#help i don’t think that’s healthy

[hllfireclb]

Am I the only one who just accepted her fate of stayingsingle forever because my standards and insecurities PLUS my love for fictional characters are way too high?😨

#help i don’t think that’s healthy #anyway keep loving Eddie Munson #Steve Harrington Babygirl

[sunnibits]

loving reminder as someone who struggles with food: you are allowed to add joy to your food. you are allowed to add a little joy even if it’s a tiny thing, something silly or something weird. you are allowed to do it whenever you want, as many times as you want. anything that makes food easier and more enjoyable for you is worth it!! it’s your food, you can decide what to do with it!! you can add rainbow sprinkles to your ice cream. you can cut your food into little heart shapes. you can pack your snacks into cute little bento boxes. it is not pointless or childish, it is an effective and active coping tool that you are allowed to use.

give yourself a little joy. the little things add up.

#even if it’s just a teeny tiny thing it’s sooo helpful to get just a little bit of excitement out of ur meal!! #you are allowed to do it!! if it’s ’pointless’ then what’s the point in denying yourself from it?? #I’m being so serious like. put stickers on your air fryer. put your meals into cute containers even if you don’t need them. #cut your food up into little cute pieces if you have the spoons for it. buy yourself Dino nuggies. #try to have at least one thing to look forward to in every meal even if it’s just a little piece of candy #just!! change things up!! be self indulgent!!! you are worth it and anything that helps you be healthy is worth it!!! #there are no rules!!!! you are allowed to be kind to yourself!! #anyways. don’t mind my rambling. I’m just trying to romanticize my own struggles rn #and it’s genuinely been very interesting to learn what helps and how my brain works!!! #idk I just think about it a lot. it means a lot to me rn. #also before anyone tells me I piss on the poor. obviously my experiences are not universal and will not apply to everyone #things that work for me might not work for you and that’s ok!! I wish you luck I love u!!! #tw ed #just a teensy implication #gem don’t look #arfid

[shorlinesorrows]

Percabeth after the first war, who haven’t really gotten to be teenagers, who feel both too old and too young for their skin. Who are so so glad that the war is over, but also feel surprisingly lost, because fighting the war has been their future, their purpose, their job for as long as they can really remember

Annabeth and Percy, who do what all adrift teens do when everything is overwhelming and painful and exciting and when it feels like you don’t have a purpose any more:

they make a bucket list.

it starts small. They go clothes shopping together, close enough to Sally’s house that they can get home quick if they need too. They start to develop their own senses of style. They go to a farmers market. They make graffiti at one point and nearly get caught but the entire time they’re giggling through their fingers.

then comes the hair.

it was just a random item on the bucket list: hair dye.

and they were going to get crazy colors, Percy was going to dye his bright teal blue, no hesitation. He was decided. But then they’re standing in the shopping aisle, looking at the colorful boxes, and Percy’s eyes catch on a model, and they have long dark hair that’s just the same shade as Annabeth’s.

and he scans the aisle, and there’s another one, a bright sandy gold, and he turns to Annabeth, who is debating between silver and purple with all the intensity of a teenage war veteran, and says “I have a stupid idea”

they grab a boxed bleach on their way out.

they dye their hair together, and it’s a mess and the dye gets everywhere and it’s not quite even and both of them get a little light headed from the fumes but it’s so much fun

and they refuse to let anyone in the bathroom until their hair is dyed, rinsed and blow dried even though it takes forever because bleaching is a much longer process

when they finally emerge, Sally gasps and then starts to laugh and then Paul joins in and then they’re all laughing.

Percy’s hair is black, Annabeth’s hair is blond.

They’ve switched hair colors. And it’s silly, but it’s also a constant reminder that they’re not alone.

It’s being able to wake up from a nightmare and seeing blond hair on your pillow instead of black and thinking “Percy”. It’s having a bad day where you can’t seem to keep your mind from slipping away from you, then seeing black hair in the corner of your vision and thinking “Annabeth”. It’s a tangible sign that they are connected, that they are alive, and that there is someone who understands. A physical reminder of love.

When their roots grow out, they look at their inverted hair and smile. Like always, they match.

#Something something something the intimacy of taking care of each others hair #Something something physical reminders of a person you love (aka why I hope they keep the gray streaks in the series) #Percabeth being teenagers together (Grover too!!! This post was very percabeth focused but you bet he was in the bathroom or iris calling) #don’t mind me just lowkey headcanoning that Percy and Annabeth learn how to help take care of their hair together #they definitely did research on bleaching natural hair so they would know how to keep Annabeth’s healthy #I think they’d probably also dye their gray streaks blue or something together at one piint #The only blond haired Annabeth and black haired Percy I want in this TV series #percabeth headcanon #percabeth #percy jackson #annabeth chase #percy and annabeth #pjo #post pjo

[the-mystical-aquatic-gay]

i’ve seen a couple crossovers of doctor who and the magnus archives, which is an amazing idea in general and i would like more

but what i think is potentially the best combination for that crossover that i have yet to see is nine + whichever iteration of the archives crew

imagine this horribly traumatized little ball of sunshine who just had to destroy his entire planet, meeting jonathan jarchivist sims

obviously what point in the tma canon it happened would massively change how that went but i would like to see it and honestly i’m this close to writing it myself

#i don’t know if nine would like s1 jon at least not at the start #s2 jon is getting picked up by his scruff while 9(the professional hypocrite) tries to help him try out a healthy coping mechanism or two #and also y’know solve the mysteries of the institute and gertrude’s murder and stuff #i think he would immediately (& rightly) be suspicious of s3 jon’s new powers #s4 i think he’d be extremely concerned about everyone’s plans for jon #and also very sympathetic to everyone abandoning him #s5……….. that would be a rough time for nine to meet jon #it’d probably be way to close to his own issues and past #but also i like to think he’d hear how jonah tricked him into doing this and immediately join martin on ‘kill jonah magnus’ train #all of these interactions would obviously change if rose and or jack were there #and if anyone else at the archives know about the doctor #actually speaking of jack i would like him and tim to meet #the magnus archives #tma #tma podcast #tma au #tma headcanons #tma shitpost #tma jon #tma tim #doctor who shitpost #doctor who textpost #doctor who captain jack harkness #doctor who #ninth doctor #captain jack harkness #rose tyler #doctor who rose

[goldkirk]

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#everything’s fine and I’m fine I’m just saying this to say it rn #I don’t know what I would choose to do if he WAS still alive and I COULD still report officially #but a large part of me is really really glad that that mayor is dead. and I don’t ever have to hear him or see him at events or feel his #unusually long weird fingernails and iron grip while telling me to smile for pictures ever again #a part of me would love to confront him #but most of me is just glad he’s gone and can’t scare me or make life hell for my parents ever again #he never should’ve gotten away with all the things he did for so many years. but he did. #now that we’re here in the present. it’s a gift to get to move on from it knowing he’s not still out there at least #he was a gross greedy person with police and government power and never should’ve had those positions for so many decades like he did #but that being said. he can’t ever speak to or touch me again. #I’m not grateful now. I wasn’t grateful then after he stopped pretending either. but I’m glad I get to walk away and never live near #any subdivision or building or anything else with his name or picture #ever again. and he’s never able to touch another child ever. good riddance. you gross greedy poor excuse for a public servant. #now I’m gonna go try to write some of what I’ve learned into a fic to help my future self and others #who do you think came out on top at the end of the day mayor L? #I came out of this with friends and kindness and gentleness and healthy rage. you died just as greedy and fake and paranoid as you lived. #I hope you got better towards the end. for your wife and family’s sake. #I get to protect others from people like you for the rest of my life. and I’ll win. #because I deserve it and every current kid deserves it too. #shh katie

[certaindreamchopshop]

I’m realizing that a big part of what I adore so much about Wyler is how it’s their interactions where Wednesday is at her most nuanced/where Jenna Ortega gets to flex the most facial control.

I think what’s missed by antis/people who are just kinda put off by Tyler or their scenes together is just how much Wednesday is actively putting up walls, and Jenna’s great at portraying that vulnerability, confusion, attraction, and fear at the center of it all. She wants Tyler, badly, but you’d only be able to tell just how badly if you’re really searching her micro expressions for the chinks in the armor.

And what makes the dynamic with Tyler really work is that Tyler understands Wednesday better than most of the audience does. He can see the vulnerabilities and shoot down the pretenses, and there is a genuine degree of discomfort to it because he’s the only one. The only one on the show who will actively recognize Wednesday’s supposed coldness as pretense. Figures like Enid, Eugene, her parents, and eventually Bianca and maybe Xavier might recognize it implicitly but still end up bumping up against it or maneuvering around it to interact with her, where Tyler just barrels forward to the core of her.

Not only does is make the betrayal worse and sets up a delicious emotional cocktail for next season to explore, I think it ends up making it so Hunter Doohan is Jenna’s most engaging scene partner because you can just barely see Wednesday constantly trying to work out in her head what’s different about Tyler, why he seems to “get her” like no one else does, and what that makes her feel + what she feels about that feeling.

#I don’t think I’ve been this obsessed with a fictional pairing outside of animation in YEARS #I need help this isn’t a healthy level of fixation #I’m an insane person #Wyler #Wednesday Addams #Tyler galpin #wednesdaynetflix #Netflix #jenna ortega #hunter doohan

[angelnumber27]

how do you actually genuinely fully release sadness and anger and shit im fr asking ☠️

#like actually get that shit out of your body not just distract yourself #I don’t want to sit here and just think about it #I want to express it in a healthy way and get rid of that shit #help

[youre-fired-s-seaborn]

Oh west wing season two episode ten “Noel” we’re really in it now..

#tww #the west wing #josh lyman #OUGHHHJ OHH MY GOD. KILL ME NOW #how did you cut your hand. #i can hear the damn sirens all over the building #I CANT HELP YOU IF YOU DONT LISTEN SO PLEASE LISTEN TO ME. #josh i don’t think you were fully conscious while you were saying that. #i know what atva is #a perfectly healthy pilot kills himself and no one’s asking why? #you’re in nine kinds of pain. #I COULDNT MAKE IT STOP I DIDNT KNOW HOW TO MAKE IT STOP #because we get better. #i didnt cut my hand on a glass leo i broke a window in my apartment. #IVE BEEN DOWN HERE BEFORE AND I KNOW THE WAY OUT. #LONG AS I GOT A JOB YOU GOT A JOB UNDERSTAND? #OHHHH MY. JENEKDBEKDBDJDWJDJJE #SHUT THE FUCK UP RIGJT NOW. STFU AARON SORKIN #I CSNT TAKE IT.

[camgoloud]

you ever just. become overwhelmed by a sudden out-of-nowhere wave of tenderness and affection and longing for reconnection directed towards someone to whom you no longer speak for Very Good Reasons

#‘out of nowhere’ she says like she hasn’t been doing a lot of reading/thinking recently about various tragic messy breakups #and the later regrets of the parties involved #anyway. tell me not to text her #it’s been over two years since the last time we talked… absolutely no reason to break that streak now. lord give me strength #she was really fucking mean to me! like objectively intentionally unwarrantedly cruel! it ruined an entire year of my life #and fundamentally changed me as a person on a deep level! there’s a lot of things i used to like about myself that i don’t think i’m ever #going to get back #and yet every once in a while we have to do the whole ‘maybe i could make things right’ song and dance 😔 #the thing is most of the time i’m not even really angry with her anymore like enough time has passed since all the shit went down that #really i just sort of look at her behavior and feel sad. both because of the impact on me but also because of the ‘that’s really how you #felt you needed to act towards someone who cared about you? you couldn’t have just expressed your feelings in an honest and productive way #instead of just lashing out in the cruelest possible way and ruining the entire relationship beyond hope of repair?’ #and i feel bad and sorry that it went that way and honestly i kind of pity her and hope she’s gotten some of her shit worked out #so i’m not like. actively pissed off at her anymore. but also i can’t think about her without thinking about the worst year of my life so 🙃 #i don’t actually feel that trying to reopen that door would be very healthy for me at least #we did try a Reconciliation of sorts a couple of months after the initial falling-out and while it was kind of helpful for me in that she #like. apologized lmao. and affirmed that i wasn’t crazy and she did in fact On Purpose say the most hurtful things she possibly could have #said to me given the information she had at her disposal. and that i really had not done anything to her that could warrant that. etc. #it also left a sour enough taste in my mouth that i just don’t see a future where the two of us spending time together is enjoyable for me #and yet… the regret will always live inside me i think. maybe if i were a stronger person… #caseyposting

[cartoonchaos]

“gee i wonder why there’s still so much more fanfiction about male characters” “we need more morally complex female characters” “i love relationships that are doomed by the narrative” “more stories need to treat mentally ill characters with compassion and respect” “all his problems could’ve been fixed if he only went to therapy” you fuckers can’t even handle the ending of fionna and cake

#i’m not one to go online and complain fruitlessly about how media literacy is in the toilet but jesus christ #it’s actually devastating seeing so many people actively reject a brilliant and emotionally challenging show #all because they refuse to examine anything about themselves #if you’re genuinely pissed petrigrof wasn’t endgame and the show couldn’t quote unquote let them be happy #if you’re seriously mad your favorite doomed yuri was in fact doomed by the narrative #if you can’t enjoy petrigrof anymore because you now know it’s quote unquote problematic or toxic and not a perfect tragedy #please i beg of you watch it again #this show beat you over the head with a children’s book and then you misunderstood it somehow and then whined about your headache #and if you for realsies believe this show is pushing an unhealthy message with how it handled simon’s depression #this show that showed him so much compassion and understanding and gave him closure and let him move on and grow and seek help #if you think betty was too harsh on him #the betty that sentenced the man who doomed her to life #to live a happy and healthy life #to seek help and grow and become an individual not defined by his grief #if you think that’s seriously equivalent to telling a depressed person to just cheer up #then you are legitimately anti-recovery #i really hope you guys learn how to engage healthily with complex media #one would’ve thought steven universe taught us all a lesson #but i guess a million casper and nova level stories won’t be enough for some of you #here’s hoping you don’t just kin simon but actually follow his example #get therapy #loony rambles #fionna and cake #simon petrikov #betty grof #petrigrof #adventure time

[only-one-brain-cell]

Spencer is acting like his therapist just asked him to jump off a cliff when she said don’t think about work ��don’t think about work what do you mean?” 😭

#criminal minds #criminal minds 15x4 #spencer reid #potato rewatches criminal minds #no one needs a more healthy work life balance then him #if ​his therapist gets through their sessions and remains sane she deserves a raise #Spencer you talk to your mother outside of work #although I don’t think that would help his case

[polyamorouspunk]

Honestly I could use a pep talk. This week the positive/negative whiplash has been horrible

Grace my love you have been such a comforting presence in my and a lot of other people’s lives. I’m so, so sorry that things haven’t been going spectacular for you but as I’ve said to you, having someone who is going through a lot of the same things that I am makes me feel so much less alone. I really, really hope that we can find some consistency in it all. Today when I was driving home I was thinking of that cliche “if you could have any superpower what would it be” and I thought “I wish I could control my emotions”. And I thought… that’s not a superpower. That’s something “normal” people can do. But I feel like I can’t. But maybe more things are in my control than I realize. Sometimes I do think that I make excuses for myself. And that’s not to say that we as human beings can control everything in our lives. In fact, it’s what we CAN’T control that brings us stress. Like other people changing their minds about plans and shit 😅 but that’s what makes us dynamic. That’s what makes us human. So I guess, you know, I would be bored or whatever if everything was easy and my life is perfect. I mean, we all need a little drama, right? Like the harmless kind. Like when you go through the drive-through and they give you the wrong order. It’s humbling. It gives us something to complain about. Like, I didn’t fuck up badly to warrant an entire Netflix show about it. At least it’s not THAT bad yet. And I mean. We have all, everyone here, made it through the worse times of our lives already. And sure, there’s every chance the worst thing that’s ever going to happen to us hasn’t happened yet (especially those of us who haven’t reached 25 yet) but honestly as I look back I feel like everything that really sticks out as bad to me isn’t more or less worse than the thing before or after it. It’s just the most present, so it’s the one that hurts them most. I’m GLAD I’m not 16, 18, 20 anymore, even if I had things then I wish I had now and have pain now I didn’t have then. Sometimes the things I have to look forward to don’t feel like enough but what is the alternative? I just have to keep going. I can’t give up. We can’t give up. We have to keep fighting. I refuse to be the one that knocks me down.

#I don’t know how much of a pep talk this is more just like #I feel you I see you this is what I have been telling myself so maybe some of that help you? #the other night I did this really weird exercise (?) #where I started mentally writing suicide notes to my loved ones #and I just started crying #and I reached a point where I was like holy shit I can’t do this anymore I would hurt too many people #and like as shitty and emotional as that was it was good? it was healthy? #I was like oh my god if I have to write a letter to my best friend’s brother’s baby telling her I’m sorry I never got to meet her when- #-she was older because I offed myself how could I do that to her fr like #I think the last ones I wrote in my head were to my 15 y/o cousins #and I was like how would my family explain to my cousins that I killed myself and wrote them a letter about it #would they read it at 15? 15 y/os shouldn’t have to read a suicide note #so honestly if things get bad that might be what I start trying as like an exercise idk #punk gets mail #personal

[s-3lliot]

Midterm Week ‼️

I lowkey stan Julius Caesar.

#help plz #midterms #julius caesar #ancient rome #rome #roman empire #pompey #I don’t think this is healthy. #apush #ap us history #apush me off a cliff

[astrobei]

every day i log onto tumblr feeling like troy barnes in community season 3 episode 4 “remedial chaos theory”

#i don’t speak on this topic ever bc i think it’s dumb but re the spicy polls account (?) i will say that yall are soooo quick to attack real #live people (real people! who are real!) and can indeed be impacted by your actions and words #in the name of defending characters who are not real #they’re not real!!!!! but the people on the other side of that screen are!! hope this helps #please utilize that block/unfollow/back/unscubscribe button i promise it will help lower your blood pressure back into the healthy range #i never know what’s going on bc all my mutuals always post from the same side of the discourse #so it always takes me a second to realize they didn’t all just decide to post the same take at the same time #anyway

[always-a-slut-4-ghouls]

Me, opening up a packet of the stuff the vet gave me: “I hope this probiotic powder doesn’t put my cat off his food. Can’t really help with his digestion issues if he doesn’t eat it”

I spill some because my hands can have problems with stability

My cat: *licks the stuff up like a kid who just discovered what powdered sugar was*

Me: “is this flavored?”

My cat: begs me for more powder and momentarily forgets his food

Me: “this has to be flavored”

#emma posts #sometimes him getting excited about new flavors for kitties is good #but other times his love of flavor exploration will lead him to eating a food he’s allergic to #and I can’t figure out what he’s reacting to right away because he just keeps eating the thing that makes his tummy hurt #at least I stop using things I realize cause allergic reactions #you’d think a little guy who doesn’t even know what allergies are would be even more off put by them #he’s so finicky about so many random things! but he loves new foods. especially more expensive ones. and that food was more expensive #this time he is getting a food for upset hairball tummies and has been enjoying it more than his old stuff too #I just hope that him traveling back and forth between his old food at my parents house and new food here causes problems #his old man tummy is getting more sensitive than it used to be and he’s getting a different food now… hopefully. and vitamins while he gets #these probiotics to hopefully make the change easier. I don’t want to jinx it but so far it seems to be really helpful #he hasn’t even gotten one hairball since starting the hairball food! and he loves his new vitamin treats #hopefully he’ll keep doing well with the old kitty vitamin treats #I want him to get his old man vitamins #even if he’s super healthy for his age. it’s good not to get worse! #i would know. as someone who dealt with not eating enough from medication side effects #I’m better now though! I switched meds and take more vitamins just in case #anyway. eating food is important for humans and kitties if you can get it it’s important! #and if your cat doesn’t get or absorb enough food they could get permanent damage to their bodies. never let your cat go more than three #days without food! try to make sure that they eat at least every 12 hours #they might not need as much food as you. but they can get a lot sicker a lot faster than humans usually do #I can ramble on and on about cat health though 😅 I just love my little guy so much #combo of better food formulated for hairballs and not giving him an allergic reaction with the probiotics too seems to be helping a lot #i knew cheap food wasn’t usually quite as good as the slightly more expensive stuff but holy shit. since moving out and now switching food #it’s been going so well for him! maybe I should ask my family to change the other cats food. I just hope that an extra 9$ a bag isn’t #off putting for them. i feel like fewer hairballs should be a great selling point

[dumbdolphin3]

bitches really put a musician’s entire discography into their playlist that already has 100+ songs.

It’s me, I’m bitches.

#Cavetown #penelope Scott #music #melanie martinez #mother mother #help I don’t think this is healthy lmao