#tw: anon trolls

[holylulusworld]

TW: Anon hate

Dear pathetic anon in my inbox,

thank you for the laughter.😂😂😂 I really needed that.

I don’t know why you're having a problem with protected sex in fanfic (seriously??) ... but okay... 🤐 Being dumb is not a crime, I guess ... harassing people on the other hand is a crime...

Try and touch some grass yourself.

I never got cheated on in my life. It’s called imagination. My blog also mentions AB/O and I'm not an omega... And you should decide whether you believe I'm an old virgin or if my husband has cheated on me and my stinky pussy (she smells great by the way). You can’t have it all.🙃

An advice for the next time you want to send someone hate to criticize their writing and insult them:

The first thing you need to do is learn how to write a proper sentence.

Don’t send them word vomit. It is essential to use punctuation marks as well as capital and small initial letters.

If you hate my stories so much, simply stay off my blog and read something else.

It's not that hard acting like a decent person on the internet.

All you have to do is scroll past something you don't like.

#tw: anon hate #tw: anon trolls #don't be an askhole #tw: fat shaming #tw: virgin shaming #another askhole bites the dust #reported and blocked #I hope you choke on your dumbness #what a dumbass #go touch some grass

[scottxlogan]

Just a brief message to the scummy hater who likes trolling everyone whose fandom isn't theirs. You're not funny, cute, witty, leading any kind of triumph in your campaign to hurt people with your ugly words. At the end of the day you are just a bully and a jerk whose nastiness will never see the light of day in my comments section. The only reason I'm posting this now is because there's been a lot of ugly things that have been slung in my direction but this time so soon after my own real life personal tragedy with you being a jerk is an all time low for you that hits harder in an even more pathetic way than you telling me that I should kill myself. You really are a terrible human being and I hope that you learn to be better because the hate you spread is beyond disgusting. I would never dream of treating someone as awful as you do, but just know as cruel and as tasteless as you are all you have done is motivated me to keep doing what I love because people as hateful as you are haven’t earned the right to take that away from me or anyone else with your ugliness. Here's hoping you find a reason to be a better person this year because who you are right now is pretty awful in general and you should really reevaluate your decisions in life.

#rant #tw: bullying #tw: suicide #tw: anon trolls #tw: anon hate #so done with bullies #you know who you are

[abd-illustrates]

I don’t think I can answer this ask directly ‘cause I don’t wanna put a major downer on anybody’s day by making y’all read it too, but to the anon who just sent me one of the most aggressive paragraphs my inbox has ever seen: I think saying that - (and I wish I was kidding here) - my country should be nuked because I drew Tighnari Genshin Impact with a darker skintone than what’s canon is maybe, just maybe, not the best thing to do.

#daily dork #at least come off anon if you wanna say these kinds of things with your whole chest #i dont want to mention any further info the anon put forward in their ask cause since theyre anon it could very well be some kind of troll #so that wouldnt be productive #but mm! not cool either way #tw threats #tw aggression #tw violence #ANYWAY how is yalls evening going 😅

[yourfavsmokesweed]

Velvet and Veneer from Trolls 3?

YOUR FAV(S): VELVET AND VENEER FROM TROLLS 3 SMOKES WEED IN A DENNY'S PARKING LOT!

#tw drugs #tw weed #your fave smokes weed in a denny's parking lot #request #anon #velvet and veneer #trolls 3 #mod stephen

[ash-arts-a-thing]

For your trollshockAU, we've seen little brother Branch but you said Poppy was a little sister? If you want something to draw how about her?

Ive been meaning to draw her!

#tw needles #trolls #Bioshock AU #TrollShock AU #poppy #anon

[midnightsun-if]

Finally learned to keep your mouth shut, that's a very good girl.

I’m only going to say this once— as politely as I can.

Get the fuck off my page.

#midnight sun #asks #tw: anon discourse #done turning the other cheek to bullshit like this #there’s a time and place where I don’t respond to trolls #but this has been a persistent problem that hasn’t gone away with taking the high road #and I’m done pretending like this isn’t a problem #not just talking about this individual either

[itsaspectrumcomic]

Did that swat team anon just send u that for no reason 😭 wtfffff I thought u might have posted something related to it but that's insane. especially "you have high functioning autism and that's a good thing" DIE.

Yep honestly no idea where that came from. I don't think I've even mentioned the police on this blog before now, let alone expressed any desire to join a SWAT team lmao

To be honest I think it was probably just a troll, but the ask was so ridiculous I had to post it. And it gave me an opportunity to raise some awareness about a genuine issue autistic and other neurodivergent people face so at least there's that ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

#ask #anon ask #actually autistic #autism #autistic #neurodivergent #tw police brutality #i'm generally not one to feed the trolls but #wow #its a spectrum

[albentelisa]

Hi! Here's an interesting ask! What if Kanjigar had found a half troll five year old amnesiac Jim Lake and had him raised in TrollMarket but Barabra became the Trollhunter?

As for why Jim is a half troll so early, blame Area 49-B for kidnapping and experimenting on him before he escaped with help from Draal.

Oh, that's quite a curious scenario (and angsty for poor Barbara, I guess).

No one at the Trollmarket realizes that Jim is a half-troll and a former human. They think he is a kidnapped troll whelp and humans experimented on him to create a creature they can control (and Jim's amnesia doesn't help with clearing that misconception). All the irregularities (like red blood or faster growth rate) is chalked to the side effects of those experiments.

Despite the amnesia, Jim has some glimpses of his past. He insists on being called Jim (as he subconsciously feels that it connects him to his previous life). He is against getting a troll name, so the Trollmarket residents give up and drop the matter altogether.

Blinky and Aaarrrgghh are Jim's primary caretakers (even though Blinky was slightly reluctant at first as he had no experience dealing with small trolls). Blinky also teaches Jim troll language and history. Jim is curious and enjoys listening to the stories, so Blinky starts to think that Jim may become his successor as a keeper of the troll lore. Unfortunately for Blinky, he soon realizes that his adopted son is actually more interested in heroic deeds side of the troll history and hopes to become a troll hero as well one day.

In this AU, Jim admires Kanjigar a lot and hopes to become like him one day. He even tries to learn swordplay in secret at the Heroes' Forge. Kanjigar catches him and Jim is scolded for being reckless, however, the Trollhunter agrees to train him sometimes, so that Jim will not injure himself during his solo trainings.

Draal is Jim's big bro and a bad influence here - Jim uses 'bushigal' too often for Blinky's, Kanjigar's and Vendel's liking. When Jim is small, Draal often takes him exploring, but as he grows older, they become sparring partners and ocassionally go smashing goblins together (which is the secret between two).

Vendel is a grandpa figure for Jim as he likes the kid a lot (Jim is more polite and well-behaving than most of whelps). Vendel also teaches Jim about cleaving stones.

However, the opinions about Jim at the Trollmarket are divided. Sure thing, some trolls absolutely adore him, but others are suspicious. Some call him a freak because of his red blood, mismatched hands and fast growth (some even throw the term 'impure' ocassionally). Jim also fails to connect with troll whelps - while some of those want to be friends, Jim outgrow them too fast to have any lasting connection.

That is why Jim starts to sneak out of the Trollmarket rather early. His caretakers know but let it slip. When Jim is nine, he saves Toby from goblin during one of his outings. Two of them befriend each other fast enough.

Jim meets Claire when he is nearly fifteen. She was sneaking out from her house to go to the concert of her favorite band and Jim was having one of his regular strolls, and they bumped into each other. Claire freaks out at first, but realizes that despite the appearance, Jim is friendly and a nice guy overall. And Jim falls in love from the first side though he is slightly ashamed for his feelings (as troll culture is extremely strict about interspecies romance and he thinks his love is bad).

Barbara in this AU has it rough. Jim disappears right after James abandoned her, so Barbara makes some wrong conclusions and believes that James kidnapped their son to be his sole parent. She tries begging, threats and even attacks James in the moment of despair. The police which leads the investigation finds no clues and it only gives more fuel to Barbara's despair. She has a mental breakdown at some point and even starts to cope with alcohol.

She gets into therapy at some point, so before she finds the amulet, she is better (even though she has never moved on about Jim and hopes to find him one day). Barbara has a job and currently dates Strickler who she met at Benoit's. Strickler knows about Jim's disappearance (as Barbara confide on him about it once they are close enough), but he thinks that Bular is the reason for the 'disappearance' and Barbara's son has been dead for years. So Walter tries to help Barbara to make peace with the idea that Jim might never return.

Fast forward a bit, Kanjigar is dead and Barbara finds the amulet. Jim joins Blinky and Aaarrrgghh during their first visit to Barbara even though he's sad about Kanjigar's death (it's like losing the really close uncle for him).

Jim feels some unexplained familiarity once he sees Barbara. It's an instant familial attachment he cannot even explain. Anyway, Jim becomes Barbara's most loyal supporter at the Trollmarket at once and he's rather hurt because of Vendel's skepticism and especially Draal's initial aggression.

As for Barbara, she is confused and lost, not knowing what to think about Jim. Obviously, his name brings up some unpleasant memories, but his eyes are too familiar. However, Barbara tries to be realistic as she cannot even imagine the young troll being her son. Only after staying at the Trollmarket for a while and learning about Jim more (especially about how he got into the Trollmarket), she connects the dots and realizes that Jim is her son.

Barbara is reluctant to tell him the truth though. She is scared that Jim will reject her as she couldn't save him and was absent in his life. Besides, she isn't even sure if he needs her anymore.

In the end, she makes the decision to tell everything (after the encouragement from Strickler, who is reformed by this point). And obviously, Jim is happy to have her as his mom (he already sees her as one, even without knowing about their connection).

#tales of arcadia #what if scenario #jim lake jr #barbara lake #trollhunter!Barbara #half troll jim #jim is raised at the trollmarket #tw: alcholism #text post #ask box #anon ask

[ninja-go-to-therapy]

Branch 🤝 John Dory Old man backs 😞 & scars

Branch 🤝 Bruce Having an ED 😞 / cooking skills 🍳😌

Branch 🤝 Clay Lived for decades in fear of getting eaten / in a confined space they couldn't leave / dating a Queen 😏👑

Branch 🤝 Floyd Stuffed in a small space and at the mercy of a giant in a way that permanently altered their voice

So in short... Branch took after all of his brothers! He's just like them!! Isn't that so cute and not fucked up at all!!!

So cute so wholesome 🥰

#kat answers #anon #trolls #dw trolls #tw ed #fucked up ratatouille au

[that-cunning-witch]

It's just a cat. Stop acting like the end of the world

#this is in response to posting about my cat dying btw #i know this is a troll lol #ask #anon #troll #tw death #tw pet death

[terrence-silver]

Can you please do Terry (or twig) losing his v card to beloved 💌

Okay, but lets make a little funnier and it's this era of Terry;

And him just flat out lying he's a virgin. He's lying. His justification and explanation for his lack of action is (and I'm making this up as I go along and so is he) that deliberate celibacy and sexual ascetism is good in preserving high levels of chi and chakra energy, that witholding from physical pleasures strenghtens the body's core and makes a person a better, more disciplined fighter due to surpressed aggression and he knows this for a fact, because after learning Tang Soo Do under his Master in Korea and returning from Vietnam, he's also travelled all over Asia and observed the Shaolin monks do it. Yes. Shaolin monks. He strived to emulate the best of the best since. Isn't every man's goal in life to be the next Bodhidharma incarnate?

Might even gift you with a book on the subject.

You know, for references and sources.

You could land yourself with a tome called The Private Lives Inside the Shǎolínsì.

It takes all the willpower in the world not to royally chortle at that one even as he says it. So, he's well into his thirties or even early fourties, it's the 80's, and yes, he's a virgin by choice. Of course, again, he's lying and making things up for the fun of it. Mainly to gage your reaction. See how you'll treat him for it. How you'll act. What you'll do. If you'll be surprised. Disappointed. What your opinions on the matter even are. If you'll even like him after that. If you'll believe him because the man isn't a fool and he's aware of what he looks like and the effect he tends to have on people. There's no particular gender or age limit to virgnity but he also knows he isn't the usual poster child for purity. Maybe it'll add to his mystique in your eyes. Maybe you'll try to dissuade him from maintaing such a strict standard of living and he can act all coy and hard to get about it. Maybe you'll admire him for it and he'll pretend to be humble. He doesn't know, but he wants to discover because it holds so many possibilities and it is also so damn amusing, this little social experiment, and lets admit; the man's very much a troll. Just the entertainment value of it turns him on, and there's always the chance of him roleplaying being despoiled and being on the recieveing end of it without you knowing it is all pretense. Of course he's not a virgin, though. Far from it. Which makes this whole thing even more schemey, sinister and juvenile. He's quite possibly ludicrousily experienced and has apetites to match for every vice under the sun and he's, pardon my language, bullshitting you, for lack of the better word, but does it so convincingly and sweetly one can never tell. Could even be a test he poses for himself; to see what type of misiformantion he can sell to people and get away with.

How well he can act certain things out.

Not to mention how much he wants to dangle himself in front of you like the forbidden fruit you can't have because of his, ahem, convictions and beliefs. Convictions and beliefs he doesn't even really have. Quite the contrary. The handomest man you've ever met also being sexually celibate? He wants you to explode with desire and frustration and him having the last laugh.

But, Terry Silver is definitely the type of man who would land himself in bed with you, after much back and forth and pretending celibacy goes hand in hand with his particular style of martial arts, and believably pretend not to know what to do once he gets to that very same bed. Worse (or better) yet. Doing something like this isn't nessecarily a sign of his distaste for a person. Could very much like you and still play a prank on you.

#yeah i think this level of trolling is believable for terry silver #even when he likes people #heck! even when he loves them #man's a bit of a mischevious imp #terry silver #kk3 #cobra kai #80's terry silver #virginity #celibacy #tw; vows of celibacy #lies #manipulation #terry silver x reader #terry silver x beloved #not as fluffy as the anon undoubtedly would've liked #but i just got this idea and couldn't resist #pretendvirgin!terrysilver

[plato-repulsed-culture-is]

sorry if this is a weird question, but um, a girl i know asked me out. Shes aplatonic but alloromantic and allosexual. I do like her back, but im a bit worried.. ive dated a guy before who didnt have friends and what ended up happening is that i had to support him 100% of the time when something bad happened and i had to be with him after school every day because i was the only person he talked to and he would get lonely otherwise. He even threatened to do bad things to himself if i went to a friend's sleepover because it made him feel bad. Im really worried that something like this would repeat... it lowkey traumatized me i think. Is this a valid concern or are aplatonic people different and they dont really need much emotional support compared to non-aplatonic people? Or was my ex just uniquely an asshole? Thank u so so much if u respond

I am prefacing this with a disclaimer that this blog was never for giving people advice, especially when they view aplatonics with such suspicion and are not actually asking any advice related to plato repulsion which is what this blog is about. I can also only go off of your statements here to draw conclusions, and I am assuming you are stating the truth here (especially as this is online, I know there is a possibility people can lie, but may also be telling the truth.). Also, we are not responsible for anything that happens to you emotionally or otherwise if you make decisions based off of this advice, because thats not within our control.

From what you said, your ex sounds like he was being rather toxic and manipulative towards you. That kind of behaviour is harmful (threatening self harm as a form of control, trying to control who someone spends time with, and not respecting peoples boundaries regarding interaction or emotional support, are all harmful actions.) and nobody should be acting that way towards others, we're sorry that happened to you. You also don't need to be concerned that someone will act this way towards you just bc theyre aplatonic. Your concern is valid, but it is in no way something that will inherently apply to aplatonics.

If you are concerned about whether this person has unmet social needs then you should just ask her about her social needs and emotional needs and what she expects in a relationship, and communicate about your needs and emotions regarding these things too. If its possible to, maybe mention that you have past issues or trauma in relationships which is why you want to be careful about dating, while not making it seem like aplatonicism is inherently a reason you think someone might hurt you(because it's not).

Set boundaries about what amount of time you want to spend with someone you're dating, and state your limits regarding how much you are okay with emotionally supporting someone / what topics you are ok with talking about / etc. . Don't assume that someone will be toxic or abusive towards you just because they're aplatonic. Its not really like your ex was inherently aplatonic just because he didn't have friends, and it may even be more likely he was alloplatonic.

Some aplatonics have and/or want friends but some dont, and moreover, if someone doesnt have friends by choice, that's very different from someone who is lonely because they don't have friends and mistreats a partner because of it. I will also add here that I don't intend to malign mental health issues just because it sounds like your ex may have had them (as you mentioned loneliness - which is different from just being alone or even liking solitude) ; mental health issues do not innately make someone abusive or toxic, and one can have mental health issues and still be respectful to people.

Someone without any mental health issues can also still very much be abusive or toxic towards others. And honestly, if you associate the concept of aplatonicism itself with this trauma then maybe its not in the best interest of you or the other person to date? And if it applies maybe it could be possible that you are simply not ready to date someone again after what happened, which is also okay, but I don't intend to assume that or be harsh in stating it as a possibility. I will also add that not having friends is not a 'red flag'. If someone has a preference to date/ be involved with people who have friends, that's okay, but not having friends is not inherently a 'red flag'.

Some aplatonics may not get lonely if they don't talk to people (but this can also be true of alloplatonics), and just because someone is aplatonic doesnt mean they will expect their partner to support them all the time to an unhealthy level or to an extent that crosses their boundaries. I will also add that there is no surefire way to tell whether someone will be abusive or toxic, although if they cross your boundaries or are disrespectful to you from the start, its worth staying away from them. Even ppl who are very kind to you initially may at some point abuse you or mistreat you, and theres no way to tell for sure whether or not this will happen because thats kind of how social relationships of any kind are.

But don't profile aplatonics as inherently more likely to be abusive or toxic (I don't know if this is intentional on your part, but hearing the word 'aplatonic' and making all these assumptions about how one may be in a relationship wounds like either this and/or like a trauma trigger extending to the concept of aplatonicism). Not all aplatonics even approach social relationships the same way, and even those who don't have friends are still capable of respecting boundaries in relationships they engage in. I wouldn't say that aplatonic people don't have emotional needs, but people in general have varying social needs and emotional needs. Some people who don't want friends may specifically not have a social drive towards having friends, but this may also apply to people who want friends.

If someone is happy without having friends then they probably don't seek emotional or social fulfillment from friendship. They may have other relationship types even if they are aplatonic (such as familial , romantic, sexual, alterous, etc.) (I don't know if you and this girl are monogamous are not but if you are intending to be monogamous that obviously is excluding sexual and/or romantic then) , and I will add that people don't always need social relationships/ bonds for emotional support. Some people may process emotions through journalling, or may go to a therapist, or such.

Some people may have people they talk to sometimes but don't call them their friends. Having friends does not ever guarantee anyone emotional support, and neither does any other relationship. It just so happens that a lot of people end up mutually (i.e. more or less both ppl give the other emotional support, it doesnt have to be equal so much as it is respecting the boundaries of both people. It is also possible that people may be incompatible in this regard) giving emotional support due to just being around people they are close to and also due to having some kind of emotional connection.

Anyways, long answer short, aplatonicism doesn't say anything about someone's social needs or emotional needs, and neither does alloplatonicism, and its often better to communicate with people you are close to or are looking to be close to, about important aspects regarding relationships.

(Also stating here that this is not an advice blog, we will be deleting any asks seeking advice from now on. If you want you can send in asks as reply to this response, as long as you aren't asking for more advice)

Anyways I hope it works out for you, whatever you decide to do.

(Additional disclaimer - to anyone who sees this post - do NOT suggest that 'narc abuse' 'borderline abuse' or whatever is real, do not imply mental health issues cause ppl to inherently be abusive, and do not treat having no friends as a 'red flag', regardless of platonic orientation or favorability)

#aplatonic #tw aplphobia #aplphobia #tagging just in case bc idk if it was intentional but the assumptions anon makes seem rather aplphobic #tw manipulation #tw abuse #to trigger warn for mentions of what anons ex did - not sure how else to tw it #asks #advice #I was thinking of deleting this but in case it was genuine I didnt want to like leave it unanswered #I hope it didnt come off too harsh #I was thinking maybe Id need to mention how my relationships w my partners work but I felt that it wasnt very related to this and was too #personal to reveal to someone who I cant even be sure is asking this in good faith mainly bc of how often ppl troll aplatonics and atertiar #the disclaimers are because I dont want this to be used for bigotry #dating #anon asks #not plato repulsed culture

[yourfavsmokesweed]

Branch and Poppy from Trolls?

YOUR FAV(S): BRANCH AND POPPY FROM TROLLS SMOKES WEED IN A DENNY'S PARKING LOT!

#tw drugs #tw weed #your fave smokes weed in a denny's parking lot #request #anon #branch #queen poppy #trolls #mod stephen #WHY? WHY WONT YOU SMOKE? #BECAUSE SMOKING KILLED MY GRANDMA OK? NOW LEAVE ME ALONE #< how i think the scene would go if it was abt smoking not singing

[rebuke-me]

There's nothing I can say that will ever make you shut up but before I block you please die knowing that you would be giving a gift if you did (You haven't said anything bad, you're just annoying)

2/10 anon hate comment!

the two points are because of the clarification that i'm not a bad person, i'm just annoying, which made me actually laugh out loud in my dorm room

look buddy i'm just here for the shits and gigs and to talk about silly little fandom shit and if that bugs you i literally do not mind if u block me curate ur own internet experiences

#'dont fuel the trolls' #'dont respond to hate anons' #okay but this one was funny as hell #the clarification at the end??? #funny as SHIT #'youre not bad i just think ur annoying' is so funny #bye bye anon #tw violence #tw death threats

[blitzisms]

#ah yes the good ol completely vague anon hate. missed you guys #bro if you want me to take this seriously stop clowning on anon #not that you'll be able to for me anymore lmaooooo #anyway we move #good morning everyone clown this mofo #anon hate tw #tagged just in case but im like 80% this is a troll

[rollercoasterwords]

While yes, it can be annoying to hear about the seemingly odd things someone does while on a diet (the whole metab boosting super lemon water and protein hunger crushing combo stuff), I dont think its as big of a deal as you are making it out to be. And most importantly; dieting is not an eating disorder.

Just the same as it is your body and you can do whatever you want with it, someone else may go on a diet because its their body and they want to. Of course, that doesnt mean they can push that on you, but you cant push your anti-diet stuff on them either. It goes both ways.

And before you say it, fat people are not oppressed. You may be unfairly treated, and people may be harsh on you, but you are not oppressed. You can change your weight. Just the same as a person can gain weight, they can also lose it. And yes, it will be harder for some than for others, but it is still very much possible.

ok....i'm assuming that u sent this in response to this post which i made literally two months ago? which first of all! fuck u for coming into my ask box to talk about diets and spout fatphobic rhetoric when that post is literally me venting about how i DON'T want to hear about diets. thanks!

i debated about whether or not to even respond to this bc i'm sure ur a troll and i doubt u even follow me or you'd know that this blog is literally centered around marauders fanfiction and i don't normally discuss diet culture but. whatever i have time tonight. so:

i never said dieting is an eating disorder. i said that dieting is disordered eating.

now, i say that as a person who struggled with an eating disorder throughout most of my adolescence. fortunately, i'm at a point in life where i can say that i've fully recovered, and that i've been fully recovered for years. but it's because of my personal experience that i know not every diet reaches the point of an eating disorder. but honestly? many of them do, because dieting is inherently disordered eating.

if you are restricting food in any way, that is disordered eating, full stop. that is you interrupting your body's intuitive eating, its natural order, ergo -- disordered. this is something that i first learned from the therapists and dieticians and psychiatrists that i had to work with while i was in treatment for an eating disorder. and i resisted it at first too, because it's so normalized to restrict food or to label certain foods "good" and "bad"--i thought the same thing as you, anon. i thought "surely it's ok for me to just use these restrictive behaviors, as long as i don't take things too far. a diet isn't an eating disorder!" but the experts around me all said no! no, because once you are ignoring your body and regimenting your food and beginning to control what you can and can't eat, you are changing your natural behavior. you are engaging in disordered eating. and that is not a good thing for anybody, and it can lead to eating disorders very, very easily.

to your second point: the post that you're referring to was me, on my own tumblr blog, venting about how i don't want to hear about other people's diets. i wasn't "pushing" my "anti-diet" stuff onto anyone. this is literally my own blog. obviously people can do what they want with their bodies; i didn't even say in that post "you need to stop dieting!!" all i said was that i don't want to hear about it and if you're going to engage in unhealthy behavior and act like it's normal, i don't want to bear witness and be expected to congratulate you for it.

that being said -- there are two big, big differences between people pushing diet rhetoric and people pushing anti-diet rhetoric, which are that:

diet rhetoric is already normalized in our culture. it's so normalized that it's inescapable. anti-diet rhetoric is pushing back against that normalization; it is a minority of voices in society. because of that, you can go about your daily life hearing absolutely no anti-diet rhetoric, but it is almost impossible to escape diet rhetoric itself.

diet rhetoric is promoting harmful behaviors, because it is promoting disordered eating. anti-diet rhetoric is not promoting harmful behaviors, it's pushing back against them. so, honestly, i think i have way more of a right to "push" my anti-diet stuff onto other people if i want to, because we are all already having diet propaganda pushed onto us by the multi-billion diet industry that is trying to sell us products and make us hate our bodies every day. this is not a situation of "it goes both ways," this is a predatory industry taking advantage of all of us.

and finally, you end your message with a dose of fatphobia! great. and look, in the interest of full transparency--you're right. i am not oppressed. that's because i've never been fat. i'm not going to sit here and tell you that i personally have experienced fatphobia, because i haven't. i've never been discriminated against during job hiring because of my size. i've never been discriminated against by healthcare providers or denied treatment because of my size. i've never been bullied because of my size. and those are just a few examples of the systemic oppression that fat people face!

this article links a lot of great sources, including some which i've included above, and breaks down exactly why what you're saying is wrong; i'm going to quote a bit directly:

"Even a quick glance at the weight research shows that, despite decades of trying, there is no evidence that efforts to prevent or reverse “obesity” are successful. In fact, there’s much evidence to suggest that the prescription for weight loss is more likely to result in physical harm and weight gain."

so that last bit of what you said, about changing your weight? yeah, if you bothered to look at what our most recent science shows, that isn't true. the idea that it's possible for everyone to change their weight is a myth rooted in fatphobia that leads overwhelmingly to more harm than good. for many people, losing weight isn't just hard--it's impossible to do without taking drastic measures that literally harm your body.

here is another resource to start informing yourself on weight stigma, and here is an excellent article about the history of the diet industry and why it's so fucked up. i also highly, highly recommend the podcast "maintenance phase" for learning more about fat activism and debunking culturally ingrained myths about fatness and weight.

in conclusion, anon: you're wrong. you are misinformed, and all it would take is a single google search to realize that if you truly wanted to learn. and see, normally i'd just feel sorry for people like you, because i've been where you are, and i know exactly what is going on in your head. you've been sold a bundle of myths and lies cobbled together by a diet industry that wants you to feel like shit about your body so that you'll keep buying their products, making you more and more miserable and promising that if you just suffer enough you'll eventually be rewarded with happiness. but you won't. you'll be stuck in a toxic cycle forever, and you'll harm your body because of it, and you'll convince yourself that it's healthy because it's so much easier to tell yourself that losing five pounds is the key to happiness than it is to actually work through your internalized fatphobia and address the root of your self-loathing.

so normally, i'd just pity you. but you saw a random post floating around the internet of a person saying that they don't like hearing about other people's diets, and you chose to come into my ask box under the safety of an anonymous icon and regurgitate the lies you've swallowed into my face. and this is the shit that, had i received it when i wasn't as healthy as i am now, when i was still struggling to work through all the lies i'd been fed by diet culture, would have triggered me so, so badly. so FUCK YOU! i set a very clear boundary on my own personal, stupid little fandom blog, and you came here two months later specifically to violate it. if you want to be stuck in the miserable, toxic cycle of self-hatred that is diet culture, shut the fuck up about it and go be miserable by yourself! i am so fucking sick of being forced to bear witness to the self-destruction of people like you.

#tw ed #tw eating disorder #tw fatphobia #ranting and raving #i thought about just deleting this ask bc i do think this person is probably a troll #and i definitely don't think they actually want to educate themselves #but honestly i was too angry to just delete it and it's at least helped me vent some of my frustration to respond so! #here we are #fuck you anon i hate u fuck youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu