#Femme but not TOO femme

[bunnjamin]

Do you ever think about how transfemme hcs are treated with so much less credibility and kindness than transmasc ones. It's an extremely frustrating trend I see

I am transmasc btw

#I feel like everytime we have a transfemme hc it has to be cut with “no! Theyre nonbinary” #Which is an odd compromise fandom tells itself #Femme but not TOO femme #Feminine but god forbid she goes by she #You have characters who canonically follow a uniquely transfemme experience and you can bring it to a discussion and you are ALWAYS met witj #“okay but” #“I dont really see it but i think he could be they/he” #MY pronouns are they/he and what an insulting thing u feel #The Spectre has an argument with herself about supressing the feminine part of her spirit because she is a man. She must be. #Havok wants to be with maddie. She wants to BE maddie. She merged body and soul with polaris. #This is honestly just me rambling but it is weird u know? No one ever questions my “dick is transmasc bc i said so” hcs

[officialspec]

its definitely funny when marcille gets a little mean with it but its so important to me that they are also Best Friends

#also marcille is a known glomper i needed to draw something about it #dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon #dunmesh #laios touden #laius thorden #marcille donato #my art #genuinely cried abt them while i was reading a couple times. theyre friends!!!!!!!!! #in general i think ppl make marcille a bit too mean. shes just a femme with haterism tendencies we all know one

[queermasculine]

wearing the strap while topping is tried and true, but have we considered: wearing the strap while bottoming

#butch bottoms you could be slangin it... #femmes too why not... #butch4butch

[kennythetrampvamp]

[trans-androgyne]

“Women and non-binary people” stop. Do you mean people with marginalized genders? Do you mean gender-oppressed people? Then say that. Stop refusing to recognize the very much gendered oppression of other trans people. There’s not some chasm of difference between how our oppressors treat a very masc non-binary person and a more binary trans man. I’m also non-binary and very much oppressed for my gender but because I’m transmasculine I could never feel comfortable in a space that marketed itself like that. Tell me what the real harm is of letting gender-oppressed mascs into spaces discussing gender oppression is. Because the consequence of not doing so is denying them space for their experiences just because of their gender identity. Do better.

#‘’but 🥺 we don’t want men in our spaces 🥺’’ why. these men are oppressed for their gender identity & expression. #‘’well some people have trauma around men’’ some people have trauma around women too. should we keep them out of queer spaces #‘’their appearance might make someone uncomfortable’’ are you also keeping out cis women butches and trans women who aren’t hyper femme #because if so your space has serious problems and you are the one making gender-oppressed people uncomfortable #so many trans women are wary of these spaces because they police perceived masculinity. so how abt stop doing that #transandrophobia #intracommunity issues tag #mine

[lanaswansblog]

#girlblogging #just girly posts #girl interrupted #cinnamon girl #hell is a teenage girl #girly blog #relatable #too real #girlhood #lana del rey #femme fatale #hyper femme #female insanity #female hysteria

[hamoodmood]

#girlblogging #girlblogger #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #girly things #female hysteria #whisper girl #femcel #girlboss #female manipulator #manic pixie dream girl #i hate men #hate men #trust issues #feminist #feminism #femme fatale #girlhood #girl interrupted syndrome #just girly things #female rage #relatable #real #too real #the feminine urge #this is what makes us girls #a blog for the heartbroken #localy hated #if you know you know #lana del ray aesthetic #lana del rey

[pokeberry5]

girl experiences gender euphoria and is immediately slammed by grief

for @litttlittt <3. this was supposed to be a portrait of caroline hill, but litta mentioned tim looking like janet when dressed as caroline and identity issues and angst and things spiraled

something about tim not knowing if he's his mother's child or bruce's or neither's.

figuring out the looks:

i wanted janet to have that poofy 70s hair

#tim drake #dc #bruce wayne #janet drake #sart #i'm picturing this as transfemme tim hence “he” and also compounding issues about bruce treating him as a daughter #which is exactly the gender validation tim wants and needs but isnt sure he deserves #but this also definitely works for trans tim #she gets to process that she looks like her mom!! and her mom will never get to know her daughter #would she have wanted to know her daughter? even though she showered tim with love when she was around #she barely knew her son #gender idk he's a girl 👍 hope that helps #i went down a rabbit hole looking up vintage dior necklaces -- hopefully something martha wayne wouldve worn #-- but dior necklaces are COMPLICATED #i almost drew pearls but i think that wouldve been too cruel to bruce lol #(a decent amount of my art--even when it's not femme tim--gets tagged 'gender' and i dont know what im going but im glad 👍)

[gleafer]

WHOOPS! I made them girls!😍😈❤️ Much like Mr. Shadwell, I have a magic pointer finger…that I use to balance my stylus to DRAW!

I hope you love them as much as I do!

Follow my Patreon/Gleafer for full comics of these lovely lasses!

2024 is going to be CRAYCRAY

#illustrator #illustration #digital artist #artist on tumblr #crowley #good omens #good omens art #aziraphale #good omens aziraphale #gleafer #gleafer art #good omens aziracrow #femme crowley #femme aziraphale #this is too much fun #grrl #divine feminine #comic artist #gaimanverse #digtal art

[blushedfemme]

toxic yuri where the femme is kinda sleazy and predatory and the butch is a wholesome goody two shoes. star athlete, straight As. bright-eyed and sincere. always bakes their famous chocolate chip cookies for the big game. the femme wears too much eye makeup and perfume and rolls her own. they’re hard and scary and crack rude jokes to make the butch blush. their skirts are too short and their neckline plunging.

the butch just wants to be good. the femme wants to ruin her. and the femme knows how to get what she wants, one way or another

#blushing #toxic yuri #as much as i love butch dirtbag x femme princess i kinda love it even more reversed #this is so lazy of me i should write a fic but i have too many unfinished wips already #so anyways have this <3

[queerhoneybunny]

Girls who get high when they know it makes them crazy horny>>>

It’s alright sweetheart come let mommy suck on your throbbing clit and make it all better

#sapphic nsft #nblw nsft #wlw nsft #nsft bunny #sapphic smut #nsft wlw #nsft brat #butch bait #wlw ns/fw #intox kink #high making out too #stoner femme #stoner princess

[dirtmossart]

I love femmes.. another experience I had recently

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#comic #this did something to me #my comics make it seem like femmes are all over me but they’re not #actually they probably are but I’m too autistic to tell #butch4femme #Butch #femme #butch femme #butch lesbian #butch dyke #Butch art #femme4butch #Kells comics

[hamoodmood]

I'm cooked

#too real #girlblogging #girlblogger #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #girly things #female hysteria #whisper girl #manic pixie dream girl #femcel #female manipulator #divine feminine #real #female rage #lana del ray aka lizzy grant #relatable #a blog for the heartbroken #just girly things #localy hated #the feminine urge #unlovable #if you know you know #ultraviolence #this is what makes us girls #girl interrupted syndrome #put me in a movie #sadcore #sadgirl #the virgin suicides #femme fatale #dream girl

[fyi-iyanni]

#black girl luxury #high maintenance #black girl aesthetic #luxury aesthetic #soft life #feminine energy #soft black women #black femininity #black girl moodboard #fyi iyanni #hyper feminine #femininity #hyper femme #divine feminine #black women in femininity #black in paris #paris #spoiled black girl #too spoiled #spoiled #too spoiled journey #level up journey #level up #melanin poppin #melanin #soft glam #glamlife #rich black women #classy black women #black girl makeup

[pinkcarabiner]

yes i see that you're femme4butch, but do you recognize that being a safe space for butches comes before your attraction? how do you feel about butch4butch couples, or butch stone bottoms? do you give them the same level of respect as you do to butches who you find attractive? what about stone butches? do you see them as people, or as a outlet to receive sexual pleasure? do you enjoy butch friendship, or do you only hope to gain romantic attention?

what about femmes? do you look to build community with other femmes, or do you see them as competition to receive butch attention? do you understand butchfemme history and the history of your identity? and most importantly, do your prioritize community above your own attraction?

#🎀 #femme4butch #it happens too often that i learn a 'femme' has trouble respecting boundaries #butches aren't sex objects #understanding that is one of the most basic parts of the femme identity

[bunnywanted]

yesterday my dad asked me ‘why can’t you like pink, girly, feminine things like most women?’ (lol) what i didn’t tell him is that i do like pink, girly, feminine things………. i like to fuck them 💖

#desperately need me a pink girly feminine thing to fuck #i was tempted but i think he’d have a heart attack #he watches a lot of kdrama and is upset that i’m not girly like the women in those shows #i told him no one’s stopping him from buying pink girly things if that’s what he likes #does he feel the need to enjoy it through me? like girl do your thing i’m perfectly fine being ‘too masculine’ thank you #i looooove femininity #maybe one day he can live vicariously through my wife #wlw nsft #wlw ns/fw #sapphic nsft #sapphic ns/fw #wlw mood #wlw concepts #masc4femme #butch4femme #femme4masc #femme4butch #pillow princess #femme nsft #femme ns/fw #⌨️ #about