have a kid.
like people act like transfems are delusional for wishing they could have kids and society treats the idea transfem uterus transplants as either a laughable joke or a disgusting perversion. like fuck, be nicer. treat them right.
We just got home from Valentine’s euthanasia appointment. In case it isn’t obvious by the fact he’s at home and standing on his own four feet, he did not get euthanized.
I started having second thoughts, which doesn’t really happen to me when it’s time to euthanize. The fact that I got him to eat one small can of food over the course of the day yesterday and that he keeps begging for food, even if he’s not actually eating much, has made me decide I want to keep trying. We’re going to go buy some more cat friendly foods tonight to see if I can coax him to eat anything else.
He’s not out of the woods by any means. But Doc is available if I change my mind and I’m ready tomorrow or Sunday. And for right now Valentine still seems very content, even if he is a little skinnier.
supernatural (2005-2020); stella maris by cormac mccarthy; the carnivorous lamb by agustin gómez-arcos; handfasting and wedding rituals by r. kaldera and tannin schwartzstein; ginger snaps (2000) dir. by john fawcett
They might abuse you sometimes, but also be sweet or kind to you at other times.
They might protect you from others who would do things to you that are just as abusive (or worse).
They might sometimes make you feel good, or loved.
They might twist things enough where it feels like love when they abuse you.
All of these things can make abuse very confusing. They might make you question whether you are “really” being abused. They might cause you to have conflicting emotions about your abuser.
It’s valid to struggle with this. This confusion is often caused very intentionally and carefully by an abuser.
You don’t just deserve kindness sometimes. You deserve it all the time. Someone doesn’t have to abuse you all the time to be abusive to you.
Danica: I just don't think Logan's got staying power. I think it'll be someone else [in the seat soon] you know?
Simon: *Asks Jenson the same question*
Jenson: No I don't think so. I think Logan's going to be in the seat until the end of the year. Of course we'd all love to see Logan doing a bit better than he was but (goes on to defend Logan and talk about Williams as a works team)