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zillmammenga · 8 days
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ladyl0v3r · 2 years
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deardarlingthings · 1 year
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i knew my parents weren't straight, good for them
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elithilanor · 1 year
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queenz214 · 7 months
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bi/pan/ queer women really like men in a gay way
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truck0kun · 11 months
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I personally think sapphic people are winning, like you are a woman who are in love with another woman?? Y'all are winning!!
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wyverndragonborn · 2 years
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POORLY MADE PRIDE DRAGONS DAY 26
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ladyl0v3r · 2 years
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LESBIANS OF TUMBLR HEAR MY PLEA (question)
I need some help understanding something. Context: I am a an femme enby queer person. I present as gender conforming. I have always lived in major metropolitan queer hubs in the US.
My friend, an enby lesbian, got upset with me because they don't like that I used the term "women and femmes". I used it when I was talking about people I generally date in a casual conversation. Their reasoning was because when people use the term it excludes people like them. I do get that - my friend is not a woman and they are not femmine of center. The language was accurate in my case I haven't dated too many people like them. But then they said me using the term makes them think i dont feel people like them, masculine of center people/masculine presenting queer women or lesbians deserve protection and should be excluded from queer spaces. Which I was caught very off guard. They went on to explain when people use that phrase it excludes people like them from queer spaces that they want to go to/should be welcome at. That others like them would go to those events it they felt more welcome.
My thing is that events catering specifically to only some members of the community sometimes does not have be oppressive. If the phrase is a dog whistle that you don't believe certain people are women or lesbians or deserve protection from violence, fine. I told them I wont use it. But the concept of only having all inclusive spaces does not sit right with me. I know it sucks to feel left out. I have been learning about butchphobia and of course it is wrong. But if someone holds an exclusive space for a marginalized group of people, like femme lesbians or enby femmes, it should not be problematic if the focus isn't hurting/hating other groups or hoarding power. Or if most events in an area are exclusionary, which would be targeted discrimination.
A dance party or clothing swap or kink event or whatever aimed at leabians only would exclude me. I dont think it automatically means the event or organizers are biphobic or panphobic or w/e. It just is not for me. It isn't wrong to want to be around people like you at times. To be able to discuss shared experiences or even create shared experiences without people alligned with your identity. Not every space is for everyone and that is okay.
Maybe I didn't vocalize this well but my friend seemed to be upset I thought this way. Would love to hear your perspectives.
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holly-natnicole · 1 year
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HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY TO ALL SAPPHICS!!
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hum-tittle · 2 months
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Women are works of art 💕
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