#ur entitled to ur own opinion of course

[tibbycaps]

people who dont want skizz on hermitcraft r wild because he would thrive. i know this to be true. i think its safe to say most hermitcraft fans’ favorite parts of the series are the shenanigans and interactions with other hermits right. you know how people praised tcg and decked out for bringing all of the hermits together more. now imagine if that was a Person. Skizzle man

#ur entitled to ur own opinion of course #but gawd i just know he would really get people to come together more and do silly bits #I NEED JOE HILLS AND SKIZZ IN A MINECRAFT ROOM TOGETHER

[apple-os]

ppl who like making friends solely with one-note cardboard boxes who will hang out with them when it's convenient and never open up about who they are as people and what their lives are like dni

#the salt just caught up with me and now im pissed #hi welcome to what i like to call a friendly reminder that hanging out with someone just because its convenient is kind of shitty #and a less friendly reminder that talking about yourself to connect with people is an autistic trait #and an even less friendly reminder that not telling someone if theyve done you wrong and then proceeding to blow up on them is ALSO SHITTY #ESPECIALLY. WHEN. THEY THINK. YOU'RE ON GOOD TERMS. BECAUSE YOU ACTED LIKE IT AND THEY CAN'T READ YOU. #IM REALLY FUCKING MAD #I THINK I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE. #the people who actually somewhat knew me and hung out with me and were on good terms with me think the same #so like BLEH MYEH :PPPPPPPPP #like okay youre entitled to your opinions but sometimes you need to keep those to yourself #did u see me insulting u to ur face #nope i have not done even once #and thats on getting better communication skills instead of lashing out at someone for trying to fit in with your own vibes #like yeah oversharing is my deal. anybody who sees me here knows that #i bond by being open with people about who i am and what i like in the hopes that theyll do the same #if u think im just around for gaming and making silly jokes u would be wrong. #but of course nobody told me people weren't there to bond like that which in my opinion shouldnt be on me #and once again i am outcasted over something honestly kind of fucking stupid #some of the jokes i made were stupid yes but thats solely because i severely misjudged the vibes #and checks notes oh yeah nobody pulled me up for it even once. #okay so let me get this straight you barely know me and have been making assumptions about me since day one #pretty much let me believe you liked me for two whole weeks instead of asking me about things or cutting me off #and im the one who gets treated like im in the wrong? okay #this miscommunication was not my fault in the slightest and i KNOW that #if you hadve just talked to me things would be fine but theyre NOT. #if you hadve just looked at my gosh darn profile and seen im the queerest fucker around making gay and homophobic type jokes maybe you woul #have had half the mind to ask me if i could stop making those jokes!!!!!!!!! #i am not transphobic!!!!!!! I AM TRANS!! I WAS MAKING A MOCKERY OF SOME TRANSPHOBIC CULTURE I HATE!!!! #i mightve vented on main ONE TIME under the guise of a silly joke but oh my god guess what?? that was an attempt to see if anybody related. #you never liked me in the first place dont lie to yourself

[kiefbowl]

Whats ur opinion on the whole saga of the pro lifer ? Not really about her really, but I really like the way u break down arguments, so if u ever feel like it, I would love to read ur take <3 although I totally understand if the whole thing is too exhausting. Have a nice day!

well, I never followed her, so it didn’t really matter much to me that she “revealed” herself to be pro life. I do find the amount of reaction I saw on my dash to be exhausting personally, and I didn’t read most of it. Which isn’t to say people shouldn’t respond, just that it was a lot for what ended up being a 19 year old having an identity switch up. Sounds very probable to me.

When it comes to abortion arguments, if you search my blog for abortion I’m sure you’ll find a ton. Briefly, I am 100% of the belief that abortion should be easily available and without condition from a legal sense, and from a moral sense I see abortion as an amoral issue. That doesn’t mean people don’t make moral choices around abortion, I just don’t think abortion itself is necessarily a moral choice and it’s most certainly never an immoral choice. This is of course abortions a woman is choosing freely, being forced to have an abortion against your will is also an affront to female autonomy.

Whether the gestating baby is living or soul’ed or precious is irrelevant to me as a feminist. To argue that the mother cannot make this choice is to argue that a woman must remain pregnant and must give birth. Why should that be the case? She is not the cause of her own pregnancy, a man is. Men feel entitled to freely ejaculate inside women despite the fact that it is not a requirement of sex, even heterosexual sex, so it is his choice. Even if a woman begged him to do this, he could still say no. He could wear a condom, ejaculate elsewhere, not ejaculate, refuse vaginal intercourse, perform plenty of other sexual acts with her, etc. so ultimately it is a man’s free will and choices that cause pregnancy, so why should a woman be forced to experience pregnancy because of that? If a man is so concerned about the soul of a baby, he would ejaculate responsibly. If abortion was so inconceivable to him because of his morals, it would be his most serious virtue. But men do it anyway, so why should women feel cowed by the morals of a man who will ejaculate freely?

[rollercoasterwords]

unpoular opinion (maybe?)

the marauders fandom sometimes lacks nuance in the way the marauders are portrayed as the "good guys" and snape is completely bad. i hate snape personally but erasing the good in him (and there HAD to be some good for lily to put up with him for that long) just takes the nuance out of it in my opinion. for me, i dislike snape because i think the bad in him heavily outweighs the good and i hate the way he treats people and his overall personality just sucks

but similarly, making james overly perfect does the same thing!!! i think some people equate morality and likability a little too much. but sirius is usually done very well, i love how people don't shy away from his flaws

ooooh INTERESTING anon i think i agree with u!

like. personally i do not like snape and don't think i ever will but i agree that flattening the characters into a black and white "snape evil marauders good" is just. not very compelling storytelling.

i actually think it's really interesting to explore lily's relationship with snape and why she stayed friends w him for so long even tho he was a shitty person. for me personally i relate snape a lot to a certain type of boy i was friends with when i was a teenager, who was disenfranchised in some area of life (for snape it's class + blood status) and yet thanks to patriarchal messaging still felt as though he was entitled to like....more power in the system. and so there was this slowly growing resentment as he grew older that made him susceptible to right-wing ideas. and the thing about this type of boy is that i think for someone who's close with him, it can be very difficult to come to terms with the fact that he's become a shitty person, especially if he's always treated you like you're special and especially if you've seen the way he's struggled with his own disenfranchisement. u start to think "oh no he would never be like that" bc u think ur both on the same side of the line, both oppressed by this larger system, and u don't realize until it's too late that he doesn't want to dismantle the system, he just wants to claw his way up within it. a lot of times u feel like u can save him bc u see the good in him so it has to be there, and u don't realize that the only reason he's "good" to u is that he views u as a special exception to a group of people he actually looks down on, and that when push comes to shove he will reveal his true colors.

i think snape is a much more interesting character when he's written not as someone who was inherently evil but rather someone who was shaped into a bad person by the world around him. i still interpret him as a pretty unequivocally shitty person, but what i find compelling is the fact that he didn't have to end up that way, and bc of that his story mirrors a lot of irl men + boys who get sucked into alt-right pipelines bc they feel beaten down by the world in other areas of life. of course that is just my take on it but! on the whole regardless of how one interprets characters i find it more compelling to acknowledge that the potential for good + bad exists equally within everyone rather than acting like some people are 100% good and others are 100% bad

#ask

[nerdy-talks]

A little rant about the popular app game Obey Me!

I honestly wasn't going to post this, but after much deliberation and spending an entire day being annoyed... Here it is. Here we go.

Let me first start by saying that everyone is entitled to their own thoughts, opinions, and feelings. This is just me stating my personal take on things.

As we know, a new event has just started called Steampunk Shenanigans. And no surprise... Lucifer is the chosen demon for the newest obtainable UR card.

I have some things to say about this. Or rather, some things to say about the posts I've been seeing in regards to this information.

I do agree that Lucifer is clearly the favored brother. He has more UR cards than any of the other characters, which is not ideal for those of us who aren't serious Lucifer simps.

Personally, out of every Obey Me! character introduced thus far... Mammon is my top favorite. He has been my favorite from the very beginning, and always will be. Though I also favor Satan, Leviathan, Diavolo, and yes : Lucifer. (I also love the other characters as well, of course.)

With that being said, it would be nice if the other brothers and "side" characters could take the spotlight and get more UR cards. Maybe give them the opportunity to catch up to Lucifer?

So I totally understand why people are complaining about that. Trust me, I do.

However... I saw a few posts last night on another popular social media site (I won't say which one since I'm not going to call anyone out) that have caused my inner wrath to slowly bubble to the surface.

One of those posts voiced a user's complaint about the new event and yet another Lucifer UR card. And understandably so. But what I cannot understand is when that post went on to say something along the lines of how the devs "require" players to pay $400 for a card and how the devs "forced" them to quit the game.

I'm sorry.... What? lol

No one is "forcing" you to do anything. You aren't "required" to spend a single penny in Obey Me! That is entirely your choice.

I have been playing Obey Me! since the beginning. No VIP membership for me. No real world money spent. And I'm perfectly happy with the game overall.

Do I get frustrated and upset when I grind the game to slowly accumulate Demon Vouchers only to waste all of them just for the chance to pull new UR/UR+ cards in new Nightmare events, only to get a bunch of the same old cards I already have? Of course. But that's a gacha game for you. It's virtual gambling that's all based on luck. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose.

That's just life.

And when it comes to the actual events... So what if you don't get the new UR cards right away? Those same events will be featured in Lonely Devil later on, where you'll have the chance to get them then. No big deal.

But here's where the real problem lies : the person who made that post had also posted several months ago about how they had to have every single Lucifer card, no exceptions. They went into a detailed explanation about how they spent countless Devil Points, Demon Vouchers, and real life money in order to get every Lucifer card. And that explanation was posted right after another new Lucifer card was announced. Because that person was upset over the fact that they felt the necessity to do everything within their power to get that card as well.

I also saw another person claim in a separate post that they spent over $2,000 USD in a little over 2 months just to get Lucifer UR cards.

Which leads me back to my original point : that's your own choice.

If you have zero impulse control and no patience to wait for the chance to obtain UR/UR+ cards of Lucifer, that's on you. If you have a spending problem or a gambling addiction, that's something you need to recognize and address for your own well-being. But don't blame the devs.

I may get a lot of backlash for this, but I just want to say... To make the comment "congrats devs, you're forcing one of your biggest players to quit" just because you're sick of making the conscious decision to spend a ton of money to get the 34th virtual card of your favorite character in a game because you "have to have it".... That's the equivalent of a spoiled child throwing a temper tantrum because they can't have six new toys instead of just five. It reminds me of old episodes of South Park, where Cartman would come off with his famous "screw you guys, I'm going home" line.

It's literally just a game. Simmer down.

You say the devs are being "unfair". But what's truly unfair is you blaming the devs for your lack of money management and poor self control. It's not their fault you're choosing to spend hundreds or even thousands of dollars on a game for virtual cards you don't actually need. So to say "you're making one of your biggest players quit"... Haha... okay. You may be a "big" player, but there are lots of even bigger players than you that will continue to actively play Obey Me! on a daily basis.

I hate to rain on that person's parade, but one player choosing to walk away from the game isn't going to matter much. They're just one tiny ripple in a vast ocean. And if they feel differently, I suspect a bit of a superiority complex.

But that's just me, what do I know? lol

On another note, I keep seeing all these posts talking about how everyone should take to Twitter to boycott Obey Me! and complain to the devs.... Are you serious?

I completely and wholeheartedly understand if people want the other brothers and characters to get new UR/UR+ cards. I get it, truly I do. Because I feel the same way, I'd love to see more UR cards of Mammon, Satan, Levi, Beel, Belphie, Asmo, and everyone else. In fact, I would LOVE to see entirely new events solely dedicated to each individual character/brother with brand new UR/UR+ cards only for that respective character.

But stamping your feet and puffing out your chests at the devs isn't the way to accomplish that. That's just a good way to completely ruin an overall enjoyable game for everyone else who is satisfied with what they're given. Seriously.

I deeply apologize if this post comes across as rude or hostile, that's honestly not my intention at all. Again, I'm not looking to call anyone out which is why I didn't mention any names, usernames, or specific sites where these comments were originally posted. I also don't expect anyone to agree with me, nor am I looking for any sort of arguments or confrontations (as I already stated... everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and opinions, myself included)

These thoughts have just been swarming around in my head for the past 24+ hours, and I needed to let them out.

One final noteworthy detail : I think the main reason why I'm so annoyed is that these comments have been made by fellow adults about a game

So... Let that sink in.

#obey me #obey me shall we date #obey me one master to rule them all #obey me devs #om #omswd #obey me lucifer #obey me mammon #obey me leviathan #obey me levi #obey me satan #obey me asmo #obey me asmodeus #obey me beel #obey me Beelzebub #obey me belphie #obey me belphegor #obey me new event #obey me steampunk shenanigans #obey me rant

[mattypattypinky]

Gonna respond to this in a screenshot

BC I don't want this post to go in the FANDOM tags

(mainly bc i don't want to have to interact and argue w ppl bc of a hc😭)

Okay, first of all, everyone is entitled to their opinion / interpretation of him and his character. I mean, I'm a firm believer that he is an adult, but I know other people disagree. And that is okay.

That being said, one of the reasons I head canon him as an adult is simply because the ambiguous age, and the fact that I am one, and ship with him and I'm not going to ship with a 12 year old. (I know, shocking.)

But it goes further than that.

THE ART BOOK

we know from the art-book, that 🐐🌈 is canonically an adult.

I see the 🐐💚 form as nothing but a memory of what he once was.

Fifth anniv. ⏰ dialogues

I've seen a lot of people on Twitter saying that using this dialogue doesn't count, and that people 'erase the context of it' so I'm going to show the full context here.

Here, he sort of claims that he is grown up.

A lot of people argue that right under this line of dialogue he is being childish, and that kids refer to themselves as grown ups all the time, which that is true. But we have to take into consideration that adults are allowed to enjoy things, as well.

He goes against his own statement by hinting at exactly what type of gift he wants, and a lot of people argue that this is proof that he's just a child playing pretend, but I disagree with that mindset. Adults are allowed to want things, when you become an adult you do not just magically stop wanting fun things like coloring supplies and colorful things.

My best example/argument... would be 🍝🦴 himself.

A majority of the fandom interprets 🍝🦴 as an adult (from what I am aware of?) - despite him acting much more childish and innocent than 🌻 is.

He collects action figures, he wants to have a shiny red car, he gets read a bedtime story about fluffy bunnies, he plays dress up with a "battle body" constantly, there's more examples but need I say more??? Point being, despite his childish demeanor and innocent portrayal (despite him being one of the toughest monsters imo) - he is often portrayed or interpreted as an adult.

There is a point, where I feel like it might become a double standard??? imo??

How come 🍝🦴 can act just as, if not more childish than 🌻 does, and yet still be considered an adult?

Now the argument could be something like, oh 🌻 is more childish emotionally.

Well, yeah. He's traumatized???

He got murdered, and is stuck in a time loop and a flower essentially, and has grown too cold to feel for others. Of course he is going to be explosive, irrational at times, and immature. It's because he's been hurt, his mind works different than 🍝🦴's because he has gone through more pain than he has and remembers it.

I feel like the argument that "Oh he acts immature so he's a child" is harmful not only bc it stimulates this belief that adults just magically lose their immature / happy fun sides, but also I think it's a little bad for neurodivergient people out there who are a lot like him.

There are adults out there who can still want childish things, and that is okay. There are adults out there who still react immaturely to their emotions, and that is okay.

Hell, I'm gonna be turning 19 in like... 2 months, and I still would KILL to have like, toys and colorful things decking out my room and whatnot. It would be really, really nice. Does that make ME a child?

And I still spiral out of control sometimes with my emotional outbursts.

There are bipolar people, there are narcissists, and there are plenty of other things, and I know an adult who is about to be in their 40's who get excited over batman toys at five below.

Point being, I interpret him as a neurodivergient adult who is traumatized and deserved time to heal.

I probably will have more to say about this at some point later. Again this is just my interpretation/thoughts on it ur allowed to see him different

#mattypattypinkyposts #🌻💔 #ruins romance #ruins ranting

[theangryjikooker]

I know u call urself a ‘reasonable jikooker’ or something of the sort but u literally jump at any opportunity to make them not real, which is kinda crazy 😭 n he doesn’t rlly keep up w all the members the same bc he said he watched suchwita n it was only Jimins ep he watched lol. N u insinuating jungkook sleeps around is a bit weird nth wrong w it ofc but weird. Idk why u think that because u talk in a sophisticated way ur entitled to have such weird opinions that r valued high but anyway 😁

Okay, if we’re putting on our petty fighting gloves.

I don’t think they’re dating. Full stop. This is known, but you clearly don’t read or have a full understanding of my space, so I’m not surprised. Of course I’m going to say shit like this, but don’t let that stop you on my account. Ship all you want, but if you want to react to my posts, know that you do so of your own volition. If you have to send me an ask because I’ve offended your shipper sensibilities, that’s on you. Take accountability, something shippers have no sense for, so good luck.

P.S. Clearly language nuance is not your forte because if you haven’t noticed—which you haven’t because your comprehension skills are noticeably absent—I’ve never said Jungkook is for sure sleeping around. In what I’ve observed of him, I’ve deduced that it’s a possibility.

Coming to my space without thinking. Absolute dumbass.

#TAJ asks #toxic jikookers can gtfo #jikook #kookmin #jeon jungkook #jungkook

[eustochium]

Can I ask why do you think men cheat? I know they cheat for so many different reasons and maybe it just comes down to abundance of choice and kind of loose morals/it was fun in the moment.... but I dont know exactly how to get over my own wounds of being cheated on, oh and also I know women can be unfaithful as well, anyone can, but like in ur experience why do think men cheat?

there definitely are different reasons. in some cases i think they just do not care which is like a frustratingly unsatisfying answer but sometimes i think that’s all there is. that was my experience with my first bf. he would wax on blaming his low self esteem, or being drunk, or trauma that crippled his abilities to set and enforce boundaries, and i think those were all true to some extent, but after nearly 2 years of repeated instances combined with all his other behaviors made it clear that this guy just did not care about the emotions of anyone besides himself. he also had a lot of very blatant contempt for me because no matter what i did, my presence in his life was enough for him to feel imposed upon with expectations for him to treat me halfway decently. he felt entitled to pursue whatever immediate gratification he wanted in the moment, and if i expected anything else, that was my fault and my problem. (of course, anytime if i tried to leave, he would put on the theatrics of being depressed and suicidal. but that’s a whole other can of worms lol)

i also think some men cheat because they’ve been checked out of the relationship for a while and just want the novelty of something exciting, they feel unsatisfied (or even just bored) with their current relationship but don’t want to put in the work of trying to change it, but they also don’t want to lose the stability and benefits of the relationship they already have (just my opinion, but: for all the talk of chronic male loneliness, men being emotionally and socially isolated en masse, i think a lot of men have a much harder time being alone than they’re willing to admit. all the more so if they personally have codependency or other relational issues—it’s genuinely shocking how many men i’ve met who have not been single once since their teen years)

i do think there’s other reasons, and i do think some (SOME!!!) men can truly love the women they’re with and still end up being unfaithful. they might have other issues with impulse control, unresolved trauma, desperate needs for validation, deeply ingrained and unresolved mental illness, or just lack of maturity. not to get too Buzzfeed feminism or anything but i also do think that as a whole, a lot of men do go thru life being held far less accountable for their own behaviors that women frequently do, and are socialized to feel far less guilt for their actions inflicting emotional harm onto others. none of those things are excuses or justifications obviously, but i definitely think those are all at play

[steveharrington]

i get ur opinion on barbie, (i know for a fact my parents would not have let me seen it as a child because it has a pg-13 rating…) but i think it was aimed for adults who played with barbies as kids and then grew up. i kno that key barbie demographic is little girls but at the same time if little girls want to watch a barbie movie there are like... 80 barbie movies that already exist for that exact purpose. yea i just think it was more of an "adult barbie nostalgia" movie rather than a tried and true "barbie" movie

no hate to you at all, and you're entitled to your own opinion of course, just wanted to add

no i know and i totally get that this was obviously aimed at a more mature audience, but it wasn’t marketed that way like. at all. the trailer and abundant marketing gave no indication that it’s not really For little girls yk? and the marketing was so inescapable that little girls probably saw it everywhere they went and got excited to see The Big Barbie Movie and really it’s. not for them at all and that kind of makes me sad

#like i saw Herds of little girls going to our showing #and i just don’t think 7 year olds are going to enjoy that movie or at least i wouldn’t have at that age #i would’ve found it boring 😭 #but more importantly i wouldn’t have been allowed to see it #answered #anon

[bisluthq]

I think you're making the Shawn comment into a far bigger deal than it is. She used him as an example of a popular straight artist who has faced intense speculation around his sexualtity despite him explicitly stating that he isn't queer. This mirrors Taylor's situation, the only difference being that thinkpieces urging her to be the voice of the entertainment industries queer underbelly aren't being written in the New York Times. She identifies this as a bi-product of their differing genders.

Of course, this same journalist previously wrote a similar think piece about Harry Styles, a prominent male musician who has dealt with intense speculation around his sexualtity - except he is a (now) openly queer man. He has made too many vague or not so vague (see "isn't all of this sparkly bi music" - in reference to HIS music/ the second verse of medicine) references to his *fluid sexualtity that it is now an undeniable part of his identity even if his "public" relationships don't (in many people's eyes) reflect this. This is not the case with Taylor, nor is it the case with Shawn.

I believe Shawn was the best example Taylor and her team could've used to get across their point, the validity of which I believe to be a different argument entirely.

It's also not the first time she's used someone else's name (whom she had an established relationship with) as a "gotcha." In 2014, when she was being vehemently critiqued for her use of relationship drama as song material she responded by saying that these same accusations were not heralded at her male songwriting peers (specifically Ed Sheeran & Bruno Mars).

I know you're likely going to disagree, which is absolutely fine. I just thought I'd share my take.

this is a reasonable take and I do understand it! Don’t agree for reasons outlined earlier but I don’t think ur wrong either. The world is full of people and we are all entitled to our own opinions!!

[weirdo09]

your opinion on lizards? (better be good or else we can’t be moots anymore [/j of course ur fully entitled to ur own opinions])

i like lizards, one got into my apartment building ! it was crawling around the floor n tried to get on the wall, it scared me at first bcuz it came outta nowhere 😭

#asks #mutuals 💗

[rainingmbappe]

you’re of course entitled to your own opinions but agreeing with people saying they look like a ‘rat’ & ‘kangaroo’ is going too far 😨 if you don’t find him attractive, then just say that and move on. why’re you being so damn loud about others finding him attractive? also pls stop using his tag in ur posts, it’s not really smth anyone wants to see in there

ok i get how using those names can be derogatory and i apologize. but im not being loud, im talking about it in MY blog. but i also get how seeing shit like that in his tag can be bothering you and i apologize for that too. but pls know that it wasnt a personal insult and JUST smth i wanted to share. i hope we can leave this here in civil terms

#asks answered

[fjorrd]

hmmmmmm............ some thoughts. i hate fandoms

#no offense but #c/r fans might be the some of the rudest ppl ive ever seen use the internet #like the amount that they harass the actors over ships and shit like #and ppl immediately commenting that they hate c3 (u're entitled to ur opinions of course) but like #its been one episode folks give it a fucking goddamn rest omg #and like nothing is ever civil #its all so rude and like 'haha this ship is the fucking worst why did it become canon' #u know like.... canon isnt the end of the world just do ur own thing then idk why #just like.... go to ur own bubble and ur own friend and do what u want with the characters then!!!! #like its just like a bunch of 13yr old kids complaining but in reality the ppl ive seen the worst are like 25-28 #like people will just really say whatever they want on the internet but wouldnt IMAGINE having the balls to say half the shit to like #other people in person #this is honestly why i find a group of like 14 ppl and stay with them about fandom shit bc yall act like u're 11 #and throw a tantrum when u dont get what u want #.chatter

[bakatenshii]

Angel I’m scared to start a writing blog because of writer discourse and hate anons, do you have any advice for staying out of that stuff?

hi hi!! first off AHHH WELCOME, PLEASE START ONE MY LOVE! and if/when u do pls dm me ur url so I can follow u hehe <33

personally I don’t actually get involved with a lot of discourse, save for two (one which I inserted myself into) about dc, nor do I get hate at all! I genuinely believe that if you don’t interact with hate anons or negativity, they won’t continue to pursue you, and if they do, then that’s someone’s personal vendetta against you rather than a generic hate anon.

in terms of writer discourse, I feel as if there really isn’t as much as you’d think, especially if you don’t engage with them. anti-dc discourse will always be around, but as long as you don’t interact with it and block the accounts, it might as well not exist to you. because people are entitled to their own opinions and this platform’s just a cesspit of people who want to talk all about their opinions, so there’s truly no need to be involved.

this is my mantra at this point but— people need to remember that at the end of the day, we’re writing porn about cartoon characters on a platform that’s been dead since 2014. we’re not shit. this is all shits n gigs, a lil side hobby to kill our time and escape the shitshow thats the world rn.

I guess to sparknotes this: hate is not as rampant as you’d think! if you receive any, block and ignore them, because the more you entertain them the more they’ll come back. in terms of writing discourse, if it doesn’t directly accuse you of anything, there’s no need to be involved. sometimes you might get vagued or shaded, that’s fine! that’s their own opinion and it’ll only spiral into a proper discourse if you try to argue with them. once again, don’t entertain them.

Sure we see loads of discourse and hate on the daily, but the truth is the sheer amount of love and support and the friends we make on here truly washes that all out. ♡♡

#urusai! baka #tw: discourse #thrown under a read more bcos it got a lil rambly and long just like these always tend to get #ive got an ask asking about starting a dc blog thats been sitting in my inbox for a while now and i feel so bad AHHH #IM SOWWY BABY #I KNOW U TOLD ME ITS OK TO IGNORE IT BUT I DO ACC WANT TO ANSWER IT #I JUST WANTED TO GIVE U A PROPER THOUGHTOUT RESPONSE EEEEk #but anyways back to this ask #I’m super blessed to not receive any hate at all #since I posted mt first fic on here last july/aug (which was hard incest somno lmao) I’ve received a total of 0 for writing dark content #3 for the ‘loli’ in my title. 1 for using the honourific -nii. #thats it. thats all! i can count them all for u because genuinely #i dont receive any and neither do a lot of my dc writer friends on here #often times when a friend gets hate its mostly attacking them over personal petty drama under the guise of hate #of course theres terrible people out there who send awful disgusting hate to people who havent done anything & im not invalidating that #if that makes sense? #i dont get involved in discourse i choose not ro because people are entitled to their own opinions #and if i dont agree then i dont have to tell them or argue with them #we’re just coexisting on this platform ya know? #im kinda rambling off topic sowwyyyy im not sure if this even answered ur question at all but #i guess what i’m saying is: you will never be involved with discourse unless u yourself choose to insert yourself. people can shade you or #your friends. let them shade; that’s their own issue and not yours! we dont all have to agrew #unless of course theres serious accusations/allegations thrown at you #THEN thats a problem that you need to address and fight back on #but otherwise petty fandom writing drama doesnt have to be perpetuated if you simply dont interact with it #thats how i get along on here!! :3 #THIS IS HALF RAMBLY HALF PERSONAL OPINION AHHH I HOPE THIS HELPS A LIL AND DOESNT COME OFF AS OBNOXIOUS? #BUT IF U MAKE IT PLEASE DM ME SO I COULD FOLLOW!! <333

[rikakobloomer]

I’m going through an unpopular opinion thread for precure on twitter and every tweet is like a punch to the heart

#everyone is entitled to their own opinions of course #but some of these are actually hurting me ngl #so im just scrolling thru like: i respect ur opinion...but youre wrong akdjhksk #pretty cure #precure