#also im gay

[lewmagoo]

if one more person tells me “you’re going to make some man very happy one day!” i will actually get violent

#it goes like this #i say that i cook and then whoever i’m talking to automatically equates that with being a wife #I CAN COOK FOR JUST MYSELF THANKS #WHO SAYS IM DOING IT FOR A MAN #ALSO IM GAY

[z0mbclit]

Guys im in middle of nyawhere

HOW EDD SEES HIS BF VS HOW HE ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE.

#eddsworld #digital art #ew art #:3 #insane #eddsworld tord #ew doodles #GUYS THIS NEW BRUSH IS COOL TBH #also im gay #for him

[tired-hellowl]

Would love for people to try to get on me for using the 'f-slur' when bbrandon and viv has stated far worse and have also said the slur so what's the big deal?

The show claims the r-slur and I wouldn't be surprised if they weaponized any other form of hate speech and misuse of AAVE/actual historical slurs written by white people on the show. The hypocrisy over standing on soap boxes whenever you want to is very apparent in this fandom.

Don't dish out what you can't take?

#helluva boss critical #also im gay #not on hormones yet but i am binding and have more place actually being in the lgbtq space writing lgbtq disabled characters :/

[fiiidget]

My new thing is painting minis, thank you to my partner for getting me started and providing the supplies bc he knew I would love it. Anyways here are some if my guys. The birdman is named Tofu, but open to ideas for names for the beasties.

More in progress, and more on the way! Yay! Love a new hobby 😻🥰

#miniatures #dnd #minifigs #painting #miniature painting #lil guys #tofu the birdman #autistic #hyperfixation #hyperfocus #fantasy #adhd #audhd #also im gay #but thats not like the point here #but anyways #hi gays

[gaynudibranch]

On God get out the horror film has the most sain and cutest straight couple ever.

#get out #horror film #straight couple #im only half way through #but #cute couple #also im gay

[raisinushigher]

im calling it now, next weeks excuse for abe to be shirtless is hes gonna be too hot in the desert

#its like a little tradition im loving it #also im gay #clone high #clone high abe #mine

[mister13eyond]

that gender post has me wanting to put Gender Shit into words and like man

from Outside i suppose I'd probably be labeled 'nonbinary' since i present in a way that doesn't adhere to gender norms for men and my presentation is androgynous at best

but imo my personal view is like. the gender binary is fake and made up, it's a set of social rules enforced by societal norms, and opting not to comply with it doesn't necessarily change my internal view of my own gender

i'm a guy, that feels easy and uncomplicated. i like he/him pronouns, my medical transition has focused on masculinizing my body via T and top, my everyday interactions with family, friends, partners and coworkers all place me squarely in the realm of 'guy', i don't necessarily think my relationship to my identity is at all complicated or outside the binary. i like being a dude!

it's just, like. why would i ever BOTHER adhering to the social standards or norms for what men are supposed to look or dress like? i'm never going to be a Masculine Ideal- no amount of medical transition can make me taller than 5'0" or make my generally soft features somehow more acceptably masculine. I also no longer give a shit about 'passing' as this is just... not something i care to do and would require caring more about Outside standards than my own perception and comfort

Once i got to a point where I was at ease and completely present in my own body because it met my mental ideal, I just stopped overcompensating with more masculine clothes/leaving my face scruffy/affecting masculine mannerisms, i just like. don't care. i hit 'right' and everything else is My City and I am simply not interested in the standards for what men are supposed to look like or dress like. if we say a cis man can be effeminate and gender non conforming while still id'ing as cis, why do i have to be classed any differently for opting not to bother with social norms?

tl;dr: it's not that i'm NOT nonbinary, it's just that I simply think gender is ALL made up so my dressing and behaving in a certain way doesn't mean I Have To be outside the binary; i feel like a guy, the rest is all just fun and games

#personal #gender #gender thoughts #this is not to say that someone else that feels the exact same way i do is NOT nonbinary #in fact i'm rather affirming the idea that your label is your choice and your personal decision rather than a set of standards or rules #if you feel like you're nonbinary you are no further questions #if you feel like nonbinary is an additive label or one part of a more descriptive set of labels that's real too #your identity is whatever feels right #mine feels like 'dude' is easy and requires no further explanation #even if i completely eschew rules about what clothes are masculine quote unquote and which are supposedly feminine #i just figure it's opt-in not opt-out #anyways thanks for coming to my ted talk #lately ive been thinking about it a lot because i think it's probably giving people outside my circle pause #and i feel like people will think i have somehow Changed identity or Detransitioned in some way because of my presentation #but nah #same guy #same dude just now i figure fashion is my playground and i'm having a great time #also im gay #that is a big part of it #why would i act like a straight man. i like men. #why would i want to adhere to the idea of what masculinity is when i feel most at home adopting a label that #embraces gender nonconformity historically

[actual-biscuit]

thai restaurants are really the best because tell me why i just had peanut ice cream with dried chicken skin

#it was lowkey highkey so good #10/10 would recommend if you happen to have this weird combo of food in your fridge #no rly tri it #anyway we stan thai #mmmm thai #also im gay #also hi i’m back #but also #lesbian #ace #lgbtqiia+ #lgbtq #we stan gays

[yellowstrawberryshortie]

#jafariscute #disney jafar #jafar #jafar aladdin #sketch #i have a lot of drawings #sorry for the bad quality #im on the phone #also im gay

[riddledem0n]

I'm so done for guys, I'm showing signs of being vecnad soon

#meaning ive been having constant migraines and headaches #reaccuring nightmares #going to 💕therapy💕 #also im gay #so that checks all off #anyway im joking but man #those “im being upducted by russians” nightmares r starting to concern me! #kin stuff #kinsta #kin #fictionkin #otherkin #stranger things #delusional attachment #bpd #bpd vent

[sovietyaoi]

he's literally me, expect im not a 13th century templar knight but a 16 years old catholic school girl, it's almost the same thing tho

#hes literally me cuz im also in love with ferid #not to gatekeep but real crowley kinnies go do catholic school #also im gay #crowley eusford #ferid bathory #crowferi #owari no seraph #seraph of the end #owari no gay

[drsunshine-nophd]

i can go on a 3 hour rant explaining how Caroline/GLADoS isn't chells mom and that they're technically written as girlfriends in canon

BUT

I cannot tell you what 3×8 is. Give me a calculator.

#im dumb #cannot do math #also im gay #chelldos #theyre gay and in love

[dinnerboness]

wobbler

#wobbledogs #randy #randy wobbledogs #I FUCKING LOVE HAVING INTERESTS NO ONE ELSE CARES ABOUT #also im gay #the scrunkly #scrimblo #scrungly #sill art

[flyingwithwaxwings]

I feel like people don't often think/notice how much fanfiction/fandom content/romance/writing content is all geared at women or otherwise feminine people. Like this isn't a complaint or some "men are oppressed" bullshit, this is just my observation about how little content there is speaking towards the male audience of fandoms and writing. Even a lot of gn!reader fic I read still subconsciously reads female reader to me, like the reader always being smaller then the S/O, adjectives like "beautiful/gorgeous/etc," long hair, etc etc. I just see so much content 24/7 that assumes I'm a woman and I don't really have much of a comment on this tbh, I just find it interesting to observe. Especially in BL/mlm shipping scenarios where it's assumed I (as the reader/viewer) am a woman. {I won't get into all that right now} It's like even in situations where I am trying to view relatable content I'm still viewing from a different lens. I think it's important for me to experience this and find this as my own call to provide the content I want to see, especially on this site, but it's still unique to me and I wonder do others notice. Am I the only one? Why aren't there more male fanfic writers? (Or are there male fanfic writers that we just don't see as much of or, like myself, we feel pressured to make more gn!reader content to appeal to a perceived predominantly female audience?)

#writing #this is not BY ANY MEANS anti woman or complaining #i very much enjoy a lot of the writing content on this app #even if it assumes im petite or a bottom #of which i am not #but having to put everything into a filter to enjoy it makes me wonder if this is what its like for poc audiences #this isnt complaing btw #this is observing #male #male fanfic #male fanfic authors #fanfic #fanfiction #ao3 #wattpad #male authors #male writers #why doesnt anyone say male writers #where are the men #also im gay #if you couldnt tell

[oakensleaf]

Sometimes when I hate my body I remember

I would have been considered attractive in the middle ages. I could have been a peasant and some rich lord would have picked me up and been like "oh you are so pale you must be so European I want to marry you and pass on my very European blood ahahahahahah Jesus loves England"

Little do they know

I'm a bit silly I might I dunno murder him because it's medieval England and there is no mental health care

#also im gay #and Ashkenaki jew #oops <3

[eva-420]

i sit with my feet up on my chair because of ancestral memories of slav squatting 

#also im gay