#it's none of our business

[neverevan]

I feel like we're slipping into the realms of discussing Oliver's sexuality, so I just wanna say: please do NOT even go there.

#it's none of our business #regardless of what it is or isn't #oliver stark #911 #911 abc #ramblings #my stuff

[linoguy]

i think w lee know, we've been dealing with his joking indifference vs his actual indifference, and i think for a while we had actual indifference, which is why it started to feel weird to joke around about him in the way we like to

#i'm just :] #AGAIN #it's just what i'm picking up but i really don't care to speculate about what he's Actually been going through #it's none of our business #i'm just glad to see him so invigorated. even from afar

[theres-no-better-love]

Sometimes I see people's comments and I'm like... does no one actually realize that, that man that does these sus things maybe in fact is not straight in some way, and who actually cares? *You* just don't know that he's not. Why do people act like it would be impossible or shameful to even think that for real. Who actually cares? Let people be gay.

#... #tired of everyone's shit #in all these fandoms #it's none of our business #but why do people act like it's impossible? #can we stop with the labels and the judgement

[bitchyfop]

i mean this in the gentlest way possible:

thinking that celebrities are sending out coded messages through social media and thinking that you can read specific emotions and thoughts from body language is unhealthy.

you do not know these people. it is impossible to know what they are thinking or feeling based on pictures or even videos.

if the argument is that you see a pattern: humans have a predilection for seeing patterns where there arent any, hence the over abundance of conspiracy theories in general.

this isnt a judgement i promise. but please think about it. log off, go outside if you can, and take some time off line.

#even if they do have something going on it is NONE of our business unless they say something outright #i saw this happen from a distance with 1D trust me #shennant #david tennant #michael sheen #rpf is fine #but theres always a line guys #not just for them but for your mental health as well

[marisatomay]

cooking a take about how this “teenage girls in their 20s” shit is related to the increasingly prevalent idea that women in their 20s actually aren’t grown enough to make adult sexual and romantic decisions like choosing a partner who is older than them without it automatically being grooming or pedophilia

#like there are power dynamics we can talk about that can make some relationships suspect #but ultimately if it’s two adults having consensual relations it’s really none of our fucking business unless one of them says otherwise

[introspectivememories]

best ending: they talk it out after lewis wins his 8th wdc and we end up with brocedes in each other's lives again. lewis shows up on nico's yt channel. nico is on lewis' insta. vivian dogwalks both of them for letting the divorce last that long. i join the convent because this is clearly a miracle from god and reblog gifsets of brocedes interacting from the chapel. rinse, repeat.

ending we're most likely gonna get: whatever the hell we have now. nico talks about lewis. lewis will say karting is the best time of his career. for two seconds out of the year, lewis will say nico's name. i will sob, rinse, repeat.

worst ending: they shut the fuck up about each other forever. they process the divorce and move on with their lives without each other. i will go on tumblr and reblog angsty web weaves about their relationship and what could've been. i take psychic damage. rinse. repeat.

#inshallah we get the best ending #but we will most likely get the middle one #obviously them processing the divorce is best for each other and like it's none of our business but as a bystander to their fallout #i think i deserve emotional compensation in teh form of knowing exactly what they are to each other #my family is sick of me wailing about them #if you'd've told me last year (casual f1 watcher/knew bits of the lore but didn't really care that much) that i would one day be sobbing #over a rivalry that happened when i was in elementary/middle school i woulda laughed soo fuckin hard #anyway vivian ik you're richer than god and you probably don't need it but i hope you're getting paid 8 figures for putting up w brocedes #f1 #lewis hamilton #nico rosberg #brocedes

[theold-ultraviolence]

You guys are so fucking weird about Joseph Quinn and then wonder why he seems different now than how he was two years ago, my god

#joseph quinn #browsing through his tag is an experience™️ #it is literally none of our business what goes through his head 24/7 #you’re forgetting how bad it got when he got crazy overnight success when st4 came out #he’s been doxxed harassed stalked and god knows what else #of course he was bound to change #he’s only human and his privacy has been severely disturbed #I said it before two years ago and I’ll say it again #he’s been treated like a SHOW PONY #when he’s an ACTOR #can we please just #celebrate the roles he’s getting and not get weird about him as a person or his personal life PLEASE

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

#its none of our business Until It Literally Is! #waiting patiently and acting as though i have seen nothing i know nothing #rambles from the bog #but also im frothing at the fucking mouth :]c

[godhasheardtruthfully]

A lot of people love to call individuals from the Torah / Bible / Quran trans but when a trans person is spiritual they’re treated like an alien.

It feels vindictive that you’d wanna use my gender to “piss Christians off” without considering that God loving trannys are real

& brave persecution from both the spiritual & queer communities we try to find family among from the disdain of wider society.

(it’s transphobic to level the breadth of our personhood &

weird you’d use our vulnerable existence to “stick it” to communities we also inhabit)

#transgender #Jesus #assalam #discourse must #account for trannys #who are #Muslim #Christian #Jewish #Brave #trans #I’m not saying trannys aren’t in there #just maybe it’s none of our business #bible #Quran #Torah

[uncanny-tranny]

"The average person will not care if trans people exist in the same spaces as them," and, "some of the most powerful people are of the opinion that trans people must be separated from society, thus, it's important to not stop your allyship with 'I don't care'" are both true.

It is good that so many cis people don't care enough about who is trans and who isn't, that isn't solely what will save us. It's important to stop people in power from affecting the lives of trans people, from preventing them from pushing us out of every space and opportunity they can.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #ally advice #transphobia #transphobia tw #i've come across many a cis person who literally doesn't care what trans people do or do not do and i appreciate the viewpoint of... #...'it isn't my business so i don't make it my business'... #...HOWEVER i do not think that alone is sufficient when it comes to ensuring trans peoples safety... #...because obviously people in power have immense interest in making the lives of trans people either impossible or very hard... #...and that isn't going to stop unless we make it stop #i'm not trying to say that if you're cis and you don't find other people's transness your business you are wrong and terrible by the way... #...what i AM saying is that trans people are still in material danger the longer people have the power to make our lives hell y'know #as far as i'm concerned the whole 'it ain't my business' can often be a good response to transness #in that you recognize that it isn't your place. i do the same thing even though i'm tranS #because even though i am trans it is STILL none of my business who's trans and who's getting what surgery or whatever

[technolilly]

This is the funniest comment I've ever seen everyone else go home

#joe keery #yes im watching joe keery interviews what of it #he has a strange sort of openness you dont really see in the entertainment industry #like he says he likes being private and its like !! you are so right king gatekeep your life from us- its none of our business !!! #he has several things going at the same time like hes an actor and a musician and its really inspirational how he didnt only pick one #idk hes just very neat :)))

[plague-parade]

genuinely people need to start curating their dash experiences more. you dont like a person? block them. you think theyre mean? block them. dont like a topic? blacklist it.

it is your responsibility to curate what you see and dont see on a platform like tumblr that doesnt have an algorithm. follow blogs you like, topics you like, and block and ignore the ones that you dont. it is that easy.

#brought to you by ‘cripplepunks are meanies’ just fucking block them if you think theyre mean. #we’re allowed to be mean and angry on our own personal blogs like it is literally None Of Your Business #actually i will tag it bc its annoying me so much #cripplepunk #cpunk #cripple punk #cpunk discourse #cripplepunk discourse #cripple punk discourse

[kori-senpai]

I couldn't stop thinking about the damn fish when I saw that scene

#wearing a bell? catching fish and proudly showing them off? Ed is so cat coded #next person to tell me on one of my comic strips that I write my o's too small will see me in person and catch my fists #are they smaller than my i dots sometimes? None o' ya business #ofmd #ofmd2 #our flag means death #our flag means death season 2 spoiler #ofmd season 2 #ofmd s2 #our flag means death spoiler #why are there so many fucking tags #my art #blackbonnet #gentlebeard #ed teach #stede bonnet #and that one unfortunate fish #I call him Kevin jr

[localemofreak]

Yall Joseph Quinn rumor blogs make me hurl.

Idc- stay mad and stay out of his private life.

😘🖕

#joseph quinn #joe quinn #localemofreak #like- stfu. #y’all make me want to do things to myself I swear. #I only stan Joseph Quinn news blogs- which focus on his work- not his personal life. #y’all aren’t cool- treat him like a fucking human being my god. #my 13th reason fr. #stay mad bc I decide to treat a celeb like a human 🙀 #BTW HE ISNT DATING ANYBODY- STOP THAT DUMB SHIT BRO 💀💀 #and even if he was dating somebody- literally none of our business.

[separatist-apologist]

@velidewrites and I decided not to participate in the CC re-read and now we don't know who any of these people are.

#frankly its none of our business #but ezra was talking to me about celestina this morning and i was like WHO?

[ms-cartoon]

It's honestly sad that there's somehow a war going on between spindlehorse and Lackadaisy on twitter, and all this started over a member making some offensive comments of trans folks and just overall being pretty toxic. I don't know the full story so correct me if I'm wrong. I'm just mainly thinking about people going off on Tracy and her crew because they rejected the funds given by Vivziepop and Spindlehorse. Somehow THAT of all things was the final straw, lol!!

So first off, Viv making it public to her fandom that the lackadaisy crew rejected the money.

Why am I not surprised . . . . . .

I find it awfully funny that Viv is gonna post something like this knowing her fandom's gonna to kiss her a**. Especially when Tracy said she sent a message seemingly before this post and right after the rejection.

I'm not sure if this was before or after Viv made this post? But regardless, there was no other reason for her to do it. Otherwise, Tracy wouldn't have felt she had to send that message. Re-reading it, it kind of seems like Tracy had already talked to Viv about this and gave her some possible valid reason why her funds weren't necessary, but they appreciated the generosity, nonetheless. Judging by the first sentence, "I sent a message explaining . . . ." this must have already been discussed and yet here is Viv posting about it.

Someone even called out Viv about this, saying that they found it sketchy that Viv would post this right after they sent a message and that it was childish of her to do it. But Viv replied saying no one talked to her about it before then. I honestly can't even believe a word she says anymore, but regardless of when they talked, it's still funny to me that she would make it public for the whole fandom to see. Kinda seems like you're asking your fans to baby you at this point.

Viv is not dumb y'all! She knew what she was doing!!

Now she has people triggered, posting #BoycottLackadaisy for saying no to her donation, even though they already gave her their reasons and resolved it with her.

Of course, I'm not gonna excuse that person in the LD team for their behavior. The things they said was messed up and I don't think Tracy or Ashley should cover for them and make excuses if they were. Ze might be innocent in their eyes, but they should still be held accountable for their actions. Still, it's not like Viv and the Spindlehorse team are any better, and their fandom needs to realize that. And it's awfully hilarious how it's specifically the HH/HB fandom trying to cancel LD after finding out about this drama along with Viv just trying to make it worse.

#vivziepop critical #spindlehorse critical #people just need to let it go #it's not that serious #and it's none of our business #HB/HH fandom critical #toxic fans