#romantic identity

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

Moonromantic/Moonsexual :

[Pt: Moonromantic/Moonsexual end pt]

Moonromantic/Moonsexual- One who has an attraction to those who are feminine, lunar, divine, and ethereal. One may exclusively feel attraction towards someone who has the traits commonly associated with the moon. However, this term is not just for exclusive attraction. This can be used in conjunction with other identities, for example, Moonromantic Lesbian. This would indicate one who has lesbian attraction and specifically is attracted to those who are feminine and divine in some manner. Moonsexual can relate to one who feels sexual attraction towards one who is feminine and reminiscent of the moon.

Requested by: @sea-menace

Coined by: me/chronicallyqueercoining2

#chronicallyqueercoining #mogai safe #lgbtq #liom coining #mogai coining #mogai blog #mogai requests #sexuality #sexuality coining #attraction labels #attraction label #romantic identity #identity coining

[bra1nwashed]

i asked an aro blog about this a while ago but they still haven't responded, so i'm just gonna go ahead and ask on my own blog. i've been trying to get more of an education of aromanticism and its spectrum, so i've been questioning a few things.

first of all, i know a person can be aro and still desire a relationship. however, it is possible to want what would come with a relationship, correct? examples being kissing, cuddling, sex (for alloaros), etc. this would still be considered aro, would it not? also, what would the relationship be called? i personally feel like girlfriend and boyfriend indicate romantic relation, but could still be used. but what about friends with benefits or something?

second, are there restrictions on labels? and if so, how many and what are they? can you consider yourself (on the) aromantic (spectrum) but not be a hundred percent sure all the time? i commonly wonder if maybe attraction i'm experiencing is romantic, and then i feel guilty and sick at the thought that i've been telling people a lie about me for so long. but if i don't know, or don't understand, or can't distinguish the attraction, i can still say i'm on the aromantic spectrum, right?

#aromantic #aro #allosexual aromantic #alloaro #lgbtq+ #questioning #romantic identity #lgbt advice #aromanticism #aromantic spectrum #arospec

[void-tiger]

If kids as young as 3-6 are experimenting with kissing the opposite sex ‘cause that’s what they see Mommy&Daddy doing and kids at that age mimic and it’s normal, I think they’re plenty old enough to have “Jaimie has two mommies, Susan has two daddies, Taylor has a mommy and a parent, and Henry has a parent and a daddy” conversations.

#tiger’s roar #child development #sexuality is not the same as sex #sexuality #romantic identity #gender #gender identity #…if there’s a preferred agender/enby term than parent please let me know #point is: agender/nonbinary/gender fluid/etc people are parents too #and like. smolger thought sapphic and apollian relationships Made Sense and were the coolest things ever (despite never seeing them modeled #so yeah. I already HAD those Ideas TM despite never seeing or hearing them at all #and kids really do start kissing eachother VERY young with ‘boyfriend/girlfriends’ as Mimic Play or Besties They Kiss/Crush On #(and this is not a complaint about my friend. this is about Certain Conservative Attitudes) #(literally had a conversation with my friend ‘cause she wasn’t mentally prepped for her kids possibly kissing #(when her friend’s kid had her first kiss during Playing House #(and quite frankly I’ve lost count of how many classmates kissed as tots + Cute Home Videos etc #(think her initial panic cooled down a bit with ‘yes kids do that. it’s fine’) #but…yeah. kids see cichet heteronormative relationships modeled for them ALL THE TIME #if you’re intentionally trying to Model Good Couple Behavior then congrats. you’re also modeling your sexuality #it won’t turn your kids straight or cis. same as seeing ace and aro and sapphic and apollian and trans won’t ‘turn’ your kids either

[claypotz]

I’m making a slideshow about different romantic identities and queer relationships for my school gsa valentine’s meeting and middle school me would be so hyped cause I had quite the hyperfixtation on lgbt+ terms for whatever reason

#gay #gsa #queer joy #hyperfixtation #queer identity #romantic identity #lgbt pride #lgbtq community #valentines day

[lunastarnight]

I've recently started to consider that I might be Cupioromantic, and it's terrifying. Like, sure, being Cupioromantic theoretically wouldn't keep me from being in a relathionship or just generally feeling love, but how likely is it actually for a Cupioromantic Person to get into a relathionship? Who would go for a relathionship where your partner doesn't love you back like they usually would in a relathionship?

#sexuality #romantic identity #cupioromantic

[style-not-fashion]

#romantic identity #romantic body type #kibbe

[radiance1]

Danny: Hey, I need you to be my boyfriend for a week.

Jason: What.

Danny: My parents are coming over and I've apparently accidentally talked about a partner more than once and only realized when they said they wanted to meet them.

Jason, currently still solidifying his power as a Crime Lord: Excuse me?

Danny: Let me get this out of the way, I do not consider you at all a person of romantical interest and a friend. But I need you to act as my partner for only a week until my parents go on their merry way over to my sister, okay?

Jason: Is there, quite literally, no one else to ask this?

Danny: You're my only friend who lives in Gotham, plus we share the same apartment.

Jason: That's almost sad.

Danny: You in?

Jason: Sure, why not.

===

Maddie: Danny, honey.

Danny: Yes mom?

Maddie: I don't mean to.... question, who you choose as your parent but. Well, me and your father was just wandering if he was a... [Maddie gestures with her hand] you know, one of those.

Danny, uncomprehendingly staring at his mother's hand: What.

Maddie: Oh dear, how do I bring this up. You know, one of those.

Danny: Mother I need more context.

Jack: If your boyfriend a crime lord!?

Maddie: Jack!

Jack: What? Beating around the bush wasn't helping!

Danny: Say WHAT?

===

Danny: Hey dude, thanks for helping with this even though you didn't need to!

Jason: No problem, I wasn't doing anything too [Crime Lord activities flash through his mind] important.

Danny: Can you believe my parents thought you were a crime lord though? Weird am I right?

Jason:

Danny: Jason. You are scaring me.

Jason: Haha, yea that's weird isn't it?

Danny: Jason.

Jason: Well, I have to leave now to attend to my totally real and totally not crime related job at the ice cream shop.

Danny: [Squints eyes]

Jason: [Internally sweating bullets]

Danny: Suuuuure, bring me back some ice cream though.

Jason: [Thumbs up and leaves]

#dc x dp #dp x dc #dpxdc #dp x dc crossover #dcxdp #dc x dp crossover #Danny isn't romantically interested in Jason in the least #Neither is Jason romantically interested in Danny #But he needed a partner and Jason was the only one available #Jason somehow managed to balance that and being a crime lord #Jack and Maddie instantly had the suspicion of him being Red Hood aka a crime lord aka a criminal aka a danger to their boy #Danny doesn't know at ALL though and so they hang that theory up because if Danny didn't know then he probably wasn't a crime lord #Jason's identity was almost blown because he pretended to be the boyfriend of his friend #Again Danny doesn't know shit about him being Red Hood he just thought dude was dedicated to his job plus its Gotham #Not that weird to come back with scraps and scratches

[teamhangaround]

Obi-wan very much regretting the decisions made tonight.

#obikin #i think obi-wan would feel extremely guilty if he ever got sexually or romantically involved with anakin #who wouldn't! #a small hours identity crisis #anakin: he's my daddy >;) #obi-wan: christ alive i'm his daddy DDDD: #star wars #obikin art #anakin skywalker #obi-wan kenobi #sw #my sw art #my art

[hajimedics]

A BEAUTIFUL MARRIAGE WITH NO DIVORCE

#NOT SHIP ART. PLEASE DON'T TAG OR INTERPRET AS SUCH #welcome home #welcome home puppet show #julie joyful #frank frankly #senjart #the idea that playfellow co is trying to get frank and julie to be together romantically instead of just best friends #and how the queer identities they have is getting suppressed by the company #like how frank and eddie has to act ''distant'' because of the fear of being watched and not putting their relationship at risk #I feel it's getting stronger. #esp with the period the show was set in. gah!!!!!!

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

INFO AND CREDITS LINKED HERE!!!

Boreagay- Being gay normally, but having exceptions to being gay. Usually revolves around a single person. Ex: You're normally attracted to one gender, but this one specific person, who's a gender you're not normally attracted to, is attractive to you.

Said exceptions typically are "different", such as them being GNC or the lines between platonic and/or sexual/romantic attraction, with this person, beinh blurred. One may be reciprosexual/romantic and thus one may feel attraction towards this person if they feel attraction towards one.

One may not feel attraction to this gender otherwise, but the exception to their identity may be relating to how the identity of the person or their relationship with the person is strange/unusual/"different."

Requested by @delightfulweepingwillows

#chronicallyqueercoining #mogai safe #lgbtq #pro mogai #liom coining #mogai coining #my flags #borea #boreasexual #boreagay #gay #gay term #homoflexible #adjacent #Sexuality #romantic identity #romantic orientation #romatic attraction

[catsafarithewriter]

v tired of coming out to ppl who are familiar and accepting of the aroace term, who then still turn around and say "yeah but you might still one day meet someone, right?" like I promise you most aspec ppl are aware it's an option, but it's still rude

I get you're trying to be supportive, but it still comes off as "don't worry, perhaps you're not really aroace/broken"

#work colleague: 'well i didnt find love until i was in my 30s' #okay but you still felt attraction??? you still knew you liked boys and girls from a young age?? #ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aroace #aspec #maybe one day i will meet someone! #but there's a good chance any 'romantic' relationship i get into will be more a qpp #you wouldnt go up to a straight girl and go 'perhaps you havent met the right girl yet' #why is it okay to backseat diagnose an aspec's identity? #i am. tired

[knifearo]

ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story

#you know. the one with the pendulum #'hey. why are you as an allo person shipping this aspec character like this' #'oh aspec people can still date/have sex!' #'yeah. now can you answer the question that i actually asked you' #like goddamn just say you don't care they're aspec and you want to fulfill a sexual/romantic fantasy with them. that's Fine #it like. sucks. for sure. lotta aspec people will be unhappy with you. but everyone is entitled to their own wants and experiences. #but i'd prefer you just be honest with it rather than using our community's conversation points as retroactive justification #and ONCE AGAIN. you guys are real fucking cavalier with this shit and it shows a real fundamental lack of respect for aspecs #when most of you would NEVER ship a canonically gay character with the 'other' gender. cause again. it would suck. #you can do it. nobody's Stopping you. but it would suck. #and we understand that putting a queer character in situations that erase that queerness is shitty! until it comes to aspec characters! #and whoa... there it is again... people don't consider aspec identities to be queer... crazy how it always comes back to that #anyway. you all know what i'm talking about. have seen many posts about this lately #it is [ long sigh ] unfortunately a very hot button issue with the advent lately of alastor hazbinhotel #which. again. god i wish there were other canon aspec characters to be having this conversation about. #but we'll have to do our best with what we have #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #aroace #talking #aspec #asexual #asexuality

[stil-lindigo]

an aro-ace's love letter to love.

(the title "Laozi's bowl" is in reference to the famous quote by Chinese philosopher Laozi who said "It is the empty space which makes the bowl useful.")

#it can be lonely sometimes being aroace. but ive somehow made a career out of writing romance stories #ive made peace with myself #and what my identity likely means for my future #im fine with it but i cant help poke fun at the irony #to be a hopeless romantic and also aroace is a fun cocktail #aromantic #asexual #stillindigo art

[slashermary]

‘you’ve just met yourself. i’ve known you for years’ is still the most romantic thing i’ve ever heard and they let my favorite little cornfed closetcase say it on live television to another man. incredible.

#every now and then i remember the born again identity is one of the most romantic pieces of television i’ve ever seen and it’s just like #:’) he thought he was dead and he betrayed him and broke his heart and he missed him so much and he forgave him the second he came back #even if he didn’t want to!!! bc he loved him!!! god… #caroline.txt

[mothman4life]

gotta say i am very pleasantly surprised the barbie movie didn’t have barbie and ken end up together as a resolution to their conflict both as aro rep and support of the idea that women don’t owe men relationships

#barbie #barbie movie #barbenheimer #aromantic #aro barbie #barbie spoilers #like he realized his mistakes and got better #but that doesn't mean he deserves a relationship as a reward #and she's not framed as the bad guy when she turns him down #barbie really said that you can't base your identity and self worth on gender roles and romantic relationships #big brain

[finemeal]

DP x DC Prompt #5

Inspired by this Tumblr post:

Danny was getting used to his new role in the Wayne family, especially as another meta in Gotham (if being dead counted, that is). It was taking even more adjustment to be a part of the Justice League.

It’s why he was a lil surprised when, before his First Official JL Meeting ™️ some of the heroes decided to pass time with a game. Fuck, Marry, Kill. He didn’t know how to answer when his partner’s civilian identity was brought up as one of the options

#dp x dc #finemeal prompt #dpxdc #danny fenton #ambiguous wayne romantic partner #is it bruce? #is it dick? #is it someone else? #who knows! #batfam #batman #fuck marry kill #justice league #don’t worry danny just don’t blow your civilian identity #or your partner’s #they’re definitely not secretly laughing as this game goes on #don’t be silly #have to start numbering these prompts cuz my notifs sre getting confusing