#as sex repulsed asexual

[hybrix-hidings]

Honestly everyone give it up for repulsed aces/aros. Yall get so much shit for having boundaries and its frustrating to watch. You're all getting sent complimentary gift baskets

#aromantic #asexual #aspec #romance repulsed #sex repulsed #I was very briefly romance repulsed due to An Incident and like #every time i tried being like 'hey theres a PDA channel can you use that for this' to my friends with partners theyd throw a shit fit #anyway what im trying to say is that yall are strong as fuck and deserve to have boundaries respected.

[fun-k-boards]

If I ever make a book it's going to be so painfully aromantic and asexual that any allos reading will die from a heart attack because of the lack of romance and sex

#aromantism #aromantic #aro #asexuality #asexual #ace #aroace #acearo #sex repulsed #romance repulsed

[wastraffamser]

I am so deeply tired of being infantilised for being asexual. I am not a child with no understand of what sex is. I don't stick my tongue out and go "yuckie!!" Like a toddler at the thought of it. is some basic respect too much to ask for

#“you're so innocent😁” how about i beat you with a hammer see who court declares innocent then #asexual #sex repulsed #acespec #ace pride

[redysetdare]

Hey... Hey if you say you support aspec people that means you also need to respect repulsed aspecs. Non-partnering aspecs. Loveless aspecs. Platonic aspecs. Other a-attraction aspecs. Old aspecs. Young aspecs. Aspecs who use labels you don't understand. Non-sam aspecs. Traumatized aspecs. Dysphoric aspecs.

You cannot only support part of the community. It's either all of us or none of us. You can't play favorites because one kind of aspec makes you feel more comfortable than others.

#text #aspec #aro #ace #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aplatonic #repulsed #sex repulsed #romance repulsed #non-partnering #non partnering #nonamorous #nonpartnering

[selfidentifiednerdyprude]

When I first heard the word asexual over a decade ago, as a teenager dealing with the twin manifestations of compulsory sexuality that are purity culture and hookup culture, it was a weight off of my back. It was a light in the darkness that said you do not ever have to compromise on this boundary. Not now, not later, not ever. You can live a life where your body only belongs to you and no one else can tell you what to do with it.

This is the most important thing we can fight for, in my opinion. A world where everyone can do whatever they want with their own bodies forever— including never have sex.

There is no sexual freedom without indefinite refusal. Those who choose indefinite refusal are not your enemy. You only stand to gain from recognizing and fighting for us.

#asexuality #sex averse #sex repulsed #indefinite refusal #compulsory sexuality

[agendercryptidlev]

People treat characters being AroAce like they're being forced to eat vegetables despite the fact that a character being aspec instantly makes them 300% more cool and interesting.

#Aromantic #Asexual #Aroace #I'm sorry but romance and sex repulsed AroAce is the coolest thing a character can be #Aspec #Aspectrum #asexual spectrum #aromantic spectrum

[oroniusn]

“you know I expect to be a grandmother! You had better settle down and-”

PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB PIPEBOMB

#aroace #aromance #aro #aromantic #aromanticism #aromantic spectrum #aromantic asexual #aspec #asexual #ace spec #ace #asexuel #acespec #sex repulsed #sex indifferent #romance repulsed

[thecommunalfoolboy]

Why can’t we have a campy musical about an aroace person figuring out what they are, complete with a running gag where they constantly almost throw up when sex is mentioned

#aroace #aro #ace #aro memes #aromanitc #asexual #asexual memes #musicals #theatre #sex repulsed

[arofulboyfriend]

for the millionth time, sex repulsion (aversion) is the PERSONAL feeling of ick when discussing, seeing, or thinking about sex

sex negativity is shaming OTHER people for their sex lives, kinks, and/or sexual history

stop saying sex repulsion/aversion when you mean sex negative and stop saying sex negative when you mean repulsion/aversion! thanks!!

#asexual #actually asexual #acespec #sex repulsed #sex repulsion #sex averse #sex aversion #actually ace #sex negativity #seren yaps #saw a blog that was like “sex repulsed people can interact but ur on thin fucking ice” like hello??? #sex averse/repulsed ppl wouldnt interact with ur blog anyway weirdo

[bloodyraremedium]

#“but aroace people can still have sex/date!” #idk about the dating part but he's sex-repulsed #asexual #aromantic #aroace #hazbin alastor #hazbin hotel #check my comment \/ for more #ok i'm pretty sure he only canonically ace but still it's rlly weird you guys #just let a man be aroace by god

[bloggingboutburgers]

Part of being a sex-repulsed asexual is having to accept that some prides just won’t be you-friendly – and for understandable reasons, too, it’s full of sexualities that are repressed by society and not allowed to shine otherwise most times, so it’s only fair they would get to.

With that said, finding a pride that I felt safe in, included in, and inspired by as a sex-repulsed asexual is an incredibly precious feeling and shows how far the LGBTQIA+ fight has marched on. It gives me a lot of hope.

Anyway no matter what the atmosphere in the pride(s) you attend this year, for those of y’all who do, I hope you have fantastic ones^^

(PS: Before anyone tells me I’m exaggerating, those WERE things I actually saw and heard in the Paris Pride 2021 (take my word for it or don’t, it’s your dime). Haven’t attended that one since though, so that might’ve changed... Or might have not, it works out either way tbh)

#no one can know i don't like sex #asexual #sex repulsed #pride month #pride #my art #nonburger

[archivomeow]

can we just all collectively agree that it is okay for aroace characters not to date or have sex if they clearly show no interest in it or repulsion?

can we respect that and not ship them?

or are yall too deep into amatonormativity…???

#this is so targeted #yelena belova in specific since the fandom cannot let her go just cause shes attractive like get a life #fuck amatonormativity #fuck aphobia #fuck aphobes #aspec #arospec #acespec #asexuality #aromanticism #asexual #ace #aromantic #aro #aroace #aro pride #ace pride #non partnering aro #sex repulsed #romance repulsed

[immortalthings]

When ur on the asexual spectrum and you want to read fanfiction with fluff but have to scroll past the smut

#drarry #fandom #fanfic #fanfiction #ao3 fanfic #ao3fic #asexual #aspec #acespec #lgbtq #drarry fanfic #sex repulsed #my posts

[redysetdare]

Accept and support repulsed people or die by my blade

#text #aspec #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aplatonic #aroace #sex repulsed #romance repulsed #platorepulsed #touch repulsed #any other a-attractions and repulsed ppl are included too #i just don't know them all im sorry

[bored-boring-and-tired]

me currently:

“i want people to have crushes on me so badly because i thrive on external validation and im super insecure so i really really want people to have crushes on me”

also me, being aroace and sex/romance-repulsed (if someone has a crush on me):

“pleasepleasepleaseplease nobody have a crush on me and ESPECIALLY DONT TELL ME because then i have to reject you and i hate rejecting people and then i’ll probably have to come out to avoid hurting anyone because i overthink everything ahahahha”

#i hope someone finds this relatable (aka hopefully it isnt just me but i also hope other people don’t have to go through internal conflict) #because this is me all the time #aroace #asexual #aromantic #aro #ace #aromantic asexual #asexual aromantic #aromanticism #asexuality #crushes #romance repulsed #sex repulsed #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqplus #lgbtqia+ #rare times when astra actually tags things?? whaaaaat?? 😦

[daybringersol]

as someone in the aro community (and i think this is also applicable to the ace community, which is why y’all are included), i think there is something to be said about people trying to find a moral explanation to their repulsion. in a some situations, it is helpful and there is a conversation to be had about it but in a lot of others, it’s just recycled purity culture, i’m going to be honest.

before you send a post about how you think it’s actually exhibitionist to kiss in public, or predatory to talk about people you want to sexually pursue with your friends, please ask yourself first if there is genuinely something wrong morally going on there, or if it’s just something that grosses you out. it’s completely okay if it’s something that grosses you out. you don’t need to make up a moral reason behind it. you can just say ‘it grosses me out’ and find a way to remove yourself from that situation, for exemple, by looking away, or asking your friends to not talk about those topics around you (if they refuse, that’s another problem entirely and you should get better friends).

it is as unhealthy for allo people to repress their romantic and/or sexual attraction than it is for us to repress our aromanticism and/or asexuality. this isn’t like an theoretical extrapolation, this is a proven phenomenon, we’ve seen it with the catholic church. i understand and empathize with the fact that it feels like all of this is forced upon us, because it is, but there is a difference between someone telling us ‘i like this’ and someone telling us ‘you’re weird/broken if you don’t like this’.

anyways, sorry for the rant, i keep seeing posts in the aro and/or ace tags that try to justify their repulsion with morality, and i don’t want to single out anyone so i thought i’d make this post. there is no issue with posting about repulsion itself, for the record, it’s the moral justification that i think is unhelpful.

you don’t need any justification for your repulsion, you can just be repulsed. that’s fine.

#aromantic spectrum #aromanitc #aromance #aro pride #aromaticism #aroace #acespec #ace pride #aceallo #aroallo #alloaro #alloace #asexuality #asexual spectrum #asexual #aromantic #romance repulsed #sex repulsed