#i love men and women too much

[h0e4fictionalme-n]

Little miss will read smut for breakfast lunch and diner

#eddie munson #steve harrington #smut #little miss memes #austin butler elvis #im mentally unwell #i don’t think it’s a joke anymore #i don’t think this is normal #theodore nott #steve rogers #peter parker #pietro maximoff #robin buckley #please I can’t stop #i love men and women too much #nacy wheeler #percy jackson #gareth emerson

[stil-lindigo]

warmth.

a comic about not being alone.

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#to all the trans men and women and anyone who feels like they have to stifle themselves for their own safety #may you never feel like youre alone in this #this comic is one of my more grounded ones #it just felt right to not try to decorate this one in a lot of symbolic fanfare #sometimes i have to go above and beyond to fit the vision. this felt right being pretty understated. #i really did my best with this one and i hope it shows #you all deserve so much joy and so much love from your partners in life #and i hope you like this and if you dont thats okay too #thats all #thank you for your support #and as always #thank you for reading #comic art #lgbtqia+ #queer comics #hearteaters #stillindigo art #stillindigo comics

[bixels]

hey um. u sure make a lot of art about lesbians for a man. you're normal about us, right? ;;

What? Yeah, I’m normal about y’all.

#I understand the suspicion and where you’re coming from I really do but strange thing to ask an artist tbh #ill say this. I try to be cognizant of my positionality as a queer man who enjoys sapphic ships and am constantly checking myself to make #sure my art doesn’t go into territories I don’t feel comfortable with. thereve been times I’ve second guessed myself while drawing rarijack #and thought “Is this too much?’’ and I have to check with my partner who is sapphic. #but also I’m a queer artist who likes drawing queer love. if my content makes you uncomfortable I’d be happy to start a dialogue about it #but there’s a reason why I’ve not drawn women kissing or being explicitly intimate. #anyways my art and thoughts about gay men are not so normal because I like cock so do what you will with that info #ask me #anon

[coolcarabiner]

lesbians who are terfs will never make any sense to me crying about the supposed exclusivity of the “female experience” like my brother in christ she experienced an othered, lonely, confusing childhood where she was made to feel inadequate in her gender, sexuality, or both just the same as you and instead of letting this unify you against patriarchy you just enforce it on other people to maintain the sliver of “power” you think you have. how do u not see how dumb this is oh my god

#like trans women are hurt by the patriarchy they don’t benefit from it you fucking coconuts bc even if they were ‘men’ (they’re not) #they’d be men who cannot live up to the standards set by patriarchy!!!! this is feminism 101 yet some people run their mouths like it’s 1912 #like dude. she’s doing gender and sexuality in a way cishet society hates just like u are. please be fucking smart and realize attacking her #only hurts YOU and loses YOU the same bodily autonomy u wanna deny her for the sake of “’saving ur lesbian brethren’ or what the fuck ever #you’re hurting cis women trans women intersex people EVERYONE because you’re so obsessed w feeling special for being perceived as a woman #and then being harmed for it that you can’t even see that the women you hate so much experience the EXACT SAME SHIT. use ur brain!!!!!! #anyways sorry read some takes from some lesbians in LC and got way too heated. god bless u trans dykes i love u trans dykes #idk what to tag this so. ya #posts

[drivebypainter]

Been stressed over finals! So as a break and as a way to calm myself I drew Shen Qingqiu (Jiu)!

#drivebypainter art #digital art #my art #art #fanart #svsss #scum villian self saving system #shen jiu #shen qingqiu #I really gotta practice drawing men #I like drawing women too much #it makes all my men drawings look like women #LMAO my bad friends #I’ll get better at it soon #also over the course of this I realized how well Never Love an Anchor by The Cran Wives fits Shen Jiu and Yue Qingyuan so well

[oldshrewsburyian]

I lost Too Much in round 3 of @hotvintagepoll (Olivia de Havilland! BETTE DAVIS!) and will in consequence plan to vote early and be maximally obnoxious in support of my preferred Hot Vintage Ladies from now on.

To all my followers: I am sorry; you are welcome; you have been warned. To my fellow disappointed voters: do you want to cry and rewatch The Letter about it?

#how is BETTE DAVIS not swarming to the semifinals on a tide of one-liners and people who want her to step on them. how. #i also love olivia so much and thought that tumblr's love for Women Getting Shit Done & Not Taking Shit From Men would take her far #old hollywood #also lost theda bara. bitter about that too. #haven't checked in on pola negri hope she's doing okay #dietrich is fine. of course she's fine. i am reserving my ammunition there.

[worstloki]

Tom Hiddleston once suggested Sif's actress Jaime Alexander could have played Loki instead of him.

Do you think your feelings about Thor 1 and 2 would change in any way if Loki were cast as a woman? (if the plot stays exactly the same or minor differences)

I feel like it absolutely would change my thoughts about Thor 1 and 2 but hear me out because the gender change in the context of what I understand of Asgardian society would mean Loki starts out as a younger sister thanklessly expected to mediate Thor’s violent tendencies and by the end of the movie she’s turned into what is basically Hela

#I think throwing Loki under the bus by making her a woman but not changing the plot would have a lot of implications #like as a man/prince in asgardian society there was the whole warrior life thing going on as an expectation #and idk if that pressure would be more or less if Loki was a girl? #I’d assume the pressure is less but if Loki is still struggling to be loved/respected it’s like. of course she’s trying to be a warrior too #Loki would 🤝 with Sif a lot more directly in terms of situation #Sif having no solidarity for that would be wild but could make sense I suppose #if magic use was frowned upon even if Loki is a woman it would be ‘oh of course she should be allowed to she needs to make up for lacking X’ #competing with Thor would be so much more savage fr #like you’ve told a stolen/fostered daughter that she’s got the same shot for the throne as your son. in a patriarchal warrior society #in a place where men and women have different cultural expectations and the person on the throne should always be ready for war #like. bruh #also Odin saying he wants to forge peace between their realms obv means the possibility of Odin wanting to marry Thor and her at some point #unfortunate

[ef-1]

not a day goes by that I don't think about this queen <3

#i literally am in love with her. SHES SO FUCKING RIGHT TOO? LIKE SHE DID NOT GET RACISM BAITED #girl you are the loml youre so right #SHES LITERALLY RIGHT #and i kmow there are incels and ugly men in the comments call her stupid but she genuinely gave the only right answer #i hope she -AND ONLY SHE- is having a good day #i love women so much #tiktok

[cock-holliday]

Cis ra/dfe/ms insisting The Opposite Gender™️ could never experience something they do is laughable already, but when trans people do it???

Fellas we are proof of the flexibility and fluidity of gender of course anyone on the spectrum could share experiences, what are you doing??

Trans women like “I experience this for being a woman so trans men could never get it.” Fellas, I can guarantee you every trans man has had at least a few year period where society treated them like girls and women.

Trans men like “I face this as a cis-passing man so trans women have no idea what that’s like.” Fellas, an overwhelmingly large portion of trans women do not come out until adulthood. For better or (more often) worse, they will likely know what it’s like to be seen as men if not at least boys.

Why are we doing boys vs girls shit like children, y’all should have a better grasp on gender by now.

#LJsm #whyyyy are we seeing the opposite transition as an enemy? #do you know how liberating it is to read stories of trans people with the opposite agab finding joy in a gender I didn’t like? #so much trans content I like is absolutely not my experience but paints a better picture of gender for me! #the same can be said for folks inside my transitional direction #I have never liked dresses—there are trans women and trans men who love them #I LIKE having a beard—for many trans men a beard is euphoric but there are also trans women who love their beards! #binary or not how do you look at the buffet of gender options available #and then decide not only are you going to self police your desires #but anyone who doesn’t do that too is an enemy and anyone with the ‘opposite’ desires is an enemy too

[house-rat]

Agender moment of the day: once again being absolutely baffled at how “women are from venus, men are from mars” sentiments continue to exist in leftist spaces, but with a new progressive coat slapped on.

#please please please stop acting like women are inherently safer than men for the love all that is good #please just be normal about gender #please don’t be gender or bioessentialist #is it really too much to ask #i am so tired of gender #and the way it is talked about #so so tired #agender #gender essentialism #house-rat

[seventh-fantasy]

THE WOMEN OF SWEET SMELL OF SUCCESS (1957)

Susan Hunsecker: Who could love a man who makes you jump through burning hoops like a trained poodle? Sally: Sidney, you make a living. Where do you want to get? Mary: But don’t do it like a little boy stealing gum from a slot machine. Rita: You’re a snake, Falco. You’re a louse, a real louse. Loretta Bartha: Leo, this is the first clean thing I’ve seen you do in years. Linda James: Me, with my Jersey City brains?

#sweet smell of success #classicfilmblr #classicfilmsource #classicfilmcentral #filmgifs #classicfilmedit #moviegifs #oldhollywoodedit #alexander mackendrick #ssosgifs #jielin's edits #my posts #THE WOMEN OF SSOS OK!!!! #they deserve the world and i love them so much #i've sat on this gifset idea since last year lmaoo FINALLY #the idea is i wanted to do one for hlht too #both stories being v v much about men. and the destructive effects of their domination in society but have such nuanced and great fem charas #susie my girl <333 she has so many killer scenes i almost couldn't pick #she's just like her brother but way better <3 #and my proudest find today is the scene of sally sighing at sidney lol #motherfucking mary!!! HBIC #i cheer every single rewatch at mrs bartha's scene #the extremely small pool of fem charas means i get to include a side chara like linda james #i debated about that a bit #and yeah jj belittles her so terribly #and she's framed as a bimbz etc etc #but what strikes me is how she grabs the opportunity to speak FOR HERSELF rather than be presented by the men around her #and also how she is meant to be a mirror to sidney in that scene..... (senator's side piece coughs) #so yeah she is sufficiently significant yeah #so many shades of women <3

[mysicklove]

my new favorite thing is asking men what they are doing for women’s history month

#🔪 - mello talks too much #so fucking funny #i also love gaslighting men by bringing up what month it is when they are mean to me #”woahhhhh you doing that during women’s history month???….crazy….” #HAHAHA

[flashbcaks]

justice for bi/pan men who marry women. justice for bi/pan men who marry men. justice for bi/pan men who have affairs with both men and women. justice for bi/pan men who can't or don't pursue longterm relationships. justice for bi/pan men who've only had one partner or spouse. justice for bi/pan men who are trans. justice for bi/pan men who have children. justice for bi/pan men who just want to love who they love.

Justice for bi/pan men. 💙💖💜

#bisexuality #bisexual #bi positivity #this is for all the bi men whose legacies were undermined by their heirs and descendants #this is also for all the bi men who never came out in their lifetimes bc they were afraid of losing their spouses. #you are seen and loved and the world is so lucky to have you all in it 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 #lgbt+ pride #bi pride #pan positivity #pansexual #pan pride #pansexuality #and justice for bi/pan women too but I feel like bi/pan men don't get as much love as they should 💕

[scintillatingshortgirl19]

just watched 5x21 (saviors) and godddddd cameron is such a closeted lesbian/aromantic

#i mean this is nothing i didn't already know but damn #the way she was avoiding being around chase and simultaneously avoiding breaking up with him...honey... #idk as someone who dated a man for two years while figuring out i was gay #(and (platonically) cared about that man a lot) #i Feel her #and the way she doubled down at the end of the episode and asked him to propose to her?? #even though she literally said she didn't want that?? #with the flimsy 'oh i don't want him to propose just bc kutner died last week' excuse #like girl???? #baby no you just don't want to be with him #because you either need to be with a woman #or opt out of romance entirely and just have fun sexytimes with women and possibly men too #please cameron my love you will be so much happier that way #house md #house season 5 #house 5x21 #op

[fuckmeyer]

Wiggins!) the bizarre thing about the vampire men in the cullen family all seem to be at least subconsciously what Smeyer wants Bella to have but can’t seem to get over her initial vision of what she saw in her drafts or whatever. It’s odd that every single one of the Cullen men are like strongly devoted (but mostly devoid of personality because it’s so Bella centric) but when you compare them to Edward they seem interesting in some ways. Like Narratively we’re supposed to have this threat that Edward is constantly holding back from killer her but I don’t feel like we see that. Conversely, Jasper is constantly the one who is suffering about human smells and is the more vampire-like. But he’s also a glorified lap dog. So it’s like ‘oh he’s a monster but he’ll never hurt me” (things Alice has said out loud. Man even psychics slip up. I swear her powers weren’t so accurate until Smeyer needed an excuse for plot reasons)

Emmett feels like when some women say they like waifish guys because they don’t want to seem like they’re vapid for liking “big dudes with muscles” so of course you pair Emmett with the “shallow blonde”

Carlisle, I swear only exists so Edward has someone to model but I would also argue that he’s proto-Edward before whatever reworking she had to do when writing Twilight for a YA audience and brought him back as a different character.

Yeah a rant

hello again bestie Wiglet! (note to self: learn Photoshop so i can shop Jacob's bad wig onto a pic of Piglet)

this is such an interesting take! thanks for sharing. i totally see what you're saying. in all the Cullen men we see both a blend of softness & devotion *and*, interestingly enough, a patchwork of patriarchal ideas of what a man "should" be. & this idea comes to the forefront with the depiction of the love interests

smeyer wants us to see Edward as the chivalric gentlemen from the Days of Yore. we see this in the opening doors, the cutsey little romance taglines ("you are my life now," "look after my heart; i've left it with you," "so the lion fell in love" etc), the knight saving the damsel in distress, the expensive tokens of his affection, etc.

at the same time, in both Edward & Jacob we see the crude traits of the Patriarchy Dreamboat kinda guy. if i had to sum it up, it's like the guy you see in 80s movies. "bad boy." "opposites attract." he's a jerk. he's a hunk. he's domineering. he's allowed to show emotion only & especially if that emotion is anger. he's persistent in his efforts to get the girl, going so far as to kiss her without her consent if it's For a Good Cause (Edward in New Moon post-Volterra, Jacob in Eclipse). he's a cool guy who's In Control 👉😎👉

perhaps that's why the Twilight saga appealed so such a large swath of women & girls. the women, who grew up with the notion that they could have the true love of their dreams so long as they submitted to the patriarchal social contract, saw the contract being fulfilled in Edward. (i.e., "you can be the king if you treat me like a princess.")

on the other hand, the 90s/00s girlies who grew up in the midst of a feminist revolution & who could see the glimmer of a dismantled patriarchy on the horizon were attracted to Edward for the flashes of radical feminist love they saw: the unapologetic expressions of emotion, the honesty of him sharing his vulnerabilities & weaknesses, Bella's ability to override Edward's will when necessary, etc.

sorry, i know this isn't really the crux of the rant you submitted, but it is extremely interesting to see these contradictions playing out in all the male characters of the saga. it's almost like smeyer is having this internal debate with herself without even realizing it...

#twilight meta #twilight renaissance #the twilight saga #i have been reading too much bells hooks (jk that's impossible) and have been thinking about radical feminist theory & #how it actually both applies and does not apply to twilight #i've been wanting to write a meta about it but fuck it #fuckmeyer 2.0 only takes meta requests i guess #anyway you brought up a really good point about how the cullen men are all a mix of what smeyer wanted Edward to be #and yet she was too afraid to realize the vision to its fullest extent #like yes she wants the muscles but she wants Edward to be soft and loving and delicate #and she wants Edward to have an Unforgivable Past but not SO unforgivable that he's completely damaged goods #and she wants him to be Devoted but not SO devoted that he's 'pussywhipped' #and she wants the devout religiosity and Goodness of Carlisle but she recognizes at the same time that women & readers want conflict #my response was getting long and frankly i didn't want to derail or dtract any further from the facts you were spitting but #i see what you're saying and i think you touch on something very incisive about the vision versus the execution of twilight #if we imagine a saga in which Edward WAS balls-to-the-wall Edward...what kind of character would we see? #that is another meta for another time but WOW am i thinking about this Intently and how different the saga would be if smeyer were to Commi #thanks for sending this my way!!! #cheers <3

[mishtershpock]

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#not to sound like a broken record #i know this has already been talked about a lot in current fandom discourse #but all the tommy love also comes from a place of #misogyny (buck’s m/f relationships failed bc the women weren’t good enough. but his first m/m is perfect and destined and tommy is god) #(even though we know next to nothing about them as a couple. cough 1 kiss and 1 failed date cough cough) #and biphobic concepts (buck’s only relationship/partner that is worth shipping and love and fandom time is the m/m one) #(if he’s with a woman he’s not worth our time? the relationship/partner isn’t worth our time. right?) #some people kinda sounding like the conservative haters right now #oliver stark’s voice shouting from afar: he isn’t gay! he is bisexual! he still likes women! #some people like to celebrate bi buck (as we should) but then erase his previous gfs #in favour of this 1 man he’s shared literally 4 scenes with. okay #<- <- <- i drafted this like 6 hours before that interview came out. ollie came to back me up with the ‘he still likes women’ lmao #him dating a guy now does not erase or dismiss his previous m/f relationships or that he’s still into women #one final comment. any time buck got with a girl it was ‘they need to break up immediately’ #‘she’s not right for him’ #he’s with his first guy and it’s ’they should be endgame’ #‘they’re perfect together’ #huh?? one. we barely know tommy/them together #two. what exactly makes them endgame material? bc they’re both men? cough biphobic misogyny fetishization cough #three. it would be objectively hilarious if he realises his sexuality and within 2 weeks is dating a guy for the first time #and then that guy ends up being his endgame forever partner. lmaoooo that would be so dumb sawry #not to mention it would kinda lean into the biphobia and misogyny mentioned above #in that it would suggest that his problem with finding love previously was… women #and this problem is now magically fixed because… man #four. not to be a buddie endgame truther but if all the vocal support means this is what we get instead #instead of Them. i’m out see ya bye bye #i am sooooo reading way too much into this but oh well