#cis-ally

[lesbx]

#STOP CALLING ME CIS OR AN ALLY STOPPPP #this post is on time out

[communistkenobi]

really do not like the way parents articulate all sympathy for suffering children as them imagining how they would feel if their own children suffered. like they literally cannot imagine children as full human beings, only proxies for their own emotional state

#I hear this constantly from like older cis ally types. insufferable people

[sluttycinderella]

ally beardsley has 3 jokes:

1. funny drink (kombucha, cortado, white claw, etc)

2. something transgender

3. joe biden

and i laugh every time

#ally beardsley #dimension 20 #d20 #college humor #dropout #dropout tv #game changer #level 20 cis-her-galla-them #lee says things

[mistergreatbones]

“Weird top surgery scars you got there”

“Oh actually that’s from the time my bestie got so horny he tried to kill me :)”

#leo says shit #star trek tos #jim kirk #spock #pon farr #james t kirk #spirk #if you want it to be #whether he's a cis man and an ally or if he's trans and got keyhole surgery in this post is up to you to decide

[sciderman]

Sci in the short time Uncle Ben was around -- or even if he'd lived longer -- would he have known that Peter is Spiderman?

this is such a delight of a question! what a delightful little thought experiment. thinking about a scenario where uncle ben was still around when aunt may finds out peter is spider-man – when she finds peter's tights, when he was seventeen.

i think there's no way at all that aunt may wouldn't have told uncle ben. she definitely would have told him. i don't think uncle ben would've been observant enough to figure it out by himself, but – aunt may, she's smart. she figures it out.

may and ben have such entirely different ways of handling peter

[x]

ben's old-fashioned, a bit square (like peter), and not very well-informed. he worries a lot about peter. worries about him getting into trouble. sees his unusual behaviour, and meets it with soft concern. he doesn't understand it all, he doesn't understand the youth. but he has a desire to embrace peter and attempt to understand him. he worries about him a lot.

may - may's always been the cool parent. she's encouraging, and very easy about this sort of thing. i think she has a lot of trust in peter. maybe more than she should. she is well-informed, and smart, and she recognises behaviours in peter and kind of feels like it's nothing to worry about. she knows peter's doing all the important exploration that he needs to do, and he'll do it at his own time. she thinks peter can handle it.

(of course peter could not handle it.)

i think that's why aunt may didn't confront peter about spider-man. i think she's of the feeling that peter would come out to her when he's ready to. but - she'd definitely tell ben. and if uncle ben knew - well, oh. he would be worried out of his mind.

god bless, it would come out of such a place of concern. and he'd talk to peter. in the most awkward way a father could give his son the talk.

#sci speaks #ask-spiderpool #peter parker #uncle ben #meta #uncle ben cares so much. he's old fashioned and you probably would need to Explain bisexuality to him but he's got the spirit. #he's the only heterosexual cis man in 9319. and he is a true ally. #i think aunt may taught him a lot but he's still got a lot of learning to do.

[willtheweirdrat]

Hey. Cis allies. Next time, instead of going on an hour-long argument with a stranger about trans rights, buy your trans friend lunch. Give them a compliment. Hug them. Hang out together. Have fun.

Trust me, trans people benefit far more from a kind gesture towards them than seeing transphobia over and over, even if you're fighting against it.

#people have said this many times but i think the message stands #transgender #transmasc #trans rights #transgender rights #trans ally #allyship #ally #cis ally #transsexual #transexual #trans

[greelin]

i like when you’re one of the few (if only) trans people someone knows so they just tell you about transphobic shit they’ve seen/heard while being like Isn’t this shitty. like. well yes! But why are you sharing this with me.

#cis ally moment .

[teaboot]

😭 friend in the queer group came out as straight today and we had to reassure them that we still loved them 😭😭😭

#Fr though so much respect for people who try to figure themselves out and realize they really are cis allo and straight #Extremely powerful allies #Legit ILY

[uncanny-tranny]

There's a stereotype that trans people are so insecure in our genders that we require a ton of affirmation in who we are, but as I transition more and more, what I found is this:

While this is a stereotype, trans people aren't unique in this. Cis people also do the same, and many cis people do want affirmation in their genders by others, and by themselves. Us trans people are simply put under the spotlight for a variety of reasons, which means that our actions are under scrutiny. Cis people, you aren't immune from wanting to be affirmed for who you are, and it's not an indication that somebody isn't the gender they say they are because they want affirmation.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #ally advice #cis people are just as weird with gender as trans people can be and that's OK <3 #it's actually fucking GOOD #but cis people... it isn't a bad thing to WANT affirmation in the forst place #and trans people aren't inherently bad or faking or creepy for wanting affirmation <3

[metropolitianmania]

ngl some of you so called “allies” are not good at hiding your disdain for anyone inherently masculine in the LGBTQIA community

#transandrophobia #crazy how everyone is totally cool and supportive of the lgbtqia UNLESS men are in it #then woah. hold your horses. these men are abusive!!! #where the fuck did that shit come from #what is wrong with y’all #first aro/ace men? #now the transmascs? #Are you actual allies or are you just misandrists using your identities as shields #transmasc #transgender #sorry i don’t wear skirts and wear makeup often i didn’t do that when i thought i was cis either #sorry for not being a quirky white teen online #•dodgetalks

[khattikeri]

who is going to write the essay about hua cheng's love and devotion making his life and ghost city all the more bright and rich and colorful lucky red while he xuan's hatred and dedication to revenge leaves his life and black water demon lair all the more dark, empty, and unfulfilled, much like an empty stomach

#keri chats #tgcf #tian guan ci fu #hua cheng #he xuan #this is a v surface level comparison. both are obv similar (the degrees of their respective obsessions + violence etc.) #but i find them honestly fascinating allies/friends who are as similar as they are different #i really wanna reread the books just to look closer at their interactions gjkldsflk

[sanguinaryrot]

every time someone realizes they’re trans, an angel gets its wings

#trans stuff #someone came to me today to tell me their nephew came out to him #and asked me some questions on how to be a good ally #this has happened a couple times to me #and I love it. i love that I can help cis people make sure their trans family and friends have an easier time of coming out #come to me I have resources. I have books. I have stories. I will tell you all about it #gah!!! trans people of the world I love you. even if we’ve never met

[psychotrenny]

It does annoy me how a Cis person can gain all the accolades of "Allyship" by doing the bare fucking minimum, such a writing a transfem character as anything but a demonised caricature, while their supporters get violently defensive should you mention all the transphobic remarks they've made and all the transphobic people they've willingly gotten friendly with. Like I suppose you could have been a whole lot worse about it, but I begrudge the idea that I should wash your feet because you refrained from kicking my face

#of course you can replace “cis” and “trans” with the groups among any other axes of marginalisation #trans women are so very far from unique in this #but as a trans woman herself who started thinking about this due to a certain so called “trans ally” #it's what I want to blog about today #Stella Speaks

[meet-you-at-the-cemetery-gates]

With all the transandrophobic bullshit going on here on tumblr, I just want to say, trans men I love you. My brother is trans and he is the best. Y'all deserve love. I hope all this foolishness ends soon and people will actually listen to y'all.

#trans rights #transandrophobia #trans men #cis ally #I LOVE MY BROTHER #HE'S THE SHIT

[alexbutrandomthoughts]

Dang, Guoshi really gave Xie Lian the supportive and progressive parent talk huh. "It doesn't matter who you love as long as you're happy". I thought Jun Wu was the daddy, but Guoshi was the real father all along.

#heaven official's blessing #ti guan ci fu #tgcf #mxtx tgcf #tgcf spoilers #tgcf book 5 #xie lian #sang lang #hua cheng #jun wu #hualian #mei nianqing #update: NEVERMINDDDDDDDD bro is an ally but not if it's a ghost king i quess #update 2: LMOOOOOO HE KEEPS ACCIDENTALLY SHIT TALKING ABT HUA CHENG

[painting-follow-heavy-east]

#agere blog #星名美津紀 #jb #one direction #journalism #lgbtpride #houseplants #shang chi #ts4 lookbook #ally brooke #akatsuki no yona #original poem #tian guan ci fu #geography