You know what I love about the aro and ace labels/communities? That there's an acknowledgment that sexual and romantic orientation is a spectrum. I feel like that's something that isn't talked about enough in other communities. you have people like a bisexual woman that’s only ever been attracted to two guys and Harry Styles but is in love with every woman they meet yet they feel like they can't claim the lesbian label. A guy having had the hots for a baseball teammate in high school but never again blinking twice at a man doesn't have to be bisexual. Stop making labels so strict and learn about SAM cause some of y'all need it.