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couplecorner · 2 months
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Find your dream 3rd or couple tonight. Indulge your imagination, connect with fellow members, and take your passion to the next level. You deserve people who embrace your gender, your appearance, and turn-ons. We're here for you.
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pleasuremehere · 1 month
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If you have chosen to date just for dating’s sake, remember that and just have fun.
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For the moments that you are down about how a dinner date with someone has not gone right, focus on making things fun again in the future. Having fun should be light-hearted and not cause you any pain or upset. When dating someone does cause you to hurt, you may need to think about ways that you can have more fun in the future so that it doesn’t happen again. Millennials have age on their side, so don’t put any pressure on yourself to do anything other than have fun with someone.
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multifandominfj · 6 months
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Can I be honest about something? One of my best friends told me she just got engaged a couple of days ago, and my heart just sank. Don’t get me wrong, I’m BEYOND happy for her. But every single person around me is either in: a relationship, engaged, married, etc…and I’m just *here*. I’m starting to think that: 1. My person doesn’t exist. 2. I’m unlovable. 3. I’m always someone’s last choice because I have the face of a horse look like a sack of potatoes. 4. Now matter how much I think I’m a catch…guys and girls don’t seem to notice. 💔😞
It doesn’t help I’m also extremely jaded about love either/been called the absolute WORST by guys either.
I’ve been used to make another girl jealous, dumped right before junior prom in high school, lead on only to be told he had a girlfriend, and dumped after a few weeks. On top of that I’ve been told “you’re not my type” and “your face looks like shit”. Who’s to say women won’t do the same, when I prefer women. 💔😭
I just want to know what love feels like, and want to loved by someone who loves me for ME.
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bisexualfantasy · 1 year
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No one can refuse love 
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If you’re inexperienced in bisexual dating, finding someone to talk to about it can be tricky at first. Just because you like both guys and girls doesn’t mean that you’re someone who should hide who they are. However, letting potential dates know that you’re bisexual and that you’re attracted to both genders is a good idea for fair play’s sake.
Whether you’re just now delving into bisexual dating or have already hooked up with people in the past, here’s what you can do to make your future dates more enjoyable.
1. Don’t Compromise your Standards
Just because you are bisexual doesn’t mean that your dating standards should be lower than anyone else’s. You deserve just as much love, understanding, and acceptance as straight or openly LGBTQ+ people looking for dates. To that end, don’t accept any potential date coming your way because you simply want to be with someone.
Try to learn more about the person you’re considering as a potential date before you go any further. You don’t want your feelings hurt and you don’t want to give them wrong ideas about whether you’re straight, bi, or gay. Be open about who you are and what kind of a relationship you’re looking for and you’ll be pleasantly surprised as to how many people will return the favor with equal openness.
2. Look for Other Bi People
A good way to eliminate any potential confusion or awkward situations happening is to simply look for other bi people to date. People with the same sexual orientation as you will be more open to meeting up with you and considering a romantic relationship. Keep in mind that the definition of being bisexual has somewhat shifted over the years since the advent of new gender identities in recent years.
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As you look for potential dates, you may come across people who identify as something other than a male or a female – and that’s okay! They still might be bi but consider the word “bi” as something more than just being attracted to two genders. The gist of it is that you should talk openly to anyone who you might go on a date with so that no uncomfortable subjects come up over coffee.
3. Give Online Dating a Shot
Online dating can be a great way for you to meet potential love interests without going out of your way to meet people in real life yet. It can also be an amazing way for you to meet bisexual people from around the world, chat about your dating experiences, and maybe even arrange real-life meetings.
Using Taimi as your dating app of choice is a good idea because the platform is built with users’ safety and wellbeing in mind. Taimi for bisexuals offers a wide range of features usually found only on social media platforms, allowing you to express yourself as a bisexual guy or a girl without any backlash or prejudices. This will not only help put your name out there as someone looking for a date, but it’ll also help your self-esteem and confidence because yes, there is plenty of fish in the proverbial bisexual sea. All you need to do is check out Taimi to find them!
4. Differentiate Polyamorous and Bisexual Dating
The most important thing you should clear up from day one, with yourself and with anyone you might date, is what bisexual dating means. Bisexual dating doesn’t mean dating several partners at once, especially with those partners not knowing about one another. Open relationships with several partners participating in the relationship are called polyamory.
You should make it clear to the person you’re chatting with or considering going on a date with that you’re interested in bisexual dating, not polyamory. If you are indeed interested in polyamory or an open relationship, make that fact clear as well. You don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings just as you don’t want your feelings to be hurt by someone who “misunderstood” what kind of a relationship you’re in. This will help you avoid unnecessary heartache and make it much easier for you to find a suitable bisexual dating partner.
5. Practice Safe Sex Precautions
Once you start dating someone, you’ll inevitably arrive at your first sexual experience. Whether you’re bisexual, gay, straight, or anywhere on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, make sure that you’re always safe about how you approach sex. Even if you’ve dated someone for 6 months before considering sex, you still don’t know much about them, especially from a health perspective. Here are a few tips which will help you avoid unnecessary problems:
Talk about your past sexual experiences with one another
Always use a condom in case of vaginal penetration
Take a shower and brush your teeth before the encounter
Settle on a safe word before you engage in sex
Use sanitized, clean sex toys regardless of your genders
As you can see, these tips are very much common-sense when you start having sex with someone you’ve just started dating. However, they’re very important for both of your long-term health because you can never really know what the other person is doing in their spare time.
Moreover, your bisexual dating partner will appreciate the fact that you’re being safe about sex, which will give you extra points in their eyes. Alternatively, if they consider these tips rude or unnecessary, it’ll be a good indication for you to reconsider whether you’d be comfortable trusting them with your body in a more intimate sense.
Giving Bisexual Dating a Shot
You’ll never know who you might meet if you don’t give bisexual dating a fair shot. While you may feel anxious or shy about being openly bisexual right now, once you meet the person who’ll accept you for who you are, that’ll all change for the better.
Keep these tips in mind when you start dating, be open and accepting of the person you meet, and the rest will be history. Once you’re in a happy relationship with someone, you won’t even have to think about the word “bisexual” anymore – you’ll just be yourselves with one another and that’ll be enough.
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couplecorner · 3 months
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Are you into 3rd woman for you?
Couple looking for a third dating
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pleasuremehere · 1 month
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Make Technology Work For You While Dating
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The technology available to millennials is so much greater than anyone has had at their disposal before them. Try, therefore, to make it work for you as much as you can. This also means having a digital detox at times that you think your use of your phone or online technology is getting too dependent and therefore unhealthy. Use the technology available to you to such a degree that it enhances your life and dating - but does not rule what you do. Again, this will be down to your confidence and being comfortable with your own skin.
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multifandominfj · 5 months
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How is everyone I’m following who I’ve befriended, found their forever partner online? Like, am I doing something wrong? Am I just THAT unlucky when it comes to love?
I already feel unlovable as is, I’m just wondering…is it me? I know I’m a damn catch. I’m me. But no matter how ME I am…I’m never enough. I’m never the first choice. 😞💔 I’m always passed over for someone who looks like an actual model.
It’s why I am so jaded when it comes to love and why I’m so fucking skeptical that “my person” actually exists….I’ve never experienced it in the first place.
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weepwiththewillow · 11 months
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Using dating apps as a bisexual woman is awful. People either only want to use me as a third in their straight relationship or as a hook up. The hidden third option is friendzone. Why is it so hard just to find girls who will actually just wanna date me and not just use my body? I only ever find straight guys who want to date but girls are harder to find.
It's exhausting.
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josapinapetillon · 1 year
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I don't understand people, I really don't.
We were sort of friend in school, but lost touch after we left school. 10 years later match on Tinder. Flirting ensues. I try to set up a date but it doesn't happen, you get together with someone and completely cut all ties with me after I see a slew of sickly sweet asinine social media posts about the relationship. Fast forward a couple years and you're back on dating apps and we're back in touch on Snapchat. You repeatedly send me flirting messages and tell me you want to sleep with me. I sent a few boobie snaps and you lamented not being able to touch me at that moment. We haven't physically seen each other since school, but when I set up a chance to meet up you stand me up - 4 times in a row, including just after my Nan died and I said I could do with a hug. And now, literally a week after you asked me what my favourite sex position is, you're telling me you've got a date with someone.
Am I just really unbelievably fucking stupid? Yes.
Are you an asshole? Yes.
Am I still weirdly attracted to you and still want to do the dirty? Yes.
Am I fully expecting you to ghost me again now you're dating again and weirdly hurt by that? Yes.
Fuck my life and my emotions and I just don't want it anymore, when can I stop being upset by the crushing loneliness and just be content with forever alone?
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bisexualfantasy · 1 year
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Do you like being in charge or taking the backseat in the bedroom?
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graveyardpiss · 22 days
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Bisexual women of tumblr, what puts you off from dating men ? Do you think your reasons are justifiable ?
I used to think i liked men as equally as women but my dating history has put men into a new perspective for me. Ive only dated toxic, abusive, manipulative men as i get older they keep getting even worse. Im the type that ignores obvious red flags because i try way to much to give men the benefit of doubt. Ive really tried self reflecting and this is the decision ive come to
Men Pros :
Men with big bellies are the cutest
Trans men
Men Cons :
Pregnancy risk
Misogynistic
Manipulative
Think penis not brain
Dont understand female emotions
Difficulty in understanding female anatomy & sexuality
Muscles are gross
Beards are gross
Country boys bad hygiene
Men make me feel insecure 'im not good enough' 'im too fat' 'other girls are so much prettier why choose me'
Cant get off on penetrative sex
Patriarchy
My mother says i need to be less judgemental when it comes to dating, that ' the right man is out there for me' and 'its not fair to stop dating all men because of my assumptions'
As of this year i was s/a from a guy who ghosted me after our first date, and as of this month i had to end a relationship with another guy who threatened to unalive himself if i left him.
Before that ive had four irl relationships and five internet relationships, one of the later i found out was into suspiciously younger women (he dated girls between the ages of 16 and 21)
All of my internet relationship have over crossed my comfort boundaries, tired to manipulate and gaslight me
Three of the four irl relationship was with men who i found out later bullied me behind my back and used me for money and sex, one of them pressured me into pity dating him
On one hand i think my reasons are justified for not wanting to date men anymore, the other i feel almost guilty. I really really want to be with a women and i really want to get married someday with a wife.
Im soooo tired of being told ill change my mind one day, i that i should 'pick a side'
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couplecorner · 3 months
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Are you up for a romantic adventure? I'm ready..
woman looking for a couple
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meetbi · 8 months
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What are your experiences in a polyamorous triad relationship?
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Our experience was truly remarkable. For a period of 30 years within my 47-year marriage, my wife, our girlfriend, and I formed a loving polyamorous triad. It may sound unbelievable, but we genuinely cannot recall ever having an argument. The key to our success lay in the fact that my wife and I had been friends with our girlfriend since our early teenage years, even though I hadn't met my future wife during that time. By the time my wife and I got married, our girlfriend had become an integral part of our lives. We had spent countless hours together, supporting and assisting one another. Unbeknownst to us, our girlfriend identified as bisexual, and my wife had long fantasized about being intimate with women. In a surprising turn of events, my wife offered herself to our girlfriend after her divorce, with the intention of fulfilling both their desires. I suspect my wife had planned for me to join them from the start, as she wanted to explore her attraction to women without my objection. In any case, it was an amazing experience, and we continued to engage in threesomes. Our girlfriend had her own room in our house, which she could use as her own space, and that became our way of life. Seven years into our triad, our girlfriend decided to marry someone else for financial security, as not having spousal rights in old age can be challenging. She specifically sought out a partner who was comfortable with her splitting her time between him and us. We were informed they had an agreement, and we respected her desire to keep her two relationships separate. Interestingly, we did socialize with her husband on several occasions, and he always acted as if everything was normal. It was a bit peculiar but it worked for us. We lived a fulfilling and joyful life together. Each of us fulfilled needs for the other two that couldn't be met within the traditional confines of a monogamous marriage. We were a perfect complement to one another, always prioritizing and respecting the primary relationship of each couple. We had no strict rules about who could be intimate with whom, but in practice, we usually engaged in threesomes as our regular sexual dynamic, followed by one-on-one encounters if anyone desired more intimate time with another partner. We never had to discuss rules because we naturally prioritized consideration and respect for each other. It simply felt ordinary to us, and no one outside our quartet knew about our triad. No one questioned why my wife's best friend spent a lot of time with us, accompanied us on vacations, or attended family functions with us. The women in our triad believed that only those who needed to know should be informed about our relationship dynamic or their bisexuality. They didn't seek approval from family or friends to be true to themselves. Interestingly, it seemed that a wedding ring concealed any suspicions, as no one questioned the closeness of our relationships. We lived our lives authentically while others remained oblivious to our arrangement. For me, it was a dream come true. I never imagined I would experience the love of two women and share such intimate moments with them. Yet, I refrained from boasting or sharing my experiences when other men wished they could have even a single threesome. I had them regularly, but I kept it to myself and simply smiled.
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biracy · 1 year
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Sick of people treating any sort of overlap between lesbian and bi women's communities as a thing of the past. If you are a bi woman who dates women you are going to end up in "lesbian spaces", "lesbian culture" is often going to be your culture, and "lesbian issues" are often going to be your issues. Bi women should not be expected to just like. shut up and let the REAL Sapphics(tm) take the reins in every single conversation ever, especially not in conversations where a bi woman's perspective is noticeably lacking. Despite it all this is still My Community and thus I am going to be affected by its issues. Lol
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faineant-girl · 5 months
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ohhhh bisexual man save me........ bisexual man............
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