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icarusxxrising · 8 months
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If you were someone who was anti-Ace during Ace Discourse and anti-Neopronouns/Xenogenders during Neo/Xeno Discourse and anti-Nonbinary during Nonbinary Discourse, but you've now accepted those things, except now you're Anti-Bi Lesbian, then you never learned why what you were doing was wrong and simply followed the crowd.
You still have internalized phobias that you never addressed, you still have issues regarding controlling other people's queer experiences, and until you actually and genuinely sit back and realize WHY being Anti-Ace, Anti-Neos/Xenos, Anti-Nonbinary etc. Was wrong, you are always going to be the bigot in the community. Learn self introspection, learn why you continued to be against queer identities you didn't understand, or you will always find yourself on the wrong side of the goalpost, and you will never grow.
Take a second to think about an argumentative sentence you've used and replace "bi lesbian" with any other queer identity you used to hate and you'll realize that at the root of it all, it's the same queerphobia but with a new subject to target.
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hussyknee · 9 months
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One thing you have to remember is that online queer discourse doesn't make a damn bit of difference to systemic queerphobia irl or LGBT rights. No amount of playing respectability politics by identifying the "real freaks" will ever lead to sexual emancipation or prevent sexual violence. No amount of trying to identify and cast out "oppressors" and "infiltrators" will ever make homophobes and transphobes respect the sanctity of your sexual identity. Not letting people have words and flags and colours is absolutely nothing except a weapon for online harrassment and clout-chasing wielded by white and Western weirdos who've drunk the colonizer Kool-Aid.
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hiriamcdaniels · 9 months
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Don't make me tap the sign
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silly-media-enjoyer · 9 months
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reminder that being queer is not a medical condition and you don't have to fit in a specific set of symptoms to use certain labels. just call yourself whatever you'd like even if you don't fit in the commonly accepted definition.
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estrogenism · 9 months
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"bi lesbians are centering men in lesbian spaces-" you literally use "nonmen loving nonmen" as the definition of lesbian.
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sambot2000xp · 8 months
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BRING BACK THE QUEER SOLIDARITY!!!!!
LESBIANS ARE AWESOME, BI PEOPLE ARE AWESOME, NON-LABLED PEOPLE ARE AWESOME, PAN PEOPLE ARE AWESOME, IF YOU DO NOT EVEN CARE FOR CATEGORIES OR CALLING YOURSELF QUEER… YOU ARE AWESOME!!!
WE HAVE FACED TOO MUCH TO TEAR EACH OTHER APART.
OUR HISTORY IS SO BEAUTIFUL. WE MUST CONTINUE BEING BRAVE AND EXPRESSING OURSELVES.
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januscorner · 2 months
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Meeting other queer people irl made me realize how irrelevant online queer discourse is. My teacher was nonbinary and gay, no one cared. A girl in the hospital was a lesbian who liked guys, no one in the group of mainly cishetallos even batted an eye. Don’t let online discourse get you down because in the real world people don’t care.
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luckytheburger · 3 days
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"Homoromantic bisexuals are valid but bi lesbians aren't" so close! You are actually just Fucking Stupid
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lgbtqa-pride-icons · 2 years
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please reblog this post if your blog is mspec lesbian and mspec gay friendly!
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bisexualsafespace · 7 months
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"nobody says gays can be attracted to women"
thats because gay men aren't really into twitter/Tumblr discourse, so as a result the mspec lesbian's get talked about more, gays can be attracted to women, hello i am a mspec gay, I am homoflexible, one of the many terms under the "mspec gay" terminology, I am occasionally and rarely attracted to women. btw to any mspec lesbians and mspec gays reading this, you aren't invalidating anyone, you have a beautifully complex and hard to understand sexuality, don't let anyone tell you your "phobic" for that. one of the main reasons I started this blog was because im tired of people saying "nobody says gays are attracted to women!!!! must be proof of lesbophobia" i'm a mspec gay. we exist.
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mouserdiscourse · 1 year
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in light of recent twitter discourse. i might make a full post about this at some point but for now have this
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icarusxxrising · 8 months
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Labels are made up so it doesn't matter how many times you shit yourself over people you don't like identifying as lesbians it's not going to do anything. Labels and definitions and fucking words are made up and change everyday, linguistics is fake, seethe and mald and piss your pants more about it
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pseudogirlie · 8 months
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The characters are literally canonly bi and pan but ok lol
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everyponie · 4 months
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I think its very strange and weird that people will put so much anger and effort into hating bisexual lesbians and lesboys but will be completely silent on the genocide in Palestine. Why are people attacking innocent queer people when they could be putting this effort and anger into advocating for change? Redirect your anger to the right places. There are much bigger issues in the world right now. Innocent people are being slaughtered. Stop focusing on useless queer discourse and actually do something useful.
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meowtismz · 2 months
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Daily reminder that momo thinks all mspec lesbians are hot and/or cool asf
If disagree ermmm just uh block ig?
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rattensilver · 15 days
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I just cant even comprehend the discourse around mspec gays and lesbians??? Its bizarre to have that be such a common thing that ppl put in their dnis. How is someone calling themselves gay such an issue jfc
like oh no, someone that likes women and dates women calls themselves a lesbian, the audacity
oh no, someone that likes men and dates men calls themselves gay, the audacity
its just such a non-issue
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