Just a small frustrated stream of consciousness, don’t mind it’s rushed nature:
You know, there's a very specific kind of behavior and type of trauma response that people like in characters. Fandoms go out of their way to justify their lashing out, to make it cute. Many times, there are understandable reasons for how they turned out the way they did. To each their own, if someone wants to latch on to different characters, that's their prerogative and there is nothing wrong with that.
However, there are two aspects of the way some fans approach things that I am so frustrated by. I run into them time and time again. Obviously, part of it is just how it attacks my own favorite characters constantly, but it can also be a sign of unhealthy patterns in how people think about real people with trauma or in certain circumstances.
First part: Lack of recognition that there is more than one way that trauma presents itself. I find it is often the case that people give characters like Jinx, Catra, Lena Luthor, Adrien Agreste, Leo Fitz, and Steve Harrington a pass. And I get it, they are likable characters! They have complex reasons, and tragic pasts, and weren't ever actively trying to be bad people. Many of them are genuinely good people. Their mistakes are treated with compassion and understanding by their fandoms.
Their friends or significant-others’ traumas, however, are frequently not. Vi, Adora, Kara Danvers, Marinette Dupain-Cheng, Daisy Johnson, and Nancy Wheeler are examples of group ones' counterparts. These are characters that respond to trauma in a different way from the first group. Theirs is less immediately obvious, as they don't lash out the same way.
They tend to repress and avoid. They react to hurt by trying to help. These are masks that many people overlook. The second group are the kind that like to take responsibility onto themselves unnecessarily. They all deal with survivors' guilt, or something of the sort. They are hard on themselves, rather than others. This does not mean that they are correct in that blame. They don't look as obviously in pain or in need of help, and so people take them at face value. This creates a different perspective when they do lash out, or when they do make mistakes. Suddenly, there isn't any of the compassionate understanding given to others. They should have been on top of things, should have understood what others were feeling, and how it hurt them. Because they had been shown to make an effort to understand before.
And THAT'S DUMB.
Believe me when I say that that is an extraordinarily harmful way to approach people like that! Just because they hold themselves up to an extremely high standard, doesn’t mean others should too! The second group needs just as much help as the first, and be given equal levels of leniency and compassion. Because of their outward appearances though, people don’t realize that. Fandom’s don’t find that as appealing, because they still take these characters at face value, even though they are shown more of what’s going on under the surface than anyone in the character’s world.
And that leads to the second point, that people like to shift blame and responsibility off of the first group and onto the second. People project onto characters, it’s just a part of fandom. What ends up happening though, is that creates a desire to remove the responsibility/blame from their chosen character, and place it onto someone else.
There’s a difference between understanding and feeling empathy for someone, and removing responsibility. Removing responsibility means the responsibility must be put on someone else, because it can’t be removed entirely from the equation. Someone needs to come down, to prop the first one up, in situations where character one either hurts the other, or shares the blame with them. Doing this does two things, which are harmful to both characters. It infantilizes character one, as suddenly they aren’t capable of truly making their own choices. Two, it warps the view of character two. It villianizes them for things outside of their control. It becomes more than just preferring one character over another. I don’t know how else to say it other than, That’s Bad.
It also ruins fandom content for people who like character two. They don’t have to be the center of everything, but no one likes reading a fic only to realize that character two is being treated with hate by the author.
It doesn’t have to be either or! People can have compassion and empathy for multiple characters in a conflict! Heck, there are plenty of examples where people on both sides are both right and wrong. I don’t know where I’m going with this, and I’m not hating on people who love those characters, but gosh darn it, is there anyone else who understands?? I am so sick and tired of having to avoid large swaths of fan content because they are so populated with dislike for the types of characters I relate to or love.
115 notes
·
View notes
On another note, I spent the entire day to finally start working on the Edwina/Siena fanfic I've been wanting to write for an eternity now - I've already written almost 10k words and I'm having so much fun with this.
This was such a random idea I had a couple months ago and I've never thought of them as a ship before that, but they honestly fit so well together.
I've been a bit indecisive about whether Edwina will be a lesbian in this fic or not. I want the story to be "canon-compliant" with the first 2 seasons and it definitely seemed like she was attracted to Anthony...
I never hc Edwina as gay before, but I really adore lesbian!edwina tbh - and I think it's only been that scene at the lake where Edwina showed actual attraction towards Anthony? I feel like that could easily also be mere curiousity ...
Anyways, it's not like I would let 3 seconds of canon to stop me from making Edwina a lesbian lmao
14 notes
·
View notes
I wonder what the hell the Non-Clique students thought of the riot that went on during Final Mayhem.
Like, I don't even think Gary tried to even bother with them for his "plan" to take over the school so in the POV of the Non-Cliques, it just looks like all the cliques (Aside from the Preps who just stayed at Harrington House to watch shit go down.) that have been bugging the shit out of you for the entire school year just decided to beat each other up and wreck the school to shit.
Then there's the bullies (Without Russell) who get beat up by Edgar in the main school building like... why did they even get involved? They have 100% respect for Jimmy? Were they just hiding in the school? How come Russell wasn't mad about it? Did Gary manipulate them too? What did he even have on them lmao.
Not even mentioning the ending that's so weird that it resulted in the community coming up with a theory where Endless Summer is actually just Jimmy in Purgatory because he and Gary fucking died after falling off the school's roof.
15 notes
·
View notes