#i hate being attracted to men

[hasanabisbookie]

im sorry idk if anyone is even gonna see this bc like idk what tags to use for like an audience or wtv but imma just speak I LUVVV when my r kinda chunky but have sum muscle definintion like nothing craxy but look squishy byt also like i could litrally be slinged into orbit and swim in the galaxy if he just tossed me alil too hard anyways yes, i love menn with veyr thick thighs an si luvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv when men r hairy and have mustaches so basically hasanabi but i digress wtv.....

#ethan landry imagine #ethan landry smut #hasanabi #iluvmen #men are hot #i hate being attracted to men #miguel o'hara smut #miguel spiderverse

[acabspocky]

Feyd's fucking me UP. Do I wanna be him? Do I wanna fuck him? Do I wanna fuck women who look like him? The answer to this is all of the above. My queer identity holds multitudes, it cannot be defined. Yet somehow Feyd-Rautha also kind of sums it all up.

#im in hell #i would do unspeakable to him #i hate being attracted to men #that's ehats actually hell #feyd rautha #dune part 2

[dargons-and-birbs]

So like,,, I went to the bar I like for karaoke for the first time in months and saw they hired a new guy and he’s absurdly attractive and he gave me the smile that said he was checking me out and I smiled back. Later I see him on Grindr and message him. Flash forward a couple days and we’ve been talking whenever he’s online and he even volunteered his name before I asked for it. He’s kinda terse but I’m hella interested. I’m trying not to get my hopes up but he’s so god damn alluring. Y’all wish me luck with this.

#me #finding someone attractive sucks #you never really know what they’re thinking about you y’know? #personal #I hate being attracted to men

[elenaxnena]

Just deleted some embarrassing posts cause they ain't shit

#i hate being attracted to men #where are the brandon lee stuart townsend ville valo rip offs

[joseigamer]

Patalliro! is fascinating to me because of stuff like this. It's unapologetically gay - even within its anime which aired during primetime hours in 1982 - in a way that many later BL manga would never be, like the ones from the early 2000s which would never dare to call their characters actual homosexuals. Patalliro has actually aged quite well in this regard, there's something comforting about how campy it is.

#i still dont really understand how they got away with this kind of thing honestly #female VAs i get that - but first m/m kiss in an anime in episode THREE????? #theres also the maraich/thomas episode where they are *Both* voiced by women....advanced yuri #patalliro #i love how bancorans gender expression is pretty much explicitly to attract only bishounen #you blushed - so you must not be a girl #etc #i also love how joyful it all is #theres never anything sad or tragic about being gay - only that bancoran is forced to kill the bishounen spies/assassins/etc #when bancoran finds out that gay sex feels good after demian; in the manga he is elated. its basically a positive thing #he awakens to his true power...lol #also notable is that while bishounen youth is glorified maraich is 18 #this means it portrays being gay as an adult as normal; not a phase relegated to nostalgic adolescent periods of time #according to the NYT japan's psychiatric body called homosexuality a mental illness until 1995 #im NOT going to say patalliro changed that or anything lmao but its just significant to me that banmara get to live their lives happily #even raise children together in the manga....??? #especially contrasting that with kaze to ki no uta and other manga of the time (no shade intended) #yaoi #<- for tagging purposes #obviously it also got away with a lot by being a gag manga. but still! #months later edit: want to say im not intending to moralize BL manga from the 2000s either. like gen. no hate on them. #as a gay person i just appreciate when characters who act gay are considered gay textually #and its kind of disheartening how gay-as-identity was treated as something incredulous in those manga a lot of the time #even the mere suggestion of attraction to men as a whole and not just the other male lead...yknow #this post is meant to praise patalliro for being unique in its approach to gay content compared to other titles #ive enjoyed plenty of 2000s yaoi titles despite their shortcomings lol

[radsplain]

people hate lesbians. PEOPLE HATE LESBIANS!!!

#i hate hate hate hate HATE #and i don't buy that all of these ppl are only upset bc goldstar lesbians 'brag' about never having slept with a man #(they're probably not even 'bragging' and are just being projected onto) #but i genuinely think ppl are uncomfortable at the prospect of a lesbian knowing she's a lesbian from a young age #and choosing to never sleep with a man #this is obviously not to say 'late bloomer lesbians' aren't 'valid' or whatever #but the reality is most of these girlies calling themselves lesbians... are not #ESPECIALLY when i see shit going around like #'well the lesbian masterdoc said that if i'm only attracted to male CELEBRITIES it doesn't count because they're unattainable 😌' #like bestie if anything doesn't that mean you AREN'T a lesbian? #it's common for OSA women to 'let' themselves be more openly attracted to men they'll never meet irl #not being instantly attracted to men you see walking around irl is very common for OSA ppl because most know what men are like lmao #anyways tangent but goldstar lesbians get behind me #lesbian #lesbophobia #radsplain.txt

[that-disabled-princess]

Reblog if you're bisexual and like men

#i need a pick me up #i saw too many ''i'm bisexual and hate that i like men'' things today #i'm bisexual and like men #and yeah i'm aromantic so there's that but i love being attracted to men #bisexual

[im-ro-yo]

more rook doodles featuring spy and medic on the side. my last three posts have been just sketches im sorry chat i simply don't know what to draw

#digital art #art #oc #self insert #tf2 #disabled artist #original character #queer artist #i am cringe but i am free #tf2 oc #medic team fortress 2 #spy tf2 #tf2 spy #self shipper #self ship #gay men #gay #QUEER BEHAVIOR #rook hates spy #and by that i mean hates being attracted to him #he's fine with being attracted to medic but a little unsettled #tf2 medic #spy team fortress 2 #team fortress 2 oc #sketches #sketch #doodle #doodles #drawing

[catkin-morgs-kookaburralover]

questioning sexuality is so exhausting

#(edit: sorry for the rant in the tags and i just. i want someone to talk to me) #i keep on doing it for no apparent reason #someone was talking about lust yesterday and i realised today that. #even tho id thought i don't experience it. i possibly do. but exclusively towards women. #i hate it here! #for a multitude of reasons i will never have a relationship with a woman but! i may be incapable of having a relationship with a man! #at some point in the last few months i have abruptly pivoted from definitely wanting marriage and kids to being ambivalent on marriage #and not wanting kids. that's such an outlier in my life that it might just be a mental health thing tho idk #but at the same time i. want to be loved. #i don't know what i want anymore and im tired of questioning myself #i definitely overthink it but idk how to stop it #and i hate hate hate how the moral obsessions have bee lately #this isn't entirely related but it kind of is #like Am i a terrible morally bankrupt person for having certain thoughts or is it just religious ocd go brrrr?? am i overthinking it? #i don't know. i don't know! #for a while labelling myself as arospec ace kinda calmed that down but. i don't know #i do't want to be attracted to women. i don't want to have to look away so often. i don't want any of that. #but i don't know how to stop it. #i don't even know if i'm attracted to men at all. #this is a cry for help and encouragement and prayers no matter what your views on these matters are #queer stuff tag #i nearly fessed up to my friend yesterday about same sex attraction and i might've except that it would have probably outed me as #the person who anonymously sent in a question several months ago about the side b movement to a church thing #ive only told one person at church about any of that sort of stuff and it was very vaguely worded #also see: this friend is the mother of the boy i?? i don't even know how i feel about him #i increasingly think it wasn't romantic at all. but i don't know #i would love any encouragement you got. anything at all. #i don't know how much this stuff is affected by the fact that i consider myself unloveable and think it highly unlikely any boy will ever #care for me #now im rambling. sorry

[matryoshkamark]

guess who motherfuckers

anyway i've been Rabid about this new hyperfixation for the past mmmmonth now?? roughly?? and i've fallen head-over-heels madly in love with, specifically, postal1 dude

aheem heem all i can offer for now are sketches i'm so sorry ;A;

#matryoshkamark's art #art #artwork #digital art #clipstudiopaint #sketches #postal art #postal #postal 1 #postal 2 #postal dude #aheem heem whimper #WHY IS HE HOT #like there's an attractiveness to him despite him being a fucking possum trash man #idk i guess i just have shit standards in men #or he's legitimately really attractive and i just hate myself somehow #lmao

[mad-hunts]

it's the fact that barton is possibly the biggest fumbler in history for me. i think i've mentioned this briefly on an earlier post, but he dated a woman in college named auriel and he met her through salsa dancing classes. and she was such a good dancer that she probably didn't need the classes... like, barton ☠️ i can't make excuses for your ' bad luck ' in relationships anymore. ( not that i ever did but still LOL )

#I am proud to say that no one will ever hate on Barton more than I do / j #NAHHH but seriously... people being good dancers? is so attractive?? to me??? #and there is kind of a common denonimator whenever it comes to his failed relationships. #* cough cough * barton * cough cough * #istg he is TOO freaking fond of sabotaging both himself and his relationships... like what are you doing. #OF MONSTERS AND MEN: musings. #ooc post.

[mydemonsdrivealimo]

happy lesbian week to aurora and jackie <3

#pb making jackie be able to romance a man is the most incorrect take ive ever seen. and its canon #n e way yay to my fav lesbians #also this is NOT to say that jackie being bi is a bad thing. we love bi baddies. but the way she hates on men is truly enough for me #also lowkey i think jackie is just attracted to femininity. i dont remember the label but yeah. that.

[markantonys]

anyway here's a bi text post for aviendha that does not include internalized biphobia! because she deserves it

#i am SOOOOOOO SICK of 'bi women hate men and hate being attracted to them' internet jokes #sure some probably do feel that way but it is NOT a universal experience #and acting like it is does nothing but make bi women feel alienated from queer spaces #or else make them feel obligated to join in making these jokes so they can prove they are Sufficiently Ashamed of their attraction to men #and thus ~count~ as wlw and ~deserve~ to be accepted in their spaces #because if they actually Like men then that means they're basically straight and don't belong right? #as for aviendha - girl's not mad about being attracted to rand because he's a man #but rather because he's a wetlander and an idiot #aviendha #wot

[healingheartdogs]

Men can have vaginas. Women can have penises. Being a lesbian is not about "only liking pussy". Being gay is not about "only liking dick". Those are transphobic and intersex exclusive statements.

The "sex" in "sexuality" is not referring to assigned sex at birth or the most common presentations of assigned sex genitalia. It refers to sexual attraction. Queer sexual attraction is gender and/or shared queer experience based. Gender is not the same as assigned sex at birth or genitalia. If your personal sexual attraction is based on assigned sex at birth and specific genitalia and you use a queer sexuality label you are appropriating that label and participating not only in transphobia and intersex exclusion from queer communities but also in homophobia.

Stop appropriating queer sexualities and then trying to kick out people who actually belong under that label because you want to make a little exclusion based bigot club for yourselves.

#lgbtq #lgbtqia #rant #not dog related #ndr #im so sick of seeing comments on trans people's posts being like #'well id never date a trans woman because i only like pussy' #okay? you dont know what trans womens' genitals look like to begin with stop assuming they're all the same and all disgusting to you #and dont call yourself a lesbian then because lesbians have queer attraction to non-men not just attraction only to vaginas #also way to boil being a lesbian down to being only about wanting to have sex with certain genitals #like inherent sexualization of queerness is straight out of the homophobe playbook dude #and youre also boiling womanhood down to only being about vaginas too saying shit like that which is sexist as fuck #you literally cant be transphobic like that without also being sexist and homophobic #the same applies for the opposite scenario with gay people and trans men #and with nonbinary people who fall under either sexuality #if youre not actually queer stop appropriating queer labels to justify and enact transphobia and intersex hate

[luvring]

one day people will stop looking at misogynistic men and saying they're secretly gay, and finally realize implicitly associating non-queer men's hatred with queerness as well as disregarding the patriarchy's pervasiveness helps (checks notes) literally nobody

#💬nia.rambles #stop it stop it stop it stop it #im sure i could word this better but if i see that stupid tweet or its quotes one more time i might implode #like it's absurd to me some of you say men are socialized to hate women then say if they do they must be gay #he isn't in the closet he just doesn't see women as equals #in a heteropatriarchal system heterosexuality isn't a clear line of loving/respecting women or Not. there isn't a dichotomy for misogyny #realize he can be romantically & sexually attracted to women but objectify & shame them & reserve forms of love for men #without doing that you Cannot tackle the patriarchy in Any meaningful way #+ what does calling him gay do for you. do you benefit from him being Queer and hating women. would that make you feel better. #do you want to imply all misogyny is rooted in internalized homophobia / queer men are raging misogynists. do you like those ideas #it's all ultimately diluting/ignoring patriarchal power and material/interpersonal consequences #not to mention the dissonance i see regarding intersectionality + the 'separation' of misogyny from queerness #and. UGHHHHHHH. it's so frustrating like just. gawd. whatever.

[princessefemmelesbian]

Me when I don’t know how bisexuality works but also don’t care because being lesbophobic and biphobic is just too much fun! 😍

#hint since i have to tell you: it’s not always a 50/50 split #one instance of attraction to men despite previously identifying as a lesbian makes you bi sweetie #also how do you get to the stage of fucking someone without knowing that they’re a man andjenrnrn you guys are creeps with these tall tales #take that shit to r/thathappened nobody fucking cares here #lesbian #lesbophobia #bisexual #biphobia #tw corrective rape #why are you so scared of the word bisexual #and why are you so fucking obsessed with lesbians having sex with men and finding an exception for men in their sexuality because they’d #‘bored and horny’ and why do you insist on guilt-tripping lesbians and acting like we’re being rigid for not having sex with men #you guys are creepy #all of you #and i hate you all #op #blocklist