#If you haven't I don't blame you

[daisynik7]

Nanami gives the best massages after a long day at work. Maybe it's because his big hands glide gracefully along your shoulders, kneading into your sore muscles with just the right amount of pressure. Maybe it's because his thick thumbs work out those tough knots twisted into your back, relieving your throbbing headache. Maybe it's because his lips graze against the skin of your neck, scattering delicate kisses at each pulse point. "Does that feel good, sweetheart?" he asks, voice low in your ear, hands trailing down your waist, slipping beneath the elastic of your pants. "Do you want me to make you feel even better?"

It's a question he already knows the answer to; you turn to kiss him, moaning into his mouth as he teases your clit, feeling it swell against his fingertips. "That's what I thought," he chuckles, rubbing his hard cock between your ass cheeks. "Let daddy take care of you."

#nanami kento #kento nanami #nanami smut #nanami x reader #nanami imagine #nanami headcanons #I don't even like massages but I would totally love his #tw daddy kink #yes I have a daddy kink in case you haven't noticed before #I blame mia for these [redacted] thoughts about nanami

[yoinkschief]

Ouuuhhh look I did an art trend ouuuhhh

This is my first EVER comfort character, Darkiplier, you've come a long way bbg never forget your god awful roots but also oh my god I never wanna see you like that ever again I'd kill you

And then my biggest/most current comfort character, naturally, Tord

Which is SOO ironic since Tom used to hold that spot but then shit happened and suddenly I have a type or something I dunno you tell me after looking over my simp list

My,,, THEORETICAL, simp list, of course

No such tangeble thing exists of course, no sense in looking for it

#this drawing really tested me #it was CLAWING at me to go back the Markiplier fandom #and so is the wait for that Iron Lung movie #OUGHHH I'M SO EXCITED #but sometimes #I look #I gander at that 10k rant #and I have that urge #that itch to complete it #for those who haven't read it I don't blame you but it's not done #I haven't even really talked about the adventures with markiplier #like at all #there's so much more to talk about you have no idea this is THE special interest of mine #Markiplier #Darkiplier #Comfort Characters #Tord #Eddsworld Tord #ew tord #fanart #art #digital art #jay draws #holy shit wait this is the last art of the year ain't that crazy ??? #eddsworld

[cleradinel]

a friendly reminder asking the cast about byler will never result in anything else but "i don't know-s" and "we'll see-s" and wasting the precious time you have at conventions on byler questions is at best useless and at worst a little awkward for everyone, because you're not going to get the answers you're looking for and you're putting the actors on the spot.

a friendly reminder ndas are very much a Real Thing and they are legally obligated to dismiss it and lie and not to disclose it, you know, as a non disclosure agreement would suggest. it's not a no confirmation agreement. it's a NON DISCLOSURE agreement.

#i just.... i know it's not malicious ever but it IS a lack of respect in some ways #if you want to show love and appreciation for byler at cons you should just show up with some blue and yellow somewhere on you #a sweater or hairclips or pins or whatever but explicitly asking about it ? what do you think is going to happen #i'm not trying to be aggressive it's just. this will lead nowhere we haven't been before #i don't blame you for wanting to talk and hear about it i too can find it a lil 'frustrating' at times the evasiveness #but it's just how it is and it makes sense. it's just how it is #byler #also noah gets a pass for promotional reasons. it doesn't deminish his love for byler at all but the can talk about it sometimes pass #is because of promotional reasons. he ships it either way but can talk about it sometimes because he was allowed to

[uncanny-tranny]

Hi! would you by any chance have tips on how to get a binder when your parents refuse to buy you one? ☹️

That's definitely a sensitive and complex answer, and while I might not know of the best option for your unique situation, there are some ways you can go about this.

If it's a foregone conclusion that you cannot convince them of this, what I used to do is DIY my binder. The ways I primarily did this were:

Option One: Wearing a camisole that was one size smaller than I actually was (so, wearing a small instead of a medium, for instance), then folding it up over my chest. As a disclaimer, this may only work well if you are smaller in the chest

Option Two: Layering two sports bras in my size over each other. Some of the DIY tips I found before I got a traditional binder advised to wear one sports bra in your size, then wear another sports bra backwards in a size smaller. I would advise against this for potential safety reasons, but also because (at least personally), it can be ineffective and a waste of resources.

Some people have also had friends or other family members order their binder for them, but this can be risky, depending on your situation. While I don't know the ins and outs of your specific circumstances, risk management is important to me, so I would recommend this if it is a risk that is acceptable to make.

I understand what it's like to not have access to this resource, so what I will do is advise you against:

Binding with ace bandages (I did this before (multiple times, in fact, because of dysphoria), and believe me, not only did it hurt like hell, but it constricted my body so heavily that I may have done long-term harm)

Wearing a DIY binder (or any kind, for that matter) for longer than your body can handle

Doing DIY in such a way that even mimics binding with ace bandages. This means that your binder shouldn't constrict your ribs, breathing, or range of movement

Here are some general good practices that you should use to guide you for any type of binding, whether traditional or DIY:

When you start binding, only do so in very short sessions to begin with. While binding shouldn't outright hurt, it can be a weird transition while your body is getting used to that new sensation

Minimize heavy lifting or exercise while binding. If it is unavoidable, drink plenty of water and take plenty of breaks

Stretch after binding

Don't bind while sick or have inflammation in your lungs or chest

If you DIY, treat your binder like it is a traditional binder. Don't make the mistake of assuming you don't need to listen to your body because you aren't using a "traditional" binding method

Ultimately, listen to your body. If it is telling you that it needs a break, honour that. Your body isn't punishing you, it is trying to keep you (and it) safe, even if it doesn't feel like it

In the end, this isn't perfect. Sometimes, parents do come around, even in their own ways, even if little by little, they come around. When I first came out officially around 2016, I was convinced that my transition would be completely forbade by my family; I concealed a lot of it in the worst instances of this. However, now, I think most of my family has come through their own journey with the understanding of the reality of what and who I am. I tell you this, anon, because I want you to know that this, too , shall pass. You can make it. I know this might be devastating to you, and believe me, I know what that's like. But it won't be forever. These bridges aren't burnt forever, and I hope you can find your happiness and contentment wherever it may be.

#ask #anon #trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #long post #if anybody has other tips or ideas then feel free to speak up #this is what i did before officially binding and what i have seen other trans people do in lieu of getting a 'real' binder #it did suck when i was coming out because i don't think my family had any idea how *their* hang-ups with... me as a person... affected me #and i think a lot of people get their preconceived notions or headcanons of you stuck in their head to the point that it is Reality #i think part of why my dad started actually *trying* to accept me was him realizing that i was actively hiding things from him... #...like he loves me and our relationship is fine now but i'm not going to pretend like he didn't massively blunder after i came out #and if it turns out that your parents don't ever come around (gd forbid) then you aren't obligated to keep them #you don't choose your parents but you can choose your family i think #i always always hope that parents come around to their child/ren and the reality of who they are but i recognize how messy it all is #anon i wouldn't blame you one bit if you feel many complex or 'negative' emotions toward them #i have many complex feelings about this and that's my own baggage. i hope i haven't put words into your mouth or assumed anything too much #i am sending you best wishes and care. this too shall pass💛

[bonebabbles]

What IS a redemption arc to these writers, exactly?

Because the ONLY thing that Clear Sky has changed about his behavior, by A Forest Divided, is that he's not actively murdering people. He's controlling. He's a bully. He's misconstruing the words of the StarClan cats to create a justification for why he should be in power.

He's even physically abusive again when he gets upset, later. And that's not even counting his sadistic, self-absorbed behavior in sequel books.

We keep getting passages like this;

Which keeps turning his murder and abuse into "Just A Little Mistake," explicitly PART OF LIVING.

Ghosts are tumbling out of the fucking heavens to powder his ass, forcing his mom to forgive him for absolutely nonsensical reasons, saying that killing Rainswept Flower was "predestined" and "just an accident" and he had no control over it, anyway(???). And now, here is the hollowed-out shell of Storm, who was driven out of the Clan while pregnant because Clear Sky's actions were getting innocent cats MAULED AND KILLED, insisting her abusive husband's behavior never drove anyone away and they just had their own paths to walk.

So what IS a redemption arc supposed to be to these writers?

If Clear Sky was NEVER actually that bad, in the 5 books we saw where he's a controlling, power-hungry monster who constantly resorts to physical violence, that what IS the change he needs to make? If it's both a mistake he's totally learned from, YET ALSO he's never done anything wrong??

Do you SEE how these are contradictory ideas? They can't exist together. It's like the writers are just grasping at whatever insane bullshit they can think up and throwing it on the page, because at the end of the day, what they do is write Fundamentally Good and Fundamentally Evil characters.

Because Clear Sky is one of their Fundamentally Good cats, he has nothing to confront. They try to say "the guilt is the worst punishment for him!" and also "He shouldn't feel guilty for anything he did!" and it leaves us with absolutely nothing.

#Im ngl. I think if youre a clear sky defender you can't think critically. #Or you haven't actually read this arc. #This is the most BULLSHIT thing I've ever seen written #I can't believe people actually accept this. I started off trying so hard to be charitable here #But I can't do it anymore I don't understand how people don't see this #they blamed his fucking mom for his cruelty #they blamed a WOMAN FOR HER ADULT SON'S ACTIONS #Im going to have a stroke #dotc hate #bones reads dotc

[lovethistoomuch]

me interacting with the man with sunglasses:

1st playthrough: oh, come on mysterious ex-partner guy, just loosen up a little, just talk to me. kim is way cooler than you btw.

2nd playthrough: oh my god, jean, it's so good to see you! I love talking to you! You're the coolest guy ever! I'd love having you as my partner, please just talkt to me please, I'm so sorry, I love you! I love you! please forgive me, jean!!!

#disco elysium #jean vicquemare #he is such a tragic character #and you get glimpses of that during your early interactions with him #but it only really hit me in the conversation right at the end #I truly cannot understand all the hate i see for him as a character #like yeah he is a bitter asshole but can you really blame him? #you don't get that bitter if you haven't initially cared for someone deeply #we as a player never see it but harry really hurt him #all i want to do is give him a hug and apologise #harry basically spit in his face and told him to fuck off and he still came back for him #he came back in a way that he thought would make harry smile #and even helps him to the car (in the good ending) #how can people honestly claim that jean hates harry? #anyway #enough of that #just know that this man has been stuck in my head for weeks now

[worstloki]

sigyn that married loki like ages ago so when it comes out he's jotun she's like. 'well it's a bit late to do anything about that'

#''bit sad to find out about this after his death but i suppose i can't blame him for that :/'' #''tell me if he ends up not being dead i think we should sit down and talk about this'' #''totally not cool so hide something like this. im going to dye my hair black as charcoal and not even tell him'' #''lets see how he likes it'' #''the royal family sucks btw. it succ real good.'' #''how does someone find out they are secretly from a different realm. how wouldn't they know. couldn't he tell?'' #''im not saying it's loki's fault but i think it would be less his fault if he was less dramatic about this kind of thing'' #''aaannnndd of course he threw himself off the bifrost by the end of it. do you people know nothing about him?'' #sigyn just decides loki isn't dead to cope btw #it's like thor except she doesn't get depressed about it #''shouldn't she move out of the palace since her husband died?'' nah sorry no one can stand bringing up the topic #she roasts them about it #like have you no shame #there is not even a body #are you trying to kick her out? don't you know who she married? #''he's dead'' alright believe what you want but odin and frigga haven't said anything so she's sticking around #sigyn like i have more important things to do than worry about this kind of thing. like managing the vanaheim exports #she needs to make her money

[lowrezbonuslevel]

kirbytober day 7

Before becoming a full-time tyrant, Sectonia was something of a fashion aficionado. A talented designer, seamstress, and tailor, she paid the bills by running a small boutique in Floralia (flower-themed, of course). Her signature was beautiful golden silk.

A traveling puppeteer stopped by and was smitten with her work. He was in her shop so often, most everyone assumed he was an employee.

One day, the boutique closed permanently and without notice. Through the window, you can still see the dusty counter where the proprietress used to greet her customers. It seems the floating kingdom lost its greatest seamstress forever, but with the flash of a certain well-loved cape, you might yet see the gleam of her golden thread.

Prompt list (Day 7: Headcanon) by @paintpanic

#kirby #lrblev art #sketch #comic #kirby triple deluxe #sectonia #taranza #i know i already posted a sectonia rant today but that was unscripted #i was already planning to post a sectonia headcanon for today's prompt. i swear i'm not deranged #anyways. #this headcanon is based on the “joronia” incident #whether or not the name is canon i think the joro spider (the actual animal) is a cool basis for sectonia's character #they are known for having really strong and pretty gold thread #side note for those who haven't read the aforementioned rant (i do not blame you): i don't necessarily think sectonia is of royal lineage #or even that floralia was a monarchy just before she took power #i have way too many theories about floralia. man #kirbytober #kirbytober 2023 #kirbtober #kirbtober 2023

[trans-cuchulainn]

the trouble with learning a minority language is that once you've hit the upper-intermediate stage of actually reading books in the language and so on, it doesn't take very long to exhaust the books at your level that you have any interest in whatsoever, and then there aren't any more. so you read the ones you're not really interested in, but that feels like Work, because you're not really interested in them. but it doesn't exactly get better as you get more advanced because even the more difficult books tend not to correspond too closely to your preferred genres

#there's a serious lack of queer historical romance as gaeilge i'll tell you that #or yunno queer genre fiction in general :/ #RIP #i haven't completely exhausted my book collection but the number of unread books is shrinking #and most of the others available at my reading level are translations #which a) i tend to find have harder language relative to the level of the story #and b) don't feel as helpful in learning the rhythms of storytelling in the languages #i will read them but i want more original fiction to read too #probs gonna have to email an siopa leabhar and be like. help me. i need you to send me more books #personal #néide ag foghlaim gaeilge #i'm pretty sure that tag is grammatically incorrect but blame me from three years agp

[irithnova]

@meerudraws admitting they posted their bullshit without even reading the full document is comedy gold.

"Worst Christmas ever" you're the one who engaged yourself bestie! You didn't have to! No one put a gun to your head and told you to engage! No one put a gun to your head and told you to release that post before you finished reading the whole document!

Absolutely braindead

#LMAO #Glad I managed to ruin an enablers Christmas though 💞 #No one was actually planning for it to be released yesterday lol we just finalised it yesterday after working on it for weeks and we just #Wanted to release it and get it over with #🙏 #Because having to relive what she put as through was draining as all hell #*us #Watching meeru back track from saying “you only see morals as black and white” #To “I haven't even read the whole document yet don't blame me wahhh” #“her behaviour was out of line but you're still the bad guy wahhh” #HAHAHAH #Meeru has also literally plagiarised off of me so this is even funnier #Also I really doubt she's now reading through the whole document and NOW sees the error in pandas way #Miss girl I LITERALLY gave you a list of things she's done to people and provided 4!! Screenshots as examples and you still chose to brush #It off! #So yes you're an enabler and you're extremely cruel !! Hope this helps lovely xx #Meerudraws #Siberiaverse #potaxiepower #Jadereblogs #My references #Refs #Comedy gold(en horde) #Pandas posse are just as stupid as she is confirmed #Also it's not my fucking responsibility to help you “improve” your terrible ocs especially after you blocked me out of nowhere #get the fuck out of here #Awee I ruined your Christmas ? #Panda ruined people's physical and mental health for months. #Get over it you abuse enabler !

[king-of-havoc]

I feel like at this point if I just assumed everyone who was in a certain circle of Minecraft Youtubetry is a bad person that I wouldn't be too far off

#king posts #this is about Wilbur Soot #if you haven't heard (I don't blame you I JUST learned about it) then it's being speculated that he abused Shubble #like she never said his name but there are many many MANY signs pointing to it being him #and I just can't be surprised anymore #she is so brave for even talking about it at all tbh #because his methods of abuse (that she talked about) were so unorthodox #and certain people (abuse apologists) like to write off unorthodox abuse tactics as not being ''real'' abuse #and hearing that she had those types of thoughts herself really broke my heart #abuse is abuse #I'm so glad she was able to get out of it in the end #even if she didn't know what she was going through was abuse at the time (been there)

[indigodawns]

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#these are just some thoughts re: friendship as a result of tonight that i need to jot down somewhere but #realising that i really do have a strict and set idea of Good Friend(ship) and what that entails to me #and id written people off bc i wasn't yk ~receiving love or friendship the way id prefer and i was angry with them for that/hurt about it #did i communicate that to them though? nooo. was i fully right in that? also no. like just bc i felt unheard didn't fully mean #that they were doing something wrong. they were trying in their own way (and sometimes they weren't really or it just wasn't nice) #but that's about how we match and how we communicate right? this is so silly that's so basic but it never fully clicked for me like this #i was blaming them for stuff and building up resentment without ever expressing that (and i still haven't yk dhshsjd) #and i think where i went ~wrong was in thinking that bc i felt that way they weren't ~giving me what i need #when it's like... but did i pick up on the ways in which they DID appreciate me and show me love etc? did i give them ANYTHING to work with? #(ok yes occasionally but also... tangent but i was watching a variety show and they were teasing woozi about how #he gives interviewers/hosts literally nothing to work with. like no extra information for them to ask about or tease him for or anything #and i was like ohhhhhh. yeah i do do that sometimes with friends and it's genuinely smth i don't really know how to do like #giving casual information (but not too much and not too little???) so they can then ask questions etc. so then if im like ughh #they never ask (the right) questions or show interest (or let me talk but that's a different thing dhsjdjd) it's like... #well do i give them the chance to? much to think about thank you woozi) #anyways where was i dhsjsnsnsjns idk but it's soooo annoying that i haven't figured this all out yet #but im slowly letting go off a bunch of resentment that has truly no business being here and im trying to self reflect and all that #and im honestly doing so shit some days but others days it's? finding stuff that matters to me on a deeper level ig? #and all of it really does pale in the face of multiple genocides and it's. but yk. if i want to keep fighting #i need to build a strong foundation and sort my shit out as well and be present so im really really trying #and beating my stupid stupid depression and brain with a stick until i get there

[moregraceful]

Also I deleted the post bc it was a bad version of myself, but I'm gonna say it again, it is bananas to me that Taylor Swift only sang one song off of her self-titled album in the Eras tour movie. like girl you cannot hide from "Tim McGraw" and "Teardrops On My Guitar" even if you were just cosplaying Tennessee country like those songs put you on the goddamn map and this is how you repay them??

#the thing abt the eras tour movie is. it unlocked many opinions about taylor swift's music i didn't realize i had #''is fearless her greatest album'' i asked myself. ''all these songs are bangers i still know all the lyrics'' #no dummy you only know all the lyrics bc your 15yo sister put the house in 24/7 tswift lockdown every time she released an album #these songs are fun but more importantly your sister is 6in taller and an athlete so you didn't control the aux past the age of 17 #i haven't listened to a taylor swift album in full since 1989 was released (when my sister moved out)...some of her newer stuff is fun #don't blame me is pretty good. wish i had not been surrounded by middle schoolers the first time heard it. #but she's got some bangers. DON'T tell me anything about her personal life i don't wanna know and i don't care to learn #(my coworker: ''i forgot she swears so much on reputation and midnights 😭 oh well our kids probably see worse tiktok every day'' #me: 🫠🫠🫠) #also side note my 21yo coworker was like do you ever call our kids ''my kids'' around people and do people get really confused #i was like yes. people think they are my real kids and ask how old my kids are and i say high school and they get kinda worried #she was like yeah....my college classmates asked how old my kids are when i said i was taking my kids to the eras tour movie #and when i told them middle school they got really really alarmed and worried about me #nonprofit work lol. i'm stressed all the time about other people's children. i call them my kids. they all lowkey hate me. life this is it #fresno oilers.txt

[moonscape]

explorers of the spirit getting popular is kind of annoying me because there's just gonna be tons of people who never got over their petty childhood hatred of chatot feeling validated over blaming him for the guild rules when he's not the one who came up with those rules in the first place

#bwark #i haven't played it myself so i can't judge but from what i've heard apprently the game itself just comes across like the creator never #got over their petty hatred #like girl......you do know that he's the sole reason the guild isn't in shambles #those rules are in place because the exploration federation was the ones who did that #also chatot literally says if you talk to him before going to amp plains that the guild is barely getting by as it is #this info is all directly in the game and the pmd fandom is filled with people that ignore this in order to feel justified in their dislike #of him #and i'm not saying you can't dislike him. i literally don't care what you do #but don't ignore canon and make shit up to fuel your own narrative #also why does everybody blame chatot but not fucking wigglytuff #like. i get that chatot is the one keeping things in line but wigglytuff should share just as much blame if you really want to point #fingers so badly #btw since i'm on the topic i've changed my opinion on the perfect apple incident. i'm not being an apologist for him anymore #it was fucked up #but holding that incident over his head when he instantly believes you after coming back from the future and nearly kills himself trying #to protect you in brine cave is dumb as hell #anyway making this unrebloggable because i don't want more chatot discourse after last time

[pennamepersona]

barok van zieks perilously close to terminally online brain with his ice cold "a japanese person killed my brother so now i hate all japanese people" take

#aa #ace attorney #dgs spoilers #dgs2 spoilers #dgs #tgaa #i don't hate the dude as a character #which is impressive given the blatant and unapologetic racism #i knew there was like. a reason for it. #but this is sooooooo not even close to a justification #which to be fair i don't think it's supposed to be #this is not a criticism of the writing #it's a criticism i would say to van zieks himself #it's like how i hate Victor Frankenstein and love mary shelley #hey. barok. you can't blame an entire race of people for one guy #'a japanese person killed my brother' well more than likely a British person followed your career and murdered everyone #who you didn't get declared guilty #(haven't finished dgs2 yet)