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brownsugar4hersoul · 2 months

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sammygender · 1 year

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i go on the internet & vague post about intracommunity issues for 800000 years and then go into college and deal with people who i don’t think understand trans people exist. like genuinely. i don’t know if these people have ever HEARD of being trans

#at some point i’m gonna have to say the word I am trans #and they’re gonna go. what like kaitlyn jenner?#**caitlyn #except they probably don’t even know that…#oliver talks #i was considering how to explain it the other day. was maybe settling on:8 #“i’m trans. like jules in euphoria except the other way round.

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sweetface-the-dollbaby · 23 days

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guys I think my snails Hellen Keller and Kaitlyn Jenner are trying to procreate because the other day I saw them doing snail sex and now they’re like very close to the top, time to become an abortionist cause I ain’t doing allat baby snail shit again

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amphtaminedreams · 1 year

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Currently Obsessing Over, Debrief No.4: EAT THE RICH (...But, like...After the Met Gala!)

-Anne Hathaway in custom Versace-

-L-R, top row: Olivia Rodrigo, Jenna Ortega, Sora Choi all in Thom Browne, bottom row: Conan Gray in Balmain-

-L-R, top row: Yung Miami in ACT N°1, Rihanna in Valentino Couture, bottom row: Tems in Robert Wun, Cardi B in Chenpeng Studio, Kim Kardashian in Schiaparelli-

-Emily Ratajkowski’s custom Dilara Fındıkoğlu dress, details-

-look, I hate exorbitant displays of wealth as much as the next perennially broke person (whose martyr of a landlord apparently has no choice but to raise the rent astronomically again! does the poor man’s suffering ever end!?)...But in the interest of FASHUN, I like to take a night off, anddd if the purpose of the Met Gala and all its afterparties isn’t to give a voice to the voiceless, i.e the amateur fashion girlies, then that would make this year all about Karl Lagerfeld and it is each and every one of our civilian duties to prevent that from happening! Monday 1st May 2023 was a celebration of three things, 1). Choupette the cat, 2). Anne Hathaway in custom Versace, 3). Emily Ratajkowski in custom Dilara Fındıkoğlu..and all the following fashion moments too-

-L-R, top row: Anok Yai in Atelier Prabal Gurung, Gwendoline Christie in Fendi, bottom row: Sydney Sweeney in Miu Miu, Rita Oran in Prabal Gurung, Nicole Kidman in Chanel-

-L-R: Aubrey Plaza in Stella McCartney, Vanessa Hudgens in Michael Kors, Olivia Rodrigo in Chanel, Keke Palmer in Sergio Hudson-

-Michaela Coel in custom Schiaparelli-

-L-R, top row: Margot Robbie in Chanel, Kate and Lila Moss in Fendi, Ashley Graham in Harris Reed, bottom row: Halle Bailey in Gucci, Emily Ratajkowski in Tory Burch, Penélope Cruz in Chanel, Chloe Fineman in Wiederhoeft-

-Anok Yai in 16Arlington-

-L-R, top row: Jeremy Pope in Balmain, Anne Hathaway in Versace, Jennie Kim in Chanel with Maude Apatow in Chloe & Sidney Sweeney, bottom row: Margot Robbie in Chanel, Suki Waterhouse in Fendi, Whitney Peak in Chanel, Lizzo in Paco Rabanne-

-L-R, top row: Gabrielle Union & Dwayne Wade in Prada, Priyanka Chopra-Jonas in Valentino, Amanda Seyfried in Oscar de La Renta, Nicola Peltz in Valentino, bottom row: Yara Shahidi in Jean Paul Gaultier, Paris Hilton in Marc Jacobs, Palomo Essar in Luar, Lily James in Tamara Ralph Couture-

-Anok Yai-

-L-R, top row: Nicole Kidman, Florence Pugh in Valentino, bottom row: Phoebe Bridgers in Tory Burch, J-Lo in Ralph Lauren, Olivia Wilde in Chloe-

-L-R, top row: Dua Lipa in Chanel & Rihanna in Chrome Hearts, Chloe Fineman, Kerry Washington in Michael Kors, bottom row: Gabriella Karefa-Johnson, Jeremy Pope, LaLa Anthony, Lea Michele in Michael Kors-

-Emma Chamberlain in Miu Miu-

-L-R, top row: Cai Xukun, Iman Hammam & Joan Smalls, Emily Ratajowski in Versace, bottom row: Lil Nas, Shai Gilgeous-Alexander in Thom Browne, Ella Emhoff in Vaquera, Kate Moss in Fendi-

-L-R, top row: Lily James in Versace, Jennie Kim, Olivia Wilde, Paris Hilton, bottom row: Teyana Taylor, Elena Azzaro, Busta Rhymes, Georgia Fowler-

-Ava Max in Christian Siriano-

-L-R, top row: Aurora James in Bode, Whitney Peak, Yara Shahidi, Alia Bhatt in Prabal Gurung, bottom row: Quannah Chasinghorse in Prabal Gurung, Hannah Bagshawe and Eddie Redmayne in Alexander McQueen, Song Hye-kyo in Fendi, Kaitlyn Dever in Michael Kors-

-L-R, top row: Emilia Silberg and Jared Leto, Miranda Kerr in Dior, Kelsey Absille in Prabal Gurung, Adut Akech, bottom row: Kylie Jenner in Haider Ackermann for Jean Paul Gaultier, Cardi B in Richard Quinn, Dua Lipa in Chanel, Phillipa Soo in Richard Quinn-

-L-R: Rita Ora in a mix of vintage Fendi & Chanel, Kylie Jenner in Jean Paul Gaultier, Precious Lee in Fendi-

-Elle Fanning in Vivienne Westwood & Andreas Kronlather for Vivienne Westwood, details-

-L-R, top row: Keke Palmer in Sergio Hudson, Imaan Hammam in Standing Ground, Adut Akech in Carolina Herrera, Vitoria Ceretti in Balenciaga, bottom row: Liu Wen in Tory Burch, Irina Shayk in Yohji Yamamoto, Lily Aldridge in Oscar de La Renta-

-L-R: Yara Shahidi in Jean Paul Gaultier, Janelle Monae in Thom Browne, Devon Aoki in Jeremy Scott-

-L-R, top row: Gustav Witzøe in Palomo Spain, Precious Lee in Fendi, bottom row: Brian Tyree Henry in Karl Lagerfeld, Eva Chen in Fendi, Karen Elson in Christian Siriano-

-L-R, top row: Jordan Roth in Schiaparelli, Camila Morrone in Rodarte, Lily Collins in Vera Wang, bottom row: Daisy Edgar-Jones in Gucci, Pasha Harulia in Bevza, Margaret Qualley in Chanel, FKA Twigs in Maison Margiela-

-L-R, top row: Madelyn Cline in Stella McCartney, Alex Newell in Christian Siriano, Conan Gray, Isabelle Boemke in Bode, bottom row: Vanessa Hudgens in Michael Kors, Finneas O’Connell in Vivienne Westwood, Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz in Valentino, Liberty Ross in Burberry-

-L-R: Micaela Coel in Schiaparelli, Rita Ora, Ava Max in Christian Siriano-

-L-R, top row: LaLa Anthony in Sergio Hudson, Rihanna, Bad Bunny in Jacquemus, bottom row: Doja Cat in Oscar de La Renta, Ice Spice in archive Emilio Pucci, Cardi B in Miss Sohee-

-middle, far right: Emily Ratajkowski in Versace-

-Gigi Hadid in custom Givenchy, details-

-L-R, top row: Doja Cat in Oscar de La Renta, Alton Mason in Karl Lagerfeld Couture, Devon Aoki in Jeremy Scott, Lizzo in Chanel, bottom row: Michelle Yeoh in Karl Lagerfeld, Jodie Comer in Burberry, Chi Ossé in Advisry, Lea Michele in Michael Kors-

-L-R, top row: Salma Hayek in Gucci, Donatella Versace in Versace, Kylie Jenner, Lil Nas in Dior, bottom row: Aubrey Plaza in Stella McCartney, Mindy Kaling in Simkhai, Naomi Campbell in Chanel, Burna Boy in Burberry-

-Billie Eilish in Simone Rocha, details-

-L-R, top row: Micaela Diamond in Carolina Herrera, Kerry Washington in Michael Kors, Alexa Chung in Róisín Pierce, Anitta in Marc Jacobs, bottom row: Angèle in Chanel, Huma Abedin in Fendi, Julia Garner in Gucci, Svitlana Bevza in Bevza-

-Dua Lipa in Chanel-

-L-R, clockwise: Jenna Ortega in Thom Browne, Nicola Petz, Irina Shayk & Karlie Kloss, Emily Ratajkowski-

I have no time for the accompanying men in bland suits. Sorry bout it.

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real-total-drama-takes · 6 months

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It's kind of crazy that Sierra canonized the fact that there are in-universe gwuncan shippers (before the kiss I think)... like kind of poking fun at people who ship actual celebrities... like the in-universe td toxic yuri takes would be the equivalent of actual people saying stuff like: "kriss and kaitlyn jenner are toxic yuri" or something like that..

I'm also insane

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#td sierra #gwuncan #you spelled Kris and Caitlyn’s names wrong that’s amazing

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ebonysquib · 8 months

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Keeping Up With the Klaww Gang: who would be who? I need to know

AW SHIT 😭😂

I don’t know shit about keeping up with the Kardashians so this is just vibes and the very limited knowledge I have

Arpeggio (or the Contessa) as Kris (The Momager) and Jean Bison as Kaitlyn Jenner (fuck you. *transes your Jean Bison*) simply because them being an old married couple is practically canon and i think it'd be funniest. also out of all the members Jean and Arpeggio seem to be the oldest? or at least may have seniority? (or i just think that cuz they are like the last two members we face) just these three are the mom and dad most likely okay.

Rajan, Dimitri, and Neyla as the main three kardashian sisters, Kim, Khloe, and Kourtney. I don't really have any reasons for it except they are the last three of the klaww gang left.

this is the dumbest thing ive ever had to think about thank you. yall can feel free to add on or make corrections since my knowledge is very limited in regards to the kardashians.

#inspector-montoya-fox #typing this out made me realize that it feels like if their is a bigger hierarchy in the klaww gang besides from just arpeggio at the top #i feel like arpeggio the contessa and jean bison would be like. the higher ups so to speak. while rajan dimitri and neyla are lower.#or if not that then arpeggio neyla and contessa as the higher ups with rajan dimitri and jean bison lower. based on their role in the gang.#tho neyla being in the lower half of the gang does actually give her a more genuine reason to betray them and want to become clockwerk.#anyways this was incredible stupid but also very fun thank you #do i dare put this in the main tag?#yeah sure #sly cooper

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thefaultinourchickennuggets · 10 months

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I tell anybody who misgenders Caitlin Jenner that the better way to get her that doesn't make the person saying it sound like a TERF is to spell her name with a K.

Caitlin Jenner HATES it when you spell her name with a K. She specifically didn't spell it that way and it drive her up the wall.

So I exclusively call her Kaitlyn Jenner. Win Win!

We love to be petty!!! I didn't know it bothered her that much, I might start doing that 😂😂

#ask #answered #Anonymous

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fagsex · 2 months

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that last post is so me in a way like. ive always like known i was not a girl or female or anything it has never been a part of me even if i did not know what i was was boy/male until i was around 7, i always knew i was not a girl. so my girlish activities were none other than that of a little faggot. and like i did not like... properly realize people saw me as female until they started calling me the d slur in elementary school LOL and i thought it was the strangest thing...

like i identify more with kurt hummel from glee in childhood more than so many actual trans male characters because i did not even fully comprehend how people saw me i thought i was embarrassing for liking like... fairies and mermaids, not because i thought theyd see me as a girl, but because i thought theyd see me as gay.

and so i tried to act masculine in the same way a gay child would, tried to get beat, get into fights, protect girls, and thats what got me called names, and like my mother always saw me as her Daughter but in my mind i always knew my mother didnt know me, so it didnt really click. i knew technically everyone saw me as her daughter, and i was in girl scouts, i knew i was in a category of Girl but like, it was mostly in a group way. like, if you saw a group of 9 girls and a boy, youd probably refer to them all as girls. i think subconsciously this is how i reasoned it. like i really always saw myself as a male child, theres concerned letters home about me being caught using the bathroom standing up and weird shit like that. but my mother never addressed it, so i never really thought of it as something *i* wasnt supposed to be doing, but *people* werent supposed to do.

i dont know! i found out about transgenderism, or transsexuality as i knew it as a younger child, from family guy, as i presume most children did. my parents were open of support of it, even if they made comments like everyone did until like... 2014. 2015, maybe. i realized that the description fit me years after i knew it, because it didnt Click that that was what i was, female to male. i was just male, in my head. i was my mothers girl, her daughter, but i already knew i wasnt anything of hers. i was in girl scouts, but i was a daisy, a brownie, a cadette, i wasnt a girl. you know what i mean? hilariously, it took caitlyn (caitlin? kaitlyn? whatever) jenner's coming-out for me to realize the word i meant, as it was on the radio constantly, i loved the radio, i loved talk shows, i loved the hosts, whether it was local, npr, or shock jocks, i loved it, its why its my talk tags now.

but at the same time, i heard the disgust over it. it wasnt in my house, really, and my father unfortunately wasnt very present, and my mother left us alone, so i wouldnt even have heard it if it was. but at the same time i learned what i would have to call myself, i learned it was a bad thing. i was never a girl, but i always felt like eve. isnt that strange!

this is mostly just rambling and musing, you can share similar experiences if youd like though! i just had a second to really Think about it and put it in writing.

#emergency broadcast system #abt #<- thats for me to find later LOL

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here-there-be-bad-dragons · 3 months

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Coworkers: misgender Kaitlyn Jenner

Me: corrects them and proceeds to bash her harder than them

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chronically-online-scumdog · 1 year

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Gwar is incredibly Queer: a thread

If you follow me on FB you've already seen this but I feel like this has a better home on Tumblr.

CW: Language and Sexual Stuff

Despite Dave Brockie going on that one homophobic rant and the one Kaitlyn Jenner sketch, Gwar is actually really fuckin queer. It isn't even coded. It's CANON. If you actually read the comics or explore the lore at all it becomes impossible to ignore or explain away. They aren't just GNC or "prison gay" a lot of the characters are straight up LGBTQ+

As a disclaimer, none of the Scumdog's humans have come out, please separate the human actors/musicians who portray these characters from the characters themselves. I am not about to push labels on real life people.

#gwar #lgbtq positivity #lgbtq #heavy metal #canon official #headcanon

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magicpotiondaily · 1 year

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Met Gala 2023 - “Karl Lagerfeld: A Line of Beauty.” (fave looks) Part 2

~ Part 1 here

~ Kendall Jenner, Nick Jonas, Maude Apatow, Karen Elson, Madelyn Cline, Ashley Park, Letitia Wright, Dwyane Wade, Gigi Hadid, Billie Eilish, Daisy Edgar-Jones, Kerry Washington, Priyanka Chopra, Jordan Roth, Lily James, Rita Ora, Lily Aldridge, Jennifer Lopez, Ashley Graham, Julia Garner, Naomi Campbell, Sydney Sweeney, Suki Waterhouse, Stormzy, Charlotte Tilbury, Anok Yai, Kaitlyn Dever, Kylie Jenner, Labrinth, Pedro Pascal, Salma Hayek

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popcultureconfessions · 1 year

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My Favorite 2023 Met Gala Outfits

(link // link // link)

*this is out of random order!!!!*

Jenna Ortega

Rihanna

Gigi Hadid

Anne Hathaway

Aubrey Plaza

Elle Fanning

Keely Shaye Smith-Brosnan

Sean “Diddy” Combs

Olivia Rodrigo, much to my surprise

Teyana Taylor

Rita Ora

Ben Platt

Stormyz

Whitney Peak

Penelope Cruz

Russell Westbrook

Stephanie Hsu

Quannah Chasinghorse

Serena Williams

Barry Keoghan

Halle Bailey

Angèle

Nicola Peltz Beckham

Maya Penn (simple yet elegant, and gorgeous!)

Karen Elson

Stella McCartney

Baz Luhrmann

Maya Hawke

Catherine Martin

Alexa Chung

Joan Smalls

Ava Max

Imaan Hammam

Amber Valletta

Vittoria Ceretti

Labrinth

Jennie Kim

Pusha T

Ke Huy Quan

Usher

Chi Ossé

Daisy Edgar-Jones

Bella Ramsay

Glenn Close

Ashley Graham

Phoebe Bridgers

Alton Mason

Maude Apatow

Miranda Kerr (simple yet elegant, and gorgeous!)

Devon Aoki

Lily James

Jeremy Scott

Nicole Kidman

Amy Fine Collins

Emma Ratajkowski

Gisele Bündchen

Kaitlyn Dever

Kim Petras

Grace Elizabeth

Jodi Comer

Suki Waterhouse

Jared Leto (he came as Choupette (literal cat costume), Karl’s cat!!!!)

Kendall Jenner

Kim Kardashian and Cardi B (they’re both pieces of shit, and I hate myself for liking their outfits)

I love that the stylists for the people I went all out and, for some, were camp-esque.

Kind of...

Paris Hilton

Yung Miami

Tems

Burna Boy

Alex Newell

Jennifer Lopez

Amanda Harlech

Dua Lipa

Irina Shayk

Quinton Brunson

Margaret Qualley (I like the dress and shoes, but I’m not, like in love)

Bad Bunny (I like the head-to-toe white, but I’m not crazy about the outfit????)

Lily Collins

Lily Aldridge

Ashley Park

Eh... / I Don’t Know... / Indifferent

Olivier Rousteing

Karla Bruni

Zac Posen (lookin’ dapper there, though, sir!)

Cara Delevingne

Lala Anthony

Chloe Fineman

Karlie Kloss

Brian Tyree Henry

Ice Spice

Robert Pattinson

Donatella Versace

Kate Moss

Lila Moss

Camila Morrone

Yes and No

Mary J. Blige

Madelyn Cline

Alexandra Daddario

Jeremy Pope (yes for the cape and no to everything else)

Viola Davis

Allison Williams (I love the shade of orange and the dress itself, but the whole look is still a no from me)

Ariana DeBose

Sydney Sweeney

Um...

Erykah Badu

Conan Gray

Doja Cat (edit; 11 PM - she’s supposed to be Choupette too?!)

Lil Nas X

What the ACTUAL Fuck?

Pedro Pascal

Erykah Badu

Lil Nas X

No

Bradley Cooper

Nick Jonas

I Don’t Give a F*ck

Priyanka Chopra

Emma Chamberlain

Kylie Jenner

Vanessa Hudgens

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I’m sure there are tons of more attendees, but I didn’t care to do more research because I am tired. I’ll probably research more tomorrow and reblog this. (I purposely left off some people out of pure, genuine laziness)

▪️ May 1, 2023 ▪️

#text #personal #2023 #pop culture #met gala #met gala 2023 #fashion industry #fashion

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mattsblogwherehedoesshit · 8 months

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Possibly hot take, but the group within the LGBTQIA+ community that shouldn't be allowed to say LGBTQIA+ slurs are people within the community who either are people, advocate for people, are in groups or run group that actively attempt to with draw rights from the LGBTQIA+ people. Think Kaitlyn Jenner, gay people who vote against trans right or even gay rights, Gay against groomers, LGB drop the T, because if you're going to advocate to go back so that people can discriminate against us as much as they used to (Not that we don't face a lot of discrimination now), then you're as bad as the people who leverage their power in society and created those slurs.

#LGBT #gay #hot take #Slur discourse #I don't think this is a discourse post but I'm putting the discourse tags because people may not want to see it #lgbt discourse #discrimination

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sassyfrassboss · 2 years

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Remember Spencer Pratt from The Hills? He’s got a TikTok channel and is blowing up talking about celebrities and “famous” people.

Anyway, he made a video the other day talking about Brody Jenner and made a reference to Meghan Markle. Basically Brody had a girlfriend Kaitlyn who wasn’t invited to the Kimye Paris wedding years ago because it was a small church (so just Brody was invited, no +1) and she was unhappy about it, convinced Brody that it was rude and he became upset, and it broke up the Kardashian-Jenner step-sibling relationships. Spencer said Kaitlin has “Meghan Markle vibes” (destroyer of families and friendships). In another video in response to a threat from a Sussex Sugar, Spencer went on to say that he loves talking about celebrities that love being famous, of which Meghan is one, and he won’t stop talking about that kind of people or a specific person.

It sounds like Spencer has some tea about Meghan — either he’s been around her or he sees right through her (I think both from the way he talked about it — and he’s fully aware of everything she’s up to and her fans do on her behalf.

Spencer Pratt!! I used to want to punch him in the face every time I saw him on the cover of a magazine or The Hills.

That dude spent $10M in like 2 years...that still astounds me!

I am sure that many in HW have tons of dirt on Meghan. HW is smaller than we think and I think that is why Meghan was no welcomed back they way she though she would be.

HW knows she is toxic.

Another note...Brody is SO HOT but such a dirt bag.

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polandwithoutla · 1 year

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Around this time of year marks 4 years since I realized I am trans.

I always knew I wasn’t a girl, and deep down I knew I was always a boy, I just didn’t really want it to be true.

I was told I was a girl, and I wanted to believe it.

It would make everything so much easier and less complicated if I were who I was told I was.

I didn’t mind being labeled as a girl, honestly. I liked all the pretty girly things. I liked playing dress up. I liked flowers. I liked tea parties and princesses and fairies.

I didn’t know that I could like those things and still be a boy.

I also liked trucks. I liked ninjas. I liked mud and dirt and worms.

But I did know that girls could like those things and still be a girl.

But when my body started changing, everything got flipped upside down.

Girls didn’t have balls.

Boys didn’t have boobs.

Girls didn’t have muscles or deep voices.

Boys didn’t have periods.

Girls shouldn’t have body hair.

Boys shouldn’t be pretty.

Girls and boys were different, and I fit the description of a girl.

But it wasn’t right.

I liked being with the girls in my class, and I still prefer it.

But I’m not a girl.

They are girls, but we are not girls, and I am not girls.

But I don’t really fit with the boys either.

The boys have muscles and facial hair and bulges in their pants.

I have bulges on my chest and a pad in my pants.

I first heard of a trans person when Kaitlyn Jenner came out and changed her name.

Most people were annoyed, disgusted, or confused.

I didn’t know what to think.

My friend said her dad said Kaitlyn was a “shemale” which is a person who is a man and a woman. (It’s also completely outdated and offensive term, by the way.)

I found it quite interesting.

I’m not sure when or how I truly figured out what “transgender” really meant, but I remember the day in 6th grade when my friend explained that he was born with female parts but was actually a boy, which made him a trans female to male person.

But I also remember him saying he didn’t want male genitals.

But I did.

It was about a year after when I realized who I really am, at least in the terms of being a boy.

I remember taking a bunch of “Am I Trans?” quizzes and reading a bunch of articles and watching a bunch of videos.

I cried when I accepted the truth.

I cried because on one hand, I was relieved.

I was relieved to figure out why I felt the way I did, and to know that there were ways that I could be happy.

I cried because on the other hand, I didn’t like it.

I didn’t want to deal with transitioning and transphobia and the whole “coming out” process.

I was upset to discover that the suffering would continue.

The first person I told was my counselor, and it was also the first time I said it out loud.

I wanted to tell her because I didn’t know how to say it, and I knew she would help me.

That same day I told my mom, and she did not react the way I expected.

Neither of my parents really reacted how I expected.

But I also didn’t know what to expect.

And that was very scary.

I came out to most of my friends over text, but they usually just figured it out on their own before I even told them.

I think I’m done with “coming out.”

I don’t have to explain that I’m trans and it means this and it feels like this and for example this and yadda yadda ya.

All I have to say is hey here’s my name and pronouns, and I’d prefer if you referred to me as a man.

But unfortunately, even that is super difficult.

And I hate it.

People make the whole trans experience out to be something that it’s not.

It’s way more complicated that anyone really talks about.

Sometimes it feels like the only thing it is is complicated.

I don’t really understand why I have this body, but I also don’t know why I have this brain.

All I know is that this,

this is me.

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wheatley-imagine-scenarios · 2 years

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fuck man, not an ask, but that really blows to know someone might’ve betrayed your trust, being outed in an unsafe environment is never fun. i hope at least that you weren’t yelled at or hit because of it. seeing that your mother likely didn’t mention it, i’m assuming nothing came of it, but i still hope you are (or will eventually end up) okay.

Yeah, I'm still super confused over what could've happened. My mom's opinions on trans people (and the whole LGBTQ community tbh) have been really confusing and contradicting at times. Like one day she'll say it's okay no matter what and the next day she says some highkey homophobic/transphobic shit. Luckily, since I've come out as bi, since I was slightly more confident in that bit, she's been better about that part at least. But I know that no matter how many times I've tried to explain they/them pronouns to her, she's said how they're grammatically incorrect, too confusing, etc. I also don't think she really believe trans people are 'real', for lack of better words.

For instance, the first time a trans person was technically brought up in my house was before I knew they existed and it was on a ventriloquist act. He made some joke about Kaitlyn Jenner (not as bad as it sounds, I just don't want to explain the whole thing sorry) and I asked my mom why it was funny, to which her explanation was just "Kaitlyn is a man" so you know. And ofc my child brain who'd never heard of a trans person in my life nor did i give a fuck about the jenners was like "Oh okay, yeah"

She's also made fun of a friend I mentioned, just because I happened to use their pronouns in a one-off sentence of an otherwise unrelated story. It sent her on a whole tangent about they/them, their name for some reason, and stuff like that. So that wasn't much fun.

Speaking of tangents, this kind of turned into one, so whoops-

There's also times she was blatantly homophobic before I came out, but I'll spare you any more reading. All this being said, she isn't hostile towards trans people or anything, as far as I know, so I should be physically safe. She's just really ignorant. She says she's willing to learn, but based on the many attempts I've made, it doesn't seem like that's true.

#as for betraying my trust #even if someone did i have no idea who it wouldve been #everyone beside parents who has close contact with me is super supportive and understanding #so idk #not an imagine #life update #asks open

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